Amadoda namhlanje akhulele kuluntu oluzele ngabantu abomeleleyo, abaphetheyo kubafazi-kwaye bayayithanda.Unsplash / Matheus Ferrero Hee ntombazana, masithethe.
Ngaphezulu kweminyaka elishumi, ndibenenyhweba yokudlala indima yokuba ngumhlobo osenyongweni kubantu abaninzi abasetyhini abakrelekrele, abahlekisayo nabahle kulo lonke ikhondo lomsebenzi wobufanasini. Abafana abathandanayo nabangqingili banesibophelelo esithile ngenxa yemidla yethu efanayo (umzekelo, amadoda) kunye nokuswela kwethu umnqweno wokulala omnye nomnye. Kwicala leflip, amafanasini anobudlelwane obukhethekileyo kunye nabahlobo bethu abangamadoda abathe tye kuba asikhuphisani nabo. Ngenxa yoko, abafana abathe tye bahlala behamba nathi malunga nezinto ezenziwa ngamantombazana ezixabisa ukubuyela kwakhona. Eli nqaku linokuphula ikhowudi ye-bro, kodwa ndiza kubelana nge-Intel nantoni na. Ziqwalasele ulumkisiwe: ukwenziwa ngokubanzi kuyakwenziwa.
- Vala iF ** k phezulu ngamanye amaxesha
Abasetyhini bathetha kakhulu kunamadoda. Inzululwazi iyayixhasa. NgokweYunivesithi yaseMaryland ukufunda , abafazi bathetha amagama ngakumbi ngemini-malunga nama-20 000 ukuya kumadoda angama-7,000. Mamela, ayilotyala lakho ukuba uphuhlise ulwimi kunye nezakhono zokufunda ngokukhawuleza kunathi, kodwa ukuba ufuna isicatshulwa sibuyele emva komhla wakho olandelayo, zama ukumamela ngakumbi kwaye uthethe kancinci. Ngelinye ixesha, ndabaleka ndaya kwenye yeentsuku zokuthandana kwam, ndaza ndambuza ukuba kutheni engathumeli myalezo kumhlobo wam. Undixelele ukuba umhlobo wam ubengumphulaphuli ombi, wamphazamisa kakhulu kwaye wayengenakukwazi nokuthetha. Yikes! Buza imibuzo evulekileyo kwaye xa zonke ezinye izinto zisilele zama, undixelele ngakumbi ngaloo nto. Isebenza njengomtsalane.
- Nika ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha
Awunakucinga ukuba abafana bayazibona izinto ezincinci, kodwa uninzi luyazenza. Isenokungayazi i-nail polish yakho entsha ipinki yemileniyam, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo yaqaphela ukuba ululelwe lixesha mani-pedi. Ndavota abafana abambalwa malunga noku kwaye uninzi lwabo lwathi bayaqaphela xa iinzipho zowasetyhini zikwimeko embi. Kubonakala ngathi akazinakekeli, utshilo omnye umfana. Ukuba intombazana ineenyawo ezimbi okanye iinzipho ezisikiweyo, icinyiwe. Ibha esecaleni, ndacela bobabini aba bafana ukuba bakhumbule ixesha lokugqibela nokuba bobabini banqumle iinzipho zabo kwaye abanako.
- Tshatisa umzamo wakho kuye
Ngaba abafazi banamathela ngokukhawuleza kunamadoda? Kwakhona, inzululwazi ithi ewe —Ngakumbi emva kokulalana. Kuyabonakala ukuba, emva kwe-orgasm (ecinga ukuba angakunika), ihomoni yioxytocin ikhutshwa emadodeni nakwabasetyhini, kodwa amanenekazi afumana idosi esempilweni. Ke, ngelixa ulele apho ucwangcisa umhla olandelayo kwaye xa uza kumazisa kubahlobo bakho, ucinga malunga nepita eseleyo kwifriji. Ukudlala imidlalo kuyaphazamisa, kodwa ulindele ntoni kwindoda esele ikhulile edlala imidlalo yevidiyo? Tshatisa umzamo wakho kuye. Tsalela umnxeba kangangoko efowunela. Umbhalo njengoko ebhaliweyo. Akufanelanga ukuba ibe nguwe wedwa oqala izicwangciso okanye wenze lonke unxibelelwano.
- Imikhondo ayikho loo nto kuwe
Ndiyazi ukuba abafana bangathumela imiqondiso exubileyo ngamanye amaxesha. Umzuzwana omnye uphelele kuwe, akuxelele ukuba umhle kangakanani, kwaye ngokulandelayo uyatyibilika kwizicwangciso ozenzileyo kwiiveki ezidlulileyo kwaye akasiqondi isizathu sokuba ikukhathaze. Andikwazi ukuyichaza loo nto, kodwa ndiyakwazi ukukuxelela ukuba abafana bayalahla iingcebiso ezicacileyo malunga nendlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngawe-okanye ukuba abafuni kuphinda bakubone, kodwa bayinkukhu kakhulu ukuba bangayibiza. Kuqala, ukuba ubudlelwane bobomzimba bonke abungowemvakalelo, ungumnxeba ophangiweyo. Akanqweneli kujola nawe. Ukuba awulunganga kuloo nto, qhubeka. Okwesibini, ukuba akanakukwenzela indawo ngomhla wakhe, awuyonto iphambili. Yinto elula njengaleyo. Okokugqibela, ukuba akakhathali malunga nokuba uphi okanye ukhuselekile, akakhathali ngawe. Uninzi lwabafana banemikhuba yokukhusela kwaye baya kubonisa olu phawu xa bekuwe. Ukuba ushiya indawo yakhe ngo-2: 00 kusasa, kwaye akaqinisekisi ukuba ulinde iLyft (hayi u-Uber kuba uyazi ukuba bayabelana ngesondo nge-AF) kwaye ungena ebhedini yakho ngokuvakalayo, umbambe kwaye ucime inombolo yakhe.
- Kwamkele ukuba ngumfazi ozimeleyo
Kwakumalunga neminyaka eli-18 eyadlulayo apho iDestiny’s Child yanika abantu basetyhini umhobe malunga nokubhiyozela inkululeko yabo. Amadoda namhlanje akhulele kuluntu oluzele ngabantu abomeleleyo, abaphetheyo kubafazi-kwaye bayayithanda. Guys love to post that ufuna ntoni? indawo evela Incwadi yokubhalela ukwenza intlekisa ngendlela abanokungazithembi ngayo abantu ababhinqileyo, kodwa abasetyhini namhlanje ababhalisi kusolusapho, ukuthobela ubuqhetseba kwakhona. Umfazi ozithembileyo kunye nokuzithemba u-sexy kwaye uyonwabisa ukuba phakathi, utshilo umhlobo wam. Nanini na xa ndihlala nomntu obhinqileyo kwaye uyazithandabuza okanye engakwazi ukwenza isigqibo, indenza ndizive ngathi ndikunye nodadewethu omncinci. Ukuba ubalekela kwindoda engayithandiyo ingqondo yakho okanye engayixhasi iminqweno yakho, uphila ngaphambili kwaye akangomntu kwikamva lakho. Mbambise, okanye umgcine nje ngeenxa zonke njengesixhobo sokuphanga esikukhahlela ngo-2 kusasa. Indlela engaphantsi ihamba ubusuku bonke.
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