UStephen Curry ubuyela enkundleni emva kwexesha lokuphuma komdlalo wabo nePortland Trail Blazers.UEzra Shaw / i-Getty Izithombe Ngexesha lodliwanondlebe lwakutsha nje, iGolden State Warriors uDraymond Green kuxoxiwe Kutheni abadlali abakule ligi bekudala bethandabuza okanye begxotha iitalente zomlingane wakhe, uStephen Curry. Kodwa yayiyinqaku lokugqibela likaGreen, elikhankanywe phantse njengecala - Kwaye, uSteph ulusu olukhanyayo ukuze [abadlali] bafune ukumenza athambe - eye yafumana ingqalelo . 
Kubantu abamhlophe baseMelika, ubudlelwane phakathi kombala wolusu kunye nobulukhuni okanye ubudoda bunokungabonakali. Banokudibanisa umbala wolusu nobuhlanga okanye nomtsalane. Kodwa ubunzima? Hayi okuninzi.
Incwadi yam yokuqala , epapashwe ngo-1992, ibhekiswa kumbala wolusu njenge-The Last Taboo Phakathi kwama-Afrika aseMelika. Ivavanye indlela ama-Afrika-aseMelika, ngaphakathi kwabahlali, alwa ngayo nokucalulwa okuvela kwimibala eyahlukeneyo yemibala yolusu. Ukuba umnyama, kuxhomekeke emthunzini wolusu lwakho, abanye abantu abamnyama banokucinga ngawe njenge-yella ephezulu okanye onebhonasi ebomvu, ufuna ukuba mhlophe okanye ungabi mnyama ngokwaneleyo.
Kodwa ngenxa yokuba iphantse yaxoxwa esidlangalaleni kwaye kunqabile ngasese, abaninzi banokungayiqondi loo nto Ibala lolusu iseyinto enkulu kwindawo emnyama . Umzekelo, iimbaleki ezimnyama zinokumphatha ngokwahlukileyo uCurry enkundleni ngenxa yesikhumba sakhe esikhanyayo - ukumgcina ngokwasemzimbeni ngakumbi okanye ukuzama ukumqhubela ekulweni - kodwa kunqabile ukuba bangawuvumeli umba esidlangalaleni, njengoko kwenza uDraymond Green.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha sibona umbono wesimo sengqondo esixhaphakileyo. Ngo-2013, uJason Terry kubizwe Umlingane wakhe owayekade enebala elikhanyayo uKris Humphries uthambile, umdlali ozenza ngathi ulukhuni. Kwiminyaka embalwa kamva, iLos Angeles Lakers All-Star uKobe Bryant uyalelwe Iqela lakhe elikhanyayo elikhanyayo, uJordani Clarkson, ukuya emngxunyeni njengomntu onolusu olumnyama.