(Ifoto: Pexels) Kutshanje ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ukuba ndixakeke kakhulu ukuba ndingathatha into, andifanelanga ukuthi andinaxesha. Ngapha koko, ndihlala ndinalo ixesha. Akunzima kangako ukucudisa ixesha elongezelelekileyo lomntu.
Into endingenayo-kwaye into endingenakukufaka kuyo-kukuqwalaselwa ngakumbi. Ukuqwalaselwa sisixhobo esilinganiselweyo kude kunelo xesha. Ke into endifanele ukuyithetha andinayo ingqalelo. Ndingaba neeyure ezisi-8 ndisebenza, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba ndineeyure ezi-4 ngosuku zokuqwalaselwa.
Ehlotyeni umntu ondibhalele oluhlaza ebuza ukuba angandifundisa na kweli hlobo. I-imeyile yakhe yayicacile - icacile, inengcinga, inobubele, iyamema, iyazithemba kodwa ayinyanzeli, kwaye ayiyiyo inde kakhulu (kodwa inde ngokwaneleyo ukuba ingathetha into eyithethileyo ngaphandle kokushiya nantoni na ngaphandle). Wayefunda kwiSikolo soShishino saseHarvard kwaye wayeza kubuyela eChicago kweli hlobo.
Ubuze ukuba angakwijinga na aze athi hi. I-imeyile yakhe yenza kwalula kum ukuthi ewe. Uye wenza ke, kwaye saba neseshoni entle. Sichithe mhlawumbi iyure okanye ngaphezulu kunye. Ndifundile ngemvelaphi yakhe, ukuba unomdla kwizinto ezinjani kuye, yintoni afuna ukuyifunda, nokuba angasifundisa ntoni, njl. Kwakungokwemvelo, kuhamba, kungasebenzi. Ngokwenene uthembisa.
Emva koko ndamxelela ukuba ndicinga izinto ezimbalwa kwaye ndibuyele kuye kungekudala. Wajonga emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, ndaza ndathi ndiza kubuyela kuye kungekudala kwakhona. Kwaye andizange.
Inyanga okanye ngaphezulu emva koko ndambhalela ndamxelela ukuba ndicela uxolo. Ndingamlahlekisa-kwaye nam-ndicinge ukuba ndinexesha elaneleyo lokuthatha umsebenzi kwihlobo. Ndandifuna, ndandimthanda kakhulu, ndandicinga ukuba uya kuba mkhulu, kodwa ndandingenalo ixesha elininzi njengoko ndandicinga ukuba kufuneka ndiqwalasele ngakumbi kwaye ndidibanise umsebenzi kwaye ndichithe ixesha kunye naye, njl.
Kodwa ngokwenene, njengoko bendicinga ngayo, ndiye ndabona ukuba ndinexesha. Yonke imihla iyafana kumjikelo weyure ezingama-24. Yonke imihla yokusebenza malunga neeyure ezisi-8. Ngokuqinisekileyo bendinokufumana nokuba yimizuzu engama-20 ngosuku ukusebenza naye. Kodwa yayingeyiyo loo nto. Kwakungekhona ukuba andinakufumana ixesha. Khange ndiyifumane ingqalelo .
Ingqondo yam igcwalisa iiprojekthi ezimbalwa kwaye kunjalo. Ndifunxwe ngabo. Kulapho ingqalelo yam ikhoyo. Ukuba bendimenzele imizuzu engama-20 apha naphaya ngenxa yakhe, ndibakhona emzimbeni ngalo mzuzu, kodwa ngengqondo ngendikwenye indawo. Kwaye oko akulunganga komnye wethu.
Ixesha nengqwalaselo azifani. Abazalani.
Siye sathetha amaxesha ambalwa, kwaye sabamba kwakhona kwiveki ephelileyo. Ndicinga ukuba ndiza kuba nengqwalaselo engaphezulu kunyaka olandelayo. Siza kuhlala sinxibelelana, jonga amaxesha ngamaxesha njengoko wayegqibezela isikolo, emva koko uzame kwakhona.
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