Intombazana encinci ityhalwa yinkwenkwe ebaleni lokudlala kwaye ixelelwe ukuba inuka ngathi yinja poo. Intombazana encinci elilayo ibalekela kunina, osula ubuso kwaye achaze ukuba inkwenkwana ikwenzile oko kuba, enyanisweni, iyamthanda. Intombazana encinci ishwabanisa impumlo ethandekayo kwaye ijonge esibhakabhakeni ngelixa ilizwi liphuma kuNks.Goodwin intones ngokuphawulekayo, Esi sisiqalo sengxaki yethu. Sonke sicwangcisiwe ukuba sikholelwe ukuba ukuba umntu wenza njengejerk iyonke, oko kuthetha ukuba uyakuthanda.
Kwaye-ha! -Olu luhlobo oluhlekisayo kuba luhlobo lwenene, akunjalo? (Kwabo bazibuza, impendulo ngu-ewe kunye no kwaye kuyaxhomekeka.) Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngumhlaba ohanjwe kakuhle-kwaye andithethi nokuzikisa iinkumbulo Isini kunye neSixeko , owaqala ukuyila i-quip ayisiyiyo kuwe (ngephanyazo ifilosofi ye-Occam's Razor ye-lovelorn) kwaye waphefumlela incwadi ethengiswa kakhulu ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwale filimu. Cinga ngee-comedies zothando ezingaphambi kwayo ezazinemithetho elukhuni kwaye ekhawulezayo kule migca inye: indoda leyo ibisoloko isongwa ngumfazi kuyo yonke into enye neyesibini iba yindoda engenakuphila ngaphandle kwayo ngesenzo sesithathu. Umhlobo ka-platonic ongazange wamthathela ingqalelo into yokuthandana, phofu, liqabane lakho lomphefumlo. Ezona ndawo ziphambili ze-cads ziya kulunga ngokungaginyisi mathe ukuba unokuhlala nje imizuzu engama-90. Ngaba ezi zinto zihlala zenzeka ebomini bokwenyani? Hayi! Kodwa uyazi ntoni? Yintoni? Kuba, ngapha koko, ziifilimu nje kwaye, ngaphandle koko, kunjalo EyoMdumba . Kwaye ezi bhanyabhanya zikwenza wonwabe. ( Isaziso seeveki ezimbini , sijonge kuwe.)
Ke, xa sele kuthethwa njalo, ndingayichaza njani imvakalelo yomsindo endandiyibambe kamhlophe ngesihlalo sam sokuphela Akayonto nje engena kuwe ? Ngokwahlukileyo kwezona comedies zothando-ezo zikuthumela udikibala ekhaya uneengcinga zokumanga okokuqala kunye nemontage yakho yabucala yokulwa ipeyinti ye-slo-mo kwindlu yakho yokuqala ekwabelwana ngayo, uleqa iikreyifishi okanye urhuqa umthi weKrisimesi ezantsi kwesitalato esenziwe ngamatye eWest Village ( Umntu othile ufuna umntwana, Kuyabanda ngaphandle!) - le bhanyabhanya ngokunyanisekileyo yandenza andafuna ukuphinda ndithandane kwakhona. Uhlobo lwandenza andifuni ukuba ngumfazi! Yima, uyikrweqe loo nto. Uhlobo lwento endenze andafuna ukuba lilungu loluntu luphela.
UKUYA UKUGQIBELA KWAKHULU? Ngaba imveliso ekhulayo yokuxhalaba kwe-zeitgeistian kunye nokungatshati kwangoku? Mhlawumbi kunjalo. Kodwa masiyiqhekeze nakanjani, kuba ngokungafaniyo nemovie engalunganga ethe ngqo kwi-la Uthando lukaGugu , le filimu akukho lula ukuyikhupha.
Akayonto nje engena kuwe yinto ecekeceke kakhulu kwaye inesidima kunendlela ohlekisa ngayo egadini, kuba yona phantse ifumana into eyinyani kwaye imnyama ngabantu: nokuba ezona zibalaseleyo kuthi zinokuziphatha njani ngokwenene kakubi. Emva kwendawo yokudlala, njengoko siza kwazi iseti edibeneyo yeziqabane kunye nee-singletons, umfazi uya kumhla wokuqala kunyeumfana, kwaye uhamba ecinga ukuba ihambe kakuhle, ngelixa indoda isithi iya ekhaya ibize intombazana ukuba inguye ngokwenene unomdla kuyo. Le ntombazana ityhola indoda etshatileyo, kodwa xa i-ego yayo ifuna ukubethwa, iyayikhonkotha indoda ebuyela umva, engayikhathalelanga intombazana awayehamba nayo nomhla. Lonke olo hlobo lwe-sucks, kodwa emva koko kwakhona, kunjalo ke ngabantu. Ndazibuza, ingaba Akayonto nje engena kuwe ube luhlobo lwefilimu eyothusayo-yokwenyani enxibe iimpahla ezihlekisayo kwi la Ukwahlukana ?
Awu, impendulo nguhayi, kuba ngawo onke amathuba okubonisa ukungcola okungcolileyo kwazo zonke izinto esinazo ngokudibeneyo zothando, ifilimu iyaziphambanisa kwaye inyathele kumhlaba okhuselekileyo kunye nelanga. (Sukugqiba ukuwufunda lo mhlathi ukuba awufuni ukwazi ezinye zeziphelo ezimnandi zale vidiyo!) Thatha, umzekelo, ibali likaBeth noNeil, abathi ekuqaleni kwebhanyabhanya bebonwabile ukuthandana isixhenxe iminyaka. Bazibophezele kwaye bayathandana, kodwa xa udade kaBeth etshata, uphumela ngaphandle malunga nokusilela kwabo emtshatweni, nangona uNeil engomnye wabo bantu bazimisele kakhulu kwisihloko sokuba kutheni engakholelwa emtshatweni. Yinyani! Ngokukrakra. Ngokunjalo nokuzikhethela kwakhe, nto leyo emkhuthazayo ukuba ahlukane naye. Emva kwexesha, uyabonakala xa emfuna kakhulu kwaye yena (aha!) Uyaqonda ukuba akenzi njalo ndifuna ukutshata ukuba wonwabile kwaye umxelela ukuba, enyanisweni, ebengumyeni kuye kunamadoda amaninzi awaziyo.
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