Ungalibali ukuthumela amakhadi enkosi kweli xesha leeholide.UAron Burden Izipho zivulekile kwaye ekugqibeleni uqalile ukukhululeka kwi-post-holiday eggnog haze yakho. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ukhululeke kakhulu, khumbula ukuba inqaku elinye lokugqibela lokujonga uluhlu lwakho lweeholide: amakhadi enkosi! La manqaku abhalwe ngesandla okanye athunyelwe ngeimeyile kubalulekile ekuboniseni umbulelo kunye noxabiso kwabo bathathe ixesha lokukucinga ngexesha leeholide.
Nantsi indlela yokusondela kubugcisa bekhadi lokubulela elinengcinga.
Ixesha
Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uthumele ikhadi lombulelo kwiveki ezimbini zokufumana isipho seholide. Ngokwesiqhelo, inqaku lakho kufuneka lithunyelwe kungaphelanga iveki yokufumana into okanye amava-anokubandakanya isidlo sangokuhlwa-kodwa nanini na xa kukho amakhadi amaninzi okubhala, njengeeholide, iiveki ezimbini lixesha elinokulawulwa kakhulu .
Ukwahlula okuphambili ngamakhadi enkosi kwimitshato, evunyelwe ixesha elifanelekileyo ngakumbi. Ngokuchasene noko unokukuva, enkosi iileta maziphume zingaphelanga iinyanga ezintathu zomhla womtshato, hayi unyaka ukusukela kuwo. Inqaku elipheleleyo leleta yombulelo kukubonisa umbulelo kunye noxabiso, ke ukuthumela ileta yombulelo ngonyaka emva komhla womtshato kunokushiya umntu ezibuza ukuba usifumene isipho sabo. Ufuna ukunqanda umntu ofowunayo okanye ukuthumela i-imeyile ukubuza: Ndifuna nje ukuqinisekisa ukuba usifumene isipho somtshato.
I-imeyile ngokuchasene noMbhalo ngokubhaliweyo kwesandla
Nanini na xa kunokwenzeka, ikhadi lokubulela elibhalwe ngesandla lihlala lilungile, kuba libonisa ingcinga eyongezelelweyo, ixesha kunye nomzamo. Ngokukodwa kwiminyaka yedijithali, amanqaku enkosi abhalwe ngesandla abaluleke kakhulu kwaye anika ugxininiso kwinto oyithethayo.
Ungaze uthumele isicatshulwa njengenqaku lombulelo, njengoko linokuvela ngokungekho sesikweni kwaye lide livile. Kodwa khawucinge ngokufaka esipilini isipho kunye nempendulo yakho yombulelo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu uzise iicookies ezibhakiweyo kuyo yonke iofisi, i-imeyile entle ebuyela kuloo mntu inokwanela. Ukuba umntu othile ukuthengele isipho esenzelwe wena, ufuna ukubonisa indlela onombulelo ngayo ngenqaku elihambelana nenqanaba lokucinga abalibekileyo kwisipho sakho; Kulapho ileta yombulelo eyinyani kwaye ibhalwe ngesandla ilungile.
Kuya kufuneka uthumele ikhadi lombulelo kuye nawuphina umntu okupha isipho okanye okumemela kumava amnandi — umzekelo, indawo yemidlalo yeqonga — okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa esihle.
Ithoni
Xa ubhala ikhadi lombulelo kumphathi, ngokuchasene nelungu losapho, imibuliso kunye nomxholo kufuneka uhlale unobungcali kwaye usebenze ngokusesikweni. Ungaze usebenzise amagama amafutshane okanye ulwimi olubhaliweyo, kuba eli lithuba lokubonisa umbulelo kungekuphela ngesipho, kodwa nakwindima yakho kwinkampani.
Kwikhadi lokubulela usapho kunokwenzeka ukuba ubonise uthando kunye nokuziqhelanisa, nangona kunjalo kuyacetyiswa ukuba uhlale ubuchwephesha-hlukana nayo nayiphi na i-xoxo, ubuso obunoncumo okanye intetho engaqhelekanga ekugqibeleni!
Ifomathi
Yikholwe okanye hayi, ayikhuthazwa into yokuba uqale ikhadi lombulelo elinamagama enkosi. Lo yayingumgaqo wokuba noJacqueline Kennedy alandele iileta zakhe zokubulela. Ukubhala owona myalezo ubalaseleyo wombulelo, ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba ikhadi lakho lombulelo livakala njengelinyani kwaye licinga njengesipho esithunyelweyo, ukuze uzibonise oko, ufuna ukusebenzisa i-verbiage ehlasela imvakalelo ekuqaleni. Ukuqala ikhadi ngombulelo uhlala ufumana abantu betsiba izivakalisi, njengoko sele benokuqikelela lonke ikhadi. Endaweni yoko, zama ukusebenzisa le fomyula:
Umbuliso: Indlela esesikweni yokuqalisa ikhadi yiThandekayo. Ukutyikitywa ngokusesikweni yeyona miGangatho miBalaseleyo, ngokufudumeleyo okanye ngeminqweno emihle. Ukunyaniseka kusasetyenziselwa ukubhala iileta, kodwa hayi kwii-imeyile, kwaye Uthando lukulungele abo bakufutshane nabathandekayo kuwe.
Isivakalisi sokuqala: Into ehlasela imvakalelo.
Isigwebo sesibini: Into oyonwabeleyo ngesipho.
Isigwebo sesithathu: Enkosi.
Isivakalisi sesine: Inika ingcinga yokugqibela.
Isiphelo: Ukuvala nokutyikitya.
Nanku umzekelo wenqaku elifanelekileyo lombulelo, kuMalume uGordon okunike umenzi wekofu.
Malume othandekayo Gordon,
Uyazi ngokucacileyo ukuba ndiyonwabela njani i-mocha yam yentsasa, kwaye andinakonwaba ngakumbi ngomenzi wam omtsha wekhofi! Ntsasa nganye ukusukela ngeKrisimesi bendisenza ezona kofu zimnandi kakhulu kusapho lonke kwaye ndiyakuthanda ukuba kulula kangakanani ukuzisebenzisa. Enkosi ngesipho esicingisiswe ngolu hlobo, endikuqinisekisa ukuba uyakuba sisithandwa sendlu. Sijonge ukukubona ngePasika, kwaye nceda uthumele uthando lwam kuMakazi uMary.
Uthando,
UMyka
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