Roee, Liam kunye noNatalie Tsimhoni (MyFoxDetroit.com / Via myfoxdetroit.com)
I-Intanethi iyaphambana namhlanje ngaphezulu kwentsingiselo evuza ingqumbo. Buzzfeed kaThixo isihloko ushwankathela uluvo: IJaji ithunyelwe abantwana aba-3 ukuya kugcinwa kolutsha ngokuxelwa ukutsiba isidlo sasemini notata wabo. Utata osebalini ngu-Omer Tsimhoni, olidabi lakhe lokulwa nelomfazi owayesakuba ngumfazi wakhe uMaya Tsimhoni ngenene ubahlalisile abantwana babo abathathu abahle-uLiam, uRoee, noNatalie, abali-14, 10 no-9-kumaziko amabini olutsha ahlukeneyo emva kweJaji uLisa UGorcyca uqukumbele ngelithi umama wabo uphinde wasilela ekufezekiseni imigaqo yelungelo lokugcina kunye.
Emva kwesigwebo, amajelo eendaba athetha kabukhali ngesigqibo sejaji, ngokupeyinta ngokufanayo uNkosazana Tsimhoni njengexhoba kunye nokwamkela ingxelo yokuba abantwana babelungiselelwe ngokuswela isidlo sasemini. Ukongeza kolo luvo yayinguNks. Tsimhoni ngokwakhe. Emva kokuba abantwana bethathwe kuye, UNks.Tsimhoni wasungula i-blitz yeendaba, umzekelo uxelela iDetroit's Fox inxulumana ukuba uziva ngathi ndibabukele bebulawa.
Njengalo lonke uqhawulo-mtshato, nangona kunjalo, kukho amacala amabini kweli bali. Kwaye uMnumzana Tsimhoni, ongekaviwa, ngoku uye waphula ukuthula kwakhe, wabelana noMbonisi ibali elibuhlungu lokwahlukana komtshato, ibali eliya kuqhelaniswa nabazali abaninzi abavakalelwa kukuba abantwana babo bajikisiwe kubo ngeqabane elilandela ukwahlukana.
Ukufikelela emnxebeni kudliwanondlebe olwenziwe yi-5WPR, inkampani u-Tsimhoni waqesha ukumnceda ukuba ahambe kule ngxaki, uMnu Tsimhoni wathetha noMbonisi ixesha elide. Ndothukile yile yenzekayo. Umfazi wam wangaphambili waphulukana nenkundla emva kwamatyeli amaninzi elumkisiwe kwaye ngenxa yoko wayephuma esiya kumajelo eendaba ukuya kubeka uxinzelelo kwijaji okanye ukugqwetha ijaji. Ndiyayiqonda intlungu yomntu wonke-intlungu yabantwana, intlungu yam, ukuba abantwana bakuphi. Kodwa wayibona isiza kwaye akazange azame ukuyithintela.
Into eyenzekileyo kukuba uMnu. Tsimhoni uthathe umsebenzi kwi-GM ngo-2008. Uye wafudukela e-Israel, waqala ke, uNks.Tsimhoni, owayefana no-Tsimhoni uvela kwa-Israyeli, akazange afune ukubuya naye. nangona zombini iiseti zoomawokhulu babehlala kwa-Israyeli.
Uthathe isigqibo sokungafiki. Emva koko wafaka uqhawulo mtshato kwaye wayeka ukundivumela ndibone abantwana okanye ndithethe nabantwana. Emva kweenyanga ezithile kwabakho uxolelwaniso. Ufudukele kwa-Israyeli, sathutha zonke izinto zethu apha kwaye ngolunye usuku wanyamalala ngequbuliso wathatha abantwana. Emva koko ndeva kuye ukuba useMichigan- hayi apho sasihlala khona, eAnn Arbor, kodwa kwi-Oakland County. Kulapho zaqala khona iinkqubo zoqhawulo-mtshato.
Ukusukela ngoko, uqhawulo-mtshato lwagqitywa kwaye uMnu Tsimhoni uphinde watshata kwaye wabuyela eMichigan ukuze abe secaleni kwabantwana kwaye alungise ubudlelwane nabantwana. UNks Tsimhoni akazange atshate kwakhona.
Abazali babenelungelo lokuhlala ndawonye nelisemthethweni kwaye umama wabo unelungelo lokugcina. Ukusukela ngoko, bendihlala ndibabona rhoqo kodwa bendisoloko ndityelelwe, ngamanye amaxesha ndinobuchwephesha kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndibekhona nowayesakuba ngumfazi wam. Ubabeka ityhefu kwaye ijaji yakuqonda oko.
Ke ngoku, ngomso iya kuphawula iiveki ezimbini ukuba abantwana bebekwiziko. Kwaye abantwana bayaluchasa lonke unxibelelwano noMnu Tsimhoni.
Xa ebuzwa ukuba abantwana bacinga ukuba angenza ntoni uMnu Tsimhoni ukufumana unyango, watyhila inkumbulo yakhe. Yonke into anokuza nayo yayiyi-anecdote elandelayo, engenakulinganiswa kwanemigangatho yencwadi kaJudy Blume:
Esinye isiganeko esenzekileyo sasiyiminyaka emihlanu edlulileyo ndandindwendwele iiyure ezintlanu ndingagadwanga. Sasisepakini kwaye uMaya wayejikeleza epakini ngalo lonke ixesha, ezama ukonakalisa utyelelo. Iiyure ezimbini kutyelelo, abantwana baphelela emotweni yakhe kwaye wayezama ukuhamba. Ndizamile ukumnqanda angahambi ngoba ibilixesha lam nabantwana. Ndandilumke kakhulu ndingenzi nto kodwa wathi ndiyamtyhala. Wakhwaza abantwana, 'Biza u-911! Biza u-911! ’Kuvele amapolisa kwaza uMaya wakhwaza kwaye amapolisa aqinisekisa ukuba akukho kwanto yenzekileyo. Kodwa ezingqondweni zabantwana, yilonto yenzekileyo.
Ukusukela ngalo mzuzu ukuya phambili, abantwana, bekhokelwa ngoyena mdala umntakwabo, baye baluchasa lonke unxibelelwano noMnu Tsimhoni.
Ijaji ifikelele kwisigqibo esifanayo, ixelela inkwenkwe endala ngamandla , Udelele kakhulu, awunasimilo. … Akukho sizathu sokuba ungabinabudlelwane notata wakho. Uyihlo zange wabekwa tyala nganto. Uyihlo akazange agwetywe nantoni na. Utata wakho akanayo i-protection order ngaye. Utata wakho uyathandwa kwaye uyathandwa luluntu, abantu asebenza nabo, usapho (kunye) noogxa bakhe. Wena, mfana, unephutha. Ndicinga ukuba uyihlo yindoda enkulu eye yahamba ngehupula ukuze ube nolwalamano nawe.
Nangona kunjalo, iimvakalelo ezimbi ziye zaqhubeka kuyo yonke le minyaka, zada zabiza uLiam ibar mitzvah, kuba uNks.Tsimhoni akafuni ukumsa kwa-Israyeli, esithi woyika ukubanjwa ngenxa yokuba ekhuphe abantwana kweli lizwe kwasekuqaleni. . Baye baphulukana nethuba lokwazana nomntakwabo omtsha, umntana kaMnumzana Tsimhoni oneminyaka emibini ngumfazi wakhe omtsha.
Okwangoku, uMnu Tsimhoni uthi, ndingayenza nantoni na ukuba aba bantwana babe nobudlelwane obuhle notata wabo kunye nonina. Uyanyanzelisa, ndihlawule yonke inkxaso yomntwana ukusukela ngala mhla wokuqala, nditsho nangaphambi kokuba kubekho umyalelo wenkundla wokwenza njalo.
UMnu Tsimhoni uchaza indawo yokuqala yomtshato wabo ngesisa. Ndingumfundi we-PhD kwaye umfazi wam wangaphambili wayesenza ukuhlala kwakhe. Ndiyazi ngakumbi ngokutshintsha amanabukeni nokondla iintsana kuninzi lootata. Ndingoyena mntu wayenyamekela uLiam. Yonke loo nto yahluthwa. Kwaye andimsoli tu.
Ezo nkumbulo zakuqala ziya ziphela ngoku. Ijaji yalumkisa uNkosazana Tsimhoni amatyeli amaninzi malunga neziphumo zokungabazisi abantwana. Kwakungathi ufuna le nto yenzeke ukuze azame ukususa ijaji. Kukho ngoku abantu abalahlekisiweyo ukuba bakholelwe ukuba ungumama obalaseleyo kwaye umntu othile wabathathela abantwana bakhe kuye ngenxa nje yokuba bengafuni kutya isidlo sasemini nam. Ngapha koko, yayiyiminyaka yokudlala kwakhe imidlalo - esithi uza ngexesha elinye aze emva koko engezi. Wakhalimelwa inyanga okanye ezimbini phambi kokuba kwenzeke le nto ngokudelela inkundla.
Kukho umzekeliso waseYiddish, Bantwana abancinci, iingxaki ezincinci; abantwana abakhulu, iingxaki ezinkulu. Okulusizi kukuba, abantwana baseTsimhoni bayakhula kuphela, kwaye kunjalo nangeengxaki zabo.
