UNks Stanforth (nge melissastanforth.com)
Sisoloko sizibuza ukuba inyani engenakubonwa ibonisa njani ukugcwaliswa kweApple TV yethu. Njengoko uhlobo luqhubekile, iinethiwekhi ziye zaqhubeka ngandlela ithile ukufumana abantu abadumileyo abafuna ukonwabisa abaphulaphuli kwihlabathi liphela. Kuya kufuneka uzibuze, mhlawumbi ngelixa ubukele omnye uMfazi wasekhaya ongokwenyani efaka itafile kwinkanyamba yeBotox kunye nezandiso zeenwele: Apho isihogo benza khona fumana aba bantu?
Impendulo, ubuncinci kumlawuli wokuphosa UMelissa Stanforth Ityala, kungenxa yemidiya yoluntu. Sibambe amaqhinga okulahla umntwana oneminyaka engama-26 xa eshiye umyalezo kwifoto yomhlobo wakhe we-Instagram.
Molo apho! Izimvo zakhe zifundwe. Ndabona ipik yakho ndafuna ukufikelela kuyo. Ndingumvelisi wokuphosa uthungelwano olukhulu lwentambo kwaye ngoku ndikhangela abafazi abanomtsalane abangatshatanga abaya kwimitshato emininzi kulo nyaka. Ndingathanda ukuncokola nawe. Ukuba unomdla nceda unxibelelane nam kwangoko!
UNks Stanforth wayefumene ifoto ebuzwayo ngokukhangela ii-hashtag ze-Instagram #lungelo_lukide kunye nokufumana, ngamagama akhe, njengeifoto ezingama-600. Ujonge ukulandela kwamalungu e-Instagram kunye nokuba abalandeli babo bazibandakanya kangakanani nabo.
Unyaniso lukamabonwakude luyachuma kwimilinganiselo, usixelele. Ukalisho luvela kubantu abangena ngaphakathi. Ukuba unabaphulaphuli abakhutheleyo nababandakanyekayo kumajelo asekuhlaleni kwaye unabalandeli abaphambeneyo, inethiwekhi inokuba nomdla kuwe kuba ivula ucango lwentengiso kunye neelayisensi zentengiso… Ibonisa konke kufuneka ayenze kukubeka i-tweet: 'Tune kwiBravo TV ukuze undijonge.'
UNks uStanforth eneneni wangena ekubunjweni ngenxa yokuba wayenokulandela okulandelayo. Xa wayesekholejini, ehamba kunye nezikhululo zikanomathotholo zase-Atlanta kunye neemagazini, iMySpace yayiyeyona nethiwekhi iphambili kwezentlalo. UNks. Stanforth wayeqokelele abahlobo abaninzi, kwaye iprofayili yakhe yabonisa iifoto zakhe ezinamagama ajongene nesibindi awadibana nawo ngomsebenzi.
Ndibe nephepha elimnandi, elinomdla, utshilo. Bendicimile kancinci. Abantu babendazi ukuba ndingubani. Ndandithatha imifanekiso yabantu abadumileyo ngalo lonke ixesha. 
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Kungekudala, umlawuli we-casting ovela kwi-NBC wabiza wamnika indawo kumdlalo ozayo, uRyan Seacrest Amakhwenkwe kaMama . Sele eyibekile indawo yakhe ngasemva koonomathotholo nakwimagazini, uNks. Kodwa wathembisa ukuthumela umlawuli we-casting amagama amahlanu amalungu anokubakho mihla le kangange veki. Ezisibhozo zonxibelelwano zakhe zathathwa kumdlalo wokugqibela, kwaye omnye wabo wagqiba ukuphumelela.
Ukusukela ngoko ukuya phambili, UNks. Stanforth wayelikhoboka. Usebenze kwimiboniso embalwa ngaphambi kokuthweswa isidanga, kwaye emveni kokuba egqibile esikolweni, ebesenza imisebenzi awayeyifumana eNew York nase-LA.
Ngoku, usebenze neABC, NBC, Fox, CMT, VH1 kunye neBravo, apho athi ngokwenene wayifumana indawo yakhe. Ukutyibilika kwakhe kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo kumnika umda omkhulu kunabanye abalawuli be-casting-uninzi lwabo, ubuncinci, baneminyaka eli-10 ubuncinci kuye.
Baphuma ngePhepha eliMthubi, batsalela umnxeba, kwaye baqale abantu beGoogling, utshilo ngokugxotha abalawuli abangayiqondiyo imithombo yeendaba. Bafumana amaphephancwadi kwaye baqale ukuwajonga. Kunje, yintoni? Elo phephancwadi likwi-intanethi. Unokukhangela yonke into.
Ngoku uphosa umboniso malunga nabafazi abaya kwimitshato emine okanye nangaphezulu kwihlobo elinye. Nanini na xa kufikwa emitshatweni, ukubekwa kwe-hashtag kuyinto enkulu, uxelele uBetabeat. Uthatha ithuba lokukhangela igridi yeFacebook ehambele phambili, engena ngokwemigaqo njengabantu ababhinqileyo abangatshatanga kwiOrange County. 
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Xa ephosa ebonisa ngathi Oomama bokwenene , Nks. Stanforth ngenene kufuneka enze umsebenzi wesikolo. Ukongeza kokudibanisa iifoto ze-Instagram kunye nee-hashtag ezinje nge #luxuriouslifestyle (#eyeroll), uya kujonga ii-hashtag kunye neeakhawunti ze-Instagram zeehotele zodidi kunye neegalas ukubona ukuba ngubani obalaseleyo.
Emva kokunikezela ithuba lokuba komnye wemiboniso yakhe kubantu angabaziyo abufumanayo kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo, impendulo ihlala ithi, Ngaba oku kuyinyani? okanye Kutheni le nto inethiwekhi enkulu yentambo ingandibetha ngale ndlela? Usixelele. Abanye bayawavuyela amathuba; abanye banyanzelisa ukuba bayithiyile inyani kamabonwakude.
Kodwa xa ucinga ngako, inyani yeTV kunye nemithombo yeendaba zentlalo ngumdlalo owenziwe ezulwini. Kwidayagramu yeVenn yokwenyani ye-wannabes ye-TV kunye neziyobisi ze-hashtag, ukugqagqana kufuneka kube kukhulu. Kwaye UNks uStanforth, 26, unenzuzo enkulu kunabalawuli abadala bokuphosa kuba eyinzalelwane yedijithali.
Abantu abayenzi inyani ithelevishini kwimpilo yabo, UNks Stanforth uthe. Masibe yinyani. Abanye abantu bayenza kuba bayadika. Abanye abantu bafuna ukuzinyusa; yintengiso yasimahla ngokwakho iyure. 
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Ukugcina ubukho beendaba zosasazo olusebenzayo nako kunokuba yinto ebalulekileyo emva kokuba inkwenkwezi engeyonyani esele iphoselwe, utshilo.
Ukuba awufuni ukubuyela umva kwabantu abakuthiyileyo kunye nokufumana iZilumkiso ezothusayo zikaGoogle, ke hlakanipha ngayo, utshilo. Yiba nabaphulaphuli abakhutheleyo nabazibandakanyeyo abakuthandayo. Nokuba ufumana abo bakuthiyileyo abaphambeneyo kumabonwakude, bona [abalandeli bakho] basaya kukuthanda. Yenza ulawulo lomonakalo ngaphambi kokuba uye kumabonwakude.
UNks. Stanforth ukhuthaza ukuba abo basebenzisa i-TV basebenzise ii-hashtag ezinje nge #castingcall kunye ne #realitytv ukufumana ingqalelo yabalawuli - kodwa ubacebisa ukuba baqhubeke ngononophelo.
Eyona nto iphambili kukuba uvula ubomi bakho eluntwini, utshilo. Andizukubamba isandla sakho kuyo yonke le nkqubo. Le yinyani kamabonwakude. Ungaphakathi, okanye awukho. Kodwa nangasiphi na isizathu, abantu bayayithanda.
