URoee, uNatalie noLiam Tsimhoni bavalelwe kumaziko abantwana eMichigan iiveki ezimbini. (MyFoxDetroit.com / ngemyfoxdetroit.com)
Izolo, uMqwalaseli uprinte udliwanondlebe no-Omer Tsimhoni, utata waseMichigan onedabi elinzima lokugcina nelungelo lokuba ngumfazi nowayesakuba ngumfazi uMaya Tsimhoni kukhokelele ekubeni abantwana babo abathathu-uLiam, uRoee, noNatalie, abali-14, 10 no-9 babekwe kwizibonelelo zikarhulumente. Umongo webali kukuba amaShimhon ahlukana ngo-2008 kwaye babenelungelo lokugcina abantwana kunye noNkosazana Tsimhoni obagcina ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye noMnu Tsimhonis wayevumela ukutyelelwa, ngamanye amaxesha kubekwe iliso, ngamanye amaxesha kungabikho mntu ulawulwayo.
Emva kwemijikelo eliqela yamadabi asemthethweni, iJaji ye-Oakland County Family Court u-Lisa Gorcyca uqukumbele ngelithi umama wabo uphinde wasilela ekufezekiseni imigaqo yelungelo lokuhlala kunye. Kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo wayalela abantwana kumaziko amabini ahlukeneyo abantwana.
Ukuba oko kubonakala kungenakuchazeka kuwe, ewe, kunjalo nakum. Kwaye iyenzeka kuJennifer Hoult, igqwetha lesiXeko saseNew York eliphatha amanyathelo asemthethweni egameni labo bobathathu abantwana.
Njengoko ndibhalile kwibali izolo, kukho amacala amabini ubuncinci kwimbali yayo nantoni na eyahamba gwenxa kumtshato waseTsimhoni. Kodwa ukuvalela abantwana ngaphandle kubonakala ngathi… baphambene. UNks Hoult wafikelela kwi-Braganca ukuba axoxe ngale meko iphazamisayo kunye nengxaki.
Okwakho kukuphela kwengxelo kumaphephandaba aseNew York athe aziswa engqondweni yam ngoko ke ndifuna ukuqiniseka ukuba kulungile, utshilo uNkskz. Hoult kolunye udliwanondlebe ngomnxeba. Uqhawulo-mtshato lubuhlungu. Zininzi iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu. Kukho zonke iintlobo zezinto eziqhubekayo kwiintsapho kunye nobudlelwane. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda oko iinkundla sele zigweba ngazo.
NgokukaNkskz. Hoult, kunokubakho indibano engxamisekileyo ebizelwe ingomso-ngolwesiHlanu, nge-10 kaJulayi-ke amagqwetha macala onke ayangxama ukufumana amaphepha abo kunye nezindululo.
Ngokwento eza kwenzeka, ngoku umama kude kube ngulo myalelo wakutshanje obeka abantwana elugcinweni olusisigxina kwiziko lokugcina ulutsha de babe neminyaka eli-18, abantwana babeselugcinweni lomama kwaye babebeke iliso kutyelelo lukayise, njenge ngenxa yokufunyanwa kweenkonzo zokukhusela abantwana. Ndiyayazi into ezakwenziwa yinkundla? Hayi. Ngaba ndiyazi ukuba inkundla iza kwenza into nini? Hayi, kodwa ijaji yelizwe izakuva ingxelo ye-habeas corpus kwiveki ezayo. Umgcini wentengiso ukhuthaze ukuqhubeka nokuvalelwa ngokusisigxina kwabantwana kukuqonda kwam.
Isibhalo abhekisa kuso sisindululo esingxamisekileyo esifakwe ngumama ukuze abantwana baphume eluvalelweni. I-ad litem yomgcini (eyaziwa kwezinye iindawo, kubandakanya iNew York, njengeNkundla eyonyulwe iiGqwetha eziKhethekileyo okanye i-CASA ngokufutshane) ligqwetha okanye omnye ummeli otyunjelwe ukumela iimfuno zomntwana.
Kuyamangalisa ukuba lo mntu wayeza kuthi axhase isigwebo esimalunga neminyaka emine kumntwana omdala kunye nesithoba ngoyena mncinci. Ayisiyiyo kuphela into emangazayo ngale nyathelo.
Yimeko eyoyikisayo ngokomgaqo-siseko. Umyalelo wokuvalelwa ufundeka njengomyalelo wokuhanjiswa. Abavumelekanga ukuba banxibelelane nabanye, nonina, negqwetha labo. Ijaji yayalela ukuba oyena mncinci - intombi, intombazana eneminyaka esithoba ubudala, ayivumelekanga ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngasese de ibe neminyaka eyi-18. Ukuba oko kuvakala kukhathaza intliziyo, kukhulu kuphela xa ufunda iinkcukacha ngabantwana.
Omnye umhlobo wosapho (ukhetha ukuba igama lakhe lingasetyenziswa), ongumama womhlobo wesikolo sikaLiam, wasibeka ngokucacileyo kuMbonisi. Abathathu abahle, abanobuhlobo, abonwabileyo kwaye siza kuziphatha kakuhle abantwana bagcinwe kwindawo yokugcina abantwana. [Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani owonayo kwiingxaki zabo zokuqhawula umtshato, aba bantwana abanaphutha! Nceda uncede aba bantwana bathandekayo abamsulwa! 
Ijaji yase-Oakland County uLisa Gorcyca yijaji eyongameleyo kwicandelo losapho kwaye yonyulwa ngo-2008. (Ifoto: oakgov.com)
UNks Hoult uphawula la mazwi kwaye wongeza iinkcukacha ezithile malunga neLiam.
Aba bantwana banesiphiwo esigqwesileyo kwezemfundo. Abemi abaselula abalungileyo, abanembeko, abona bantu bancinci banokubacingela kwaye zange babanengxaki kwaye ngoku bavalelwe de babe neminyaka eli-18 ubudala. Kwaye abazi ukuba nabani na ongaphandle wenza nantoni na ukubanceda. Omdala, uLiam, uneziphiwo zemathematika ukuba amenywe ukuba aye kwinkqubo yemathematics elite eStanford kweli hlobo. Ungumzalwana olungileyo kangangokuba wacela ukwamkelwa kwade kwafika abantakwabo abancinci.
UNks Hoult akamtsha kule nto. Ukanti wenza inqaku lokuba le nto ayibonileyo apha ayizange ibonwe. Nokuba bekungekho buhlungu kangako, ukholelwa ukuba imibuzo ephambili yomgaqo-siseko isemngciphekweni.
Uqhawulo mtshato lwabazali, indlela abazali abafuna ukuyilungisa ngayo imicimbi yabo, eyenzeka mihla le. Bendihlala ndimela abantwana kwiNkundla yoSapho yaseBrooklyn kwaye ndinokuxelela ukuba ubuya kuva amabali imini yonke. Kodwa awungekuva amabali abantwana abavalelwe ixesha eliphakathi kweminyaka emine nesithoba ngenxa yokusebenzisa amalungelo abo omgaqo-siseko kwaye bangaphuli mthetho kwaphela. Ijaji iyalele aba bantwana ukuba bafunde intetho ebhalwe yijaji. Wabayalela ukuba babe neemvakalelo kunye nobudlelwane umgwebi awayefuna ukuba babenabo, nto leyo eyaphula amalungelo abo asisiseko omgaqo-siseko.
Ewe kunjalo, ukufundwa kwento ebhaliweyo kunamacandelo apho kubonakala ngathi ijaji iwuthatha wonke umcimbi njengobundlobongela. Kwinqaku elinye elingaqhelekanga, igqwetha lika-Liam, uJeffrey Schwartz ucacisa ukuba uyalele u-Liam ukuba axolise kwijaji ngokusilela ukuthobela umyalelo wakhe wokunxibelelana notata wakhe kwaye uxelele ukuba ukuba uyaqhubeka nokutyeshela imiyalelo yejaji uyakubanjwa ngendelelo. kwaye ibekwe kwilali yabantwana de ithobele. Ijaji icela uLiam ukuba azithethele: Ufuna ukuthini enkundleni, ukuba ikhona into.
Liam: Kulungile, ke mna .. Ndicela uxolo ukuba ngaba-- andiqondanga ukuba imithetho ye - efana - ne - ne - ne - ngathi uxolisa kuyo nayiphi na into endiyenzileyo kuwe, kodwa andixoli- ndingathethi naye kuba ndinesizathu soko kungenxa yokuba unobundlobongela kwaye ndimbonile ebetha umama kwaye andizukuthetha naye.
UMgwebi Lisa Gorcyca: Kulungile. Ewe, inkundla ikufumana udelele ngokuthe ngqo. Ndakuyalela ukuba ube nobudlelwane obusempilweni notata wakho. Ndibonile umama wakho ngo-11: 30 ekuxelela ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba ufuna ukuba uthethe notata wakho, uthethe notata wakho, ukuba uyakuthanda, ukuba akazukulimaza, kwaye akazukumlimaza. Ungumfana odelelayo, odelelayo kwaye ndiyakuyalela ukuba uchithe lonke ixesha lasehlotyeni - kwaye siza kuliphonononga xa kuqala isikolo, kwaye usenokuba uya esikolweni phaya. Ke uya kuba-ndiyaku-odola kwiLali yaBantwana. Ngaba ikhona into ongathanda ukuyithetha ngaloo nto?
Liam: Andenzanga nto imbi, ke…
Ijaji Lisa Gorcyca: Hayi, uyenzile. Ndakuyalela ukuba uthethe notatakho. Ukhethe ukungathethi notata wakho. Uthobele umyalelo wenkundla othe ngqo. Kukudelela ngokuthe ngqo ke ndikufumanisa unetyala lokudelwa.
Liam: Kodwa wayengoyena-nto ingalunganga
UMgwebi uLisa Gorcyca: Uxolo?
Liam: Kwenzeka njani ukuba - bendicinga ukuba kukho imithetho efana nayo xa - imithetho yokungathandi, uyazi, ingabethi mntu, kutheni ndisiya ku…
UMgwebi uLisa Gorcyca: Ndakuyalela-ndiza kuyithetha le nto kwakhona, kwaye kuyacaca ukuba une-IQ ephezulu, endiyithandabuzayo ngoku ngenxa yendlela owenza ngayo. Udelele kakhulu, awunasimilo, ndikuyalele ukuba ube nobudlelwane notata wakho.
Kuyi-surreal kwaye kubuhlungu ukuyifunda, ngakumbi xa ukhumbula ukuba uneminyaka eli-14 ubudala. Kwaye ukuba, njengam, unonyana malunga nelo xesha kwaye ujonge indlela ayoyika ngayo ukuba angathetha nomgwebi sele enezibonda esele zichaziwe. Kuyothusa ukucinga ukuba iMelika ibinokuba njani ukuba wonke umntu oneminyaka eli-14 ubudala owayedelela uyise angavalelwa ngequbuliso.
UNks Hoult unikezela ngengcinga yokugqibela. Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni ngabazali, akukho sizathu sokuba abantwana bavalelwe.
Ndiyavuma.
UMgwebi uGorcyca, ukuba ufunda le nto, yenza into elungileyo. Ukukhulula abantwana baseTsimhoni.
