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Ngesizathu esithile, kubonakala ngathi kukho ipesenti ethile yabantu abaxutywe ziintsapho ezinkulu, utsho IiBates UMvelisi oLawulayo uMatewu Hightower. Ndicinga ukuba kungenxa yokuba abantu banomdla wokubona ukuba isebenza njani nabo bonke aba bantu bahlala kunye. Ndiyathetha, ndinabantwana ababini kuphela kwaye loo nto yanele kum, ngoko ke i-19 kubo ibonakala iyinto ehlekisayo, kodwa ke ubona le ntsapho ikunye kwaye awunakuyeka ukubukela bonke aba bantu benxibelelana.
Ngelixa inkolo idlala into kolu ngcelele. ayisiyonto igqithileyo, utsho uTimothy Kuryak, usekela-Mongameli oPhezulu weNkqubo engabhalwanga kwi-UP TV. Yindawo ebalulekileyo yokuba ngubani kodwa asihlali kuwo. Kukho ukuthandaza kumboniso kodwa hayi kakhulu. Besingazukubonisa loo nto. Oko kuya kuba kukusika icandelo elibaluleke kakhulu kubomi bemihla ngemihla yosapho.
Kulabo banokubhala nje uthotho ngenxa yenxalenye yenkolo, benza impazamo, utshilo uHightower. Ukuba abantu bayayenza loo nto ndicinga ukuba baphoswa ngumyalezo omkhulu. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubenenkolo ukuze ubone izibonelelo zendlela olu sapho oluphathana ngayo kwaye siluluntu olunokufunda okuninzi kuloo nto.
U-Hightower uyavuma ukuba wayemangalisiwe sisibonelelo esithile esifihliweyo somthandazo wosapho wemihla ngemihla. Kuyathakazelisa ukuqonda ukuba ngokuthetha izinto ngokuvakalayo- yintoni ebenza bonwabe, yintoni abakhathazekileyo ngayo - ibagcina bonke kwiphepha elinye. Ngenxa yokuba bayivakalisile ngokuvakalayo, bayazi ukuba bajolise phi kwaye loluphi ulwalathiso ekufuneka beluthathe. Ibonisa ukuba le yindlela abanxibelelana ngayo kwaye banonxibelelwano olukhulu kakhulu kusapho olukhulu kangako. Yinto eyayingaqhelekanga kum kwaye yayivula amehlo ngokwenene xa ndiqala ukuqaphela ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Ndicinga ukuba uninzi lweentsapho lunokusebenzisa lo ngumzekelo wendlela yokusebenza kunye, nokuba loluphi na usapho lwakho nokuba loluphi na uhlobo lweenkolelo zakho.
Awungekhe uthethe ngentsapho yakwaBates ngaphandle kokuzisa enye usapho olukhulu, leyo ucinga ukuba besithetha ngayo ekuqaleni kwesi siqwenga-i-Duggars. Kutshanje kutyhilwe ukuba unyana omkhulu ka-Duggar, uJosh, wavuma ukuba wayehlukumeza amantombazana amancinci, ukukopela umfazi kunye nokuba nomlutha we-porn.
Xa ubuzwa ukuba aphawule ngale nto, wathi uHightower, ndiyaqonda ukuba kuya kufuneka ubuze malunga naloo nto kuba yinto le ithethwa luluntu, andiqinisekanga ukuba ndiza kuphendula njani ngaphandle kokuthi, ewe, kukho ukufana phakathi Iintsapho, kodwa awungekhe uzithelekise kunye njengokuba ungenako ukuthelekisa ezinye iintsapho ezimbini. Bahluke kakhulu omnye komnye ngeendlela ezininzi, ezininzi, kwaye ndicinga ukuba kuko konke okufuneka kuthethwe ngale nto.
NgamaBates brood, njengayo nayiphi na usapho olukhulu, kubonakala ngathi kukho imixholo embalwa eqhelekileyo ethi ivele ixesha nexesha-imitshato kunye neentsana. Ngelixa ukuhamba ngebhayisikile rhoqo kwezi ziganeko zobomi kunokubonakala ngathi kuyaphindaphindwa, uHightower uthi ayisiyiyo imeko apha. Ewe, sinonxibelelwano oluninzi, imitshato, ukwazisa abantwana kunye neentsana, kodwa, eyona nto injalo, zonke ezi zinto zahluke kakhulu kuxhomekeke kubadlali abaphambili. Umtshato ka-Erin wahluke kakhulu kumtshato kaMichaella. Ngelixa bonke bekwintsapho enye, kuyanyanzeleka ukuba babone indlela eyahlukileyo nganye nganye eza ngayo eyenzekayo ebomini bayo.
Njengokuba ixesha lihamba, uHightower uthi elona candelo linzima lenkqubo yemveliso liqhubeka nokufumana umceli mngeni-ucwangciso. Xa saqala umboniso bonke bahlala endlwini enye kodwa njengoko abantwana abadala befuduka, njengoMichaella baya eChicago naseAlyssa eFlorida, kuya kusiba nzima kwaye kunzima ukuhambisana nabo bonke. Kodwa, asifuni ukuyeka ukubonisa ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni kubo kuba bemkile. Basese yinxalenye yeli bali liqhubekayo likhulu eli silibalisayo.
Elinye lawona macandelo abalulekileyo kuthotho ayingomntu okanye indawo; yinto - into ebhedayo ebomvu. Isofa enemibala kulapho amalungu osapho athetha ngqo nabaphulaphuli malunga nendlela abavakalelwa ngayo malunga nokuqhubekayo ebomini babo, kwaye bahlala bekwenza ngokwamaqela. Into entle kukuba, akukho namnye kubo ozinqandayo xa besesofeni, utsho uHightower. Banokuhlekisa ngokwenyani kwaye banike omnye nomnye ixesha elinzima, okanye banokuba serious, kodwa nokuba yintoni, bahlala bekulungele ukuthetha iingqondo zabo. Oko kufuna ukuthembela okukhulu. Luhlobo oluhlaziyayo ngokwenene ukubona abantakwenu bephathana njengabantakwabo kodwa nangentlonipho.
UKuryak uyavuma ukuba xa wayeqala ukubukela lo mboniso waziva exakekile linani labantu lokugcina umkhondo, kodwa uthi wakhawuleza wafunda ukuba akukho nzima ukuchonga iBates enye kwenye kuba nganye yazo yahluke kakhulu. Kubonakala ngathi kunamagama amaninzi ekufuneka uwakhumbule kodwa ndicinga ukuba eyona nto inomtsalane kukuba ngamnye wabo ngumntu kwaye uyabona ukuba ngamnye kubo ulandela indlela yakhe-uZach unyanzeliso lomthetho, uNathan usebenza Umqhubi wenqwelomoya, uMichaella yi-EMT, uLawson yimvumi. Kumnandi ukubabukela belandela into abayifunayo. Ewe, bayintsapho, kodwa kuhle kakhulu ukubukela eli qela lolutsha olonwabisayo ukuba ngabantu abadala kwaye baphumeze amaphupha abo. Ndicinga ukuba lo mbandela woluhlu uthanda kakhulu kubabukeli bethu.
Ababukeli abanakujonga ngaphaya kwemiboniso yokuvula ukuze baqonde oku, utsho uKuryak. Bonke bayatsiba kwitrampolini kwaye ngamnye kubo utsibela kwisakhelo esinegama labo kwiscreen kwaye into enomdla kukuba xa ubukele uya kubona ukuba ngamnye utsibela kwisakhelo ngokwahlukileyo. Abazange bayalelwe ukuba benze njalo. Ibonisa nje ukuba umntu ngamnye unobuntu bakhe.
Eyona nto iphambili, utsho uKuryak. Ngaba oku luthotho lweemvakalelo; kuzo zonke izizathu ezifanelekileyo. Zininzi iinkqubo apho abantu bazibandakanya khona kwaye abalunganga kwabanye. Aba bantu bonke babakhathalele ngokwenene. Uya kuhleka nabo, kwaye uya kulila nabo malunga nezinto esinokuthi sonke sinxulumane nazo. Yiloo nto eyenza le TV ilungileyo.
Kungenxa yokuba abantwana bakaBates baneminyaka yobudala ukusuka kwi-27 ukuya kwi-4, uHightower uthi kunamabali amaninzi amele ukuwathetha kwaye la manqaku anokuhlala iminyaka. Umfazi wam uzokhalakatya xa ndithetha le nto, uyahleka, kodwa andiboni oku kuphela nangaliphi na ixesha kungekudala. Njengokuba abantwana bekhula kwaye ubomi babo busanda kukho inani elingenasiphelo lamanqaku amabali anomdla kubaphulaphuli. Ezincinci ziyathandeka; kumnandi nje ukubabukela betshintsha kwaye bekhula. Kwaye, masingakulibali ngesizukulwana sesibini ngokunjalo. Ewe, oku kungaqhubeka ixesha elide, elide.
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