Eyona Ezintsha Izinto ezili-10 Abona bantu baphumeleleyo bazenza yonke imihla

Izinto ezili-10 Abona bantu baphumeleleyo bazenza yonke imihla

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Yeyiphi imikhwa, amaqhinga kunye neendlela ezenza uninzi abantu abaphumeleleyo basebenzise ukufezekisa impumelelo yabo eshukumisa umhlaba?

Omnye umfana wayefuna ukwazi. Ke wathetha nabantu abangaphezulu kwama-200 abaphumeleleyo kumgangatho wehlabathi ukuba bafunde kubo.

Ngoku ndiye ndonwabela udliwanondlebe neengcali ukuze ndifumane ukuqonda- kodwa ukuba kukho umntu ofuna ukwenza konke ukuphakamisa okunzima kum, ewe, andizukuthi hayi. Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba mandinike umnxeba lo mfo…

UTim Ferriss ngumbhali othengisa kakhulu I-4-Hour Workweek . Incwadi yakhe entsha ngu Izixhobo zeTitans: Iitactics, iiRoutines, kunye neMikhwa yeebhiliyoni, ii-Icons, kunye ne-World-Class Performance .

Ke ukuqala phi? Ungathini ngomsebenzi phantse bonke aba badlali be-A benza into yokuqala yonke imihla?

1) Yiba neSiko eliQhelekileyo lasekuseni

Uvuka ekuseni kakhulu kwaye ilizwe sele likhwaza kuwe. Ii-imeyile zingena zicela yonke into phantsi kwelanga, abantwana bayangxola, kwaye kukho izinto ongakhange uzenze izolo ezisayikhathaza ingqondo yakho. Kwaye usesejammies zakho.

Ke uqala usuku ukuphendula . Awulandeli cebo kwaye uzalisekise iinjongo zakho, uphendula ngokungathandekiyo kuzo zonke izinto eziphoswa ngumhlaba kuwe. Kodwa ayisiyiyo indlela ofumana ngayo izinto ezinkulu ebomini.

Uninzi lwabantu uTim ebethetha nokuba nesiko lasekuseni elibandakanya uhlobo oluthile ingqondo . Ukwenza intloko yakho iqonde kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka emgceni ukuze ujongane nosuku usenza izinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe. Nantsi uTim:

Ngaphezulu kwama-80% abantu abangama-200-kunye nabantu ekwenziwa udliwanondlebe kunye nabo banoluhlobo oluthile lokuziqhelanisa, olwenziwa kusasa, olunceda ekulungiseleleni ukuba uzazi ngakumbi iingcinga zakho kwaye ungasasebenzi ngokwasemoyeni emini.

Sukuba nexhala; akufuneki ukuba nzima ukongeza kwishedyuli yakho. Ngapha koko, ekuqaleni ayifanele ukuba njalo. Nantsi uTim:

Isitshixo kukwenza ukuba kube lula kwaye kube lula kangangoko kwiiseshoni zakho zokuqala ezintlanu. Eli yingongoma ebalulekileyo, ebalulekileyo, kuba uyayifuna njengesiqwengana esihlanganisiweyo sesiqhelo sakho ngaphambi kokuba ube namabhongo. Oko kunokuthetha ukuphefumla okukodwa ekuseni.

(Ukufunda indlela yokucamngca, cofa Apha .)

Akunzima kangako. Kodwa unokuba nengxaki enkulu. Unokuziva ngathi awunayo kuwe ukuba ube yimpumelelo enkulu. Mhlawumbi uneempazamo. Ubuthathaka. Izinto ezikubambezelayo ukuba uzame ukoyisa kwaye awukwazanga. Qikelela ukuba?

Into yesibini exhaphakileyo uTim wayiva ibhekiswa ngqo…

2) Guqula ubuthathaka bakho bube ngamandla

Phantse wonke umntu uTim wayethethile ukuba bathathe njani into ebuthathaka kwaye- endaweni yokuzama ukuyilungisa-bayifaka kumandla amakhulu ababatyhalela phambili. Nantsi uTim:

Ukuguqula ubuthathaka kwiingenelo zokhuphiswano kuvele ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ndingabulungisa njani ubuthathaka bam njengamandla? okanye, Ukuba ubuthathaka bam bekufanele ukuba bomelele, ndingabenza njani ukuba bomelele? Uninzi lwabantu kule ncwadi lusebenzise la magama ngqo.

Into uninzi lwabo eyayiqonda kukuba iziphene zabo zazingezizo ezenzululwazi kwaye zinenjongo ezimbi. Babezimpawu ezazichasene neenkozo okanye zazingathandwa.

Ngaba kuvakala ngathi ayicacanga, inkuthazo? Ayiyo. UDan Carlin yenye yeepodcast ezaziwayo nezaziwayo phaya: Imbali yeHardcore. (Ndingumlandeli omkhulu, mna.) Kodwa xa uDan waqala kunomathotholo wonke umntu wathi indlela yakhe yokuthetha ibisoyikeka.

UDan akazange ayilungise. Ngapha koko, wabiza ngabom kuyo kwaye wayenza sayina yakhe. Nantsi uTim:

Kwangoko kwimisebenzi yakhe kanomathotholo wagxekwa kwaye waqeqeshwa ukulungisa isimbo sakhe somlomo, esasithanda ukuphakama kwimitha. Uya kuthetha kakhulu, kakhulu kwaye athethe kakhulu, athule kakhulu. Iqhube abantu kwisikhululo sikanomathotholo, kodwa wasiguqula saba yinto endaweni yegciwane. Wayenomntu owayemazisa esithi, Nanko esiza uDan Carlin, bantu. Uyazi, uyakhwaza emva koko ahlebeze. Nanku apha. Yaba yindlela yakhe yokutyikitya.

UDan akazange abe yenye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo kwicandelo lakhe ngokwenza into eyenziwa ngumntu wonke. Njengoko waxelela uTim:

Shicilela iimpazamo zakho.

(Ukufunda isithethe sakusasa esiya kukugcina wonwabile imini yonke, cofa Apha .)

Ke uyacamngca kusasa kwaye uthatha iRudolph indlela ebomvu yeRed Nosed Reindeer kwiimpazamo zakho. Kodwa abanye abantu banokuthi ukuba nengqondo kunye nokujika kobuthathaka amandla okuqala zizinto zombini. Kwaye uyazi ntoni? Balungile. Kodwa ayongxaki…

3) Musa ukuyihoxisa i-Clichés

UShay Carl oseke uMenzi Studios othengise iDisney phantse iibhiliyoni zeedola.

Xa wayefuna ukunciphisa umzimba kwaye afumane imilo, akazange ajonge kwincwadi yokutya yakutshanje, okanye akhangele iimfihlo ezisikiweyo. Wayeqonda ukuba konke ekufuneka ekwenzile kukuyeka ukungahoyi ii-clichés kwaye uzimamele.

Yitya kancinci kwaye wenze imithambo engakumbi malunga nokutya okuzayo. Iyasebenza. Nantsi uTim:

Iimpendulo ngamanye amaxesha zifihlwe kanye phambi kwethu. Sonke sivile ngokukhala ngobisi oluchithekileyo, okanye ukutya kancinci, ukuzilolonga ngakumbi, kodwa asikhe sithathe umzuzwana wokucingisisa ngokuba kutheni le nto baba zii-clichés kwasekuqaleni. Nanini na xa usiva into oyithandayo, naka ingqalelo. Sukuyiyeka iye kwelinye indlebe kwaye iphume kwenye kuba iphindaphindwe rhoqo. Uninzi lwethu luyasilela ekufezekiseni iinjongo zethu hayi kuba siswele amandla, kodwa ngenxa yokuba sigqithisile.

(Ukufunda ukuba amanqaku ama-5 emva kwawo anokukonwabisa njani, uzithembe kwaye uphumelele, cofa Apha .)

Ke i-oldie inokuba yi-goodie, ihlala ijonga kwicala eliqaqambileyo, kwaye konke kulungile okuphela kakuhle. Kodwa intetho yenye into kwaye izakhono yenye into. Ngabuphi ubuchule obusisiseko ekufuneka sibuphuhlisile obuya kukhuthaza impumelelo nakweyiphi na inkundla?

4) Yiba Nokwazi Ukucinga, Ukunyamezela, Nokulinda

Uninzi lwabantu lubuza abantu abaphumelele kakhulu ukuba zeziphi iincwadi abazithandayo. Kodwa uTim ubabuza ukuba bazinika ziphi iincwadi izipho amaxesha amaninzi. Oku kumfumene kancinci idiosyncratic, iimpendulo ezisekwe kwincasa kunye neengcebiso ezingaphezulu zemisipha.

Iincwadi ezimbalwa zikhankanyiwe kaninzi nangaphezulu Sapiens , I-Almanack ehluphekileyo kaCharlie , Ukufuna Komntu Ngentsingiselo , kunye Impembelelo .

Kodwa enye yeencwadi ezinesiphiwo esivelileyo ziye zavela kuba ibiqulathe izifundo ekufuneka sizifundile sonke. Loo ncwadi yayinjalo Siddartha .

Izifundo eziphambili ezivela Siddartha Ukuze sifeze nantoni na, kufuneka sibe nobuchule bokucinga, ukunyamezela, nokuba nomonde. Nantsi uTim:

USiddhartha uthetha ngezibonelelo zokuba ukwazi ukucinga, ukukwazi ukuzila ukutya, kunye nokukwazi ukulinda. Ukuba ubunokubilisa iiseti zobuchule kunye namandla awodwa abantu endenze udliwanondlebe nabo, banokuphantse babekwe kwelinye lala macandelo mathathu. Ukucinga kukwazi ukusombulula iingxaki ngokunzulu kwaye ubuze imibuzo engcono kunabantu abaninzi, kwaye ke ufumane iimpendulo ezingacacanga. Ke kuya kufuneka ukhawuleze kwaye oko kuphuhlisa intuthuzelo ngokungaphatheki kakuhle, nto leyo onokuyimisa kuyo ukuze umelane namandla amakhulu kunye nezixa. Emva koko ukulinda kukukhetha umonde. Isizathu sokuba ndikhethe kukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba utshatele ukungabi namonde kwimigangatho ephezulu kunye neziphumo kwelinye icala, ngokuqonda ukuba ukuphumelela kwimidlalo emide ekwinqanaba elide kuya kuthatha ixesha.

(Ukufunda ukuba ungaphuhlisa njani igrit-ukusuka kwi-Navy SEAL, cofa Apha .)

Ukucinga, ukunyamezela kunye nokulinda kubalulekile. Banzima nabo. Yintoni ithiphu elula? Kulula ngokwenene. Ngapha koko, kulula njengokulala…

5) Yiba noMsebenzi woBusuku

Reid Hoffman ngumsunguli wezigidigidi we-LinkedIn kunye nomnye wabaququzeleli be-PayPal. Xa enengxaki enzima yokuqhekeka akacingi ukuba ukomeleza ingqondo yakho kuphela kwendlela yokuhamba.

Ubhala ingxaki phantsi ngaphambi kokuba alale, avumele ukuba i-subconscious yakhe ibambe kuyo kwaye abhale ngayo ngentsasa elandelayo. Rhoqo, le nkqubo ilula iyamnceda ukuba afumane impendulo ayifunayo. Nantsi uTim:

Uya kubeka umbuzo, okanye iprojekthi, okanye imeko kwifomu yejenali ngaphambi kokuba alale, emva koko avumele i-subconscious yakhe ukuba yetyise kwaye ikhawuleze kuloo nto, kwaye abhale into yokuqala kusasa ukuzama ukucacisa uhlobo oluthile olungacacanga. isisombululo.

Isandi silula kakhulu? Ndacinga kwa into enye. Kodwa enye yeetitan - UJosh Waitzkin (i-chess prodigy yokuba ifilimu Ukukhangela uBobby Fischer malunga) wathetha into enye. Ubhala ingxaki yakhe phantsi emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa aze ayiphonononge ngentsasa elandelayo.

Owu, kwaye omnye umntu ophumeleleyo wayekholelwa kakhulu kule nto, naye. Igama lakhe yayinguThomas Edison. Wakhe wathi: Ungaze ulale ungakhange ucele kwi-subconscious yakho.

(Ukufunda amasiko amane e-neuroscience athi kuya kuyonwabisa ingqondo yakho, cofa Apha .)

Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku yonke into esithethe ngayo igxile kakhulu kuwe-kuwe-ugxile kuyo. Kwaye abantu abaninzi abanika iingcebiso bayazisebenza. Zithini iingcebiso abanazo xa sele unomphathi onelizwi elikhulu kwimpumelelo yakho?

Umonwabisa njani u-El Jefe, ube yingcali kwicandelo lakho kwaye ufumane uncedo lwabacebisi abanamandla- bonke ngaxeshanye?

6) Cacisa iNdlela

URyan Holiday , umbhali othengisa kakhulu Istoic semihla ngemihla , uthatha isifundo kwimbali yamandulo esisasebenza nangoku. Ngamawakawaka eminyaka, umxholo wokufundela umsebenzi wawusisiseko se-greats.

Kodwa kwezi ntsuku sihlala sicinga malunga nokuba yintoni kwaye ayikho kwinkcazo yomsebenzi wethu. Le yimisebenzi yam. Ndizenza ezi zinto. Yiyo leyo.

Indlela abantu ababonwabisa ngayo abaphathi babo ngelo xesha, bafunda iintambo kwaye baqhubela phambili yayingekokujonga iibhokisi. Bavule indlela yabaphathi babo. Babelindele iingxaki, benza izinto ekungafunekiyo ukuba bazenze, kwaye ngokwenza izinto benza izinto lula kwabo banamava kunabo.

Oku akupheleli nje ekuzalisekiseni inkcazo yomsebenzi wakho eyakha ukuthembana, ukuthembeka kunye nokuguqula umphathi ukuba abe ngumcebisi. Kwi Izixhobo zeTitans , URyan uthi:

Kufanelekile ukujonga imeko ecingelwayo yokukhonza omnye umntu. Kungenxa yokuba enyanisweni, ayisiyiyo imodeli yokufunda kuphela enoxanduva lobugcisa obukhulu kwimbali yehlabathi - wonke umntu osuka kuMichelangelo ukuya kuLeonardo da Vinci ukuya kuBenjamin Franklin kuye kwanyanzeleka ukuba ahambe ngale nkqubo- kodwa ukuba uza ibeyinto enkulu ocinga ukuba uza kuba yiyo, ayisiyonto ingabalulekanga kangako, yokwexeshana? … Akungokuncamisa iesile. Ayisiyo yokwenza ukuba umntu abonakale elungile. Imalunga nokubonelela ngenkxaso ukuze abanye babe nokulunga… Coca indlela yabantu abangasentla kwakho kwaye ekugqibeleni uya kuyenzela umendo.

Ngaba oku kuyasebenza namhlanje? Ewe. UTim wathetha nosozigidigidi UChris Sacca . Xa iSacca yayiqala kwaGoogle wazimemela kwiintlanganiso ezikumgangatho ophezulu kwaye wazivolontiya ukuthatha amanqaku abaphathi abaphezulu. Nantsi uTim:

Cacisa indlela yomntu omsebenzelayo kwaye uhambe ngaphezulu nangaphaya komnxeba wokuthatha uxanduva olongezelelekileyo, nokuba awubhatalwanga ngenxa yakhe… Yile nto kanye eyenziwa nguChris Sacca xa wayesebenza kwaGoogle. Wayehlala kwiintlanganiso angamenywanga kuzo kwaye azi lonke ishishini kunye nabo bonke abaphezulu ngokwenza oku. Kodwa ebedibanisa ixabiso. Wayethatha amanqaku kule meko.

(Ukufunda ngakumbi iingcebiso kuRyan Holiday ngendlela ubulumko bamandulo obungabuphucula ngayo ubomi bakho, cofa Apha .)

Ukunceda abantu akusoloko kunzima. Ngoku ukujongana nabantu, oko kunokuba ngumceli mngeni ngamanye amaxesha. Yeyiphi indlela efanelekileyo yokuthatha ukuze ingakwenzi ufune ukukhupha iinwele zakho?

7) Abangobubi. Baphelile.

UAllen De Botton ngumbhali ohlonitshwayo Indlela oziqhenyayo ngayo onokubutshintsha ngayo ubomi bakho . Uyaziwa ngokuba nolwazi olunzulu kodwa olufikelelekayo kwimicimbi yabantu etshintsha indlela abantu abacinga ngayo.

UDe Botton uthi sikude kakhulu ukuba sicinge ukuba abantu kunzima ngenxa yokuba bakhohlakele. Hayi, bahlala bediniwe okanye bexhalabile okanye bekhathazekile. UTim ushwankathela:

Ngokwesiqhelo abanayo i-vendetta yobuqu okanye i-ajenda ngokuchasene nemidla yakho ebhetele. Inokuba yinyani, ilula ngokwenene. Abazange balale, okanye into enkulu yamanzi yaqhuma endlwini yabo ngosuku oludlulileyo. Baxabana nomyeni okanye inkosikazi yabo. Musa ukubeka kububi into enokuchazwa ngokungakwazi ukusebenza, ukuxakeka, indlala, okanye enye into. Musa ukuphinda ungene kwibali ozixelela lona; okunene jonga okwenzekayo phambi kwakho.

Ngamanye amaxesha singcono xa sibona abantu njengabantwana abakhulu abalilayo xa belambile okanye bediniwe. Njengoko uDe Botton echaza ngaphakathi Izixhobo zeTitans :

Xa siphatha abantwana kwaye umntwana ekhaba kwaye elila, siphantse singaze nakanye sithi, Lo mntwana uphume ukuba andifumane okanye Uneenjongo ezimbi.

(Ukufunda iingcebiso malunga nokuziphatha kwe-FBI malunga nendlela yokwenza abantu bakuthande, cofa Apha .)

Ke abantu banokuba ngabantwana. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda indlela abakuchaphazela ngayo abo bantu. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sithethe ngeetshimpanzi ...

8) Khumbula i-5 Chimps Theory

Umjelo wamanzi oMkhosi wamanzi yi-CEO kunye nomseki-ntsebenziswano we-AngelList. Ube ngumtyali mali kwangoko kwinani leziqalo wena unamandla uvile nge-Twitter kunye ne-Uber.

Kodwa akangomnye u-tycoon weSilicon Valley onzima kwi-smarts - lo mfo unjalo isilumko . Uyazi ukuba asizimele geqe njengoko singathanda ukucinga. Abo basingqongileyo banempembelelo kuthi, nokuba siyayiqonda okanye akunjalo. Kwaye ukuba awuthathi manyathelo ngokusekelwe kuloo nyaniso, awusoze uphumelele okanye wonwabe ngendlela othanda ngayo. I-Naval ichaza kwi Izixhobo zeTitans :

Kukho ithiyori endiyibiza ngokuba ‘ziimfundiso ezintlanu zeechimps.’ Kwinzululwazi yezilwanyana, unokuqikelela imeko yeendlela kunye nokuziphatha kwazo naziphi na iitshimpanzi ezixhonywe kuzo ziichimps ezintlanu. Khetha ngononophelo iichimps zakho.

Nabanye kule ncwadi bathetha into efanayo. UTim uyishwankathela:

Inkolelo, ukuba bendinokuyenza ngokubanzi, kukuba unomoya, ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwasezimalini, okanye kungenjalo umndilili wabantu abahlanu ochitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo.

Jonga abantu abakungqongileyo. Ngaba ngabo abo ufuna ukuba ngabo? Ngenxa yokuba mhlawumbi uya kuba. Kwaye ngomqondiso ofanayo, ukuba unabantwana okanye abasebenzi, cinga ngempembelelo onayo kubo. Ayingawo amazwi akho, kodwa zizenzo zakho. Njengombhali othengisa kakhulu UPaulo Coelho Utsho kwi incwadi :

Umhlaba utshintshiwe ngumzekelo wakho, hayi ngokoluvo lwakho.

(Ukufunda ngakumbi malunga nesayensi malunga nendlela abanye abakuchaphazela ngayo kunye nendlela enokuthi ikhokelele ngayo kubomi oboyikekayo, cofa Apha .)

Kulungile, sithethile ngamaqhinga amaninzi kunye neengcebiso. Kodwa uthini ngezinto ezinzulu ezinje ngamaxabiso kunye nokuziphatha? Ngaba ungandizonda ukuba bendinokuthi kukho ixesha-nangona lifutshane-lokuba ndibeke bucala ngokupheleleyo?

9) Yazi ukuba uyisebenzisa nini ikhampasi yakho yokuziphatha

UStephen J. Dubner Ungumbhali-mbhali wesitolo esithengisa kakhulu Ezizimeleyo. UDubner uthi kukho ixesha lokungahoyi ikhampasi yakho yokuziphatha.

Umzuzu nje, khawukhe ucinge . (Kwaye sukuhamba ugwaza abantu okanye ukhuthaze abanye ukuba bandihlabe ngaloo mzuzu.)

Oku akunguMachivavellian okanye ububi. Imalunga nokugweba ngaphambi kokuba simamele. Iimpawu zokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha zizinto esingafane sizitshintshe, kwaye kulungile. Kodwa ukuba uhlala ukhokela nabo kwaye ungaliva elinye icala, qagela ntoni? Awunakho ukutshintsha ingqondo. Ngapha koko, awukwazi nokuva kakuhle ukuba bathini. Sele bekhohlakele kwaye awuzange uve nokuva.

Ukugxeka, ukukhomba iminwe kunye needemon ekuqaleni kwencoko okanye uthethathethwano akuzange kuncede nabani na ukuba afezekise nantoni na. Abantu bahlala bephendula kuwe nge, Ulungile. Ndikhohlakele. Undiqinisekisile. Hayi. Azinjalo.

Mamela ke ngaphambi kokuba ugwebe ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa nantoni na ngakumbi ukuba ufuna amahlakani. Nantsi uTim:

Xa ufuna ukusebenzisana kunye nokusombulula iingxaki, ngakumbi xa abantu behlukaniswe ngombandela, ukuba ungena kuwo ukhokelela ekuziphatheni kwakho, kungumqobo omkhulu kwinkqubela phambili. Xa ukwinqanaba lokuvelisa umbono, hayi inqanaba lokuphononongwa, kuya kufuneka ubeke ikhampasi yakho yokuziphatha okwexeshana. Sukungena kwincoko ukhombe ngomnwe kumaqela anetyala kwaye usole, xa kufuneka ukhangele izisombululo ezinokubandakanya uncedo lwala maqela.

(Ukufunda into ekhuthazwa yingcali yezengqondo ekwenzeni incoko enzima kube lula, cofa Apha .)

Ke uza kuthini ukuba wenza zonke ezi zinto kwaye uyimpumelelo? Sonke siwevile amabali abantu abathe batshisa okanye kungenjalo abonwabanga emva kwempumelelo enkulu. Ke yintoni efunekayo ukuze ube ngumntu owonwabileyo ophumeleleyo?

10) Fumana iJar yeAwesome

Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukugcina Amaxesha amnandi yindlela yokukhuthaza ulonwabo. Izifundo bonisa ukuba ukubhiyozela loo mpumelelo uyizuzileyo kubalulekile kuncumo lwexa elizayo.

UTim unebali lomntu malunga nokuqonda-okuye kwaqina ngamandla kuninzi lwabaphumeleleyo awathi wadlana indlebe nabo.

Emva kwexesha, umfazi uTim wayethandana wabona into ethile ngaye. Wayelunge ngokwenene ekufezekiseni izinto kodwa embi kakhulu malunga ukuxabisa kubo. Nje ukuba agqibe ukubulala inamba enye wayesele ejonge ekujolise kuyo ngomlilo ngaphambi kokuthatha naliphi na ixesha lokonwabela ukufezekiswa kwakhe.

Kwaye ke xa izinto zingahambanga ngendlela yakhe, ngamanye amaxesha wayeziva edimazekile (ngaphandle kwemfumba enkulu yamathambo enamba awayemrhawule.) Ke wamenza iJar of Awesome. Nantsi uTim:

Ingqayi enkulu yemasoni eneJar of Awesome ebhalwe ecaleni ngoonobumba abebengezelayo. Ndayalelwa yonke imihla ukuba ndibhale ephepheni into elungileyo eyenzekileyo, ndiyisonge kwaye ndiyibeke kwiJar of Awesome. Ke xa ndiziva ndiphantsi, ndingaphumeleli, ndinexhala, nokuba kungayintoni na, ukungena kwiJar of Awesome kwaye ndicamngce ngazo zonke ezi zinto zintle zenzekileyo ukuze ndinganxibi i-Gloomy-Gus-lens, imele uku. Njengobuyatha njengoko kuvakala ngathi kwaye indlela amnandi ngayo umntu wam oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala ukuba angandiva ndithetha ngento ebizwa ngokuba yiJar of Awesome, yaba sisixhobo esimnandi sokukhulisa ulonwabo lwam-inqaku mhlawumbi nge-10-20%. Yinto abalandeli bam abaninzi abaqale ukuyenza neentsapho zabo. Baye baqala ukuba nabantwana babo bayenze.

Iingqayi zeMason kunye nokubengezela zizitshixo kulonwabo. UTim uyishwankathela:

Ukuba awukwazi ukonwabela oko unako, awusoze wonwabe yiyo nantoni na oyifumanayo.

(Ukufunda ukuba umbulelo ungakwenza njani wonwabe, cofa Apha .)

Ngokuqinisekileyo, sifunde okuninzi. Masijikeleze konke kwaye sifumanise eyona nto imangalisayo uTim ayifundileyo kudliwanondlebe nama-200 + akhe…

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Nazi ezinye zezinto uTim azifundileyo ngokuthetha neqela labantu abaphumelele kakhulu:

  • Yiba nesiko lasekuseni eliqwalaselwayo : Musa ukuqala usuku ukusabela. Gxila.
  • Guqula ubuthathaka bube ngamandla Isiteshi seRudolph yakho yangaphakathi.
  • Musa ukungahoyi ii-clichés : Zininzi ezithethwa rhoqo ngenxa yokuba ziyasebenza.
  • Ukwazi ukucinga, ukunyamezela kunye nokulinda : Izakhono ezixabiseke ngakumbi kunokuba zilungile kwiMicrosoft Excel.
  • Yiba nomsebenzi wobusuku bonke : Lala ngayo. Imyuziyam yakho isebenza ngelixa uphumla.
  • Coca indlela : Yenza okungaphezulu kokufunekayo kwaye uza kwenza le nto uyifunayo.
  • Ababubi. Baphelile : Sonke singangabantwana abakhulu. Abakuthiyi. Bafuna ukuphumla.
  • Khumbula i-5 chimps ithiyori : Ungumndilili wabantu aba-5 ochitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo. Khetha ngobulumko.
  • Lazi ixesha lokusebenzisa ikhampasi yokuziphatha : Ukuba uqala ukugweba, ngekhe umamele.
  • Fumana iJar yeAwesome : Musa ukuphumeza nje. Yixabise.

Yintoni eyona nto yayimangalisa uTim wafunda kwiititan ukuba umntu nje ofayo onjengawe kwaye kufuneka sazi?

Ukuba bangabantu abafayo nabo. Nantsi uTim:

Eyona nto yamothusayo yayikukuqonda ukuba zonke ezi titans sizibona kumaphephancwadi, kwaye sicinga njengezenza izinto ezingenakufikelelwa ngabantu nje, bonke aba bantu baneziphako ezininzi, njengoko sonke sisenza. Ukuva aba bantu bethetha ngamaxesha abo amnyama, ixesha labo lokungazithembi ngokupheleleyo okanye xa wonke umntu abasondeleyo ebaxelela ukuba bazokungaphumeleli okanye abanatalente… Baye bahlangabezana neengxaki ezinkulu, kodwa bacinge ukuba bangathini ngokwabo kunye nokwenza imikhwa ejikeleze amandla omnye okanye amabini angamandla. Amandla ahlala exhaphake kuninzi, amatyala amaninzi bawaxhathisa iminyaka elishumi okanye nangaphezulu. Amandla ababecinga ukuba ayingaqhelekanga kwakufuneka bazifihle.

Nawe unokuba yititanic. (Ayisiyo iTitanic. Andikukhuthazi ukuba uye kwi-iceberg kwaye urhaxwe.)

Yeka ukukhanyela ubuqaqawuli bakho bangaphakathi. Hlakulela oko. Yamkela ukuba awufezekanga. Akunjalo nabantu abakwiphephancwadi. Awudingi ukuba ungaphaya komntu ukuze uphumelele. Ngoku sebenza nzima…

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