UJamie noDoug ukusuka Ukutshata ekuboneni kokuqala. UKarolina Wojtasik / Ixesha lokuPhila Njengoko wayehamba ezantsi epasejini esiya kumyeni wakhe, uJamie Otis cringed. Ngokuqinisekileyo, wayeyibhalisile le nto, kodwa yayingeyiyo le ndoda wayelindele ukuyibona imlindile.
UDoug Hehner wayemi apho, ekulungele ngokupheleleyo ukungena emtshatweni obophayo no-Otis.
Eli yayilixesha lokuqala u-Otis no-Hehner bebeka amehlo omnye komnye, ukanti babetshata kanye ngalo mzuzu.
Njengabathathi-nxaxheba kuthotho Ukutshata ekuboneni kokuqala , Esi sibini satshatiswa ziingcali zobudlelwane.
Ngelixa uJamie elila emva kokutshintsha izifungo zakhe, esithi ucinga ukuba le yayiyimpazamo enkulu, uDoug wahlangana, eqinisekile ukuba akuba emazi, uJamie uzothandana naye.
UDoug wayenyanisile.
Ngoku, kwiminyaka emithathu kamva, le duo isatshatile kwaye iqala elinye inyathelo elibalulekileyo-ukuba nomntwana.
Kuluhlu lwabo olutsha Ukutshata ekuBoneni kokuQala: UJamie kunye noDoug Plus Omnye, Esi sibini sithatha ubuzali ngokufika kwentombi yabo, uHenley.
UJamie uthe nangona uhambo lwabo esibingelelweni lwalungelo siko, indlela abaqhele ngayo emtshatweni wabo. Ewe, kwakungafani nokuba sicofe ngomlingo ubusuku bonke. Kwakungumsebenzi oqhubekayo. Ndiye ndafunda ukuba umyeni wam unyamezele kakhulu kwaye ndicinga ukuba esinye sezitshixo kukuba sisebenza emtshatweni wethu yonke imihla.
Malunga nesiqalo esingaqhelekanga, uJamie utyhila, Ewe, iyamangalisa into yonke yokutshata xa niqala ukubonana. Kodwa, sagqiba kwelokuba asizukuziqumbela thina okanye omnye nomnye ukuba singagqibela ngokuqhawula umtshato kuba sisilingo. Njengokuba sibuxabisile ubungcwele bomtshato, oku kukuthi, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umtshato ocwangcisiweyo.
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Uye wathi ucinga ukuba ababukeli batsalelekile kuhambo lwabo kuba, asitshintshi ukuba sikubani kwikhamera ukusuka kubani esikuyo kwikhamera kwaye ndicinga ukuba abantu banokuyiqonda loo nto. Asibeki mboniso wekhamera. Sifundile ukuba sonke sineziphene zethu kunye namaxesha amabi kwaye ukuba singabanazo ezo ezingasincedisi kuphela oko kunceda abanye abantu.
Akunjalo nje kuphela, wongeza uDoug, ubuhlobo bethu bonke ngokwenene. Abantu banokuyibuka ukusukela kusuku lokuqala. Ayifumaneki ngaphezulu kokubukela kuthi sihlangane ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwaye usibukele sisokola njengabazali abatsha. Ikhethekile kuba sivumela yonke into ukuba iqhubeke phambi komntu wonke, yonke into ebalulekileyo, yonke into ephakamileyo, yonke into ephantsi.
Yonke into ibandakanya ukuphulukana nosana lwabo lokuqala, inkwenkwana.
Oku kuphulukana kuncede uJamie waphinda wachaza inxenye yobizo lwakhe, utshilo. Ndinomdla wokunceda abantu basetyhini abaye baphulukana nelahleko. Ndilahlekelwe lusana lwam kwikota yesibini yesibini. Ndandikumngxunya omnyama ndandingaqinisekanga ukuba ndinganyuka ndiphume kuwo. As much my husband was there for me ibingenguye ophethe umntwana. Ndiyenzile inxenye yemishini yam ukuba ndivuleleke ngamava am. Ndizama ukuhlonipha kwaye ndibuxabise ubomi bonyana wam. Ndiyathemba ukuba inceda umntu abe mnye. Oko kuyenza ibaluleke.
Esi sibini siyavuma ukuba bahlala phantsi kunye babukele isiqendu ngasinye njengoko sidlala. Ukongeza kwi-tweeting kunye nokuphendula imibuzo yabalandeli, bathatha into eqhubekayo phakathi kwabo kwiscreen. Sibona okokuqala nabanye abantu. Ke, asazi ukuba yeyiphi engena de ibe iyangena, ucacisile uDoug.
Ufunda okuninzi, wongeze uJamie. Xa ndibukele isiqendu sokuqala apho ndingakhange nditsaleleke kumyeni wam, ndalila kulo lonke igxalaba lakhe ndathi, ‘Ndicela uxolo. Ndikhohlakele. ’Ukuba wonke umntu wayenekhamera ebafota ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye kufuneka uhlale ubukele-uya kufunda okuninzi ngawe, ngenene. Emva koko unokukhetha-ungazimela kwiimpazamo zakho kwaye ukhule okanye hayi.
UDoug ubonakala eyithatha ngendlela yakhe. Kumnandi nje ukubukela onke amaxesha anzima. Imibuzo enokuqwalaselwa kwixesha elizayo? Singaphinde silale nini noJamie? Ngaba kufuneka silinde? Ngaba ungabelana ngesondo nomntwana ujonge ebusweni bakho? Ezi zizinto esidlula kuzo esinethemba lokuba ziyahlekisa ngabantu, utshilo.
Bobabini bayazi ukuba uninzi 'lwezibini zeTV azihambi kakuhle kubudlelwane babo kwaye bayavuma ukuba le yinkxalabo. Ndicinga nje ukuba sahlukile kuba oku sikubona njengethuba lokuzibona, kwaye omnye nomnye, ngendlela eyahlukileyo, utshilo uJamie. Ndiyathetha ukuba sinengxabano, emva koko iluhlobo olungaphaya, kodwa emva koko iyangena kumabonwakude kwaye iphinda ibe khona. Oko 'kuphindwaphindwa' kwayo kusinika ithuba lokunxibelelana ngakumbi malunga naloo mlo besilwile ngawo kunye nendlela esinokuthi sisingathe izinto ngcono ngayo ukuya phambili.
Eyona nto inkulu uJamie afuna ukuba abantu bayithabathe kolu ngcelele, Ewe, kuvakala ngathi yinto nje, kodwa ngokwenene, musa ukugweba incwadi ngesigqubuthelo sayo. Ngaloo mini ndadibana nomyeni wam e-altare kwaye andizange ndithandwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndacinga ukuba akuyi kusebenza. Xa abantu bekubona oko, bandibiza ngokungacacanga kwaye oko kwaboniswa emoyeni kwaye yayihlazo. Kodwa, ndafunda kuyo.
Emva kokuba yenzekile, sasilapho Umbono kwaye u-Whoopi Goldberg uthe kum, 'Wenza inkonzo elolu hlobo kwabasetyhini ngokubabonisa ukuba ayithethi ngento engaphandle yile ingaphakathi. Oko kwandivula kakhulu amehlo.
Okwangoku, uDoug ungene kunye, Ewe, kwaye ixesha elininzi lithatha ixesha ukungena ngaphakathi, kodwa kufanelekile ukufika apho.
Kulabo babukeli abacinga UJamie noDoug: Batshatile ekuBoneni kokuqala kunye neNye ngumboniso nje oqhelekileyo malunga nesibini esitshatileyo esinomntwana, utshilo uJamie, kuninzi kakhulu kunoko kuba sivulekile kakhulu malunga nokulahleka kosana lwethu lokuqala nangokubhekisele kwiintshukumo zentsapho ngokunjalo. Ndivela kwimvelaphi yosapho elurhabaxa kwaye nabani na osengqondweni elungileyo uyakukufihla oko kwaye abe neentloni ekuboniseni loo nto, kuba ayintle, kodwa besiyivule nyani loo nto kuba ndiyathemba ukuba iyanceda abanye abantu.
Lo mboniso ungaphezulu kwee-diopy diapers kunye nobusuku bokungalali, wongeze uDoug. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba kubalulekile ukukhankanya ukuba akukho mbuzo, sihloko okanye imeko engekho etafileni. Sivumele iikhamera ukuba zibekhona ekuzalweni kwentombi yethu, xa sithetha ngemicimbi yethu yokusondelelana nayo yonke into, ngalo lonke ixesha sizama ukuqonda ukuba singangabazali njani. Ndicinga ukuba le iya kuba yeyona nto ibalaseleyo yokubonisa umntu anokuze ayibone.
Ngeli xesha uJamie uyagigitheka kancinci wathi, Kulungile busi. Indlela yokuziphulula emqolo.
UJamie noDoug: Batshatile ekuBoneni kokuqala kunye neNye Ukukhaba kunye neyure enesiqingatha esikhethekileyo, ngolwesiBini wokuqala, nge-19 kaDisemba ngentsimbi yesi-8. e / iphe. Iziqendu ezibini zemizuzu engama-30 ziya kudlalwa ngoLwesibini olandelayo, ukuqala kwe-26 kaDisemba nge-10 ngokuhlwa e / p kubomi bonke.
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