Eyona Iimuvi 'Umfana ususiwe' Umbhali uGarrard Conley kunyango lokuGuqulwa kweGay, Kutheni uMike Pence 'Ngokuqinisekileyo elutshaba lwethu'

'Umfana ususiwe' Umbhali uGarrard Conley kunyango lokuGuqulwa kweGay, Kutheni uMike Pence 'Ngokuqinisekileyo elutshaba lwethu'

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Inkwenkwana icinyiwe Umbhali uGarrard Conley.UKaitlyn Flannagan woMqwalaseli



Kwi-2016, uGarrard Conley wakhupha imemo malunga nexesha lakhe lokufikisa efumana unyango lokuguqula izitabane kunye nombutho wamaKristu osisiseko sothando Uthando (ngoku olubizwa ngokuba yiRestoration Path). Inkwenkwana icinyiwe iinkcukacha iiveki ezimbini azichithe ezama ukuthandazela isitabane kude ngoncedo lwenkqubo yenyathelo elingu-12 lenkonzo esekwe eMemphis, kunye nokwenzakala ngenxa yokukhutshwa ngumntu osekholejini owamdlwengulayo.

Ibali elibuhlungu likaConley, ibali elihlangulayo ngoku lenziwe ukuba libe ngumdlalo bhanyabhanya, uhlengahlengiswe kwaye walathiswa ngumlingisi uJoel Edgerton, okwangumlingisi we-Love in Action owayekhokela owayengusisitabane. ULucas Hedges udlala uJared, osekwe kuConley; UNicole Kidman udlala umama kaJared, uNancy; Kwaye uRussell Crowe udlala utata wakhe ongumfundisi waseBhaptizi, uMarshall. Inkqubo ye- Ifilimu ihamba njengemithombo yayo, Kodwa ngelixa ezigxeka ngokucacileyo iindlela zokuhlukumeza zonyango lokuguqula, u-Edgerton wanyanzelisa ukubonakaliswa okungaphaya kwento eyenzekileyo kuConley. Oko kwakuthetha ukuphelisa umbono womntu wokuqala wememo, eyayikhathaza uConley. Ngaphandle kwelizwi lakhe elibakhokelayo kwaye acacise isigqibo sakhe kwi-19 yokungena kwinkqubo, ngaba abaphulaphuli bangamgweba? Kwakoyikisa ekuqaleni, utshilo. Kwakufana, Iphe Abantu bazakucinga ukuba ndisisidenge.

Rhuma kwiNcwadana yeendaba yoMbonisi

Ngokwenyani, olu hlengahlengiso lutsha lohambo oloyikisayo lukaConley lukhanyisele isibindi sakhe kunye nomoya ongadinwayo. Xa wayejamelene nokushukuma okusisiseko kunye noloyiko olubi, uConley wala ukwaphuka. Endaweni yokuba aphunyuke, esenza isivumelwano sokuba aqhubeke nokwabelana ngebali lakhe lokubandezeleka kunye nokusinda kumzamo wokusindisa ubomi babanye.

Umjongi uthethe noConley ngovuyo kunye nokuphazamiseka awaziva ekubonile Inkwenkwana icinyiwe kwiscreen esikhulu, ukuthandabuza kwakhe ukujika ibali lakhe liye kumlawuli othe ngqo kwaye kutheni eqhubeka nokutyelela icawe kayise e-Arkansas unyaka nonyaka ukubhengeza ubuntu bakhe.

Umbonisi: Xa wawubhala Inkwenkwana icinyiwe , ngaba ikhe yathi qatha kuwe into yokuba inokuba yinto umntu afuna ukuyenza ifilimu?

UConley: Hayi. Okokuqala, abantu babefana, Yincwadi yesini, ke mhlawumbi ngekhe ithengise kakhulu. Ndiyivile loo nto kubantu abakushishino. Oko iseyinto abantu abangoyikiyo ukuyithetha.

Kwakuneminyaka nje emibini edlulileyo.

Ewe, kwaye basatsho njalo. Kubi ngokwenene ukuba abantu baziva benelungelo lokuthetha loo nto, ngakumbi emva kwento efana noHanya Yanagihara Ubomi obuncinci , eyayiyincwadi enkulu, okanye Okwakho , eyabhalwa ngumhlobo wam uGarth Greenwell. Bayimpumelelo enkulu, ngoko ke masiyeke ukuzenza ngathi zincwadi ze-LGBTQ azinakuphumelela-ngakumbi iimemo.

Uye wathi umothuko obhala ngawo kulencwadi usemnandi kuwe emva kwayo yonke le minyaka. Kwakunjani kuwe ukuyibona iboniswa kule filimu?

Kuyinto engaqhelekanga kakhulu. Kwimemo unethuba lokucoca yonke into ngolwimi lwakho. Unokwenza ubonakale ubukrelekrele ngenene nangona uyavuma ukuya kunyango lokuguqula. Unokuchaza ukucinga kwakho ngendlela enika umfundi imephu kuloo mava. Awunakukwenza oko ngokwenene kwifilimu. Yinjongo ngakumbi ngakumbi kuloo ngqondo, ngakumbi kuba uJoel wakhetha ukubalisa ibali labazali ngokunjalo. Ke, ukuqala kwam ukuyibukela, ndandineentloni. Ndicinga nje ukuba ndisisimumu. U-Lucas ngumdlali oncomekayo, kwaye ubonakalisa ukungafani komlinganiswa ngobuso bakhe, kodwa ixesha lokuqala endalibukela ngalo ndandivele ndanentloni zokuba ndingubani. UNicole Kidman kunye noLucas Hedges in Inkwenkwana icinyiwe. Iimpawu zoJoliso








Ke kwakungekho mgama kuloo mntu? Kungenxa yokuba amagama atshintshiwe.

KuJared? [ Ihleka ] Kuyamangalisa, kuba phantse yonke into idlalwa ngokudlala ibali elifanayo. Izinto ezimbalwa zitshintshiwe, kodwa azizininzi. Xa uJoel nam besithetha ngayo kwangoko kwangoko, xa besakha olu luvo kunye, wayefana, ndifuna ukuba ibe kukuma kumava abantu abaninzi. Ke abanye abalinganiswa kuThando ngokuSebenza, njengoCameron [idlalwe nguBritton Sear] - ngokubethwa kweBhayibhile kunye nomngcwabo womgunyathi-wayexhomekeke kumntu wokwenyani owayezimase ukuboniswa kwefilimu; khange azibulale. Pha babenjalo abantu abazibulele ngokwenkqubo yam, nangona. Kodwa uJoel kwafuneka ashwankathele loo nto ngomlinganiswa omnye kwaye ayicinezele.

Ukuthetha nje noLucas-owayeyinxalenye yendalo yabalinganiswa kwaye engene nzulu kuyo kuba wayifunda le ncwadi kathathu okanye kane wayithanda- xa sithetha wayefana, andifuni uziva uxinzelelo lokuba nguwe. Ndifuna ukuba yeyam. Ke kulapho sagqiba khona, kunjalo UJared , hayi uGarrard.

Zeziphi iinkalo zobuntu bakho obuncinci obuziqapheleyo ekusebenzeni kukaLucas?

Kwakukho olu hlobo lwento engaqhelekanga eyenzekileyo. Xa wayeqala ukwenza ukufunda kwetafile, kwakungavakali ngathi wenza Mna kunyanzelekile, kodwa indlela yakhe kunye nentlungu ebhalwe ebusweni bakhe kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo… ngoku ndiyayibukela, ndiyabona ukuba yile nto sonke sasibukeka ngathi. Kwaye kuyinto engaqhelekanga ukuba akwazi ukwenza oko ngaphandle kokufikelela kulo mhlaba. Kodwa besincokola kakhulu, naye mhlawumbi ebendijongile bendibalisa izinto. Utyelele usapho lwam kunye noJoel noDavid Joseph Craig, ongumvelisi wefilimu odlala noMichael, omthiyileyo ngenxa yokuba ujonga uJared. Ukubuyela umva kancinci xa bendisekhaya naxa utata wam ebemadolw 'anzima kubantu bonke. Ndaphinda ndanguloo mntwana, kuloo meko.

Bacinga ntoni abazali bakho ngale filimu?

Umama ubonile nje kuMnyhadala weFilimu waseToronto kwaye wayewuthanda. Wayefana, Enkosi uThixo, bayifumene! Utata akayibonanga. Ndicinga ukuba uya kusasaza ngaxa lithile. Sammema ukuba eze kwi-premiere kunye nayo yonke into, kodwa usengumfundisi kuloo cawa kwaye inzima kakhulu. Nokuba angakholelwa ntoni ngoku, abo bantu abakakulungeli.

Kodwa ndinenkani kakhulu, kwaye ndicinga ukuba njengendoda e-gay cis, ndinelungelo lokubuyela kwezi ndawo ndifundise abantu, kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndinako. Ke, ndiza kubuyela ecaweni ndize ndibe ngathi, Uyakwenza ntoni ngayo? Utata wam unamalungu angama-200 [ebandleni lakhe], kwaye nangona inokuba linani elincinci, ngabantu abangama-200 abanokutshintsha iingqondo zabo e-Arkansas. Kwaye ke ndiyabonisa mhlawumbi kube kanye ngonyaka kwaye ndibhengeze ubuntu bam. Ndiyathemba ukuba ngokwayo iya kwenza into. Kwaye utata wam akathethi ngokuchasene nabantu be-LGBTQ. Uthi uyabathanda, kodwa uyema apho. Elo linyathelo. UGarrard Conley nonina, uMartha Conley, kwiseti ye Inkwenkwana icinyiwe. Iimpawu zeKyle Kaplan / zoJoliso



Ngaba unempendulo enamandla ngakumbi nakweyiphi na imiboniso bhanyabhanya?

Unokucinga ukuba yeyiphi — ulandelelwano lodlwengulo. Umnqa ngokwaneleyo, andikaze ndibenayo imbi impendulo kuyo. Ngokwenyani bendicinga ukuba yenziwe kamnandi kakhulu, kodwa yabamba ukoyikeka kokuba naloo nto njengamava akho okuqala ezesondo kunye nefuthe lokuthi ewe uye kunyango lokuguqula, kuba sele ujikeleza ngaphandle kolawulo. Ukuphendula kwam ngalo lonke ixesha ndibukele kukuba yenziwe kakuhle. Ngombulelo, sinomfanekiso wokudlwengulwa kwamadoda kwindoda kwifilimu ukuze sikwazi ukuthetha ngayo. Ndonwabile ngaloo nto.

Makhe sithethe malunga nokujongana phakathi komlinganiswa kaHedges kunye nomlinganiswa kaCrowe. Utshilo ukuba enye yezinto obukhe wazibona kule minyaka idlulileyo kukuba utata wakho akasosikhohlakali kwaye awulilo ixhoba. UJoel Edgerton uthe ufuna ukuyenza icace le filimu-ukuba wonke umntu enze into ayenzileyo ngezizathu ezinzima.

Ndicinga ukuba imovie ithatha icala. Kodwa ekuthatheni elo cala, aliphosi abantu phantsi kwebhasi. Kuba olona tshaba luyinkcubeko eyadala [imeko]. Enye yezinto endizimisele kakhulu ukuyenza kudliwanondlebe lonke kukukhankanya okwenzekayo nabantu abadlulayo ngoku. Kuba ngoku sinayo ngokwenene iintshaba. Ndiyathetha ukuba besihlala sinabo, kodwa ngoku basemandleni. Andikaze ndifune ukuthi uMike Pence akalotshaba lwethu. Ngu ngokuqinisekileyo utshaba lwethu. Kodwa iicawa-kunzima kum ukuba ndithethe oku, kodwa nabantu abamvoteleyo kwaye baziva ngokwahlukileyo ngoku, abazintshaba zethu.

Kodwa bendinomsindo omkhulu ngeloxesha. Ukuzivocavoca isitulo sokulala, apho kwakufuneka ndihlale ngaphesheya kwesitulo esingenanto kwaye ndicinge utata wam apho, xa babendixelela into endiyiyo ndinayo ukuziva, oko kwahlukile kum kunayo nantoni na abayenzileyo. Xa bendixelela ukuba mna ndinayo ukubathiya abazali bam, ngokusisiseko, yayingeyiyo inzondo eyayisetyenziswa, yayiphantse ilawulwe ngengqondo. Nditsho nendlela endisabela ngayo, undixelela ukuba ayilunganga. Ndicinga ukuba kukho amaxesha ebomini bethu xa intuition okanye itinas ekugqibeleni ikhaba kwaye siyaqonda, Eli lithuba lam lokugqibela lokuba ngumntu oqhelekileyo. Ukuba ndiyaqhubeka noku, andizukuphinda ndibenguye lo ndinguye. Ndicinga ukuba abantu abaninzi baziva njalo kwaye abantu abaninzi bayayicinezela.

Inkuthazo yokuba uJared ekugqibeleni ayeke le nkqubo inyanzelisa ukuba angacaphuki kuyise. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, unomsindo ngoyise.

Kukho isigqebelo apho esidlalwayo.

Ngaba ubuthandabuza malunga nabalingisi kunye nabenzi beefilimu abangachazanga njenge-gay ebalisa ibali lakho?

Ngokuqinisekileyo. Ndicinga ukuba bendilumkile ekuqaleni. Kodwa nam ndandingumzobi onzima kwaye ndandifana, Owu, thixo wam, imali! Ndingayifumana imali! Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, andifuni ukuthengisa. UJoel undivile. Sinyanisekile kwasekuqaleni. Mna: Kutheni usenza lento? Ndimbhalele olu xwebhu luphambeneyo lwamaphepha amane kumelo lwe-LGBTQ, kwaye bendifana, ukuba awenzi nzame zokholo zokuqesha abantu abaninzi be-LGBTQ ngaphambili nangasemva kwekhamera emva koko andinakuyixhasa le nto. Wenza njalo. Xa wawusetelwe kwakucace kakhulu. Ndicinga ukuba wayesazi ukuba wayephethe inqanawa, kodwa yayingelo bali lakhe. Kodwa wayesazi nesihlwele ukuba uzama ukuguqula. Ngaba bazali bajikeleze aba bantwana bangamampunge abangenayo indlela yokuphuma kwezi dolophu. Sizama ukufumana abantu abaninzi kangangoko sinako abo bajikeleze aba bantwana balelikratshi ukuba babe ngamadlelane, kwaye loo nto inzima ngenene ukuyenza.

Uziva njani ngendlela unyango lokuguqula ubufanasini luboniswe kwinkcubeko edumileyo? Ingaba kwenzeka njani Inkwenkwana icinyiwe yanele inkanunu eneefilimu ezinje Kodwa ndinguCheerleader kwaye kulo nyaka Ukucwangciswa kweCameron Post ?

Ukuqala kwam ukubuya kunyango lokuguqula, isithandwa sam ngelo xesha sandenza ukuba ndibukele Kodwa ndinguCheerleader . Ukuphendula kwam okokuqala ngumsindo! Le ayisiyiyo. Ayilunganga. Kodwa, ewe, ndiyayithanda ngoku.

Ndicinga ukuba nangokubonakaliswa kwebali elinjengeli, kuya kufuneka ube nokuphindaphindwa kwamabali. Ndiyakuthanda oko ICameron Post ngaphezulu kwisithethe se Kodwa ndinguCheerleader kwaye inezinto ezimangalisayo. Ndicinga ukuba yeyona bhanyabhanya kakhulu, ngokucacileyo. Ivela kumlawuli we-queer kwaye unombono omkhulu kakhulu apho. Nam ndiyayithanda lonto Inkwenkwana icinyiwe , Ukusuka kwinto endiyivileyo kubasindileyo, sesona sichanekileyo sonyango lokuguqula ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Ngenxa yeso sizathu, kubangela abantu. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba izokuma uvavanyo lwexesha. Iya kuba luxwebhu abantu abanokulujonga bathi, Luchanekile ngenene! Ndiyathanda ukuba sobabini la mabali ngonyaka omnye. Ngokwenyani ndandingumcebisi Ukucwangciswa . Ndadibana noDesiree [Akhavan, owayekhokela ifilimu] kunye noChloë [uGrace Moretz, odlala indima kuyo] ndabanika incwadi yam, ke ndiyathanda ukucinga ukuba bazise idrama engakumbi ngenxa yalonto.

Ndicinga ukuba kuyamangalisa ukuba unyango lokuguqula ekugqibeleni luya kuba sisihloko esiqhelekileyo. Andifuni mntu oza kuze eze kum kwakhona kwaye abe njengaye, andikholelwa ukuba oku kuyenzeka! Andizange ndiyazi ngayo! Ndifuna wonke umntu azi.

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