Eyona Impilo Iimpawu ezi-4 zokuba Umntu Othandana Naye Utshatile kwaye uyakopela

Iimpawu ezi-4 zokuba Umntu Othandana Naye Utshatile kwaye uyakopela

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UJimmy wabonakala emhle kakhulu ukuba angayinyani. UJoan wadibana naye ngenye intsasa xa wayemnika icortado kwivenkile yakhe yekofu. Wayemenza ukuba afunge ngolwazi lakhe lwenkcubeko yekofu yaseAsia ngaphandle kwexesha.

Uyazazi izinto ngekofu ezingafunekiyo nee-baristas kunye ne-roasters, kwaye usebenza ngezemali! uthe. Wayemde, emnyama kwaye eyinzwana, kwaye wayevela eStenen Island. Wayengummangaliso, kwaye wathi wayeyithiyile imidiya yoluntu. Kwakungekho nje into yakhe. Oh nokuthumela imiyalezo kunye nokufowuna? Akunamntu. Ndizokubona xa ndikubona, ibingumgca wakhe.

Inombolo yokuqala yesilumkiso: Wanika uJoan idilesi ye-hotmail njengeyona ndlela yokunxibelelana naye.

Akanayo i-Gmail? Ndabuza. Oko kuyarhana.

Ndicinga ukuba luhlobo lwakudala. Uthumela amanqaku athandana kakhulu. Ndivakalelwa kukuba sibhala iileta zothando ngapha nangapha, ngokungathi sisinyibilikisi emfazweni kwenye indawo.

Ewe, ubuchwepheshe bayo ngu ubudlelwane obude, kuya kufuneka uthathe isikhephe ukuya apho, ndaqhula.

Ndiyazi! Imnandi kakhulu, utshilo. Andifuni kuphazamisa amaphupha akhe othando, kodwa bendicinga ukuba wayengazange athathe iSikhephe saseStaten Island ngaphambili. Akukho nto imnandi okanye ukuthandana ngaloo nto kukonke.

Zingaphi iintsuku okhe wakunye naye? Ndibuze, ndinethemba lokuba uJimmy angazihlangula. Ndiphulukene nenani elibalulekileyo lokholo emva kwesityhilelo sikaHotmail.

Rhoqo ebusuku ngeveki ephelileyo! Sabelana ngesondo kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwivenkile yekofu, bekushushu kakhulu!

Injani indawo yakhe? Ndibuzile. Uye wandinika impendulo ebendiyoyika.

Uphawu lwesilumkiso kwinombolo yesibini: Akaze ammeme.

Kuyakhiwa, waphendula uJoan. Andikayiboni okwangoku.

Ngaba ukhe achithe ubusuku ekhayeni lakho, okanye ngaba uye agoduke emva kokuba uqhagamshele? Ndatsho, uvalo lwam luyakhula.

Uphawu lwesilumkiso kwinombolo yesithathu: Akahlali ubusuku bonke.

Ewe kuya kufuneka avuke kwangoko kakhulu ukuze avumele abasebenzi bokwakha bangene, ke uyagoduka rhoqo ebusuku. Kutheni ubuza imibuzo emininzi kangaka? Wayeqala ukuba ne-huffy encinci.

Ndinomdla nje, ndatsho ndisoyika. Ndicinga nje ukuba akuqhelekanga ukuba awunayo inombolo yakhe, akaze alale ngaphezulu, kwaye uneakhawunti yeHotmail.

Umohluleli kakhulu, wandiqhekeza. Usenayo i-AOL, ungomnye oza kuthetha!

Ewe, kodwa ndinayo neGmail, ndathi, ndizikhusela ngokukhawuleza. Ndibambelele kwiakhawunti yam yakudala ye-AOL ngokungathi yayiyinombolo yefowuni endala endandingafuni ukwahlukana nayo. Yayisisincamathiselo esivuthayo, endaweni yento elula. Ungandiqumbeli. Uyalazi nefani yakhe?

Inombolo yesine yesilumkiso: Wayengenalo nolwazi olwaneleyo kuGoogle kuye.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, xa kufikwa kuJimmy, wayenamagama okuqala kuphela.

Ngaba ukhe ahlawule izinto ngekhadi letyala?

Hayi, uhlala esebenzisa imali. Yenye yeempawu zakhe ezindala zesikolo. Kodwa uJoan wayeqala ukuvakala engaqinisekanga ngaye.

Ngelo xesha ndandisazi: Ngokuqinisekileyo uJimmy wayetshatile. Iimpawu zazikho apho, kwaye ngenxa yeminyaka endiyichithileyo ndisebenza njengomdanisi ongaqhelekanga, ndandizazi zonke iindlela zobuqhetseba.

Okumangalisa kukuba, uninzi lwamadoda afike kwiklabhu yamanenekazi apho bendihlala ndisebenza ngovuyo achaze indlela abakhohlisa ngayo abanye babo ababalulekileyo. Kwakungathi banikwe iphepha-mvume lokuba yinkwenkwe embi kwangoko nje xa behlawule umrhumo wokungena kule minyango. Ndixelele umfazi wam ukuba ndinentlanganiso yamashishini esekude, bazokwabelana nam.

Uninzi lweeklabhu lubhekisa kubaphangi njengabonwabisi, kuba usebenza phantsi kwe-alias kwaye uthatha nayiphi na i-backstory oyikhethile. Inxalenye yomsebenzi. Amadoda ayayazi loo nto, kodwa adlala kunye. Kwaye ngandlela thile ibanika inkululeko yokuziva ngathi banokukuxelela izinto abangenakuzixelela abafazi babo.

Njengoko ndandixubusha ngento emandiyixelele uJoan, ndafumanisa ukuba andifanele ndithethe kwanto kwaphela. Ukubuza kwam bekumkhokelele kwindlela eya ekufumaneni.

Ucinga ukuba utshatile andithi? Utsho ebonakala ukuba ukhathazekile. Ndicinga ukuba iyavakala.

Ndifuna ukungalunganga, nditshilo. Kodwa oku kuvakala kukrokrela kakhulu. Ungamxelela ntoni omnye wabahlobo bakho ukuba bebethandana nomntu onedilesi ye-Yahoo engavumi ukuthumela imiyalezo okanye ukufowuna? Ndibuze, ndiyazi impendulo. Umbona nini kwakhona?

Kanye emva kokuba egqibile ngomsebenzi, kufanele ukuba eze kwindawo yam. Ndizomthumelela i-imeyile kwaye ndirhoxise, utshilo.

Kuya kufuneka ubize kuye. Ndiza kukunceda nge-imeyile.

Ndikude ekuyazini yonke into xa kufikwa kumba wokuthandana. Uninzi lwethu belukwimeko nabantu esibatyumkileyo ekubonakala ngathi yinto enokuba yinto nje engekhoyo. Iiflegi ezibomvu zihlala zikhona, ziwangawangisa emoyeni phambi kwethu ngumcimbi nje nokuba sikhethe ukuzibona okanye hayi.

Ukuhlala kukaJoan okwexeshana kancinci emva kwe-imeyile eyalathiweyo sayilwa kunye. Wayenyanisekile ngokumangalisayo xa embuza nge-imeyile ukuba utshatile. Akanikanga zinkcukacha, ngaphandle kokukhala mea culpa kwaye wabhala kwakhona, Undifumene. Ndiyaxolisa. Umdlalo udlulile.

Kwakungelula kuye. Uya kudlulela kwixhoba lakhe elilandelayo, eshiya uJoan enemibuzo emininzi engaphendulwanga-kulula ukukhupha umntu xa benokunxibelelana nawe kuphela ngeakhawunti yesibini ye-imeyile ongasokuze uyisebenzise. Wayephume ebomini bakhe ngokukhawuleza njengoko wangena kuyo.

Kutheni le nto amadoda enje? wakhala kum.

Ndicinga ukuba abantu ngama-assholes ngokubanzi, ngekhe ubekek 'ityala ngokwenene uhlobo lwendoda, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo amadoda enza kube lula ukuziva unjalo.

Ndiyakuncama ukuthandana, watsho esula inyembezi ebusweni bakhe.

Ndamwola ndiyazi imvakalelo kakuhle. Bafihlephi bonke abafana abahle? Kutheni le nto kwakulula ukufumana intsalela engapheliyo yeempundu naphi na apho ujika khona? Yenze umbono wokuba ikhefu lokuthandana livakale ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ndinezihlobo ezazifungile ukuba i-90-day dating detox ibancedile ukuba baphinde babe nengqondo, kwaye bendisoloko ndicinga ngokuyibetha.

Masenze i-detox yokuthandana, kungabikho ukudlala ngothando, ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni, akukho nto kwiintsuku ezingama-90, ndacebisa.

Ndiphakathi! Ndibhalise! watsho ngokuzimisela. Ke umdlalo wawukhona. Siza kubona ukuba kulula kangakanani, okanye mhlawumbi kunokuba nzima kangakanani ukuba kunamathele kwisicwangciso se-detox yamadoda. Ndinike uJoan iveki emqolombeni, ndicinga ukuba olu vavanyo lincinci luza kuba lula kum ndicinga ukuba iqula lam linethemba elomileyo. Kodwa ngekhe wazi ukuba yintoni elungileyo kwikona.

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