Izinto ezili-13 ekufuneka unikezele ngazo ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela

Umntu othile wakha wandixelela ngesihogo: Ngomhla wakho wokugqibela emhlabeni, umntu owaba ngulo mntu uya kudibana naloo mntu wawunokuba nguye. - Ongaziwayo

Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuze siphumelele, kwaye sisondele emntwini esinokuba yiyo, akufuneki sidibanise izinto ezingaphezulu, kufuneka sincame ezinye zazo.

Kukho izinto ezithile ezikhoyo kwindalo iphela, ethi, ukuba uyanikezela ngazo, uya kuba nempumelelo, nangona umntu ngamnye kuthi enokufumana inkcazo eyahlukileyo yempumelelo.

Ezinye zazo unokuzinikezela namhlanje, ngelixa kungathatha ixesha elide kwabanye.

1. Nikezela ngeNdlela yokuphila engeyiyo impilo

Wunyamekele umzimba wakho. Yiyo kuphela indawo ekufuneka uhlale kuyo. -UJim Rohn

Ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa nantoni na ebomini, yonke into iqala apha. Kuqala kufuneka ukhathalele impilo yakho, kwaye zimbini kuphela izinto ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni:

• Ukutya okusempilweni
• Umsebenzi womzimba

Amanyathelo amancinci, kodwa uya kuzibulela ngenye imini.

2. Nika Ingqondo yexesha elifutshane

Uphila kanye kodwa ngaphandle kokuba uyenza kakuhle. - Kukho iNtshona

Abantu abaphumeleleyo bazibekela iinjongo zexesha elide, kwaye bayazi ukuba ezi njongo ziziphumo zemikhwa yexesha elifutshane ekufuneka beyenzile yonke imihla.

Le mikhwa esempilweni akufuneki ibe yinto oyenzayo; kufanele ukuba babe yinto oyiyo.

Kukho umahluko phakathi koku: Ukusebenzela ukuba nomzimba wasehlotyeni kunye nokuSebenza ngenxa yokuba unguye.

3. Nikezela ngokuDlala okuncinci

Ukudlala kwakho okuncinci akulisebenzeli ihlabathi. Akukho nto ikhanyiselweyo malunga nokuncipha ukuze abanye abantu bangaziva bengakhuselekanga xa bekufutshane nawe. Sonke senzelwe ukuba sikhanye, njengabantwana. Akunjalo nje kwabanye bethu; Kuwo wonke umntu, kwaye njengoko sivumela ukukhanya kwethu kukhanye, ngokungazi sinika abanye imvume yokwenza okufanayo. Njengoko sikhululwe kuloyiko, ubukho bethu bukhulula ngokuzenzekelayo abanye. - UMarianne Williamson

Ukuba awuzange uzame ukuthatha amathuba amakhulu, okanye uvumele amaphupha akho ukuba abe yinyani, ngekhe ububone ubuchule bakho bokwenyani.

Kwaye umhlaba awusoze uxhamle kwinto obunokuyiphumeza.

Ke thetha izimvo zakho, ungoyiki ukusilela, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ungoyiki ukuphumelela.

4. Nika izizathu zakho

Ayisiyo malunga namakhadi ojongwayo, kodwa indlela odlala ngayo isandla.
-Randy Pausch, iNtetho yokuGqibela

Abantu abaphumeleleyo bayazi ukuba banoxanduva lobomi babo, nokuba baqala phi na, ubuthathaka kunye nokusilela kwabo kwixa elidlulileyo.

Ukuqonda ukuba unoxanduva lwento eyenzekayo ebomini bakho, kuyothusa kwaye kuyonwabisa.

Kodwa kuphela kwendlela onokufikelela ngayo kwimpumelelo, kuba izizathu ziyasikhawulela kwaye zisithintele ekubeni sikhule ngokobuqu nangobungcali.

Bakho ubomi bakho; akakho omnye umntu oya kwenza njalo.

5. Nika Ingqondo ehleliweyo

Ixesha elizayo lelabo bafunda ngakumbi izakhono kwaye bazidibanise ngeendlela zokuyila. -Robert Greene, uLwazi

Kwi-mindset esisigxina, abantu bakholelwa ukuba ubukrelekrele babo okanye italente, ziimpawu nje ezimiselweyo kwaye ukuba italente iyodwa idala impumelelo-ngaphandle komzamo. Bayaphazama.

Kwaye abantu abaphumeleleyo bayayazi le nto. Batyale ixesha elininzi mihla le ukuphuhlisa ukukhula kwengqondo, ukufumana ulwazi olutsha, ukufunda izakhono ezitsha kunye nokutshintsha ukuqonda kwabo ukuze kuzuze ubomi babo.

Khumbula, ukuba ungubani namhlanje, ayinguye umntu ekufuneka ube ungomso.

6. Nika ukukholelwa kwiMbumbulu yoMlingo.

Yonke imihla, ngandlela zonke, ndiya ndisiba ngcono -Emile Coué

Impumelelo yobusuku yintsomi.

Abantu abaphumeleleyo bayazi ukuba ukwenza uphuculo oluncinci oluqhubekayo yonke imihla, kuya kudityaniswa ngokuhamba kwexesha, kwaye babanike iziphumo ezinqwenelekayo.

Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka ucwangcisele ikamva, kodwa ujonge kumhla ophambi kwakho, kwaye uphucule i-1% kuphela.

7. Nikezela ngokugqibelela kwakho

Ukuhambisa ngenqindi kubetha ukugqibelela. -I-Mantra yoPhuculo lweKahn Academy

Akukho nto iya kuze igqibelele, nokuba sizama kangakanani.

Ukoyika ukusilela (okanye nokuba noloyiko lokuphumelela) kuhlala kusithintela ekuthatheni inyathelo, kunye nokubeka indalo yethu phaya emhlabeni. Kodwa amathuba amaninzi aya kulahleka xa silinda ukuba izinto zilungile.

Ke, thumela ngenqanawa, emva koko uphucule (1%).

8. Nika umsebenzi omninzi

Awusoze ufike apho uya khona ukuba uyema kwaye waphosa yonke inja ekhonkothayo. -Winston S. Churchill

Abantu abaphumeleleyo bayayazi le nto. Kungenxa yoko le nto bekhetha into ibenye emva koko bayibetha bayingenise. Nokuba yintoni, umbono wezorhwebo, incoko, okanye ukuzilolonga.

Ukuba bonisa ngokupheleleyo kwaye bazibophelele kumsebenzi omnye , ibaluleke kakhulu.

9. Nika isidingo sakho sokulawula yonke into

Ezinye izinto zixhomekeke kuthi, kwaye ezinye azikho kuthi. -U-Epictetus, isithandi sobulumko samaStoyike

Ukwahlula ezi zibini kubalulekile.

Dibanisa izinto ongenakuzilawula, kwaye ujonge kwezo unako, kwaye uyazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, ekuphela kwento onokwazi ukuyilawula yindlela ojonga ngayo into.

Kwaye khumbula, akukho mntu unokukhathazeka xa esithi uBubbles ngelizwi elinomsindo.

10. Nika u-YES kwizinto ezingazixhasi iinjongo zakho

Lowo uya kufezekisa okuncinci kufuneka ancame kancinane; lowo uya kuzuza okuninzi kufuneka ancame okuninzi; lowo unokufumana okuphezulu kufuneka azincame kakhulu. -UJames Allen

Abantu abaphumeleleyo bayayazi le nto ukuze bafeze iinjongo zabo, kuya kufuneka bathi HAYI kwimisebenzi, kwimisebenzi, nakwimfuno zabahlobo bakho, usapho kunye nabantu osebenza nabo.

Ngexesha elifutshane, unokuncama ukwaneliseka kwangoko, kodwa xa iinjongo zakho zifezekile, kuya kufaneleka oko.

11. Nika abantu abanetyhefu

Uphakathi kwabantu abahlanu ochitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo. UJim Rohn

Abantu esichitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo, badibanisa nabantu esiba ngabo.

Kukho abantu abangahambeli phambili kubomi babo bobuqu kunye nobungcali, kwaye kukho abantu abaphambili ngakumbi kunathi. Ukuba uchitha ixesha nabantu basemva kwakho, umndilili wakho uya kuhla, kunye nayo, impumelelo yakho.

Kodwa ukuba uchitha ixesha nabantu abaphezulu kunakuwe, nokuba oko kunokuba lucelomngeni kangakanani, uya kuphumelela.

Jonga ujikeleze wena, kwaye ubone ukuba ufuna ukwenza naluphi na utshintsho.

12. Nikezela ngeemfuno zakho ukuze Uthandwe

Olona hlobo kuphela lokuphepha ukubacaphukisa abantu kukungenzi nto ebalulekileyo. - UOliver Emberton

Cinga ngawe njengendawo yentengiso.
Kuya kubakho abantu abaninzi abathanda loo niche, kwaye kuya kubakho abantu abangenayo, kwaye nokuba wenza ntoni, ngekhe ukwazi ukwenza yonke intengiso njengawe.

Oku kuyindalo ngokupheleleyo, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuzithethelela.

Inye kuphela into onokuyenza kukuqhubeka nokuphucula kunye nokufaka igalelo yonke imihla, kwaye uyazi ukuba inani elandayo labathiyileyo lithetha ukuba wenza izinto ezibalulekileyo.

13. Nika ukuxhomekeka kwakho kwimidiya yoluntu kunye nomabonakude

Ingxaki kukuba, ucinga ukuba unexesha -UJack Kornfield

Ukukhangela okungxamisekileyo kwiwebhu kunye nokubukela umabonwakude sisifo kuluntu lwanamhlanje.
Ezi zimbini akufuneki zibe kukubaleka ebomini bakho okanye kwiinjongo zakho.

Ngaphandle kokuba iinjongo zakho zixhomekeke kuzo zombini, kuya kufuneka unciphise (okanye ususe) ukuxhomekeka kwakho kuzo, kwaye ulalathise elo xesha kwizinto ezinokubenza bube nentsingiselo kubomi bakho.

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