'Omgulayo Omkhulu' Unyanisekile, Uhlekisa kwaye uyathandana njengoko sifuna ukuba njalo

Kukho indawo engaphezulu kwesiqingatha Oyena Ugulayo , umdlalo oyingozi kodwa oqinisekileyo wokuhlekisa ngothando kumvelisi uJudd Apatow, apho umlinganiswa omncinci afumana umzuzu omkhulu. Idlalwe nguVella Lovell, ( U-Crazy Ex-Girlfriend ), Inxalenye yeKhadija ayisiyiyo enye into ngaphandle kokuhlekisa kwendlela kwimovie enje. Ungomnye womtya wabasetyhini usapho lwaseKumail, oludlalwe ngumbhali kunye nomlingisi wefilimu, uKumail Nanjiani, ulungiselele ukuba adibane neliso elibheke emtshatweni. (Ugcina imfumba yemifanekiso yabo kwibhokisi ye-cigar kwigumbi laseChicago elihlala abantu abelana nabanye abahlekisayo.) Kwimeko, omnye wabane bakaLovell ungena kwimovie, ufumana ukuqonda ukuba ngubani uKhadija kwaye Kutheni le nto eli bhinqa liselula lihle kwaye lihle lingazithoba kwinkqubo ehlazisayo yophicotho-zincwadi lokuba ngumfazi wasemzini olungiselelwe. Njengokuba uKumail ejongene nohlobo lokugqabhuka kweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezibuhlungu athe wachitha ubomi bakhe ezama ukuziphepha (uhamba nje ngenjongo yokuhambisa abazali bakhe), konke anokukwenza kukuncuma okuphakathi kunye nokuhlikihla. UKhadija, okwangoku, uba sesichengeni, ahlangane, athuke- kwaye kwisithuba nje semizuzu embalwa- uphila nyani. Njengokunye ukubonakala okufutshane kukaLovell kumdlalo bhanyabhanya, indawo leyo ibonisa uphawu lokuvulwa kwento ethembisa ukuba ngumdlalo bhanyabhanya onomdla.

Ikwaquka amandla amakhulu kwaye mhlawumbi obona buthathaka bukhulu kwifilimu ehambelana ngokugqibeleleyo ngaphakathi kwesikhunta esikhulu sokwenza iifilimu i-Apatow kwaye ikwaphawula inyathelo elibalaseleyo lokuya phambili komvelisi. NjengoKhadija, abalinganiswa abakhulu nabancinci ku Oyena Ugulayo baziva bephelele kwaye beqwalaselwe ngokunzulu, hayi nje ngokuba ngabahlanguli bee-liners kunye neefoyile zokukhula komntwana womntu okhokelayo ukukhula, kodwa njengabantu abanenkxalabo yabo kunye neembono zehlabathi ezikhoyo ngaphandle kwento-yokuphela- kunye ne-axis yefilimu. Kodwa olu phuhliso lomlinganiswa luza ngexabiso: ngokoqobo umzuzu ongaphantsi kweeyure ezimbini, Oyena Ugulayo Ngaphezulu kwexesha lokubaleka Imitshato emine kunye noMngcwabo, I-romcom yeklasikhi kaMike Newell ethi uNanjiani uyikhombisile njengenkuthazo yefilimu. (Zombini kumdlalo bhanyabhanya nakwi-Twitter, apho aqhayisa khona phantse abalandeli abayi-1.5 yezigidi, Intlambo yeSilicon Umdlali weqonga uphumelele kulungiso olunzulu lukaHugh Grant.)

Ukuba umdlalo ohlekisayo unokufuna ukuhlala ixesha elide kunokubeka ezinye, kwaye ngenxa yezizathu ezifanelekileyo. Kwiimveliso zeApatow ezinje nge La ngamashumi amane (iiyure ezimbini nemizuzu eli-14), kunye Inkqonkqoze phezulu (iiyure ezimbini nesibhozo), ixesha elandisiweyo lokubaleka lalisoloko libonisa ukuhlela okungacacanga, ukuzinkcinkca ngee-yucksters ezihlanganisiweyo, kwaye— ngokunxulumene- ukungakwazi jikelele ukukhwaza, Sika. Kodwa ayisiyiyo imeko apha. Ukusebenza kunye nebali elithathiweyo kubomi babo bokwenyani kwaye boyikeka ukudibana okuhle, uNanjiani kunye nenkosikazi yakhe kunye nombhali-mbhali uEmily Gordon benza iskripthi esomeleleyo ngokwaneleyo ukuba sibambe ikota, oku ngaphandle kokubethwa ziimpikiswano ezimbini ezinkulu ezisongela ukugcina esi sibini siphelileyo. Ngaphandle apho uninzi lweemovie luya kwenza ngenxa enye. Ngaphakathi kuyilo olomeleleyo lwefilimu- Apatow kunye neqabane elivelisayo u-Barry Mendel wabeka ababhali be-screen abasakhasayo kwiminyaka emithathu yokubhala kwakhona- ukuchitha ixesha elongezelelekileyo naba bantu kubonakala kuyintsikelelo kunokuzonwabisa kwefilimu.

Umqobo wokuqala wesibini yinkcubeko. Ngelixa uKumail ekhokelela kubomi bemihla ngemihla njengomqhubi we-Uber, yima ngehlaya, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uyile umboniso wendoda enye (ezo zigcawu zimnandi zokuthumela uloyiko lwento Oyena Ugulayo (ebengaba sezandleni ezingaphantsi), uzenza ngathi unomdla kwi-Islam kunye neendlela zesiko lasePakistan zabazali bakhe uAzmat noSharmeen (edlalwa ngabadlali baseIndiya uAnupam Kher noZenobia Shroff.) Kutheni bebeka eli qhinga nje? Amalungu osapho lwakhe liqela elonwabileyo, elihlekisayo; emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nabo, uyabona ukuba kutheni uKumail waba liqhula. Abazi kwanto ngobomi bakhe obuyimfihlo njengomdlali- ukhetho alukhethileyo kukubhala igama lentombazana e-Urdu- kwaye akaphefumli ngegama ngo-Emily (Zoe Kazan), umfundi omdadlana wadibana naye ubudoda bokuphinda imeko yakhe yamaqhosha asezantsi kunye nabo athe thaa kuye.

U-Emily wahlukana noKumail xa efumanisa ibhokisi ye-cigar ekhankanywe ngasentla, kodwa ubuyela ebomini bakhe emva kweeveki ezimbalwa xa egula kakhulu kwaye efakwa kwi-coma. Yindumiso enkulu kubo bobabini ababhali-skrini kunye noKazan- umbhali onesiphiwo ngokwakhe (URuby Yintlantsi) - ukuba uEmily ubukho obuqobayo, nobunzima nangona elele. Ifilimu incedwa kukuphosa okuphefumlelweyo kukaHolly Hunter noRay Romano njengabazali bakhe. Ubuntu obuninzi kukuxinana kwimovie enye ethobekileyo kodwa uMichael Showalter ngandlela thile uyenza ukuba isebenze. Inkqubo ye- Molo, igama lam ndinguDoris Umlawuli kunye ne-State alum isebenza njengombuki zindwendwe ogqibeleleyo, egcina ukukhanya kwemood kwaye inika wonke umntu igumbi elaneleyo lokwenza into yakhe. Kodwa iinkwenkwezi zokwenene ababhali bakhe. Ngokuboleka kubomi babo bokwenyani, uGordon kunye noNanjiani bayile ezothando ezinqabileyo eziqaqamba ziimvakalelo zobomi bokwenyani. Ngexesha lokufikelela kwisiphelo esenziwe kakuhle, ushiye umbono onamandla wokuba kwesi sibini, izinto zisanda kuqala.