U-Elizabeth Greenwood.UMFANEKISO: USam Ortiz woBukele U-Elizabeth Greenwood usweleke eManila ngoJulayi2, 2013-kwaye uyavuya ukukuxelela konke malunga noku. Uza kukubonisa nesiqinisekiso sokusweleka kwakhe.
Ukuba oko kuvakala kuyinto engaqhelekanga, kunjalo; IGreenwood isaphila kakhulu. Kodwa isatifikethi sokufa asigcinayo kwigumbi lakhe laseBrooklyn siyinyani-okanye, ijongeka iyinyani, kunjalo.
Sisikhumbuzo esinye kuphela kuhambo lwakhe lweshishini le-pseudocide. Njengasekufeni okungeyonyani. Njengakunyamalala emva koko uphinde uvele ngesazisi esitsha.
UGreenwood (akukho buhlobo kumangcwaba eGreen-Wood eBrooklyn) ubhala konke oku kwincwadi yakhe entsha, Ukudlala Abafileyo: Uhambo oluya kwilizwe lokufa ngobuqhetseba .
Unjingalwazi odibeneyo wokubhala kwiYunivesithi yaseColumbia, uGreenwood wayifumana le ncwadi hayi ngenxa yokufuna ukuzibulala kodwa endaweni yokucinga ngento engekhoyo yokugxotha imali eyi- $ 120,000 yamatyala emboleko yomfundi. Umhlobo ngesiqingatha ngokuqhula wacebisa ukuba akhohlise ukusweleka kwakhe, nto leyo eyabangela ukuba uGreenwood aye kuGoogle lo mkhwa, owamkhokelela kwilizwe labacebisi babucala, iingcali zokunyamalala kunye nezatifikethi zokufa.
Ngokwesiqhelo abantu bacinga ukuba banokusebenzisa ukubhengeza ukufa kwabo njengendawo yethutyana yokubaleka, utsho uGreenwood, 33, iWorcester, iMisa., Inzalelwane yeenwele ezimhlophe, amehlo aluhlaza kunye nobuntu obushushu bomntu osengxakini. Ndenze udliwanondlebe nabantu abaliqela abathi kum, ‘Owu, bendizokulinda nje umthetho wokuncitshiswa kolwaphulo-mthetho lwam. Ngelishwa, akukho mmiselo wokuthintela xa uqhatha inkundla. (Ukuthatha ukufa kwakho ayilotyala. Ukuqhatha iinkundla kunjalo.)
Uninzi lwabantu ababanjiweyo ngamadoda amhlophe aphakathi kunye neentsapho. Abasetyhini, ucacisa uGreenwood, bahlala bezenza ngathi baswelekile kuba ubomi babo busemngciphekweni, ngelixa amadoda ehlala ebona ukhetho njengelokugqibela. Uninzi lwabakhohlisi babe… bekwimo yokulwa-okanye-yokubhabha engqondweni apho ukubulala ukufa kwakubonakala njengokukhetha okunengqiqo, kwaye ngenxa yoko izicwangciso zabo zihlala zikhawuleza, utshilo.
Ukuziva unetyala kukwakhuthaza. Kuhamba ngoluhlobo: Indoda idlala ifile ukuze umfazi wayo abe lilungu lomgaqo-nkqubo weinshurensi yobomi. Oku kunciphisa ukuzisola kwakhe ngokubaleka aye kutshona elangeni nomntu omtsha.
UGreenwood ucebisa abo banqwenela ukusweleka ukuba baseke imbali yamatyala phantsi kwegama elicingelwayo kunye nokugcina imali eninzi. Qiniseka ukuba unegama elingenakubekwa tyala-akukho mthetho, iingxaki zemali okanye ezothando ezinokubangela ukuba abantu bakrokre, utshilo.
Ukurhaxwa asibobulumko ukwenza ngathi ndlelantle; kwiimeko ezininzi, umzimba uhlamba elunxwemeni. Ukunyamalala ngelixa uhamba intaba, nangona kunjalo, kungangqinwa ngakumbi, kuba abantu baziwa ngokuba bayanyamalala kwimilanjana nakwiimilambo.
Sukuzibalela kuGoogle ngokwakho okanye ukuzimela kwiphepha lakho leSikhumbuzo kuFacebook. Injalo ke intombi ka-Olivia Newton John, UPatrick McDermott , Wabanjwa emva kokuba efake ukufa kwakhe kuhambo lokuloba emva kokugcwalisa njengongenamali. Abaphandi… baqaphela iqela leedilesi ze-IP kufutshane nePuerto Vallarta, eMexico, bejonga indawo enikezelweyo ekufumaneni ukuba uphi, ukhumbula uGreenwood. 
UJohn Darwin wazibulala elwandle.(Ifoto ngu-Cleveland Amapolisa nge-Getty Izithombe)
Ukufezekisa loo nto, soloko unxiba ukufihla. UJohn Darwin — indoda eliNgesi eyabeka ingozi yengozi ngephenyane ngo-2002 ukuze ibaleke ukuthinjwa — yakwazi ukuhlala kule lam iminyaka emithandathu. Oonyana bakhe ababini abadala bakholelwa ukuba utata wabo ubhubhile; Ngokwenyani, wayehlala kufutshane nendlu yakhe egutyungelwe ziindevu, iiglasi, umnqwazi, intonga yokuhamba, ukugoba kunye nokuqhwalela. Xa uDarwin wabuyela ebomini (thetha ngokusinda kwabona banamandla), wahlangula ubudlelwane nonyana omnye kodwa hayi omnye.
UGreenwood, owashiya iphupha lakhe lokuzibulala — Umama angandibulala, utsho ehleka-wafumanisa ukuba izicwangciso zokuhamba emva kokufa zingumqobo: Ukulala elunxwemeni kwiiCanary Islands kuvakala kunomtsalane kwaye kungekho xinzelelo, kodwa ndoda! Umsesane. Umbono kukusebenza kwiincwadi, kodwa ndimdala kakhulu ukuba ndingazihluba, wongeza. Ngelishwa, ndinezakhono ezimbalwa kakhulu. Ukubhala kuphela kwento endinokuyenza. Ndingathanda ukucoca izindlu.
Kodwa uthi, oyena mqobo mkhulu yayiza kuba ngumnqweno wokufikelela kubahlobo kunye nosapho ukusuka engcwabeni lobuxoki.
Nokuba uyazisusa nakweyiphi na imeko ekunika usizi ngelo xesha, uyaphawula, kuya kufuneka unikezele ngako konke okuhle nakokubi. Ngokwenyani akukho kukhethwa kwamacherry ofuna ukushiya ngasemva.
Uninzi lweefaker lucinga ukuba zinokuya kupela kwaye ngandlela thile ziphinde zibuyele kubomi bazo bakudala. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza inkohliso ngokusweleka kwakho, ngekhe uze nabantu uze ungaze ubuye, uyalumkisa.
Kwaye yeyona mpukane iphambili kwioyile: I-undead kufuneka iphile nayo.
