Uphononongo luka-2017 olupapashwe kwiJenali yezeMpilo yabaseTyhini lufumanise ukuba abafazi abangatshatanga babenee-BMIs ezisezantsi, ubungakanani besinqe, kunye nomngcipheko onxulunyaniswa nokutshaya notywala kunabalingane babo abatshatileyo.Unsplash / ILouis Lo Baninzi abantu abadala abangatshatanga abahlala, abasebenza, kwaye ewe, basaphefumla, eUnited States kunanini na ngaphambili kwimbali. Ngo-2017, ubalo lwabantu base-US ixelwe Izigidi ezili-110,6 zabantu abangatshatanga abaneminyaka engaphezulu kwe-18-leyo ngama-45.2 eepesenti yabantu abadala baseMelika-beqhuba ubomi babo kwiseti entsha yemigaqo yoluntu. Ngaba abantu baseMelika abangatshatanga balahlekile, okanye baya kwinto enomdla ngokwenene?
Kwizizukulwana ezidlulileyo, abantu baseMelika abangatshatanga banokubonwa njengabanomsindo. Ngo-1960, Iipesenti ezingama-72 yabantu abadala babetshatile. Phakathi kwenani labantu elandayo namhlanje, ama-63 eepesenti awazange atshate, ama-23 ekhulwini aqhawule umtshato, laza i-13 ekhulwini labahlolokazi. Kwabemi abothusayo abangabodwa, uninzi lwabo luhlala ngokuzimela, ama-53 eepesenti angatshatanga ngabasetyhini. Ngaba oku kungena kwabafazi abangatshatanga ngokuthandana ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kugqatso oluchasene nexesha ngokuchasene neewotshi zabo zebhayiloji? Ngokuchasene noko: basempilweni kunanini na ngaphambili. Ngo-2017 ukufunda epapashwe kwi Ijenali yezeMpilo yaBasetyhini bafumanise ukuba abafazi abangatshatanga banee-BMIs ezisezantsi, ubungakanani besinqe, kunye nomngcipheko wokudibana nokutshaya kunye notywala kunabalingane babo abatshatileyo.
Ukukhululeka kunye nokufikeleleka kokufumana iqabane liguqukile kwitekhnoloji, kwaye ke kuza nento ephikisayo yokukhetha; kubantu abaninzi abangatshatanga, umhlaba wokuthandana uxakeke kakhulu kukhetho lokuluqhuba. U-2008 ukufunda bafumanise ukuba ngakumbi online ukuthandana iinkangeleko abantu abangatshatanga babrawuza, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba babenemifanekiso yokudibanisa imemori, ukukhumbula kakubi iinkcukacha zamaqabane anokubakho. Iiseti ezinkulu zokukhetha zibangela ukuba abathathi-nxaxheba bathathe izigqibo zokutshatisa ezingahambelaniyo ngokusondeleyo nezigqibo zabo zokutshatisa, babona abaphandi abavela kwiYunivesithi yaseNyakatho-ntshona, ngo-2012 ukufunda kuvavanya iimpembelelo zengqondo yokuthandana kwi-Intanethi.
Ngaba uthando luphelelwa lixesha eMelika, lubuyiselwe kwinkcubeko yokungakhathali, lwenziwa lwaba yimodeli elula, ekhawulezayo ukuba kuthengiswe ngayo xa kusiza into elandelayo? Njenge-iPhone yakho yokuqala, ukuthatheka kweso sithuba seminyaka embalwa emva koko kuye kwatshintsha kwinguqulelo entsha. Uyicelile imodeli yamva nje, enye inendawo yokugcina ngakumbi exhotyiswe kuyo yonke idatha yakho enzima kunye nemithwalo yeemvakalelo. Bekuhamba kakuhle, kodwa mva nje, uzifumana ulangazelela ukukhutshwa okushushu kakhulu-- umdlalo omtsha ovela kwiTinder, i-iPhone X yethemba. Ziyacwebezela, zifunwa kakhulu, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba zikhululekile kwiibugs ezazisiya kuhlaziyo lwakho lwamva nje.
Nokuba amaMelika angatshatanga azifumana eyedwa ngokuzikhethela okanye ngempazamo yokuzikhethela, ukuqonda ukusuka kwiZiko loPhando lasePew libalisa ibali elinethemba elingaphezulu: umtshato usenokwehla, kodwa abantu baseMelika abakhange bancame uthando. Ngokufudumeleyo ngokwaneleyo, uthando lwalungesona sizathu siphambili sokuba abantu baseMelika batshate kuvavanyo lwango-2013, kulandele ukuzibophelela kunye nokuhlala kunye. Ukongeza, abantu abaninzi baseMelika bayazibophelela kubudlelwane ngaphandle kokufaka iilebhile kuyo- iipesenti ezili-11 zabantu abadala abangatshatanga abavela kuvavanyo bazichaze njengabangatshatanga, kodwa bezimisele kakhulu kumaqabane obomi.
Nokuba balinde ixesha elide ukuba bazinze, bakhetha ukonwabela ukutshata nomntu ongatshatanga naye ngaphandle kwemiqobo esemthethweni yomtshato, okanye bakhetha ukuliyeka ngokupheleleyo iziko, amanani ayothusa, aqhekeza irekhodi, kwaye uninzi luyaxhobisa. Kubalo luka-2017 ingxelo , Ama-55 eepesenti abantu baseMelika bavakalise inkolelo yokuba ukutshata ayisiyonto ibalulekileyo ekukhokeleni ekubeni ngumntu omdala owonwabileyo. Njengoko unyaka omtsha uqhubeka, abantu baseMelika abangatshatanga baya kuzifumana behamba kwilizwe lokuthandana eliguqulwe yitekhnoloji, eligcwele kukungaqiniseki, kodwa ngethamsanqa, isalungiswa yimvakalelo yokwenene.
