(Ifoto: UJulien Blanc)
Ngenye imini ndafumana i-imeyile engahleliwe evela kumntu ondixelele ngokungakumbi ngaye kunokuba wayeyintloko yehlazo leendaba 'ezinkulu'. Ukuba bendifuna ukwazi ngayo, kufanelekile ukuba ndinguGoogle igama lakhe.
Ndenze njalo ke. Njengoko kusenzeka, lo mntu yayinguJulien Blanc othe kwiinyanga nje ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo wabizwa ngokuba ngu eyona ndoda ithiyiweyo emhlabeni ngeXESHA. Wayecingelwa ukuba ungumxhasi wohlaselo ngokwesondo (ebamba abantu basetyhini kwizixeko zangaphandle kwaye ebatsalela kwindawo yakhe yokuhlala) -kukubi, wayebafundisa kwaye ebakhuthaza abanye abafana ukuba bazibandakanye nabo. Emva kwakhe uvele kwiradar iqaqobana lamatshantliziyo e-intanethi, konke kwawa phantsi. I-hashtag #UkuthathwaJulienBlanc ube sisihloko esithandwayo. Wayenqatshelwe ukuhamba kumazwe aliqela, ubudlelwane bakhe kwezoshishino babutshabalalisile kwaye igama lakhe njenge-monster liqinile.
Okanye ubuncinci yile nto ndiyifundileyo. UJulien wayendithumelele i-imeyile kuba wayenomdla kudliwanondlebe nam, ngenxa incwadi yam kunye nemibhalo yokusasazwa kweendaba . Kuyavela ukuba wenza kakuhle kwaye unabaphulaphuli abakwi-Intanethi. Ndavuma udliwanondlebe kwimeko enye-yokuba ndiza kudliwanondlebe naye emva.
Ke kwakhona, ndizifumene ndithetha nomntu onamabali endiwalandeleyo ngexesha elililo kwaye ndenze umbono ongalunganga. Kodwa ngokuthetha-kule meko, ukubona ubuso bakhe kwi-Skype -Kube nzima ukubamba olo luvo. Ngaba kungenxa yokuba ndinentlekisa kangaka kundenze ukuba ndijolise ekuphathweni? Ndikholelwa nje ngokuchaseneyo noko wonke umntu akucingayo? Okanye ngaba ngeli xesha lamabali e-intanethi edolweni, siphulukene namandla okuzivavanya? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba abantu banzima nje? Ukuba uninzi lwamaxesha esithanda ukuwaphawula njengamanyala okanye amabi yinto nje esingavumelaniyo nayo okanye ekufumaneni nje ukungathandeki?
Ndiza kukuvumela ukuba ube ngumgwebi walonto. Ngayiphi na imeko, nangu uJulien Blanc echaza ukuba kunjani ukuba ngumxholo wengqumbo yamajelo eendaba kwilizwe liphela, ukubukela uphawu lwakho olunempikiswano luqhushumbe ebusweni bakho kwaye ulwa nezityholo ezinzulu ezivela kumagosa aseburhulumenteni, amatshantliziyo olwela amalungelo ababhinqileyo kunye nabafundi abanomdla.
Xa undithumelele i-imeyile, uthe nje uyinxalenye yehlazo elikhulu kumajelo eendaba. Ngaba leyo yindlela obona ngayo? Khawusixelele ukuba ibiyintoni kwaye kwenzeke ntoni?
Ekuqaleni ndandipapashe ividiyo kwiYouTube, ndibonisa imizuzu emi-5-7 yesemina eyayibanjelwe eSan Francisco, apho ndithetha ngohambo lwam oluya eJapan kunyaka ongaphambili. Ngoku, ukucaca, into endiyithethayo kule vidiyo ayinanto yakwenza noko ndikufundisayo. Yayilibali nje elifutshane elinemizuzu emi-5-7 xa ndandilapho, ndicinga ukuba kuyahlekisa ukuthi xa ndisitsho ndicaphukise isihlwele.
Imifanekiso yam esidlangalaleni yayihlala ikhuthaza kakhulu kwaye isekwe kwintengiso yothuselo, kwaye bonke abalandeli bam bayazi ukuba bangayithathi kakhulu. Eli candelo levidiyo lidlale kanye kuloo nto, kwaye ndongeze eminye yemiboniso yohambo lwam oluya eJapan esiphelweni salo, ndinqumle ngendlela yokongeza ixabiso lokothuka.
Okwenzekileyo emva koko, kukuba umntu othile uthathe le vidiyo, wayilungisa ngaphandle kwemvume yam, ehlengahlengisa umxholo wesemina ukwenza ukuba kubonakale ngathi ndizimisele ngale nto ndiyithethayo, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyenza ibonakale ngathi bendifundisa yiyo. Yeyiphi, ewe, yayingeyiyo kwaphela.
Le vidiyo ihleliweyo emva koko yahamba yintsholongwane kwi-tumblr kwaye abantu, bengazi ukuba ndifundisa ntoni okanye uphawu lwam oluxhokonxayo, babecaphukile.
Ndandiqhuba iminyhadala yasimahla eOstreliya ngelo xesha, ekwakufuneka ndiyirhoxisile, njengoko iihotele zazifumana amakhulu eminxeba, ii-imeyile, kunye nokulinganiswa okungalunganga kwi-Intanethi ukubabamba.
UKUYA utshintsho.org Isikhalazo saqaliswa kwenye yeehotele, kwaye xa sasirhoxisa umsitho wam, igama lesikhalazo liya kutshintshwa lize lithunyelwe kwiihotele ezilandelayo, kugcinwe iisiginitsha zalo zokuqala. Kamva yathunyelwa kurhulumente wase-Australia.
Ngoku, ngokuchasene noko kwakuthethwa kumajelo eendaba, andizange ndavalwa e-Australia. I-visa yam irhoxisiwe ngenxa yobuchwephesha obusonjululwe ngoku, kodwa ezi ndaba zibubuxoki zenze ukuba ibali libe likhulu.
Izikhalazo ezitsha zaye zamiselwa kumazwe amaninzi zifuna ukuba bandivimbe nam, kwaye iakhawunti engeyiyo yeTwitter yenziwa nongxowankulu endaweni ye l ku: @RSDJulien Le akhawunti yobuxoki kaTwitter yabhala: Ndibhatale kwaye ubadlwengule konke okucatshulweyo ngawo onke amajelo eendaba, kwaye kamva ngoorhulumente bokwenyani, kwaye ibali laye latshintsha ukusuka ekufundiseni ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, ukufundisa ukudlwengulwa.
Emva koko, amanye amacandelo evidiyo, ii-tweets kunye nemifanekiso zahlelwa ngokukhethekileyo okanye zathathwa ngaphandle komxholo ukuqhubela phambili ibali. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, mna yavela kwi-CNN Ukuxolisa ngayo yonke ingqumbo kwaye ndikwenze kucace ukuba ayisiyiyo le ndiyifundisayo.
Ndicinga ukuba ihlabathi libone lahluke kakhulu kunendlela ozibona ngayo kunye nendlela ocinga ukuba uya kubonakala ngayo. Ucinga ukuba umsebenzi wakho wawumele ukuba ubekutolikwa njani?
Njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, umfanekiso wam esidlangalaleni wawusoloko uvusa inkanuko, wothusa kwaye uxabana, kwigumbi lokutshixa / ukujikeleza kweBorat okufana nokuhlekisa. Yeyona engile bendiyisebenzisa ukwakha uphawu lwam.
Kodwa andikaze ndifundise nayiphi na into endityholwa ngayo ukuba ndiyazifundisa.
Hamba nathi ngendlela obukufumana ngayo ekugqibeleni kwakho. Uthumele ividiyo, yafumana ingqwalaselo kwaye ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, 'ungoyena mntu uthiyekileyo emhlabeni' kwaye ungavunyelwa ukuba uye kumazwe ambalwa. Ngaba ukhe wazama ukuzicacisa? Zeziphi iimpazamo ocinga ukuba uzenzile?
Izinto zazinyuka ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndandijamelene nezityholo zobuxoki, kangangokuba kwakungekho nto ndinokuyenza. Ukuba andibakhathalelanga, abantu bangacinga ukuba bangokwenene… Kwaye ukuba ndibaphendulile, abantu bangacinga ukuba bangokwenyani ngenxa yokuba ndibabongile.
Ke andizange ndenze nto ekuqaleni… Ndandiqinisekile ukuba ngaxa lithile abantu bayakuyiqonda inyani, leyo kukuba andifundisi nanye kwezi zinto.
Kodwa emva kwethutyana, ukubona ibali liba likhulu kwaye lilikhulu, kulapho ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiye kwi-CNN.
Itshantliziyo elalikhokele iphulo uJenn Li — wawufumana njani umsebenzi wakho? Ucinga ukuba yayiyintoni inkuthazo yakhe? Zininzi izinto ezibuyayo malunga nembono yamaLungelo oLuntu lwezeNtlalontle, malunga neentloni ze-intanethi , Ndide kubhaliwe malunga 'nabenza inzuzo yomsindo.' Ngaba ucinga ukuba wayenyanisekile? Ngaba senikhe nathetha?
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba uyifumene ividiyo ehleliweyo kwi-tumblr. Andimazi, kwaye andikaze ndithethe naye.
Kunokubakho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kokunxibelelana kwi-Intanethi kunye ne-infamy vs ilizwe lokwenyani. Ngaba ukhe wadibana nomntu ngezi zinto? Ngaba waqatshelwa? Ngaphandle komcimbi ophethe ii-visa, ngaba oku kuphumele ngaphandle kwinyani yakho yemihla ngemihla?
I-imeyile yam, u-Facebook kunye no-Twitter bebegcwele imiyalezo yemihla ngemihla yentiyo kunye nezisongelo zokufa, kodwa andikaze ndiqatshelwe okanye ndisondele buqu, hayi.
Enye yezinto endicinga ukuba abantu bayazikhumbula kwezinye zezi ziganeko kukuba banokuba luncedo. Njani ishishini lakho njengomqeqeshi ukuthandana nomcebisi ukususela oko kwenzeka? Bube njani ubomi bakho bothando? Yintoni elandelayo kuwe?
Okwangoku ndandisa ngaphaya kwempumelelo nje nabafazi, ndisabelana ngento endiyifundileyo kuyo yonke le minyaka yokuhamba kunye nokufundisa, kunye nezinto endizifundileyo ngoku. Ndiqalise nejelo elitsha le-YouTube: YouTube.com/c/JulienNgaye
Okokugqibela, ungabacebisa uthini abanye abantu abasebenza kwimicimbi engachanekanga kwezopolitiko njengeyakho ukuba bayenze ukuthintela impikiswano enje? Ungamcebisa uthini umntu ozifumana ephakathi komsindo we-intanethi?
Gxila kubaphulaphuli bakho abaphambili kodwa SUKUYEKA ungabahoyi abanye. Ndandibambekile ekuphenduleni abaphulaphuli bam bodwa ukuba ukuthengisa kwam kuye kwaqhubela phambili kwaye kude kude nokubuyiselwa kubantu ababengengabo abalandeli abaphambili.
Iincwadi ezi-3 ezindincedileyo ukuba ndiqonde konke okwenzekayo zezi:
- Umhlathi weglasi nguEric Dezenhall
- Ke Uhlazekile esidlangalaleni- uJon Bronson
- Ndithembe, ndiyaxoka -Ryan Holiday
URyan Holiday ngumbhali othengisa kakhulu Ndithembe, ndiyaxoka: Ukuvuma koMlawuli weendaba . URyan ungumhleli-omkhulu we-Braganca, kwaye Uhlala eAustin, eTexas.
Udibanise nalento Uluhlu lweencwadi ezili-15 ukuba awuzange uve ukuba iya kutshintsha umbono wakho wehlabathi, ikuncede ugqwese kwikhondo lakho kwaye ikufundise indlela yokuphila ubomi obungcono.
