Abadlali be Umama okwishumi elivisayo 2 . (MTV) Kuyakhathaza ngamanye amaxesha… yonke into ekuwe ifuna ukuthi, 'Yima! Hayi! kodwa ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo…
Le yindlela uMorgan J. Freeman, uMvelisi oLawulayo Umama okwishumi elivisayo uthotho, uziva ngokubhala ubomi babasetyhini abancinci bezabalazela ukwenza izigqibo ezingazukuchaphazela bona kuphela kodwa nabantwana babo abancinci.
NgoLwesine ebusuku ixesha lesithandathu Umama okwishumi elivisayo 2 uza kuqala kwi-MTV. Le nguqulo ye-franchise inabafazi abane abasuka kwixesha lesibini lothotho lwamaxwebhu eMTV 16 kwaye ukhulelwe njengoko bejamelene nemiceli mngeni kwiminyaka yabo yokuqala yobumama. UChelsea, uJenelle, uKailyn kunye noLeah babonwa bezama ukufumana uxanduva oluninzi oluza nokukhathalela umntwana, kwaye besenza oko ngelixa bexhalabile ngezinto ezinje ngezemali, amalungiselelo okuhlala, inkxaso yosapho (okanye ukungabikho kwayo) kunye nendima utata womntwana.
Umyili woluhlu uLauren Dolgen waqonda ukuba kukho ithuba lokuthetha ngalo mbandela xa wayefunda ngo-2008 Abantu ukuba malunga ne-750,000 yolutsha eUnited States luyakufumana ukukhulelwa okungacwangciswanga. 16 kwaye ukhulelwe yaqala kungekudala emva koko kwaye yazala Umama okwishumi elivisayo nanjengoko ababukeli bebekwenza kucace ukuba bafuna ukuqhubeka nokulandela uhambo lwamabhinqa aselula kunye nabantwana babo ababedibene nabo kumdlalo ongaphambili.
Okwangoku, abalingisi bolu ngcelele abanakubonwa kuphela kumdlalo kodwa nakwi-intanethi kunye nokusoloko bekwiqweqwe lamaphephancwadi kunye neetabloids.
Sasingenalo nofifi lokuba iya kuba nkulu kangakanani le nto xa siqala, uyavuma uFreeman. Kuyaphambana ukuba ucinga nyani ngayo. Kukho oku kuthanda amantombazana, ke bonke bakwiindaba. Ngapha koko, lo mboniso ubukwiminyaka emithandathu kwaye amajelo eendaba kwezentlalo aqhume ngenene ngelixesha ngengqondo yokuba sele bekhulile kunye.
UFreeman akazukuya kude athi umboniso utshintshe kakhulu ukubekwa ibala okusoloko kunxulunyaniswa nokukhulelwa kwabakwishumi elivisayo, kodwa watsho ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba olu chungechunge luyitshintshile incoko eyingqongileyo. Sasisazi ukusuka nokufika ukuba le yinto eyayingathethwanga nje ngokwaneleyo. Wonke umntu ubonakala ngathi uyazi umntu ochaphazelekayo koku. Kwangoko ucofe ukuba abantu abebengakhululeki ukuthetha ngokukhulelwa kolutsha ngequbuliso babeneqonga lokwenza kanye nalo mboniso.
Ngelixa ezinye iinkalo zomboniso zinokutsala ukugxeka-onke amabhinqa aselula anezindlu kunye neemoto kwaye akubonakali ngathi kufuneka asebenze kakhulu-uFreeman unyanzelisa ukuba oku akufuneki kube kukujongwa komboniso. Ingqwalaselo kufuneka ibe kumyalezo kwaye yinto elumkisayo malunga nokukhula ngokukhawuleza, ukuthatha uxanduva olukhulu, ukubeka iminqweno, ubudlelwane buqhekeka, kunye noxinzelelo jikelele lokuzama ukukhulisa umntwana. Ke, kulungile, bakwizigqubuthelo zamaphephancwadi, kodwa ukujonga oko ngendlela elungileyo kuthetha ukuba imiyalezo yabo iya phaya nangakumbi. Kodwa, ngumceli mngeni kula mantombazana. Abantu bathetha izinto ezoyikisayo ngabo. Kukho le nto inkulu ijikelezayo ibalandelayo. Sonke asinamandla phezu kweendaba, konke esinokukwenza ukulawula umyalezo esiwubekayo ngokuhlala siyinyani kumava kwaye sibonisa imiceli mngeni eqhubekayo abajamelana nayo njengabazali besebancinci.
Ukuhlala uthembekile enyanisweni yinto abo basemva kwayo Umama okwishumi elivisayo ukunamathela nako — ngaphakathi kwesizathu. Sikhona ukuze sibhale izinto, kodwa ukuba umntu wenza into ebeka umntu ngendlela engalunganga ngokuqinisekileyo singenelele. Utsho uFreeman. Akukho nzululwazi kuyo, yinto yabantu. Ukuba umntu ebesengozini ewe singangenelela, kodwa ngezigqibo zobuzali asingeni. Uyazi xa lo mgca uwelwayo. Sibeka intlalontle yomntu wonke ngaphambili nakwiziko.
Enye into emangazayo ababukeli abanokuthi bayiqaphele xa bebukele la manqaku kukuba uninzi lolutsha oluboniswe kumdlalo ngamanye amaxesha luye ludinga igqwetha. Yinyani nje eluhlaza ukuba xa unemitshato kunye nezinto zokugcina abantu ekufuneka ujongane nazo, ufuna amagqwetha, utsho uMorgan. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha amagqwetha akhona ukusingatha izinto ezinobunzima, njengaxa umntu wophule umthetho. Akunakulunga ukuba ube neengcebiso zomthetho kodwa yenye yeemfuno zobomi abantu abaninzi ekufuneka bajongane nazo kwaye asizukuba neentloni ekuboniseni oko.
Xa elinye lamagqwetha lakhwaza iqabane likaJanelle uNathan malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe ngethuba lokubanjwa, eluleka lo mfana ngezenzo zakhe ngakumapolisa, uFreeman uyavuma ukuba abasebenzi bakhe bonwabile ngotshintshiselwano, kodwa mhlawumbi hayi ngenxa yezizathu abaninzi abanokucinga ngazo. Asizange sivuyiswe ngenxa yedrama ejikeleze ukuqhuma okanye nayiphi na into enjalo; Ngokwenyani sasibaleka phezulu emva kwekhamera kuba sasifana, 'ewe! Umntu othile uthethe le nto sifuna ukuyithetha! Njengabavelisi ayingomsebenzi wethu ukuthetha into enjalo kodwa xa umntu eyithetha, siyithatha njengempumelelo.
Ukubamba ababukeli ukusuka kwixesha elidlulileyo, uKailyn kunye nesoka lakhe uJavier batshata kwaye bamkela umntakwabo uIsake, unyana ogama linguLincoln, kodwa uKailyn noyise kaIsake, uJo, bayaqhubeka nokulwa nokugcinwa kwonyana wabo. U-Leah, oneentombi ezingamawele, enye eneemfuno ezizodwa, kunye nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili uCorey, ngoku unenye intombi nomyeni wakhe omtsha uJeremy. Naye akanazo nje iingxaki zokugcina umntwana kodwa ujongene nemicimbi yezonyango nentombi yakhe kunye nemicimbi yakhe kumtshato wakhe wesibini. U-Chelsea wakhetha ukuthandana ngokunyanisekileyo ukuze ahlale egxile kwintombi yakhe u-Aubree kwaye wabukela njengoko uyise ka-Aubree wayenomnye umntwana kunye nentombi yakhe yangaphambili. UJanelle wayebonakala ngathi udlulile kwimiba yakhe yokulutha kunye neengxaki zomthetho kuphela ukuba nesoka lakhe uNathan ajongane nexesha lokuvalelwa ngenxa yokungaziphathi kakuhle. Esi sibini samkela nonyana, uKaiser; Ubhuti omkhulu womnye unyana kaJanelle, uJace, ngoku ohlala nomama kaJanelle uBarbara onelungelo lokugcina inkwenkwe.
Ukuthetha ngeli xesha lizayo, ukugculelwa kukaFreeman, Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuba ubudlelwane bunzima. Kukho umzabalazo omninzi weKai noJavi. U-Leah unesitya sakhe esigcweleyo-uyasokola noJeremy kwaye emva koko uba ngumzali kunye noCory. Xa ubukele le nto, ucinga, ‘ingaba umntu wasetyhini omnye angajongana nantoni? Into oza kuyibona ngeli xesha lonyaka kukuba uLeya ucela uncedo. Elo linyathelo elibalulekileyo kuye. NgoJanelle noNathan, siyibonile imizabalazo yabo kwaye phakathi kwayo yonke loo nto uJanelle uzama ukubuyisa uJace kwaye uyasokola noKaiser ngokunjalo. UJanelle usenokungabinatata kaJace ajongana naye kodwa yena uBarbara kufuneka alwe naye. U-Chelsea ukhathalele ukuba angangxameli kubudlelwane kwaye ebefuna ngokwenene umntu olungileyo ixesha elide. Udibana nalo mfo uCole kwaye kuyahlaziya ngokwenene ukubukela olu lwalamano lukhula. Usebenze nzima ngokwenene ukuba aqonde ukuba ubudlelwane bokwenene buthatha ntoni kwaye siyayibona loo nto.
UFreeman uphinde wavuza ukuba u-Chelsea no-Cole bamkele elinye ilungu losapho-elingaqhelekanga-elinikezela umdlalo ohlekisayo ngeli xesha lonyaka. Kukho amaxesha ahlekisayo. Andikunikeli ngaphezulu koko, kodwa ndithembe, iyakukuhlekisa, uhlekise uFreeman.
Phakathi koluhlu lweemvakalelo eziboniswe kuthotho, uFreeman uthi eyona nto ingumqolo wayo yonke inzame. Konke malunga nenyaniso, uyachaza uFreeman. Ukwamkela inyaniso kunamandla amakhulu. Ezi ntsapho zisivumele ebomini babo kunye neenyaniso zabo ngendlela ekrwada kwaye ndicinga ukuba kufuna isibindi ukubonisa yonke into-elungileyo nembi. Ndiyabulela ukuba abasetyhini kunye neentsapho basivumele singene. Lo matshini wetheyibhile uyakhawuleza ukuqaqambisa ukusilela kodwa ndicinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuba sikhokele isibindi sabo bonke. Ndicinga ukuba la mabali akhuthaze abantu ukuba bathethe ngezesondo ezikhuselekileyo, izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa, malunga nobudlelwane nangomtshato endaziyo ukuba ndithetha nabantu ndibancedile. Iintsapho ezininzi zitshayela into enje phantsi komqolo kwaye ezi ntsapho zaphakama zathi, 'Singanceda abanye ngokubalisa amabali wethu nangokuvumela abantu ukuba bangene ebomini bethu kwaye sibabonise ukuba ababodwa.' Ukubonisa yonke loo nyaniso inamandla kakhulu.
UFreeman uyavuma ukuba nangona umboniso kunzima ukuwubukela ngamanye amaxesha, umyalezo opheleleyo uhlala unjalo kwaye uya kuqhubeka, nokuba uhlala ixesha elingakanani kuthotho. Into ekhoyo apha kukuba aba mama benza izigqibo kwaye benza konke okusemandleni abo, kodwa benza iimpazamo kwaye into esiyibonayo ngoku ziziphumo kunye nemiceli mngeni evela kwizigqibo abazenzileyo. Imizabalazo yabo iyinyani kwaye xa konke kusenziwa kwaye kwenziwe, eyona nto iphambili abazama ukuyenza kukuba ngabona mama banokubona kwaye ndicinga ukuba sinelungelo lokwenyani lokubukela olo hambo kwaye sifunde kulo.
Ixesha lesithandathu le Umama okwishumi elivisayo 2 Idlalwe ngoLwesine ngo-10 / 9c kwi-MTV.
