Ukufunda sisikhokelo esihle kwinto eyenza usuku oluhle.UBen White / Unsplash Eli nqaku livele ekuqaleni kwiQuora: Zeziphi iincwadi ezili-10 onokuthi ucebise ngazo umntu omdala ongakhange afezekise nantoni na kodwa ofuna ukuqala ukuzama ukuphila ubomi obunempumelelo?
Xa ndandingumntwana, ubuncinci amantombazana e-10 andala ngenxa yobubi xa ndawacela.
Nam ndabanjwa ngamapolisa ndisiba evenkileni kwanyanzeleka ukuba ndiye enkundleni.
Maxa wambi abazali bam babendibetha. Kwaye andicingi ukuba benze into engeyiyo.
Kwaye ke ndandimdala. NDASinda.
Ngaba ikhona into endiyenzileyo? Ewe. Ndasinda ebuntwaneni.
Ukusukela ngoko, nditshintshe imisebenzi amaxesha ali-15. Ndizitshintshe ngokupheleleyo iiseti zam zabahlobo. Ndinabahlobo abalungileyo. Ndihlala ndinethemba lokuqhubeka nokudibana nabantu abatsha.
Ndiqalise amashishini angama-20, ndasilela kwiminyaka eli-17. Kubhalwe iincwadi ezili-18. Ezili-12 zazo zazisoyikeka. 2 kuzo bezilungile. Ezine zazo zazintle ndicinga. Ndiyathemba.
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Ukufunda sisikhokelo esihle kwinto eyenza usuku oluhle.
Nazi ezinye zeencwadi endizithandayo xa ndifuna ulwazi olongezelelekileyo lolwazi, ubulumko, amava, uncedo, kwaye ekugqibeleni, ITHEMBA.
Ukufuna Komntu Ngentsingiselo Ngu-Victor Frankl
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UCheryl wayenekholamu yengcebiso ebizwa ngokuba yiSwekile ethandekayo.
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Ndihamba neyokugqibela kwaye ke nayo le ncwadi.
Isicatshulwa nguNassim Taleb
Ubuza ngempumelelo.
Ukuze uphumelele kufuneka uphephe ukuba-ethe-umbono wokuba ukuba kukho into ekukhathazayo, yeka ukuwa ngokupheleleyo.
Kuya kufuneka uphephe nje ukomelela. Ukubuyisa umva akonelanga.
Isichasana kuxa into izama ukukwenzakalisa kwaye ubuye womelele. Yiloo shishini lobomi bokwenyani. Yimpumelelo yokwenene leyo.
UNaseem ugxile kuqoqosho. Kodwa xa ndifunda incwadi ndihlala ndizibuza, ndingayisebenzisa njani le nto kwiindawo zobomi bam apho ndiziva ndibuthathaka khona?
Umphefumlo ongafakwanga ngu-Michael Singer
UMichael wathuthela kwisiqwenga esingenanto sehlathi, wamisa i-trailer yakhe, waza waqala ukucamngca kwi-70s yokuqala.
Wanikezela kuko konke okwenzekileyo ebomini bakhe.
Kulungile… into eyenzekileyo kukuba enze inkampani yeebhiliyoni.
Incwadi yakhe imalunga nobuhle bokomoya bokuzinikezela. Kwaye inokuthi ihambisane njani nempumelelo yemali.
Ndothuswa kakhulu yile ncwadi kangangokuba ndanxibelelana naye ndaza ndaya eFlorida ndaza ndahlala iintsuku ezininzi kwikhompiyutha yakhe ndaza ndenza udliwanondlebe naye ngempumelelo yakhe. Ndayifunda kwakhona incwadi ubuncinci kube kanye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa.
Idip NguSeth Godin
Ukuhlangana kukaSeti kufana nokudibana nesilumko sanamhlanje. Wenza imali eninzi kwi-90s xa wayethengisa inkampani yakhe yokuthengisa, YoYoDyne kuYahoo.
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Senze ipodcast. Phambi kokuba iqale wayeka nantoni na wandibuza, Uyawathanda amanzi? Uye wahamba wayokundikhelela amanzi.
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Qala ngeDip. Imalunga nendlela yonke indlela yobomi enayo ngamanqaku aphezulu kwaye ngamanqaku asezantsi. Sisikhokelo sokufikelela kumanqaku asezantsi.
Le kunye noGraceful ayizizo ezona ncwadi zakhe zaziwayo kodwa ndicinga ukuba ziindawo zokuqala zempumelelo.
Imfazwe yoBugcisa NguSteven Pressfield
Xa umbhali okanye usomashishini, okanye umphathi, okanye umqeshwa, okanye… nantoni na… ahlala phantsi ukuze afike emsebenzini, uhlala edibana nenkcaso.
Izizathu ezizayo: andinakuyenza le nto. Ndimdala kakhulu. Andinamali yaneleyo. Ndiyoyika.
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Ulawulo nguRobert Greene
Yeyiphi indlela ebhetele yokufunda ngempumelelo kwaye ke iindlela zomzuzu ezithathwe zii-100s okanye i-1000 zabantu abaphumeleleyo.
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Zihlaziye kwakhona ngokwam
Andithandi ukucebisa ezam iincwadi. Kukuzazisa nokuzazisa.
Kodwa kwiincwadi ezili-18, le yeyona ndiyazingca ngayo. Ndiyenzile!
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Kwaye ndibhala elam ibali lendlela endizame ngayo nzima ukuziphinda ndiphinde ndizenze. Ukufezekisa into endizingcayo ngayo. Ukuba ngumntu onethemba lokuba iintombi zam zinokujonga kuye.
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