Eyona Iincwadi 'KuSiri Ngothando' Umbhali ubuya uMlilo: Incwadi 'ayibhalelwanga abaphulaphuli abazenzekelayo'

'KuSiri Ngothando' Umbhali ubuya uMlilo: Incwadi 'ayibhalelwanga abaphulaphuli abazenzekelayo'

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Iziqwenga ze-Puzzle zihlala zisetyenziselwa ukufuzisela abantu abane-autism njengoGus Newman, umxholo othi 'KuSiri Ngothando.'UTayma Shaya / Flickr Creative Commons



Oko yakhululwa ngo-Agasti, kaJudith Newman KuSiri Ngothando kuye kwabuliswa kunye udumo olukhulu kwaye Ukuvunywa kosaziwayo . Unyana kaNewman uGus une-autism, kwaye wafunda ukunxibelelana nabanye ngeencoko kunye nomncedisi ka-Apple.

Kodwa imemo, leyo nguJon Stewart kubizwe ethembekile kwaye ikhanyisile, inabagxeki abaninzi nayo-oko kukuthi, abanye abantu abane-autism.

Abantu abaninzi kwi-autism spectrum baye bagxeka uNewman kwi-Twitter besebenzisa i-hashtag #BoycottToSiri . Banga ukuba ngokungakhathali utyhila iinkcukacha ngobomi bukaGus

UMarie Porter, umbhali wencwadi yokupheka ochonga njenge #ActualAutistic kwi-Twitter bio yakhe, wabeka iingxaki zakhe KuSiri Ngothando kwithuba elide tweetstorm .

Yiba nomfanekiso wento enokwenzeka ukuba umntu usasaza iphepha elinolwazi oluyimfihlo malunga nawe, ubhala. Imikhwa yakho engamanyala. Ingxoxo yemikhwa yokuhlambela Kukho ingxelo malunga nengoma kaBenny Hill ( Yakety Sax ) ukudlala ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo-kodwa kuphela ukuba ulala ngesondo, kunjalo.

Guqula elo phepha libe li INew York Times incwadi ethengiswa kakhulu kunye nomntu kumama wakho kwaye unoluvo oluthile lobunzima bukaGus, uPorter wabhala.

Elinye inqaku lokuncamathela sisicwangciso sikaNewman sokufuna amandla ezonyango egqwetha kunyana wakhe xa ejika i-18, ukuze abe ne-vasectomy xa kufuneka. UKaelan Rhywiol, umfazi o-autistic onabantwana, wabhala uluvo Ukuxakeka lilinganisa esi sicwangciso nee-eugenics.

Ivakala kum ngokungathi uJudith Newman akakholelwa ukuba ndiyakwazi ukuphatha abantwana bam, ubhale watsho uRhywiol. Njengokuba ndandikwishumi elivisayo, ndandingahlukanga kangako kuGus. Okwangoku, ndilapha, kwaye nangona ndinokungaqwalaselwa njengempumelelo lulindelo lwentlalo, ndiyalawula.

Ndiyifumana le ncwadi, ngegama, inzima, uRhywiol uxelele uMqwalaseli kwi-imeyile elandelayo. Emva kokufunda le ncwadi, kwavakala ngathi uyasicaphukela. Uluthiyile uluntu olune-autistic kuba simxelela ukuba uphosakele.

UNewman uxelele uMbonisi ukuba ufuna amandla egqwetha kunyana wakhe ukuze enze amadinga achaze neempawu zakhe koogqirha. Kodwa akacwangcisi ukuba abulale inzalo.

Andikhathazeki kakhulu ngoku kwaye ndinethemba lokuba ngomakhulu ngenye imini, utshilo. Eso sisiphumo sokukhula konyana wam nokwam.

Ndiyabavela abazukulwana bakhe bexesha elizayo ukuba uza kuba yinkohlakalo kubo njengoko ebenjalo kunyana wakhe, uRhywiol uphikisile.

U-Newman ukwathe izityhilelo malunga nobomi bonyana wakhe ziye zacinywa ngokomlinganiso. Uthe le ncwadi ibandakanya i-anecdote yoqeqesho lwe potty ehlekisayo ukusukela xa wayeneminyaka emithathu uGus. Ihlazo le-porn libhekisa kwisiganeko xa iwele likaGus lajonga imbali yakhe yewebhu kwaye lathi kuyamangalisa ukuba wayengazibukeli iividiyo kunye namanenekazi ase-Asiya.

Ngelixa amabali kaNewman enzelwe ukuba ahlekise, enye ye iimpawu yabantu abane-autism kukuba bacinga ngokoqobo kwaye banobunzima bokuqonda iziqhulo. UNewman wayeyazi le nto kwaye wayibhala ngaloo ndlela ngenjongo.

Le ncwadi ayibhalelwanga abaphulaphuli, utshilo. Yayibhalelwe abazali, abamelwane, abantu abanokuthanda kwaye ngethemba lokuba baya kusebenza nomntu okwi-spectrum.

Kodwa abafundi be-autistic njengoRhywiol bathi uNewman akabaniki ityala elaneleyo.

Ndiyazi ukuba uzama ukwenza ihlaya, kwaye wasilela kakubi kuyo, utshilo uRhywiol. Kukhohlakele. Luhlobo oluhlekisayo olusetyenziswa ngumntu oxhaphaza abanye esikolweni.

UNewman uthe uthatha ukugxeka okwakhayo kwincwadi yakhe ngokungathandabuzekiyo kodwa wayecinga ukuba uninzi lwabantu abanomsindo ngaye babekhupha nje vitriol.

Ndizama kakhulu ukumamela abantu abadala aba-autistic abayifundileyo incwadi yam, utshilo. Andibakhathaleli abantu abasandikhwaza ngokusekwe kubuxoki obusasazwa kwi-Intanethi.

URhywiol uthe oku kukhwaza kunokuba nemfundo ukuba uNewman angahoya.

Abantu abane-Autistic bebephuma ngandlela zonke bezama ukumfundisa emva kwale ncwadi, utshilo uRhywiol. Akamameli.

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