(Ifoto: Buzzfeed) Njenge-junkie yenkcubeko ye-pop yeminyaka eliwaka kunye nomsebenzi wezopolitiko / umcebisi wangaphambili, ndibone isabelo sam esilungileyo sokulangazelela uluntu ngokuhamba kwintsholongwane. Kubomi bam bezopolitiko obudlulileyo, ndadibana nabagqatswa abangenakubalwa abanqwenela ukwenza ividiyo yentsholongwane ukukhuthaza amaphulo abo. Ngalo lonke ixesha, bendicinga cwaka ndibuze ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ukuba nekati edlala ipiyano, okanye umntwana onedibano yamazinyo ezayo, kodwa isigwebo sam esingcono sigcine ezo ngcinga apho bezikhona-entlokweni yam.
Ndizisa le nto kuba ingathi thina, njengoluntu, sisebenza nzima ngenene ukunyanzela ukuhlangana ukuba kube yintsholongwane xa bebeya kuba ngabona bangaziwayo kwaye babekhohlakele.
Izolo kusasa, emva kokugqiba umsebenzi othile, ndikhangele kwi-Facebook feed ukuze ndibone ukuba yintoni na, kwaye ndiqaphele Buzzfeed ukutyhala inqaku .
Ndacofa ndaya kwiscreen ukubamba kwifowuni yomfundi waseAuburn PR kaMary Caldarella (ibhetri yakhe yayiphantsi ngendlela enobungozi ukuzama umzamo wokunyathela) kunye namazwi avela kwingoma ka-Adele yokugqibela Molo. Isicatshulwa ikakhulu sasiquka isoka lakhe langaphambili uMat ebuza imibuzo edidekileyo malunga noko wayethetha ngako, kwaye ekugqibeleni wavuma ukuba kufanelekile ukuba abenoxanduva lwezinto ezimbi azenzileyo kuye. Inqaku emva koko lathumela i-tweet yokuba umntu othile wayethumele indlela yakhe yokubhiyozela ukuba uhambile kwintsholongwane, wathi kuyo, Into entle kuphela awakhe wandenzela yona !!!!!!!!
Njengoluntu, kufuneka siyeke ukubhiyozela ezi zinto zonwabisayo, nokuzanelisa
Ngokwayo, ukuthumela umyalezo nge-ex wedwa ukuze ujikeleze kunye nabo kuyinto entle kwaye iyintombazana ngaphandle kwento ayenzileyo umntu. Ndisoloko ndizama ukuphatha abaphuma kum ngesidima nentlonipho, nokuba ndiziva njani emva koqhawulo-mtshato, kuba ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukwenza ngenye indlela bekungayi kuba luphawu oluhle lomntu wam. Ezo zigqibo endingazange ndizisole ngazo.
Njengoluntu, kufuneka siyeke ukubhiyozela ezi zenzo zokuzonwabisa, nokuzanelisa. Ukuqala, iitekisi zikaNks Caldarella zazingahlekisi, gcina kwinto yokuba kwicala lakhe zaziqulathe iingoma zika-Adele, kwaye kwicala likaMat zazinokudideka. Ke, ngokusisiseko, UNks. Caldarella ungumntu okopa uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, kwaye uMat akanangqondo. Oku kwenza ukuba ube ne-Buzzfeed elungileyo?
Konke esikubonayo ngumfana oneqanda ebusweni, kwaye enye intombazana ibonisa i-intanethi ukuba inenye kuye.
Ngaphandle koko, iimpendulo zikaMat zibonisa ukuba unenqanaba elithile lothando oluseleyo. Andinakuthetha ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa umbiza ngokuba lusana kwaye akhankanye ukuba wayekhe wamcela ngaphandle. Njengoko benditshilo, asazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ekwahlukaneni kwabo; kuko konke esikwaziyo, uMatt usenokuba liphenyane ledouche ngeenyawo ezimbini. Kodwa yile ngongoma - asazi. Konke esikubonayo ngumfana oneqanda ebusweni, kwaye enye intombazana ibonisa i-intanethi ukuba inenye kuye.
Enye into ephazamisayo kwezi ntlobo zeziganeko zeendaba kukuba siphinde sabhiyozela ukophula umthetho ngasese. Intsapho yam elungileyo uBethany Mandel wagxotha isoyikiso ngaphakathi I-Federalist kwiinyanga ezimbalwa emva, excoriating the #PlaneBreakup ezihamba phambili, ezalandela ukupheliswa kobudlelwane kwii-30,000 iinyawo. UBethany uyaphawula ukuba, ngelishwa, kwiminyaka yemithombo yeendaba zentlalo, yeyiphi eyakho ngoku isesidlangalaleni, kwaye izikhonkwane ezingalunganga ngezi ntlobo zamabali eendaba ezintsholongwane.
Ndingaphikisa ukuba oku kuyinkohliso ngakumbi kune #PlaneBreakup, njengoko injongo yayo icace gca ukuhlazisa uMat.
Kukuxhaphaza - kucacile kwaye kulula. Kwaye ngexesha apho isimo sengqondo soluntu sinolwazi malunga naloo nto isemthethweni kumazwe kwilizwe liphela, thina, kunye namajelo eendaba, asinakuthi ngesazela esilungileyo sibhiyozele umntu omnye asebenzise ithuba lomnye umntu ukuba afumane imizuzu eli-15 udumo.
Eyona nto iphambili kukuba sinokwenza ngcono. Kukho umxholo omninzi, uninzi lwamagqabantshintshi, uninzi lwabantu abakrelekrele abasebenzela ukuyila ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo sinokwenza ngcono kunokubhiyozela ubungqingqwa bomfundi othile wasekholejini othe phithi ngumfana awayethandana naye kwaye ufuna ukuduma uxelele abantu ngayo. Masiyeke ukunika ezi ntlobo zabantu abancinci iqonga kwaye siqale ukubhiyozela abo benza izinto zexabiso lokwenyani kunye nokuhlala zihleli.
