Kwakungafanelekanga ukuba kwenzeke ngale ndlela.
UNeil, oneminyaka engama-39 ubudala, uchithe malunga nesiqingatha sobomi bakhe esebenza njenge-IT. Kule minyaka isixhenxe idlulileyo, wayehlekisa kwinkampani yezobuchwephesha apha esixekweni, esenza uphuhliso lwesoftware, ukujongana nabaxumi kunye nezinye izinto eziye zadika. Kodwa wenza kwaye wagcina imali eninzi; wayenecebo.
Ngo-Meyi, wagqiba kwelokuba lixesha. Wathenga indawo yokuhlala kwi-Upper West Side, eshiya bucala malunga ne-100,000 zeedola. Ngo-Agasti, wayeka umsebenzi. Wayenesabelo mali ubuncinci unyaka ngaphambi kokuba acwangcise malunga nokwenza into eyiyo ye-hypnotherapy-leyo inokubandakanya, kodwa ingaphelelanga apho.
I-Hypnotherapy ithandwa kakhulu kwezi ntsuku, kwimeko apho ungakhange uqaphele-ngakumbi phakathi kweentshayi kunye nabantu abatyebe kakhulu.
Icebo yayikukungena kwi-hypnosis njengentsimi, uNeil wandixelela ngecappuccino eVenus Café kwi-Eighth Avenue ngolwe-Sihlanu wangoku nje, kodwa iinketho nenkampani yakhe azange zihlawule njengoko wayenethemba. Iinwele zakhe zazibethelwa kwindiza ehambelana ngokugqibeleleyo nebhokhwe eqingqiweyo egxininisa ubuso bakhe obude, obunobuhlobo.
Emva kweenyanga ezintandathu zokuvuka emini, esiya ejimini emini kunye neeklabhu ebusuku (nangona ikofu ikukuphela kobubi kuye, watsho), wazinyanzela ukuba athathele ingqalelo imeko yakhe. Kweli nqanaba, ngekhe akwazi ukwenza iintlawulo zakhe zobambiso emva kwehlobo.
Le yindlela awazifumana ekuyo kwiindawo ezifana negumbi lasehotele eQueens awayetyelele kulo phezolo, enxibe imitya yesikhumba. Kwiiveki ezintathu intengiso yakhe inyukile, i-Erotic Hypnotist, njengoko ezibiza yena kwisiza, ebeneminxeba emalunga ne-18 kunye nee-imeyile ezintlanu ezivela kubantu ababonisa umdla kwiseshoni. Iiseshoni ezintathu zeyure ezimbini ziphumelele, enye nomnye umntu odinga uncedo kwimicimbi yokuxhalaba. Ngomhla wangoLwesine ebusuku, umthengi ophindayo, wayenombono othile wesondo.
Wayefuna ukuba ndinxibe ufele-oku kundenza ndivakale kancinci ngathi ndiyinkwenkwe yerenti, andiyiyo, utshilo uNeil. Ndiyathanda kuphela, uyazi, wayenxibe ihashe kwaye ndimqhathe ukuze acinge ukuba ulikhoboka lam.
Ngelixa uNeil enokunxiba (okanye ezantsi) ukukhuthaza imood, akazukuzibandakanya ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa ugcine ukubamba ngomnwe ukuze kusebenze ukuqala kwengqondo ngexesha lesimo se-post-hypnotic.
Umzekelo, ndibeke isibhengezo ukuze xa ndimchukumisa ebunzi ndathi 'iibhola,' azive ukuba iibhola zakhe ziyakhanywa, utshilo uNeil.
Iklayenti lehotele lalineengono ezibuthathaka, kwaye linokuziswa kwi-orgasms ezininzi, watsho uNeil, ngokukhankanya nje iingono ezibanga. Izandla ngokupheleleyo.
UNEIL S. walala ngesifundo sakhe sokuqala ngo-2001. Wayekruqukile ngumsebenzi wakhe wolawulo oluphakathi kwi-IT kwinkampani enkulu. Wayene-ofisi yakhe, kwaye ngolunye usuku ngelixa ejonga iWebhu, wafumanisa i-e-iqela labantu abanomdla kwi-hypnosis nakwabelana ngesondo. Emva kokuthatha isifundo kwi-Intanethi kunye nokufunda incwadi ngalo mbandela, yayilixesha lokuziqhelanisa nesihloko esivumayo, umntu awadibana naye kwiqela.
Sadibana senza into apho ndamqhatha khona kwaye ndaziva ndiziva ndonwabile kwaye, uyazi, yajika yaba kukubhanxa kwethu, utshilo uNeil. Amava avusa intelekelelo ebikhathaza ngasemva kweconscious yakhe iminyaka emininzi. Waqhubeka nokukhulisa izakhono zakhe kwi-Intanethi, kubantu awayeza kudibana nabo kuYahoo! amaqela (i-hypnosis yesini, i-gay erotic hypnosis, amakhoboka e-hypno).
Ngo-2003, uNeil wafaka ngaphezulu kwe- $ 600 kwizifundo ezimalunga neempelaveki ezimbini kwizifundo ezisisiseko zokulalisa ngomlingo kunye nehipnotherapy. Oku kukonyuse ukuzithemba kwakhe kwaye kwamfundisa nendlela yokuphuma kwiimeko ezithile ezinameva.
'Ukuphindaphinda' ngokusisiseko, ngokudibeneyo, ukuphuma ngexesha leseshoni ye-hypnosis, utshilo. Inokwenzeka ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ngokwesiqhelo ubangela uhlobo oluthile lomothuko wakudala, kwaye walibetha ngempazamo. Umntu unokuqala ukukhala, abe nobundlobongela-kuyinto enqabileyo. Kodwa kuyenzeka.
Kubantu abangama-200 ukuya kuma-300 abebephantsi komlingo ka-Neil kule minyaka isibhozo idlulileyo, ebenezihlandlo ezimbalwa zeenyembezi, ezinokuthi zilungiswe, kunye neziganeko ezibini apho abantu baye bamnyama ngendlela engathandekiyo. Elo tyala uya kuyeka iseshoni. (Ngokuqhelekileyo ususa i-trigger xa iseshoni iphelile.)
Uya kuqala ukunciphisa umthengi kwi-trance ngokumcela ukuba acinge ulwandle oluhle. Imozulu intle, ilanga likhanya, iintaka ziyakhala, ivumba leetyuwa emoyeni, isanti phantsi kweenzwane zakho njalo njalo. Lo mfana wabona inqanawa etshonayo kwaye abantu barhaxwa namalangatye, ukhumbule.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha malunga neyure ukuzisa isifundo kwi-hypnotic state. Obu buchule buyahluka, kodwa injongo kukwenza ingqondo eqondayo ukuba ibuyele umva, ivumela i-subconscious, le nto siyibiza ngokuba iyacetyiswa, utshilo uNeil, ukuba angalawulwa.
Nje ukuba uyeke ukulinda, ukuqonda kwakho kuya kuvuma ukwenza nantoni na endikucebisayo, utshilo. Ngaphakathi komda othile, kuba, umzekelo, amandla akho okuzikhusela akwinqanaba lakho. Ke ukuba bendinokuxelela ukuba utsibe eluphahleni, ngekhe uyenze.
Kungekudala waba nesithukuthezi yimeko ye-gay-hypnosis ekwi-Intanethi, elawulwa ngabasetyhini. Kukho i-subculture epheleleyo ejikeleze loo nto ndingangeni kuyo. Kukho umdlalo omninzi apho. Imidlalo emininzi.
Ndambuza uhlobo lomdlalo awayethetha ngawo.
Oo, abantu bayabelane ‘ngenkxaso-mali.’ Kwaye abantu abaninzi bazenza ngathi baphantsi komlingo xa bengekho. Kunzima ukuxelela xa ungekho buqu.
Uthe abantu abakwi-Intanethi bazikhuphele ngaphandle zonke izinto ezisemgangathweni. Amaphepha:1 Mbini
