Uninzi lophando lubuyisela umva kwiindlela zombini ezi ndlela.Iipelisi Ukukhuthaza ukupha, uninzi lwamancedo alungiselela abantu abasweleyo sebenzisa iifoto ebonisa abantu abonwabileyo okanye abonwabileyo kwiindawo zabo. Le mifanekiso ifuzisela abantu abaza kuxhamla kwiminikelo eyenziwe ngokuphendula kwezi zibheno.
U-Lei Jia, umfundi osafundela ubugqirha kwezentengiso, kwaye mna, unjingalwazi ofunda ukuba kutheni imiyalezo ethunyelwayo kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo yemithombo yeendaba inokuba nefuthe kwisimo sengqondo nakwindlela yokuziphatha yabaphulaphuli, ndifuna ukufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi eyona isebenzayo.
Bonwabile xa kuthelekiswa nobuso obubuhlungu
Uninzi lophando lubuyisela umva kwiindlela zombini ezi ndlela. 
Uyavuya.Ifoto nguJerald Jackson / Flickr
Ukubona uncumo lunako yenza abantu bazive bonwabile . Kwaye xa baziva bonwabile, bathambekele ekuvavanyeni inqanaba lokunyusa ingxowa ngokukhanya okuthandekayo kwaye ke unikele ukugcina iimvakalelo zabo ezonwabileyo , ngophando olupapashwe yiJenali yeApplied Psychology yoLuntu.
Ubuso obuncumileyo bukwakhumbuza abantu nge izibonelelo ezinokubakho ye iminikelo yabo . Oko kunokukhuthaza ukupha ngokwanda imvakalelo yokufezekisa kubaxhasi.
Ukubona ubuso obubuhlungu, kwelinye icala, kunokunyusa iminikelo ngokuqaqambisa ubukhali bengxaki kwaye ubukrelekrele ye Isidingo . Imifanekiso ehambisa uxinzelelo inokwandisa ukupha ngokuvuselela iimvakalelo ezingalunganga, ezinje nge ubutyala okanye lusizi . Impembelelo yoku kuphephe ukungathandi iimvakalelo kuthetha ukuba abantu banokunikela Ndonwabe iimvakalelo - ngokuzama ukusombulula ingxaki ebonisa lo mfanekiso ulusizi. 
Zimbalwa izinto ezibuhlungu njengokubona komntwana okhalayo okanye okhalayo.IFlickr / zeitfaenger.at
Imikhwa yesisa
Nokuba uncumo okanye ubuso obusongekileyo busebenza kakuhle kuxhomekeka kwinto ebizwa ziingcali ukubandakanyeka Ngemibutho yesisa-kangakanani umntu ukhathalele uthumo lwesisa ngokubanzi, bavolontiya kangakanani okanye ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiminyhadala yokunyusa ingxowa Nokuba banikela rhoqo na kwiingenzi-nzuzo.
Kuba aba bantu sele benceda abantu abasweleyo, bangathanda ukwazi ukuba iminikelo yabo yenza umahluko.
Imifanekiso ebuhlungu ikhumbuza abo banokunikela ngobunzima. Inokwenza ukusombulula ezo ngxaki kubonakala ingenakoyiswa yenzelwe abantu abasele bebandakanyekile kwimibutho yesisa, ngaloo ndlela bebadimaza ukuba banganikeli. Imifanekiso eyonwabileyo kufuneka isebenze ngcono kwaba bantu kuba bayakuqinisekisa ukubaluleka kwesenzo ngasinye kwaye bonisa into elungileyo ifuthe Isisa somntu omnye sinokwenza.
Abantu abangabandakanyekanga kakhulu kwimibutho yesisa, kwelinye icala, kuncipha ngokulula washukunyiselwa ukuxhasa uthumo olunikiweyo okanye ukukholelwa kuyo ukungxamiseka . Kuba imifanekiso elusizi ibalaselisa iingxaki kwaye ubungakanani ye iimfuno ezingafezekiswanga , ubuso obungonwabanga kufuneka benze umsebenzi ongcono wokufuna iminikelo kwaba banokubanikezela.
Uvavanyo olukwi-Intanethi
Ukuvavanya ezi ndlela zimbini, siziqhubile ulingo oluku-intanethi phakathi kwabantu abadala baseMelika abangama-201, besebenzisa iintengiso ezisibhozo ezifanayo. Ezi ntengiso zilinganisa iindawo zokunyusa imali Isibhedlele soPhando lwaBantwana iSt ukunyanga abantwana abanomhlaza kunye nokwenza uphando olunxulumene noko. Iintengiso zazinombuso womntwana owonwabileyo okanye okhathazekileyo kunye namagama: Utshintsho oluncinci, umahluko omkhulu. Unokunceda ukulwa nomhlaza wobuntwana.
Sisebenzise iifoto ezisibhozo ezahlulwe ngokulinganayo phakathi kwabantwana abonwabileyo nabajongileyo. Umthathi-nxaxheba ngamnye wabelwa ngokungakhethiyo ukuba abone intengiso enye kuphela.
Silinganise ukubandakanyeka kwabathathi-nxaxheba ngokubuza ukuba bavumelana kangakanani okanye abavumelani nenani leengxelo, ezinje ngokunika imibutho yesisa kuthetha lukhulu kum. Emva kokubona isibhengezo, babuzwa malunga nokuzimisela kwabo ukuxhasa iSt.
Njengoko besicacisile kwi Ulawulo olungenzi nzuzo kunye nobuNkokeli Kwiphephancwadi, safumanisa ukuba abathathi-nxaxheba abanamanqanaba aphezulu okubandakanyeka kwesisa kunokwenzeka ukuba babonakalise injongo yokunikela ngokuphendula kwimifanekiso eyonwabileyo. Abantu ababengabandakanyekanga kangako kwimibutho yesisa babesenokwenzeka ukuba banomdla wokunikela emva kokubona imifanekiso elusizi.
Ithetha ukuthini le nto
Yintoni efanele ifundwe ngabaxhasi ngezimali kwiziphumo zethu? Ukungenzi nzuzo kunokufuna ukulungelelanisa izixhobo zabo ngokubhekisele kubaphulaphuli babo. Ngokukodwa, amaphulo kufuneka asebenzise iintengiso ezijamelene nosizi ukujolisa kubantu abanobudlelwane buthathaka kwizibonelelo. Kodwa kubantu abanonxibelelwano olomeleleyo, iintengiso ezijongene nolonwabo zinokubheja ngokukhuselekileyo. 
Ubuso obonwabileyo nobuso obonwabileyo.Incoko
Nanga amazwi esilumkiso malunga nesifundo sethu: Sakhe uphando lwethu malunga nombutho ongenzi nzuzo owaziwayo onodumo oluqinileyo. Kuba uphawu lophawu inokuba nefuthe kwindlela abantu abasabela ngayo kwizibheno zesisa, asazi nokuba iziphumo zethu ziya kusebenza na kwingxowa mali yokufumana uncedo olungacacanga ngakumbi.
Ngapha koko, silinganise kuphela iinjongo zokunika. Nangona amashumi eminyaka yophando lwengqondo lubonisa ukuba iinjongo zizinto ezinamandla zokuqikelela indlela yokuziphatha , abanikeli abasoloko belandela. 
Okwangoku, umsebenzi wethu kufuneka uncede abangenzi nzuzo babone izibonelelo zolungelelwaniso lokunyusa ingxowa kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo zabantu.
Xiaoxia Cao nguNjingalwazi oNcedisayo kwiSebe lezeNtatheli, uPapasho kunye neziFundo zeMedia e IYunivesithi yaseWisconsin-Milwaukee . Eli nqaku lapapashwa okokuqala ngo Incoko . Funda ifayile ye- Inqaku lokuqala .
