Ubomi nguMdlalo weVidiyo-Nazi iikhowudi zokukopela

Wamkelekile, uMdlali wokuqala, kwisikhokelo seqhinga somdlalo owaziwa njengoBomi.

Njengoko ngokungathandabuzekiyo uye wafumanisa, umdlalo woBomi uhlala unzima kakhulu. Uya kujongana nemiceli mngeni engalindelekanga kunye nexesha elide lokukhathazeka. Uya kuhlala ulwa nokungazithembi, uzive ukonganyiswa kukungancedi kunye nelahleko, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uthathe ikaka xa uphuma kwiphepha langasese.

Ewe, uBomi bunzima, njengoko isitsho njalo.

Kodwa ungoyiki, esi sikhokelo sifutshane senzelwe ukukunceda ugqibezele uthumo lwakho kwaye ugqibezele umdlalo kwelona nqanaba liphezulu.

INDLELA YOKUPHUMELELA EBOMINI

Injongo yoBomi ilula: kukukwinqanaba eliphezulu kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Inqanaba ngalinye lobomi linika umceli mngeni othile ekufuneka uwoyisile. Nje ukuba woyise lo mceli mngeni, uya phambili kwiNqanaba elilandelayo. Injongo kukugqiba amanqanaba amaninzi ngangokunokwenzeka. Ekupheleni komdlalo, umntu okwinqanaba eliphezulu uya kuba ngowona mngcwabo ubalaseleyo.

Amanqanaba amahlanu ebomini:

• Inqanaba 1-Fumana ukutya; fumana ibhedi oza kulala kuyo ebusuku
• Inqanaba 2-Yazi ukuba awuyi kufa
• Inqanaba lesi-3-Fumana abantu bakho
• Inqanaba 4-Yenza into ebalulekileyo nexabisekileyo kuwe nakwabanye
• Inqanaba lesi-5-Yenza ilifa

Inqanaba 1 kuthetha nje ukuba awunakhaya kwaye / okanye ulambile. Le yinto efunekayo kuyo yonke into. Amathuba kukuba, ukuba ubambekile kwiNqanaba 1, awukayifundi le nto ngoku.

Inqanaba 2 Kuya kusiba nzima ngakumbi, kuba abantu abaninzi banebhedi entle yokulala ubusuku ngabunye, kodwa abakwazi ukulala ngenxa yemipu ngaphandle okanye iibhombu eziqhushumbe ngaphezulu kwesixeko sabo, okanye mhlawumbi utata unxilile kwaye uqhubeka ezama ukuseta indlu ngomlilo.

Akukho nanye kwezi zinto epholileyo. Inqanaba 2 lifuna ukuba ufumane ikhaya elikhuselekileyo nelizinzileyo ukuze uzinze kulo. Ukufumana iNqanaba 2 elidlulileyo kufuna ukufumana indlela yokuzisusa ngempumelelo kwezi meko ziyingozi.

Inqanaba 3 kuthetha ubudlelwane, ukufumana abantu abafanelekileyo ukubathanda kunye nabantu abafanelekileyo abakuthandayo.

Oku kuvakala kulula kwaye kumnandi ngakumbi kunokuba kunjalo. Ngokukodwa kuba, njengoko sele ufumene ngoku, uninzi lwabantu luyancanca.

Ukuzulazula kwabo bangenayo yinto enobuqhetseba endiya kuthi ndifike kuyo kancinci.

Inqanaba 4 kuthetha ukwakha ezinye ubuchule okanye ulwazi okanye ubuchule obongeza ixabiso kwilizwe elikungqongileyo kwaye kukwenze uzive ngathi luhlobo lwe-badass kwinkqubo.

Inqanaba 5 kuthetha nje ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubomi bakho bubalulekile xa ufile. Ngethamsanqa ngaloo champ.

Uninzi lwethu luba nesiqalo esihle sentloko ngenxa yabazali bethu. Ukuba unethamsanqa, abazali bakho baya kuba bakukhokele ngempumelelo kumaNqanaba 1-3 kwaye banokunika amandla afanelekileyo ekufezekiseni iNqanaba 4.

Ukuba abazali bakho bakukhathalele kodwa babe luhlobo lwefuck ups ngokweemvakalelo, uya kuba nenqanaba loku-1 kunye ne-2 phantsi kwepat kodwa ube ngokwakho uwedwa kwinqanaba le-3.

Ukuba ukhuliswe ziingcuka, a) Siyavuyisana nawe ngokufunda, kwaye b) nceda uyeke ukuhlafuna isixhobo sakho esiphathwayo.

UYILO LOBOMI

Ubomi ngumdlalo omkhulu kwaye unzima. Ngowona mdlalo mkhulu wehlabathi ovulekileyo owaziwayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Sonke siqala ngezibalo zokuqala ezahlukeneyo kwaye sibekwe kuluhlu olubanzi lweendawo ezinokuthi zisinike izibonelelo okanye izinto ezingalunganga.

Kodwa ngenxa yokuba uninzi lwabantu lunengxaki yokuqonda uBomi, ke ngoko bacinga ukuba abanalawulo kuBomi. Kodwa akukho nto inokuthi iqhubeke nenyaniso.

Uyilo lomdlalo wobomi ngenene luyamangalisa ngokulula. Ikhokelwa yimigaqo esisiseko embalwa eyilelweyo ukunika umdlali amava wenani elikhulu lokungahleli.

1. Ubomi benzelwe ukuqhubeka nokuphosa iingxaki ezinzima nezingalindelekanga kuwe. Ubomi ngumsinga ongapheliyo weengxaki ekufuneka ujongane nazo, ukoyisa kunye / okanye ukusonjululwa. Ukuba nangaliphi na ixesha, uBomi buphelelwa ziingxaki ukusinika, emva koko njengabadlali, siza kuthi siziqambele iingxaki. Iingxaki zezisigcina sixakekile kwaye yenza ubomi bethu bube nenjongo kwaye, ke ngoko, ayimfuneko ukoyisa amaNqanaba 4 no-5 (nika ixabiso kwaye ushiye ilifa).

Njengabadlali, sichitha ixesha lethu elininzi silungiselela iingxaki ezikhoyo kulindeleke . Kodwa kungenxa yolu lungiselelo apho, ngokwenkcazo, ezona ngxaki zinzima sihlangabezana nazo ebomini ziya kuba engalindelekanga .

Olu thotho luzinzileyo lweengxaki ezingalindelekanga zinika umdlali umbono wokuba akanalo ulawulo kubomi bakhe, ngelixa, injongo yoBomi ayikokulawula okwenzekayo kuwe, kodwa endaweni yoko lawula kwaye ukhethe ukusabela kwinqanaba eliphezulu kwinto eyenzekayo kuwe .

2. Abadlali banokuphendula kwiingxaki nokuba sisisombululo okanye iziphazamiso. Bonke abadlali kufuneka bahlangane neengxaki ngempendulo (nokuba bakhethe ukungaziphenduli ngengxaki, yona ngokwayo, impendulo).

Zonke iimpendulo zinokwahlulwa ngeendlela ezimbini: Izisombululo kunye nokuphazamiseka.

Izisombululo zizenzo kunye nezinto ezilandela ukusombulula ingxaki ekuthinteleni ukuba iqhubeke okanye iphinde yenzeke kwakhona kwixa elizayo. Iziphazamiso Zizenzo okanye izinto ezilungiselelwe ukwenza ukuba uMdlali angabazi ubukho bengxaki okanye ukuthomalalisa iintlungu ezinokubangelwa yingxaki.

Ukuba umdlali uziva eyayiqonda ingxaki kwaye ekwazi ukuyisingatha, baya kulandela isisombululo. Ukuba abadlali bayagula bubomi, baya kuthi emva koko baphishekele ukuphazamiseka ukubanceda wenze ngathi ingxaki ayikho .

3. Okukhona kusetyenziswa iSisombululo okanye isiphazamiso ngasinye, kokukhona kuya kuba lula kwaye kube lula ngakumbi kwixa elizayo. Rhoqo usebenzisa isisombululo okanye isiphazamiso, kuya kuba lula ukusebenzisa kwakhona, ukuya kuthi ga kwindawo apho ekugqibeleni kungazi nto kwaye kuzenzekelayo. Xa isisombululo okanye ukuphazamiseka kungazi nto kwaye kuyazenzekela, kunjalo iba ngumkhwa .

Imikhwa iyimfuneko kuba iyakuthintela ukuba ungabuyeli kumaNqanaba angaphambili osele uwoyisile. Umdlali, bakuba befumene isisombululo ukuya kwinqanaba, kufuneka asebenzise eso sisombululo amaxesha aneleyo okwenza ukuba ibe sisiqhelo, ngaloo ndlela alawule elo nqanaba kwaye abavumele ukuba badlulele kwinqanaba elilandelayo.

4. Izisombululo zisishukumisela kwinqanaba elilandelayo, iziphazamiso zisigcina sikwiNqanaba elinye. Kuba ukufumana amaNqanaba oBomi kufuna ukusombulula iingxaki, ukuziphazamisa kwiingxaki zethu kuqinisekisa ukuba siza kubambeka kwinqanaba elinye.

Ukuba iziphazamiso zethu ziba ziMikhwa, emva koko siya kubambeka ngokungagungqiyo kwinqanaba kwaye ungazi . Ukuba ukhe wazibuza ukuba kutheni lonke ulwalamano lwakho lusilele kabuhlungu Kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo, amathuba akho okuPhambuka ayakuthintela ekufezekiseni ulwalamano lokwenene Kuyimfuneko ukubetha iNqanaba 3.

5. Ifomula yokuphumelela kumdlalo woBomi ke ngoko ilula ngendlela emangalisayo :

• a) zichonge ngokuchanekileyo izisombululo kunye nokuphazamiseka
• b) ukuphelisa iziphazamiso
• c)?
• d) inzuzo

Umzekelo omnye olula: Kukho ingxaki emsebenzini kwaye umphathi wam uyandicaphukela, kungoko ndinokulandela isisombululo (jongana nomphathi wam, jonga ukudluliselwa, usebenze nzima, njlnjl.) Okanye ndingalandela ukuphazamiseka (ipati qho ebusuku, ukutshaya Ukuqhekeka, ukuphulula amalungu esini ngelixa ubukele iikhathuni zeDisney, njl.

Rhoqo ndikhetha isisombululo, kokukhona kuya kwenza ukuba kube lula ukukhetha izisombululo ezilandelayo, oko ke kukhokelela kumgangatho ophezulu wokugqibela. Rhoqo ndikhetha ukuphazamiseka, kokukhona kuya kwenza ukuba kube lula ukukhetha iziphazamiso ezilandelayo, oko kundenza ukuba ndibulale umntu onesondo.

Inqaku lokugqibela ngaphambi kokuba ndikufundise ukuba ungabukhohlisa njani ubomi kwaye uzenzele ipiramidi enkulu xa usifa:

Kungenxa yokuba iNqanaba lakho lithetha ukuba iingxaki aziyeki kumanqanaba angaphambili. Inqanaba loku-1 lokutya kuka-bro. Sonke kufuneka sikhuseleke ukufeza nantoni na (iNqanaba 2). Ubudlelwane buthatha umsebenzi (Inqanaba 3), njani, njani.

Ke cinga ngokuPhakamisa phezulu ngokunganyanzelekanga ukuba ushiye iijaggling baseball uye ekujongeni iimela. Endaweni yokuba ukunyusa umgangatho kufana nokuhamba usenza iimela ezintathu ukuya kwezine, emva koko zibe ntlanu, njalo njalo.

Apha ngezantsi kukho iikhowudi ezintlanu zokukhohlisa ukukunceda uhambe ngendlela yakho yoBomi kwaye ufikelele esiphelweni wanelisekile kwaye u-Leveled-Up.

Ukungena kwezi khowudi zokukopela kulula: cinezela nje i-Tab kwi-Screen View ukufikelela kwiLiso leNgqondo. Inkqubo ye- Ingqondo Kulapho uzijonga khona kwaye ukhethe ukuba ucinga ntoni. Ukusuka apho, chwetheza cheats ngezantsi kwi-Brain Prompt kwaye ubethe ENTER.

(Qaphela: Ezi zinto zikhohlisayo, njengezisombululo kunye nokuphazamiseka, zifuna ukuphindwaphindwa ukuze kusebenze Linda nabo. Kananjalo baya kuba yimikhwa yabo.)

CHEAT # 1: NDIMBOPHELELEKILEYO NGOKU

Inye indlela abantu abathandana ngayo kukuzixelela ukuba akukho nto banokuyenza malunga neengxaki uBomi abazinika zona.

Ungahlala wenza into malunga neengxaki uBomi obukunika zona.

Xa uthatha isigqibo sokuba akukho nto unokuyenza ukusombulula ingxaki, ukhawulezisa ngokukhawuleza ukuphendula okunokwenzeka kwiziphazamiso. Kwaye ukuba umda umda kwiimpendulo zakho kwiziphazamiso ngokwaneleyo, kungekudala uyakwakha uBomi obungenanto ngaphandle kweMikhwa yokuphazamiseka. Uyakuba ubaleka yonke into, nawo wonke umntu, ngalo lonke ixesha. Kwaye uya kujika ube yinqanaba-lokuzingca kuloo nto.

(Elinye inqaku: ukuzingca kubaluleke kakhulu ekuphazamiseni kwizisombululo. Kuba abantu abakungqongileyo kunye nolwalamano lwakho baxhamla kwizisombululo kunye neziphazamiso zihlala zikukhetha kwabanye, ukusoloko uphishekela iziphazamiso kuya kukwenza ube ngumntu ongafuni mntu uhlala naye Ngaphandle kokuba, oko kukuthi, balandela iziphazamiso ezifanayo ozenzayo. Uyazi, ii-ertyisi ezimbini kumbhobho wokuqhekeka nayo yonke loo nto.)

Le cheat yokuqala ibaluleke kakhulu, ndakhe ndabhala inqaku malunga nalo elibiziweyo Inkolelo yeNkulumbuso kwaye wayithumela kuyo Facebook njengamaxesha amathathu apheleleyo. Abanye abantu bade babelana ngayo kwaye ayingomama wam kuphela. Ukukopela # 1 kubaluleke kakhulu, ndinikezele isahluko sonke ku incwadi yam kuyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukuba uphumelele utywala ethekweni, bendiya kulibhala ebunzi nge-sharpie.

CHEAT # 2: BHALA LE SHIT PHANTSI

Hayi, andithethi ngokubhala phantsi ukuba unetyala kumhlobo wakho, uMike, iidola ezili-12 kwezi beers uziselayo. Nangona kunjalo, kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele.

Ukwahlula izisombululo kwiziphazamiso ebomini bakho kunzima kwaye kuyinkimbinkimbi. Kungenxa yokuba sinotyekelo loku sixokise thina malunga neziphazamiso zethu. Siyazixelela ukuba sifuna ukuphazamiseka. Siyazixelela ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwethu kukuzonwabisa nje okungenacala. Ukuba sinabo ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ewe, mhlawumbi ndivuke phantsi kwebhulorho ekugabheni kwam, kodwa ubuncinci ndikhumbule apho ndimise khona imoto. Yabona, Ndinoxanduva .

Kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ngamanye amaxesha siye sikholelwe ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwethu sisisombululo. Sicinga ukuba ukuchitha iiyure ezili-12 ngosuku eofisini kuya kusinika usapho esiluthandayo esilufunayo, ukuba ukudlala ivayolin epakini yotshintsho olungelulo ngumsebenzi olindele ukwenzeka.

Singahlala sichitha iminyaka (okanye amashumi eminyaka) silandela oko sikholelwa ukuba kuya kusilinganisela phezulu kuphela ukufumanisa ukuba besikhe satshintsha iingono zethu kule minyaka ili-12 idlulileyo, kwaye ngelixa livakala lilungile, asinanto siyibonisayo.

Kananjalo, sonke kufuneka sikhulise amandla okujonga ezethu iingcinga. Ngamanye amaxesha iingcali zengqondo zikubiza oku kukuqonda. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, ndiye ndayibhekisa kuyo njenge meta-eyoyikisayo . Apha, ndiza kuyibiza ukuba ayisiyi-fuckface.

Ukujonga ezakho iingcinga kwaye ungabi yi-fuckface, kuya kufuneka ukhuphe iingcinga zakho phambi kwakho kwaye wenze ngathi ayizizo ezakho. Kuphela kuxa unokuva indlela ezivakala zihlekisa ngayo.

Enye indlela eqhelekileyo yokwenza oku ukubhala phantsi iingcinga zakho rhoqo.

Oku kunokuba yincwadi, ukubhloga (ucinga ukuba iqale njani yonke le nto, phofu?), okanye iileta / ii-imeyile kubahlobo kunye nosapho.

Inxalenye ebalulekileyo kukuba uyasebenza ukumba kwiingxaki ebomini bakho kwaye ujonge indlela oziphethe ngayo ngokwembono yomntu wesithathu.

Njengaye, ndiyazi ukuba kuyavakala kumangalisa xa uthatha isigqibo soku jongana nemiba kaMama wakho ngokuphuma kweepilisi kunye nokulala noluhlu lwabafazi abasweleyo ngokwasemphefumlweni ukuze ukonwabele ukubaxelela ukuba babhabhe kamva. Oko kunokuba zive ingumbono olungileyo. Kodwa yibhale phantsi. Emva koko jonga ukuba uyintoni i-fuckface.

Unyango iyasebenza kule meko. Uya kuhlala esofeni kwaye uthethe inqwaba yezinto kulo mntu uhleli apha uzenza ngathi uyakhathala. Emva koko loo mntu uxelele iingcinga zakho kuwe, ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Kwaye ke ufana, yima, loo nto ivakala ingenangqondo kwaphela. Enkosi, uXwebhu. Kwaye emva koko uyadutyulwa ngenxa yokuba i-inshurensi yakho yezempilo ayiyigubungeli.

Ke, ukuba ufana ne- abanye abantu eMelika kwaye awuqinisekiswanga, ungafezekisa phantse yonke into ngokuhlakulela umkhwa wokubhala phantsi.

CHEAT # 3: YEKA UKUKHALAZA

Ukukhalaza ngokoqobo akufezekisi nto. Plane emva kwexesha? Ukuhamba ngeteksi kuqhuma? Ngaba uyithandayo indawo yokutyela ipitsa iponconcini?

Thatha umoya ophefumlayo… kwaye ubambe u… ngonaphakade, kuba ufuna njalo thula .

Ukukhalaza kuthatha ingxaki kwaye kuyolule. Kuthatha la mava akho naphina ukusukela kwinkathazo ukuya kwintlungu esemthethweni kwaye emva koko ayiguqule ibe leli qela lezentlalo, kwaye izinto zentlalo zifunxe kuba emva koko siziva sinyanzelekile yima ngakubo ubathethelele kwaye uqiniseke ukuba wonke umntu uyabaqonda kwaye uyavumelana nathi . Kwaye emva koko uye waba ngumntu ongathandekiyo ODLULA ukuba le ndawo yokutyela iyanya, kwaye uyakukhusela uluvo lwakho kude kuse ekufeni, nokuba kunjalo, awukhathali kangako, kwaye usenokude ube ngathi uyayithanda indawo ukuba ubungekho ' Ndayijika ke ndayenza le nto inkulu.

Abantu abakhalazi hayi kuba kukho into efunxa. Abantu bayakhalaza kuba bafuna uvelwano kunye ndiziva ndidibene nabo babangqongileyo .

Ngelishwa, ukukhalaza yeyona ndlela iluncedo yokunxibelelana nabanye abantu. Kufana nokusebenza kwi-cardio yakho ngokubhukuda kumanzi amdaka amdaka. Ewe, ufumana ukuzilolonga, kodwa uhh, yintoni le nto ikhula ebusweni bakho?

CHEAT # 4: YEKA UKUTHANDA

Emuva xa ndandisekholejini, ndaya kwi Zen ukubuyela umva, kwaye ndiyakhumbula inkosi ye-zen, ngexesha leseshoni ye-Q & A, ndacebisa ukuzama ukuyeka ukuphupha kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla kunye nokuyeka ukucinga ngezinto ngokubanzi.

Ndandineminyaka engama-20 ubudala ngelo xesha, kwaye ke, ndichitha ixesha lam elininzi lokuvuka ndicinga malunga a) namantombazana ashushu, b) ukugungqa ikatala phambi kweqela lamantombazana ashushu, okanye c) ukuphosa amaqela apholileyo ngokwenene aya kuzaliswa ngamantombazana ashushu ngokwenene.

Akufuneki ukuba ndithethe, ingcebiso yenkosi ye-zen yatshabalalisa uninzi lweengcinga ezazindinika ukufana ulonwabo ngeloxesha . Ndixhathisile umbono wokuba ikati iyamelana nokuhlamba.

Kodwa ke mna waya esiba mdala , ekugqibeleni yagqitywa kuyo yonke into yokutsala-kunye-nokutshisa-amantombazana into endicinga ukuba iyimfuneko kuyo nayiphi na indoda efuna nokubonakala kokuvuthwa, kwaye yaqonda ukuba u-Ms Zen master (ewe, yayingumfazi) wayelungile ngalo lonke ixesha.

Ingcinga yomntu yinto enamandla. Kwaye intelekelelo yinto emnandi yokudlala ngayo - yeyona nto isitsalayo kwiincwadi nakwimiboniso bhanyabhanya nakwiinkqubo zeTV esizibonela ngokuzingisileyo kwimpelaveki enye.

Kodwa xa isetyenziswa kuthi, intelekelelo inokuba lolunye uhlobo lokuphazamiseka. Inokuba yindlela yokuphepha okwenyani kwaye kuyinyani kuthi ngalo mzuzu, indlela yokuphila ngokukhululekileyo kwimifanekiso kunye izimvo esiziphiwe ngabanye . Yindlela yokuziva uzive ufezekile, lonke eli xesha ehleli esofeni yethu , ndedwa.

Uninzi lweengcinga eziphindaphindayo esinazo ngathi sisabela kukungazithembi kwethu. Iikhowudi zobomi zokukopela-yeka ukuCinga
Ndingabala inani lokungakhuseleki okuqhubekayo kulo mfanekiso, kodwa ukuba ndenzile, kuya kufuneka ndichithe lonke inqaku ndibala.Umbhali unikiwe

Ndiza kukunika ukuba uqikelele ukuba yintoni enye yokungazithembi kwam xa ndandineminyaka engama-20 ubudala… Yup, amantombazana ashushu (okanye isondo, okanye ukuba nomtsalane / onqwenelekayo / othandwayo, okanye nantoni na ofuna ukuyibiza).

Kwaye loo minqweno ayindincedanga ukusombulula oko kungazithembi. Ngokuchasene noko, ukuthanda kwam ukuhlala kumhlaba wefantasy (* ukukhohlela * iphonografi * ukukhwehlela *) egxile ekujongeni abantu basetyhini kwaye ukubabona njengokunqoba ngokwesondo kwandinyanzela ekuziphatheni nasekuthambekeni ebomini bam bokwenene ekwakunzima ukuyekelela kunokuba befanele ukuba njalo.

Ukuba uchitha iminyaka ucinga nge-yacht, ke amathuba okuba uyakuba ngumfo oza kuphazamisa ubomi bakhe bonke ukuyithenga. Ukuba ucinga ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba uyathandwa kwaye uyathandwa ngabo bonke, uya kusilela ukuzimela ngokwakho kula maxesha maninzi apho uya kudinga khona uninzi.

Iifantasy zifana nokunye ukuphazamiseka - ziya kusetyenziswa kancinci kwaye ngaphandle kwento ngaphandle kokonwaba nyulu. Kulapho baqala khona ukugcina imeko yakho yokuzixabisa, umnqweno wakho wokubaluleka kweli hlabathi, apho uya kube uzonwabisa khona, kwaye awusoze uphinde uphakame kwakhona ebomini.

UKUKHOHLISA # 5: Yabelana NGOKUPHELELWA KWAKHO

Sele ndiza kudibanisa eyona ngxaki inkulu wonke umntu ajongana nayo kumdlalo woBomi kumqolo omnye. Sele ulungele?

Xa singabantwana, ngokuqinisekileyo asinamandla kwiingxaki ezininzi zobomi. Sithembele ke kubazali bethu ukuba basincede sifumane izisombululo. Kodwa okukhona abazali bethu besilela ukufumana iziSombululo, kokukhona kuya kufuneka sizenzele izinto ezithile (qaphela ukuba bangaphi abantwana abacinga? Ayisiyongxaki leyo) ukuze simelane nobunzima boBomi. Okukhona sisenza iziphazamiso njengabantwana, kwaye / okanye ngakumbi iziphazamiso abazali bethu basifundisa zona ngokwabo, kokukhona baya kuthi babe yimikhwa eya kuthi iqhubeke ibe ngabantu abadala. Xa sele sibadala, siyakulibala ukuba iziphazamiso zethu yayikukuphendula nje kwiingxaki, kwaye siyakukholelwa ukuba kukho into eshiyekileyo okanye engalunganga kuthi kwaye kufuneka siyifihle kwabanye abantu ngazo zonke iindleko .

Kwaye ke, siyazifihla ezi zinto ngathi, kwaye ukuzifihla, kufuneka siziphazamise nangakumbi, kwaye kudala oku kuhla kokuphazamiseka kunye neentloni.

Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphelisa iziphazamiso zethu kunye nokufumana kwakhona iingxaki ebezisikhathaza ukusukela ebuntwaneni kukuzityhila, wabelane nabo , kwaye uqonde ukuba a) hayi, awuyonto ingathandekiyo, uninzi lwabantu luyasokola (d) ngengxaki efanayo , Kwaye b) ukuba iziphazamiso zakho zezi: iindlela ezingenampilo zokuhlawula uziva ulunge kangakanani ngawe .

Kukho intetho endala ethi ukukhanya kwelanga sesona sibulala ntsholongwane. Ewe, kunjalo nakuthi. Olona hlobo kuphela lokunyanga ezona ndawo zimnyama kukukukhanya kubo.

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