UCarrie Fisher: Ubomi kwi-Edge IMacMillan Xa umdlali weqonga, umbhali, umntu ohlekisayo kunye no-Carrie Fisher okhathalelayo kwezempilo yengqondo u-Carrie Fisher wahlaselwa sisifo sentliziyo ngo-Disemba 23, 2017, emva kweentsuku ezine kwisibhedlele sase-LA ukuya kwinto eyachazwa yi-coroner njengesiphumo sokuphefumla ubuthongo, isifo sentliziyo kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. , waphefumlela ukuthululwa okukhulu kothando kunye nosizi oluvela kwabanye abadumileyo kunye nabalandeli ngokufanayo.
Inkqubo ye- Idabi leenkwenkwezi I-icon, enobuchopho bayo obukhethekileyo obuqalise amawaka e-bon mots aqaqambileyo ngexesha lakhe leminyaka engama-60, xa sele ekrwada wayefuna ukukhunjulwa ngokuntywila ekukhanyeni kwenyanga, okrwitshwe yibra yam! Kwaye ngelixa abaninzi bemkhumbula ngobukrelekrele obunje, ukwakhunjulwa ngo-Sheila Weller onovelwano kakhulu, ojika iphepha nje, UCarrie Fisher: Ubomi kwi-Edge .
Umbhali ngobomi bomntu-imisebenzi yakhe yangaphambili ibandakanya Amantombazana afana nathi , I-biographie edunyiswe kakhulu malunga noJoni Mitchell, uCarly Simon kunye noCarole King-udliwanondlebe nabantu abangaphezulu kwe-130 ngalo msebenzi wakutshanje, uthimba i-pathos zabucala ngasemva kwe-voluble ka-Fisher, sardonic yoluntu. Umjongi Ubanjwe noWeller ngethuba lokutyelela incwadi yakhe yesivunguvungu.
Umbonisi: Ngelixa ungazange udibane noCarrie, ukufana kuyothusa-nobabini nikhulele kwidolophu encinci eyayiyiBeverly Hills, kwaye ngamnye wayehlala kwiscandal sothando esasidiliza iintsapho zakho. Ngaba unokuchaza?
Weller : Umalume wam wayeneklabhu yasebusuku eCiro apho inkwenkwana ekwishumi elivisayo uDebbie Reynolds, owayesandul 'ukuphuma e-El Paso, eyamtsweba wangena ngaphakathi. Umama wayengumhleli wephephancwadi. Sobabini sakha sajikeleza ikona kwindlu kaDebbie noEddie ukuhambisa inqaku lokuvunywa kukaDebbie.
Esinye isizathu sokuba nditsaleleke kwibali likaCarrie kukuba usapho lwam lwalunoluhlobo lwethu lwesaga sikaLiz Taylor. Umfazi omhle wawuqhawula umtshato. Kwimeko yethu, kukho ubundlobongela obabusematheni. (Umalume kaWeller wazama ukubulala utata wakhe enomsindo) Umama wakhe wazama ukuzibulala kwaye wafumana unyango lokothuka ngombane, olwalusebenza ngokumangalisayo…
Njengoko uyazi, le nkqubo ngoku ibizwa ngokuba yi-Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT), leyo uCarrie wayizama. Ubhala ngaye ukuba ngumntu wokuqala owaziwayo oza kubakho malunga neemfazwe zakhe zengqondo, ezanceda abantu abaninzi ukuba bayamkele eyabo imiba. Kutheni ucinga ukuba iinkwenkwezi zibambe kangaka phezu kweenkolelo nezenzo zabantu?
Benziwe izithixo, bafumana indawo eninzi yemithombo yeendaba, abanye abantu banabalandeli abaninzi kubantu abaziwayo. Ukuba ezi zithixo zinokuphuma neengxelo malunga nokuba sesichengeni kwabo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kuya kulunga ukufuna uncedo.
Kanye emva kokuba uCarrie ebhengeze esidlangalaleni ngokugula kwakhe, wacelwa ukuba abe libali elingaphandle kwimagazini entsha ebizwa BP YeBipolar. Wathi ewe engazi nantoni na malunga nemagazini. Wayemisa yonke into athethe nayo Idabi leenkwenkwezi abalandeli ababenemeko okanye isalamane esenza… UCarrie waye ligorha ekubekeni isigulo sengqondo. 
UCarrie kunye nenja yakhe uGary ngexesha lokusayina incwadi Inkosazana yeDiarist .Mediapunch / Shutterstock
Luthini uluvo lwakho ngoCarrie morph ngexesha lokubhalwa kwale ncwadi?
Kwakukho into enobugorha malunga nokuba akwazi ukuphumeza okuninzi njengoko enzile kwimiceli mngeni awayejongane nayo. Ndathetha nenani labasetyhini abanesifo sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, kunye noogqirha abakwinqanaba eliphezulu lesi sifo. Kukho amayeza asebenzayo, emva koko ayeke ukusebenza, kwaye ezinye ziyamangalisa iziyobisi kwabanye abagulayo ezinefuthe elibi kwabanye-oko kwenzeka kwimeko kaCarrie. Abanye babahlobo bakhe abasenyongweni baziva ukuba i-cocktail yeemedali bekufanele ukuba zezenye zezinto eziye zaphela zambulala.
Kunzima ukujongana nengxaki echaphazela indlela ocinga ngayo kunye nobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ngendlela enzulu. Ndifumanise ukuba phantsi kobukrelekrele bukaCarrie, isisa, charisma, ukuzithoba, kunye nokuthanda ukunika umnwe kwabo bahlekisa ngaye, kukho intlungu enzulu angayibonisanga kubantu abaninzi ababemthatha njengoyena mhlobo wabo usenyongweni.
I-biografi yakho inyanisekile ukuba uCarrie wayengasoloko engoyena mntu kulula ukubakho. Kodwa ikwangumbeko wothando kumfazi ontsonkothileyo, onekratshi, onobuqili okrelekrele. Kutheni le nto usapho lwakhe lusandula ukuza ngaphambili ukungayifumani incwadi?
Oko kwandenza ndonwaba kakhulu. Ndiza kubavumela ukuba bafumane ingxelo yabo yebali. Ndanxibelelana nabameli babo kwaye ndavunyelwa ngendlela enobabalo, ndabuya akwabikho nto yenzekileyo… Ke ndiqhubekile.
Ngelixa usapho lwakhe lungazange luthathe inxaxheba kule ncwadi, utyhile iinkcukacha ezininzi ezisenyongweni. Wenze njani ukuba abantu bavule?
Babekhusela kakhulu uCarrie. Abanye abantu bathi, Yenze ibe ntle, endizame kanzima ukuyenza. Uninzi lwaphazanyiswa kukufa kwakhe. Umntu omnye uthe, andikholelwa ukuba uhambile. Waye liziko lehlabathi lethu. Akukho mntu usidibanise njengaye…
Ewe, yayinguRichard Dreyfuss!
Khange ndimlandele uHarrison Ford. Khange ndimlandele uMeryl Streep. Bendingasukeli abantu abangafuni kuthetha. Abanye ababuza udliwanondlebe banayo i-chutzpah ngakumbi kunam kwelo sebe. Icala lokungabinayo i-blanche ye-carte kubantu abangaphakathi kukuba ufumana abantu abanonxibelelwano olufutshane nesihloko sakho kwaye banokukuxelela okuninzi. Ndathetha nabantu abasi-8 ukuya kwabali-10 ababemazi uCarrie ngexesha lonyaka awayelichitha e-Central School of Speech and Drama eLondon. Ndinezihlobo zakhe ezininzi zobuntwana zaseBeverly Hills-IGirl Scouts, iiBrownies, ababini babaqeqeshi ababambeleyo, abahleli ababehlala naye ngelixa ebhala iincwadi zakhe… 
UDebbie Reynolds, uEddie Fisher noCarrie ngo-1956.Ifoto nguKobal / Shutterstock
Ukufunda nzulu okunje ebomini bomnye umntu kukufundisa ntoni ngawe?
Ufunda malunga nobuthathaka bakho. Ufuna ukuba imithombo yakho ikuthande, kwaye uzilinganise ngokwakho-ababhali baneentloni kwaye bayazithoba; Kungenxa yoko le nto sibhala endaweni yokwenza-ngokuchasene nabafazi ababalaseleyo obhala ngabo. Ufunda into yamandla akho. Ukuba ubandakanya imithombo yakho, kulungile; unezakhono ezifanelekileyo zonxibelelwano kunye nokuzithemba okufanelekileyo. Ufunda ngamaxhala akho-malunga nokufumana umthombo kunye nexesha elibekiweyo kunye Ngaba abahleli bayayithanda?
Ukuba umntu ebeza kubhala i-biografi malunga noSheila Weller, ngowuphi umxholo ophambili onokuwuquka?
Ndingathanda ukuthetha ngabantu endibhala ngabo. Kodwa: Wazama ukubhala inyani kwaye waba novelwano.
Incwadi yakho indenze ndaziva ngathi ndikumphefumlo kaCarrie. Khange ndiqonde nje ukuba kuninzi kangakanani adlule kuko, kwaye uphantse wafa amatyeli aliqela.
Omnye wabahlobo bakhe wathi, Wayephila ubomi bakhe. Yanele kuye.
