U-Lena Dunham njengo-Hannah Horvath.UCraig Blankenhorn / HBO Ndinesivumo esibi ekufuneka ndisenzile: Ndiyabukela Amantombazana . Andisithandi isiqephu ngasinye, kwaye andisoloko ndiyibukela mhla isasaza, kodwa ikwisisitali esithobekileyo semiboniso eli-10 endiyibukelayo ixesha ngalinye (kunye nemali eyahlukileyo eyahlukileyo, njengeSyfy's Umba omnyama , ukuba icace).
Xa umboniso wawuqala ukuphuma, yayingumhlobo wam uMichael (oyindoda, ohlekisayo) owayevuya kakhulu ngawo. Ngoku, kukho inani elipheleleyo labantu ababini endibaziyo abavuma ukubukela kwaye bayithande: omnye umntu ohlekisayo / umbhali endimaziyo kunye nomhlobo oye kwikholeji noLena Dunham.
Phakathi kwabahlobo bam ababhinqileyo ukwamkelwa okuvulekileyo ekubukeni imihlaba yemiboniso njengesiqhelo sokungcatsha isini. Izichaso zihlala zigxila kwindlela uHana Horvath angafani ngayo, indlela engekhoyo ngayo umboniso, okanye ilungelo labalinganiswa. Xa umothuko wokuthandana kwam uphela, ndihlala ndifumana isiqinisekiso sokuba kulungile, sonke sinomboniso weTV okonwabisayo nesibukeleyo.
Nantsi into. Nangona kungekho ILiwa okanye Imidlalo yeethrone , Eneneni andiziva ndinetyala lokuyibukela kwaye andinakucinga ngesizathu-sokugcina i-misogyny-kutheni kuthandwa ligazi kangaka ukuyichaza.
Jonga nje izimvo kutshanje INew York Times ibali ujonge ntoni Amantombazana ugqibile (hayi) ngobusuku bonyaka wokuqala wesithandathu kunye nowokugqibela, kwaye uza kubona ukuba yintoni enokudibanisa iRustbelt yeTrust kunye neendawo ezikhuselekileyo zolambile ezidolophini: uyacekiseka kulo mboniso.
Nantsi into etshitshisayo yamagqabantshintshi:
Lo mboniso wanika umbono ombi kunye engachanekanga abaselula. Inkululeko, abantu bezizwe ngezizwe kwaye ndingakucaphukela ukuhlala naphi na apho abalinganiswa bayo bajonga khona.
Yintoni ukuthanda izinto kwe-NYT ngalo mboniso usemagqagaleni kunye nombhali oxineneyo, ozimilisileyo?
Khange ndikwazi ukuyimela kuba abalinganiswa bebesisiyatha esingakholelekiyo kwaye benesigwebo esoyikeka [sic]. Yayingahlekisi. Kwakungekho nyani ebomini. Kwakungekho mnandi. Kwakulihlazo nje.
Andivumi.
Ndiza kuwushiya umbuzo onameva wokwahluka ecaleni (nangona, njenge Amaxesha utshilo uRebecca Traister kwiminyaka eyadlulayo ukuba kukho imiboniso emininzi ebonisa abantu abamhlophe abakumgangatho ophakathi abangazange baphakamise nelinye). Endaweni yoko masiqwalasele kuqala ngokungafaniyo. Xa ndicinga ngabalinganiswa endibathandayo kumdlalo kamabonwakude, ukufana ... akukho ndawo. Abadlali be Kusoloko kunelanga ePhiladelphia liqela (lonke elimhlophe!) Iinxila, ezihlala zixhaphaza abanye ukuze zizuze kwaye zonakalise ubomi. URick kunye noMorty? Umntu omnye oyintloko, kwakhona, ulikhoboka lotywala elixhaphazayo, kunye nezinye ii-brainwaves ezingacacanga ukuze zizifihle ezo zabantu abakrelekrele ngakumbi. Nokuba ku ILiwa U-Liz Lemon utshisa i-accountant ekhutheleyo ukuze abambe isoka lakhe kwaye athi umyeni wakhe ubhubhile ukuze aphume kubulungu bokuzivocavoca.
Andikaze ndibabone abantu abathandekayo benomdla kakhulu kwaye ndicinga ukuba, mhlawumbi, ukuba uHannah Horvath ubonakala engonelanga ngokwaneleyo kwiimfuno zabanye kwiscreen, inokuba inento yokwenza nawe .. Ngokungonwabi kwakho ngabantu abancinci abaphumeleleyo, abantu ababhinqileyo abazenzekelayo kunye nenyaniso yokuba i-narcissism ayazi mida: abo bangathandekiyo kwindibano nabo bayacinezeleka.
Kodwa uthini ngentlawulo leyo Amantombazana akukho ngqiqweni? Abafazi abancinci kwisiXeko saseNew York abakho konke ngokungathandekiyo bejolise kwiinjongo ezilahlekileyo ngelixa bezulazula kubudlelwane obonakeleyo bazo zonke iintlobo nokusela kunye nokufaka indlela yabo ekulibeleni okanye kwintengiselwano yencwadi (endikubheja yona yi- $ 5 yile nto iza ngexesha lesithandathu likaHana ). Ngama-interstitials kwiiHamptons. Ewe, ndiyaxolisa, kodwa emva kweminyaka eyi-10 eNew York, ezisixhenxe kubo kwi-20 yam, amava am abonisa ukuba kunjalo phantse yinyani ngokupheleleyo . Wakhe wayithatha ipuli ye-uber eWilliamsburg? Yenza loo nto. Ndithembe, iincoko phakathi kwewaka leminyaka (amadoda nabafazi, ukuqiniseka) ziya zisiba mbi kakhulu kunaleyo ikhoyo Amantombazana . Ngaba uyigcina imali yakho yeCoachella ujonge? Ngaba isolly isemthethweni ngoku? Le yeyam intandokazi Inja ye-Instagram! Konke kusekwe enyanisweni, kwaye andithathi moto rhoqo.
Kwakhona, ndicinga ukuba mhlawumbi ukuba eli (ngokuqinisekileyo libaxekile) ilizwe lokuzama, laqhekeka, lalingashukumi-ngamashumi amabini anesigwebo esibi sikuphosa, uphika malunga nokuba isiXeko saseNew York besinjani kade, okanye khange ndibekho apha. Ngaba ndiyamazi umntu ochithe i-275 yeedola kwizihlangu kodwa afanelekele iMedicaid? Ewe. Umntu ochitha i-400 yeedola ngenyanga kwentsangu kwaye aqikelele ukuba usela malunga neebhiya ezili-120 ngenyanga? Ewe. Umntu oqokelele i-13,000 yeedola kumakhadi etyala kugqirha-uyokuthenga i-Adderall? Ewe! Ndiyabathanda aba bantu, kwaye ngendlela, bonke bangabaphumeleleyo kwiingcali kwiinkcubeko eziphezulu zenkcubeko.
Uyazi ukuba yintoni kakhulu yinyani? I-shitbox Marnie wayehlala kuyo kunye nobude bomtshato wakhe. Isoka lomchweli eliba ngumdlali weBroadway (ndinqwenela ukuba bekungeyonyani, kodwa oku kuyenzeka). Ukuzalwa ekhaya ngokungacetyiswanga. I-OCD ekhubazekileyo ihlupha umntu ongaqinisekanga ukuba kufuneka iqhubeke nokubhala izincoko zobuqu. Konke oku kusenzeka ngeenxa zonke kuthi.
Okokugqibela kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kungaphelelanga apho, siya kufaneleka. Ewe, abalinganiswa banelungelo. Bacinga ukuba umhlaba kufuneka ube nobulungisa kwaye ulungile kwaye banetalente kwaye baya kuthi ekugqibeleni bafumane iindawo zabo kuwo. Kule ntlawulo, ndinetyala elinye kuphela: ayisiyiyo le nto sixelela abantu ukuba bacinge eMelika? Kuvakala ukuba ilungelo lilungelo eliphambili le-psychology xa uyindoda esebenza kwishishini-ungayi jonganga umongameli wethu-kodwa umbi xa ungumfazi omncinci, ozithembileyo ofuna ukusebenza kubugcisa.
Mhlawumbi eyona nto iphazamisayo yinto yokuba ukunganyanzelekanga okuthambileyo kunyanzelekile ukuba kubethelelwe Amantombazana kubonakala kubonakala kakhulu phakathi kwabasetyhini. Amadoda endiwaziyo anokuginya ukuba bendiya kuyibukela, rhoqo, kwaye enye iyayikhuthaza. Ukuphendula kwabasetyhini kugqithise kakhulu, ngenxa yezizathu ezingaziwayo.
Ngapha koko, ngesizini yokuqala yale mpelaveki, bendicinga ukuba ndiza kuphuma njengo Amantombazana umbukeli. Ukuphosa nje ivoti yam, ewe, abantu abancinci baseNew York bayazidla, bayabhanxa, kwaye abanyanisekileyo. Iicaricature zazo, rhoqo. Mhlawumbi nje abayithandi ukukhunjuzwa loo nto ngumntu omncinci, ophumeleleyo, osisityebi ngoku nowasetyhini. Uxolo?
