Ngokuqinisekileyo wayithimba intsingiselo yakhe 'yodumo'. (Facebook) Awufumani mihla ye-OkCupid? Mhlawumbi ufuna lo mfoti u-Craigslist umfoti ukuba athathe uhlobo 'olulungileyo' lokuthandana neefoto kuwe.
Ngeedola ezili-150, abangatshatanga abanomdla banokuhlawula umfazi wase-Upper West Side ukuba bathathe imifanekiso yeeprofayile zabo zokuthandana kwi-Intanethi, esi sithuba seCraigslist sipapasha . Eli bhinqa, elizichaza njengeendaba zosasazo zasekuhlaleni kunye nomzobi wezithombe (ngaba ufota imidiya yoluntu?), Ibanga ukuba ibisenza le nto ngoku iminyaka emininzi ngoku, ke ngokuqinisekileyo ibonakala ilungile.
Izifundo zam zixela eminye imihla emininzi [kwaye] ezinye zikhokelela kubudlelwane bexesha elide! umfoti uthi.
Usebenza njani online ukuthandana umlingo, ubuza? Umfazi uthembisa ngokuthwebula kwakhe kuyindalo kwaye kuyacaca, ngokukhanya okuhle kunye nokwakhiwa. Azijongeka njengokufota, konke konke. Ukwaqinisekisa abathengi abanokubakho ukuba uyakubamba umxholo wakho 'wodumo' kuwe, kuwe nje, nguwe! Aaaah, iyavakala loo nto!
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba le nkonzo yeyakho? Nabu ubungqina obongezelelweyo bobuchwephesha bokufota:
UMatch.com ukhethe umfazi endimfotileyo ukuba abe kwintengiso yakhe yeTV… kuba babone ukudubula endikuthathe kuye.
Xa badibana naye, baqonda ukuba wayeyinyani kwiifoto zakhe.
Wowee!
Isithuba sigqiba ngokuqinisekisa iziphumo eziqinisekisiweyo ekuboneni ukwanda kweempendulo ezivela kubaviwa 'abalungileyo'. Umtshato, naku sisiza.
Ewe kunjalo, ayisiyiyo kuphela indlela yokwenza ukuba ukuthandana kwakho kwi-Intanethi kubonakale ngakumbi kumaqabane anokubakho. Ukuba unomdla wokwenene, unokuqokelela amakhulu eedola kuNcedo lwaBantu boBuntu, i cringe-indawo ukukhuthaza ukuba pimps dudes ’online ukuthandana iinkangeleko . Unokuqesha kwakhona umqeqeshi wobuchwephesha kwi-Intanethi, kuba yep, yinto yokwenene leyo .
Okanye, unokwenza nje yeka ukuthetha ngeekati zakho zedama ngalo lonke ixesha . 
Bhalisa! (Uluhlu lweCraigs)
