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Ukupheliswa kwenkcubeko yethu kuya kubangela ukuphela kwamadoda ayo ukuba kukho into engatshintshwanga ngokukhawuleza. Amadoda amaninzi kakhulu ahlala engakhombisi, etyhafile kwaye esoyika abantwana.
Izinga lokuzibulala kwamadoda lenyukile ukuya kathathu ukuya kwesine ukuphakama kunenqanaba labasetyhini lokuzibulala. Amadoda aphindwe kabini njengabafazi ukuze babe ngamakhoboka otywala. Kwaye abesilisa banamathuba amaninzi ukwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho lolutsha.
Kuninzi esele kuthethiwe kwaye kwabhalwa kwiminyaka yakutshanje malunga nemiceli mngeni yamadoda namakhwenkwe. Isampulu yezihloko zeencwadi zibandakanya:
- Kutheni kungekho maDoda alungileyo ashiyekileyo
- Ukupheliswa kwabafana
- Ukuphela kwaMadoda, Kutheni amakhwenkwe esilela
- Ukuphela kwamadoda, kunye nokunyuka kwabafazi
- Amakhwenkwe Adrift
- Ukwenza uMntu phezulu: Ukunyuka kwabafazi kuguqula njani amadoda abe ngamakhwenkwe
Umxholo oqhelekileyo kukuba amadoda namakhwenkwe baye badideka ngakumbi malunga nokuzazi kunye nendima ekuhlaleni. UKay Hymowitz, umbhali we Ukujonga, yibeke ngolu hlobo:
Ibingumgaqo ophantse wempucuko jikelele ukuba ngelixa amantombazana aba ngabafazi ngokufikelela ekukhuleni ngokwasemzimbeni, amakhwenkwe kuye kwafuneka aphumelele uvavanyo. Kwakufuneka babonakalise isibindi, amandla omzimba, okanye ubuchule bezakhono eziyimfuneko. Injongo yayikukubonisa ubuchule babo njengabakhuseli babafazi nabantwana; Oku bekuhlala kuyindima ephambili kwezentlalo. Namhlanje, nangona kunjalo, abantu basetyhini beqhubela phambili kuqoqosho oluphambili, abayeni kunye nootata banokhetho, kwaye iimpawu zobuntu ezazifunwa ngamadoda ukuze badlale indima yabo-ubukroti, ukuma, isibindi, ukuthembeka-ziphelelwe lixesha kwaye zihlazo noko.
Yinto eqhelekileyo kwiifilimu zaseHollywood, kumabonwakude nakwiinkqubo zekhebula, kwaye nakwiintengiso ukubonisa amadoda njengabantu abangafanelekanga, abangaqolanga okanye abazithandayo. Lo myalezo uphantsi uye ngokufihlakeleyo kwaye uya usiba ngokungazi ngokudibeneyo kunye neziphumo ezibi.
Ngokwezifundo, kuxelwa e-United States ukuba:
- Amantombazana angaphezulu kwamakhwenkwe ngoku kuwo onke amanqanaba-ukusuka kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi ukuya kwisidanga sokuqala.
- Kwinqanaba lesibhozo, kuphela iipesenti ezingama-20 zabafana abanobuchule bokubhala kunye neepesenti ezingama-24 abanobuchule ekufundeni.
- Amanqaku e-SAT yamadoda amancinci ngo-2011 ayengawona manqanaba asezantsi awakhe anayo kwiminyaka engama-40.
- NgokweZiko leLizwe lezeNkcukacha-manani zezeMfundo (i-NCES), amakhwenkwe anamathuba angama-30 eepesenti kunamantombazana ukuba aphume kwisikolo esiphakamileyo nakwikholeji.
- Kuqikelelwa ukuba ngo-2016, abasetyhini baya kufumana i-60 yepesenti ye-bachelor kunye neepesenti ezingama-63 zeedigri zemasters.
- Amakhwenkwe enza isibini kwisithathu sabafundi kwiinkqubo zemfundo ezizodwa zokulungisa.
Abasetyhini bafanelwe yimpumelelo eyandayo abayifumanayo. Bacinezelwe ngenxa kude inde kakhulu. Balambile kwaye banomdla ngakumbi kunamadoda amaninzi. Kwaye ngethemba ukuba uluntu luya kuqhubeka ukubavumela ukwanda kokulingana okubafaneleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, eli nqaku ligxile ekuncedeni umfana osokolayo kwaye odidekile. Ewe, abafana abaninzi baye bathatha izinto ezimbi eluntwini njengesizathu sokubaleka uxanduva kwaye bangaze bakhule ngokwenyani.
Ukuba ungumfana kwaye uyasokola, wena awuwedwa. Eli nqaku lenzelwe ukuba ucelomngeni kuwe ukuba uphinde ucinge ngendlela yakho ebomini. Ukuba isetyenzisiwe, le mikhwa iya kukubeka ecaleni ngaphandle kokubola okuqhelekileyo.
- Cinga ngaphaya kwakho
Abantwana bajonge kubazali babo ngazo zonke iimpendulo. Xa befika kwishumi elivisayo bazazi zonke iimpendulo. Uninzi aluzange luvuthwe kweli nqanaba kwaye luhlale lumnandi, oluboniswa ngaphakathi ezilandelayo iindlela:
- Ukukholelwa ukuba ungcono kunabanye
- Ukubaxa iitalente okanye izipho zakho
- Silindele ukudunyiswa rhoqo kunye nokunconywa
- Ukusilela ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye abantu okanye iimvakalelo
- Ukubonisa indelelo kwabo babonakala bengaphantsi
- Ingxaki yokugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo
- Ukwenza ngokungathi awunanto yokufunda
Into enomdla kukuba uphando ngengqondo Umahluko kwimveliso ufumanise ukuba i-Millennials i-narcissistic ngakumbi kunezizukulwana zangaphambili.
Ukuhamba ngaphaya kokuziqonda kufuna ukonyuka kokuqonda ngokubanzi.
Ngokunyusa inqanaba lokuqonda kwakho, uya kubona ubuqaqawuli boluntu ngokubanzi, ukwazi ukunxibelelana ngokunzulu nabanye, ufumane uvuyo olukhulu, kwaye ube namandla okuphucula ukubonakalisa ikamva lokhetho lwakho.
Ezilandelayo ziindlela zokonyusa inqanaba lokuqonda kwakho:
- Vumela ukuba uzive iimvakalelo zakho, kunokuba uzinqande. Ukucamngca kuyindlela eluncedo yokwenza oku. Uhlangabezana neengcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakho, ufunde kuzo, emva koko uziyeke zihambe.
- Makhe uyile umbono wakho wento ekufuneka uyenzile kwaye wamkele ngokwenyani ukuba yintoni. Uhambo kukuphela, hayi nje indlela yokufikelela.
- Chonga izinto ezingenantsingiselo owabele intsingiselo kuzo. Ulonwabo nokhuseleko alunakuze lubekho xa kuxhomekeke kwangaphandle-zinokufezekiswa ngaphakathi kuphela.
- Qala ukuthembela kwilizwi lakho langaphakathi. Ukuba uziva unyanzelekile ukuba uze nesambrela, kwanaxa ingxelo yemozulu isitsho ngokuchaseneyo, yizise.
- Jonga umhlaba, ufumane inkcubeko entsha, kwaye iparadigm yakho ishukunyiswe kwaye iphinde ivuselelwe.
- Buza iinjongo zakho kunye nezizathu zakho.
- Zithobe ngobuntu bakho.
- Yenza ngothando, kwaye uqaphele xa ungekho.
- Yeka Ukudlala iMidlalo yeVidiyo
Kukho umphathi Zombini iziphumo ezilungileyo nezingalunganga zokudlala imidlalo yevidiyo. Nangona kunjalo, phantse Iipesenti ezili-15 zolutsha lwaseMelika ndinomlutha ongenampilo kwimidlalo yevidiyo. Olunye uphononongo luxeliwe ukuba iipesenti ezingama-31 zamadoda kunye neepesenti ezili-13 zabantu ababhinqileyo baziva bengamakhoboka emidlalo yevidiyo.
Ngokwendalo, amakhwenkwe anesidingo esinzulu sokufezekiswa kunye nomceli mngeni. Ukanti, Izifundo zibonisa ukuba eminye yemidlalo yevidiyo edume kakhulu ikhupha amakhwenkwe kwizinto ezizezokwenyani zehlabathi. Imfuno yabafana yokufezekisa yanelisekile ngokulinganisa kumdlalo; ke abaziva isidingo sokuya emhlabeni kwaye basombulule iingxaki zokwenyani. Yiyo loo nto uluntu lungakhonzwa yimizamo yabo.
Ukudlala ngokufuthi kungena kubudlelwane obubalulekileyo okanye kwizinto ezinentsingiselo zobomi. Iipesenti ezili-15 zoqhawulo-mtshato ezifakwayo ngabafazi kuba indoda yabo ikhetha imidlalo yevidiyo ngaphezulu kwabo.
Eli nqaku libaluleke kakhulu kum. Mna ndichithe ixesha lam elininzi kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo nakwimabanga aphakamileyo ndidlala iWorld Warcraft. Ngokwenene amawaka eeyure angenile kwaye aphulukana.
Ndibona uninzi lwabahlobo bam besikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kunye namalungu osapho ngoku abakwiminyaka yabo yama-20 nama-30 eqhubeka nokudlala iiyure ezingama-4 + zemidlalo yevidiyo ngosuku-nokuba batshatile nabantwana.
Ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo ngu Ukhutshelwa njengendlela esempilweni yokubaleka inyani. Nangona kunjalo, umntu kufuneka abuze: Ngaba ukubaleka inyani (ngakumbi ixesha elide) kusempilweni?
Isidingo sokuphumelela kunye nomceli mngeni unokufezekiswa ubomi bokwenyani. Unokwenza amanqanaba okwenyani okwenyani ngelixa kwangaxeshanye usombulula iingxaki ekuhlaleni
- Funda kwiiNdawo eziSempilweni kwaye ubeka iiMed
Imodeli yegumbi lokufundela ibulala amakhwenkwe ethu. Ayisiyondawo esempilweni kubo. Amakhwenkwe amancinci afuna ukukhuthazwa ngakumbi ngokwasemzimbeni.
Isiphumo kukuba uninzi luchaphazeleka ngokungalunganga kwaye ngobuvila ukuba lune-ADHD. Iimpawu zabo zendalo, iimvakalelo, ukuthanda, kunye nezipho ziyanqandwa ngamayeza.
Nangona kungengombono othandwayo, amakhwenkwe namantombazana afakwe iintambo ngokwahlukileyo. Amantombazana ahlala ekhuthazeka ngokukodwa kukudunyiswa. Baza kugqibezela ukubhala kwabo ngesandla ukuze nje kuqatshelwe.
Amakhwenkwe kwelinye icala, ahlala ekhuthazwa ngamava abonakalayo ahambelana nobomi bokwenyani. Ke, amakhwenkwe amaninzi akaboni ndawo yokuba nemibhalo elungileyo ukuba ngenye imini baya kuchitha ixesha labo ngokuchwetheza. Abakhathali kangako ukuba abanye abantu bacinga ntoni. Bafuna nje ukucelwa umngeni.
- Fumana ukhuthazo lomzimba olunzulu
Ukuqhubela phambili kunye nokufunda okunamandla, kulandele ukhuthazo lomzimba olungqongqo yindlela enamandla nefanelekileyo yokuba amakhwenkwe kunye namadoda bafunde. Ukudlala ngokurhabaxa kunye nokuwa kunceda ekuphuhliseni i-lobe yangaphambili yengqondo, esetyenziselwa ukulawula isimilo. Okulusizi kukuba, uninzi lwezikolo zikarhulumente ziyayisusa iklasi yokuzivocavoca kunye nekhefu, nto leyo eyandisa iingxaki kumakhwenkwe.
Ukuba uhlala ubomi bokuhlala njengendoda, awufumani kukhuthazeka okufunekayo udinga . Uphando lufumene ukuba amadoda aphumelele kwimimandla yokufunda ye-kinesthetic-ukufunda ngokuhamba.
Amanqanaba e testosterone aphilileyo
Umsebenzi obonakalayo womzimba, njengokuprinta okanye ukuphakamisa ubunzima obunzima (kulandelwa ngamaxesha okuphumla awandisiweyo) yindawo elungileyo yesidingo samadoda sokuvuselela ngokwasemzimbeni. Ngaphaya koko, ezi zinto zinzima zomzimba zinokuvula amanqanaba asempilweni e-testosterone evelisa iziphumo ezilungileyo-kubandakanya:
- Ukuphulukana namafutha
- Ukufumana izihlunu
- Ukuxinana kwethambo okunempilo
- Uxinzelelo lwegazi oluqhelekileyo
- Amathuba amancinci oku ukutyeba kakhulu kwaye isifo sentliziyo
- Ukwanda kwamandla
- Ukonwaba ngakumbi kwikhondo lomsebenzi kunye nosapho
- Ndiziva ndimncinci, ndinamandla, ndisini kwaye ndisempilweni
- Ukuqhuba ngesondo okusempilweni
Izifundo zifumene amanqanaba e-testosterone esempilweni achaphazela ukusebenza kwengqondo kwamadoda, kwaye anokuphucula ukugxila, ukukhuthaza kunye nenkumbulo.
Isidingo sobuhlungu bomzimba
Into enomdla kukuba amakhwenkwe namantombazana afumana iintlungu ngokwahlukileyo. Kubafana, iintlungu zasemzimbeni zinokuba sisikhuthazo esinyusa ukucaca kwengqondo. Kwelinye icala, iintlungu zomzimba kumantombazana zinokuba yi-narcotic, ibenze bazive bengonwabanga kwaye bedidekile.
Ndikubonile oku kum. Olunye lolona lwazi lwam lukhulu lize ngelixa ndizityhala kakhulu ngelixa ndisenza umsebenzi weyadi okanye ndisebenzisa. Le nto ikwabonwa nakwiimbaleki ezinyamezelayo ezizityhala ngentlungu iiyure ezininzi ngexesha.
- Thatha uxanduva ngobomi bakho kwaye ubeke iMigangatho yakho ePhakamileyo
Kwincwadi yakhe, Amakhwenkwe Adrift, UGqirha Leonard Sax ucacisa ukuba amakhwenkwe imfuno -Andifuni-ukuba noxanduva. Ukuba azifuneki, azichumi.
Amadoda ayehla xa engafuneki. Kwaye ngenxa yomyalezo woluntu wokuba amadoda awasafuneki, uninzi luhlala kumagumbi angaphantsi kwabazali.
Nangona uninzi lwamadoda lungazukuphuma luthathe imiceli mngeni kunye noxanduva, le yeyona nto banokuthi bayenze ukuba bafuna ukukhula. Ewe, iya isaziwa into yokuba ukuqonda kulandelwa ngamava omzimba ngohlobo lokuzaliseka kwesiprofetho. Ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba uza kuphumelela, uhlala usenza njalo.
Ukuba ubeka izinto zakho eziphezulu ebomini, uya kufezekisa izinto ezintle. Ukwenza oku, awungekhe udlale ixhoba kwiimeko. Ukubeka ityala emhlabeni, abazali bakho, isikolo, okanye imiceli mngeni ojamelene nayo ebomini ayizukuzisombulula iingxaki zakho. Kuza kukugcina unamathele kwaye ukrakra.
Endaweni yoko, thatha ixesha lokucinga kunye nokwakha ubomi bakho obulungileyo. Ukudalwa kwengqondo njalo yandulela indalo ebonakalayo.
Unamandla angaphakathi okwenza nantoni na ofuna ukuyifeza. Into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuchitha ixesha usenza elo lizwe ngenjongo. Bhala phantsi kanye le nto uyifunayo ebomini. Misela imigangatho yakho ngokuhlekisayo phezulu. Musa ukubamba nantoni na.
Funda, uphinde ubhale, kwaye uphinde ufunde amabhongo akho rhoqo. Oku kungekudala kuya kuyitya ingqondo yakho engacacanga yokudala iipateni ezintsha kwingqondo yakho. Ekugqibeleni, uya kulibonakalisa ihlabathi obelilenza entlokweni yakho.
- Umthandazo, Ukucamngca, kunye nokuBhala kweJenali
UbuKristu, ubuJuda, ubuSilamsi, ubuBuddha, ubuHindu, kunye nazo zonke iinkolo zonqulo nezomoya zigxininisa ngokubaluleka kokuthandaza rhoqo. Nangona indlela yokuziqhelanisa ingahluka, injongo iyafana: Umbulelo, ukukhuthazeka, ukuziqonda ngokwakho, unxibelelwano olunzulu kuThixo / ubukho, kunye nokuphuculwa koluntu luphela.
Umthandazo (kunye nokulungiswa okunje ngokucamngca kunye nejenali zombulelo) zezi ifunyanwa rhoqo ukwandisa impilo yomzimba kunye nengqondo.
Kum, ndihlala ndidibanisa umthandazo kunye nokubhalwa kwejenali njengendlela yokucamngca. Ndifuna inkuthazo, umkhombandlela, umbono ophakamileyo, kunye nombulelo.
Izibonelelo ezixhaswa ngokwesayensi zomthandazo zibandakanya:
- Ukuphucula ukuzeyisa
- Ikwenza ube mnandi
- Kukwenza uxole ngakumbi
- Yandisa ukuthembela kwakho
- Ukuseta iziphumo ezibi zezempilo zoxinzelelo
Abantu bahlala bekhutshiwe ngumthandazo, bekholelwa ukuba yinto engqongqo yenkolo. Nokuba inkolo elungelelanisiweyo ayisiyonto yakho, usenokuba nolwalamano oluqinisekileyo nolusempilweni kunye nomthandazo.
- Zuza Abahlobo Abalungileyo
Ungubani ojikeleze naye. Akukho ndlela yokuyijikeleza. Ukuba ufuna ukuvela ngokudlulileyo kwimeko yakho yangoku, kuya kufuneka uzisuse kwimikhosi emibi ebomini bakho. Oku akuyi kuba lula. Usizi luthanda inkampani.
Nangona kunjalo, xa uthatha isigqibo sokuzisusa kubantu abangafanelekanga-kwaye endaweni yoko uzingqonge ngabantu abakuphakamisayo nabakhuthazayo-ubomi bakho buya kuphucuka ngokumangalisayo.
Thatha umtsi. Mema abahlobo bakho ukuba beze kunye nawe. Ukuba abayiqondi indaleko yakho efunekayo, ngobubele bavalelise ngothando.
- Zibophelele ngokupheleleyo komnye umntu
Simele sikholelwe ukuba ubudlelwane bubophelela abantu phantsi, ukuba bayindawo yokufa yokudala kunye nokuzimisela. Amampunge. —Iholide KaRyan
Ngayo yonke imveliso kunye nengcebiso yempumelelo eqhubekayo kwihlabathi namhlanje, kuncinci kakhulu kubhaliweyo malunga nezibonelelo zokufumana iqabane elixhasayo kwaye likwenze ube ngcono.
Kunqabile ukuba abantu bahlale bezinikele kuyo nantoni na okanye nakubani na kwezi ntsuku. Baninzi abantwana abangenatata. Uninzi lufuna amaxhoba ezesondo ngokulula alandelwe ngumngxuma wangaphakathi wobuyatha-oyika kakhulu ukuziveza kwaye ajongane nobuntu babo bokwenyani.
Uphando lufumene ukuba ubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo bunokunciphisa amathuba okugula kunye nokwandisa ubude bexesha lokuphila. Ezinye izibonelelo zokuzibophelela ixesha elide kubudlelwane zibandakanya:
- Ukwaneliseka okukhulu kobomi
- Ukwanda kokonwaba
- Uninzi lwezibonelelo ezibonakalayo, ezinjengeempahla ekwabelwana ngazo kunye nabantwana
- Kunqabile ukuba yenza iziyobisi
- Ukwehla kwamathuba oxinzelelo kunye nokungahoywa kwempilo kabani
Khetha uthando lwakho, thanda ukhetho lwakho. — UThomas Monson
Ndatshata ndineminyaka engama-24. Andizange ndizive ndithintelwe seso sigqibo, ndikhululwe kuphela. Ngoku 27, sinabantwana abathathu abakhulisayo, eyona nto inokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo enkulu njengenkululeko.
Oku akunakuba kude nenyaniso kumava am. Endaweni yoko, ndicela umngeni wokuba ngumntu ongcono yonke imihla. Ndicelwe umngeni wokucinga ngaphaya kweemfuno zam kwaye ndifunde umonde, ukuthobeka nothando.
Andisoze ndenze izigqibo ezinkulu kangaka ngaphandle komthandazo, ukuzila ukutya, ukucamngca, kunye nejenali. Nangona kunjalo, xa ukwimeko yokucaca, unokulandela intuition yakho kwaye ungagungqi wenze izigqibo ezilungileyo. Njengoko uMalcom Gladwell echaza ngaphakathi Qhwanyaza, izigqibo ze-snap zihlala zichanekile ngakumbi kunezinto ezicingwe kakuhle.
Ewe umtshato awukho lula. Yeyona nto inzima endakha ndazenza. Kodwa kutheni ukhetha indlela elula? Njengendoda, umceli mngeni kunye noxanduva ngokuchanekileyo yinto efunekayo ukuze uphumelele.
- Wela Ngothando Lokufunda
Abantu abaqhelekileyo bafuna ukuzonwabisa. Abantu abangaqhelekanga bafuna imfundo kunye nokufunda. Ngoku sihlala kwihlabathi apho kungasafuneki ukuba uye kwikholeji (okanye kwisikolo esiphakamileyo) ukuze ube ufundile. Ezandleni zakho akukho mda kwaye uhlala uqhubeka kakuhle wolwazi. Unokuba yingcali yayo nantoni na.
Uninzi lwabantu abaphumeleleyo kwihlabathi bathi impumelelo yabo kukuthanda ukufunda. Bahlala befunda incwadi enye nangaphezulu ngeveki. Ngeencwadi ezimbalwa, unokufunda indlela yokwakha ubutyebi, ubudlelwane obunempilo, kunye nobomi bamaphupha akho.
Ngolwazi oluthe kratya kunye nemfundo, uya kwenza ukhetho olungcono lokuphila. Uya kuba namathuba okuba neziyobisi ezonakalisayo kwaye wenze izigqibo zokungazi.
Uya kuba nethuba lokungqongwa ngabantu abakrelekrele, ufunde iilwimi ezintsha kwaye uphonononge umhlaba, uze nezisombululo kwiingxaki zehlabathi, kwaye ube nothando kunye nomdla wobomi.
Misa umdlalo kwaye uqale ukufunda. Inkqubo ye- ngokwenene umhlaba ulindile. Kwaye kuyamangalisa.
- Thatha iingozi ezinkulu
Musa ukusilela ngokungagqibekanga. —URichard Paul Evans
URichard Paul Evans, umbhali odumileyo, uhlala ebalisa ibali lokuba ngumntwana oneentloni kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. Kwenye yeeklasi zakhe, wayehleli ecaleni kwentombazana yamaphupha akhe. Uchithe unyaka wonke enqwenela ukuba nesibindi sokumbuza. Kodwa zange agqibe ukuthetha naye.
Kutheni enomdla kumntu olahlekileyo njengam? ebethetha yedwa.
Kwiminyaka embalwa kamva, ekudibaneni kwesikolo esiphakamileyo, badibana bathetha.
Ndimele ndibuze nje: Kutheni ungazange undibuze ngaphandle? Ubuzile. Ndihlala ndikuthanda kwaye ndinethemba lokuba uzakuthetha nam.
Wothuka uEvans.
Wayengalunganga ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye waphoswa lithuba alichithe ngaphezulu konyaka ephupha ngalo. Ngalo mzuzu, wazimisela soze ukusilela ngokungagqibekanga kwakhona.
Ukuba ndiza kusilela, ndiza kusilela kakhulu, utshilo. Ukuba ndiyasilela, ndiza kusilela emva kokunika yonke into endinayo.
Yeka ukudlala ubomi obuncinci. Umhla abantu ukuba kubonakala engenangqondo ngaphandle league yakho. Akunjalo-kuphela entlokweni yakho.
Sukugcina indalo kwikhondo lomsebenzi wakho de ube uneminyaka engama-40. Kukho umngcipheko omncinci ngelixa usemncinci, unamandla, kwaye ukhuthazeka. Ngoku lixesha lokuthatha umngcipheko omkhulu. Yamkela ukwaliwa nokusilela. Emva koko, yamkela impumelelo enkulu nengathethekiyo.
Isiphelo
Unako ukuba nabuphi na ubomi obukhethayo.
Musa ukoyika ukuziphuphalela ngokwakho.
Yiba nesibindi sokubuthabatha obo bomi kwaye ngokwenene phila , endaweni yokucinga nje ngokuphila.
Ihlabathi liyakudinga.
UBenjamin Hardy ungumzali okhulisa abantwana wabantwana abathathu kunye nombhali weSlipstream Time Hacking. Ulandela i-Ph.D yakhe. Kwingqondo yezengqondo. Ukuze ufunde okungakumbi malunga noMnu Hardy, ndwendwela www.benjaminhardy.com okanye uqhagamshele naye Twitter .
