Ukuthembela kwisisa-inokuba yinto edidayo.Imifanekiso kaGetty Ukucaphula uF. Scott Fitzgerald omkhulu, uBomi buqala kwakhona xa buqalisa ukuwa. Ngekwindla apha, sithi ndlela-ntle kwimpelaveki esiyichithe elunxwemeni kunye nobugcisa basemva kwemini, kwaye sizise ixesha lemarathon, kokubini ngokoqobo nangokomfuziselo. Iikhalenda ziqala ukufana neepuzzle zeSudoku ngaphezu kwezixhobo zokucwangcisa. Ixesha lasimahla (misa ikhefu lokuhleka) amaxesha ali-10 kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya nakwimidlalo yeTV, onke amaziko enkcubeko asekuhlaleni afuna ukuhoywa, hleze silibale abahlobo bethu, abazimemo zabo zokumakisha kwimicimbi yabo Iikhalenda ezipakishiweyo ziyaqokelela. Xa esinye sezo zimemo sisiya kwindawo yakho yokuqala engenzi nzuzo (engenakuphepheka, kuba kukho imibutho efanelekileyo ngaphandle kunokuba ungangcangcazelisa intonga kuyo), into yokugqibela ekufuneka uyenzile kukuhlala phantsi kwiseshoni yokufunda. Ke nantsi into ekhawulezayo yokuhamba kwayo yonke into ekufuneka uyazi ukuba ulungele umbhiyozo wokuqala wokuxhasa uthando.
Umhlobo wandimema ukuba ndithathe esinye sezihlalo kwitafile yegalala awayeyithengile. Yintoni endimele ndiyazi malunga nesizathu esingasemva kwegala ngaphambi kokuba ndifike?
Nangona zinokuba zezona zinto zibalaseleyo, itafile yakho ye-gala iya kunika okungaphezulu kune-champagne kunye nokutya okumnandi. Eli inokuba lithuba lakho lokwandisa uthungelwano lwakho lobungcali kwaye ufunde malunga noluntu lwakho, ukuze uziqhelanise nombutho kancinci kwangethuba ukwazisa amava akho epati. Xa undwendwe oluhleli ecaleni kwakho luzama ukwaphula umkhenkce ngokubuza malunga nomdla wakho kumbutho, xhobisa uphendule le mibuzo mithathu: Uyintoni kanye kanye lo msitho? Loluphi uhlobo lwefuthe elenziwa ngumbutho? Ziya ngaphi iimali eziqokelelweyo?
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Yeyiphi inkqubo efanelekileyo yokunikela ngemali kumsitho ukuba ndiya kwigala njengendwendwe letafile?
Akukho sidingo sokukhusela incwadi yakho yokutshekisha kwaye usebenze xa umntu owenza inkxaso-mali engena kwibhokisi yakho yebhokisi yexesha lokuhlala. Itafile ye-gala yomphathi wakho igubungela iindleko zentloko nganye yabo bonke abakhoyo. Ngaphandle kokuba kwenziwe amalungiselelo angaphambili okuba uthenge isihlalo, iindwendwe ezimenywe ngumamkeli wetheyibhile akufuneki zihlawule iindleko zeetikiti zazo etafileni.
Umlawuli ongenzi nzuzo unokucela igalelo kwifandesi okanye isibheno esinyanzelekileyo esongelwe kwintetho, kodwa bayazi ukuba uninzi lwengeniso yabo bayifumene nangona itafile okanye ukuthengiswa kwetikiti, ke nasiphi na isicelo somntu esiya kuthi sincinci. Okwangoku, kutheni unganikeli ngento onokuthi uyenze kwisizathu esihle, ukuba ayililo ithuba lokuhamba ngenqanawa yetropiki ezimbini?
Ngaba ndivumelekile ukunxibelelana nomsitho we-gala-ngaba ndifanele ndizise amakhadi am eshishini?
Ngokufutshane — ewe. Icandelo lezoBugcisa neNkcubeko elingenzi nzuzo li I-166 yezigidigidi zoshishino eUnited States. Lishishini eli. Kodwa njengokuba kunjalo kuso nasiphi na isicwangciso seshishini, ixesha yinto yonke. Cwangcisa ukwenza iintshayelelo ezininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngexesha le-cocktail, ukuze ungaphazamisi iintetho ezisesikweni zangokuhlwa, okanye uphazamise injongo yesisa ngexesha lesidlo sangokuhlwa. Ngeedola ezili-166 zeedola emgceni, unokuqiniseka ukuba abalawuli beminyhadala banoluhlu lweendwendwe ezantsi kwisayensi, ke zive ukhululekile ukuphakamisa i-finesse yakho yenethiwekhi kwaye ubonisane nabo ekubekweni kwetafile yakho ngaphambi kwegala yengxoxo yesidlo sangokuhlwa. Abakwazi ukuveza yonke into, kodwa banakho ukukunika iingcebiso ezimbalwa.
Nditya ukutya okuthintelayo. Yeyiphi indlela echanekileyo yokunxibelelana noku kubapheki be-gala ngaphandle kokubangela ingxaki?
Oku kulungile ngokupheleleyo, kwaye enyanisweni, kulindeleke. Ukuba unako, yazisa umbutho kwangaphambili ukuze ungabambeki ngokutya okungamanzi kokutya okunee-cocktails. Kulabo bafumene isimemo sokugqibela, uDebra Overholt, umcwangcisi wemisitho ozimeleyo kunye nomphathi wangaphambili wokutya eRitz-Carlton eWashington DC babelane ngemfihlo yeshishini. Abapheki bacwangcisa kwangaphambili ukuthintela ukutya, kwaye balungiselele i-vegan ethuleyo okanye ukutya kwemifuno ukuphendula malunga neepesenti ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-5 zeendwendwe. Qiniseka nje ukuba ubamba enye ngaphambi kokuba abanye oogxa bakho bokutya benze.
Nguwuphi umahluko phakathi kwecocktail kunye nesinxibo esimnyama? Ngaba kubalulekile ukuba ndinxibe ntoni?
Manenekazi, kube kanye, ikhabethe lakho kulula. Ngoku lithuba lakho lokuphila ngaphandle kwePippa Middleton mzuzu kwisinxibo sesilika esisezantsi. Kodwa ukuba iigawuni ayisosimbo sakho, unokufumana i-Meghan Markle vibe yakho kwinto engaphantsi kwaye ilungiselelwe ngakumbi. Xa ubusuku bufika, okoko nje unxibe into elingana nenye kwimigca yokusemandleni akho, ulungile gala.
Madoda, iqhina elimnyama alithethi ukuba kufuneka ubonakalise uJay Gatsby. Ukuba uziva unyanzelekile ukuba unike idyasi yakho kunye nemisila, yiya kuyo, umdlalo wakudala. Ukuba akunjalo, yiza nje uxhobele ibhatyi kunye neqhina.
Ngaba kuya kufuneka ndibambelele kumxholo wegala?
Ukunamathela kumxholo ngokuqinisekileyo akuyomfuneko. Ngapha koko, oku kuhlala kubhekisa ngakumbi kwi-décor iyonke kunye ne-vibe yomsitho. Kodwa ukuba sele unayo U-Ingrid Bergman jonga egumbini lakho, usenokuyikhuphela loo gala iphefumlelweyo yiCasablanca. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ukhubekile malunga nokuba ungayiniki i-flamingo-fascinator yakho kwi-tropical soirée yakho, kwaye uyazi ukuba uza kuzimasa kwitafile yomphathi wakho omtsha, kungangcono ukuba uyidlale ngokukhuselekileyo. Xa uphononongo lwakho lonyaka lujikeleza, usenokungafuni ukuba loo nto ibe yingcinga ehlala ihleli.
Ngaba kukrwada ukushiya i-gala kwangoko kakhulu, okanye ngaba ndifumana amanqaku ngokubonisa nje?
Ewe nohayi. Ngokuvakalayo ukuphuma kwigumbi embindini wentetho ehambayo malunga nokukhuthaza ubugcisa kukrwada. Ngaphandle koko, ungaziva unyanzelekile ukuba uhlale kude kube lixesha lomdaniso wobusuku. Ukungenzi nzuzo kuyakuvuyela ukufumana inkxaso yakho nangaliphi na ixesha ngokuhlwa. Xa unako, yazisa nje umlawuli womsitho kwangaphambili ukuba ucwangcisa ukuya kwiyure yecocktail, ukuze bakwazi ukuzihlengahlengisa ngokufanelekileyo.
Andisithandi isihlalo sam. Ndingalitshintsha ikhadi lam lendawo?
Bambelela ngokuqinileyo. Abalawuli beminyhadala ngokuqinisekileyo basebenzise isicwangciso-qhinga esikhulu ekukhetheni indawo yokuhlala ukukhuthaza incoko enesiqhamo okanye ukuqhubela phambili kwesicwangciso esiliqili sonyuso mali. Iitshathi zokuhlala zikwaluncedo kubasebenzi bendawo kunye nabaphekela ukutya, abathi bahambise ukutya okuthile kunye nenkonzo ngokweendawo zokuhlala. (Jonga umbuzo malunga nokutya: ukuba ufuna isidlo esithile, uya kufuna ukuhlala phantsi apho lowo unokutyayo angakufumana khona).
Into ebonakala ngathi lulungiso lomzuzu inokugqibela iphazamisa ukuhamba kwetafile yonke. Ungcono kakhulu ngokulinda de kugqitywe isidlo sangokuhlwa. Emva koko, zive ukhululekile ukuhamba malunga nomsitho. Ngoxa usenza njalo, wonwabe! Eli liqela, emva kwayo yonke loo nto.
