KaDee Strickland.UKaitlyn Flannagan woMqwalaseli; Wadubula kwindawo eGreenwich Steakhouse, 62 eGreenwich Ave. Umlingisi uKaDee Strickland uyonwaba ngenxa yokoyika. Inkwenkwezi yeHulu Vala iliso, eyayiqala ixesha layo lesibini ngoDisemba 6, iStrickland yaqala ukusayina kolu luhlu kuba ifumene indima yomdlali ophambili uLinda Haverford oyikisayo. Inzalelwane yaseGeorgia, kunye nomzobo wakhe wasezantsi ozinzileyo, ucacisile ukuba wayengenguye umntu othukayo owayengoyiki, nto leyo yayingothusi kuba evakala kakhulu ngothando lwakhe lweeMovie ezoyikisayo, kodwa wayesoyika ubuchule.
Ukuqala kwam ukufunda isicatshulwa ngo-Okthobha u-2015, ndandisoyika, utshilo. Kodwa yiyo loo nto ndabaleka ndaya kuyo. Njengaye, akukho mntu wakha wandicela ukuba ndenze oku.
Othandekayo ngomsebenzi wakhe njengoGqirha Charlotte King eShondaland Ukuziqhelanisa noBucala, akathandeki ngokulula, njengoLinda Vala Amehlo . Unobunzima, akathembekanga kwaye ungumculi onobukrakra.
Ndisazi ukuba abavelisi bayabandakanyeka, [ngakumbi Iphula kakubi' s John Shiban] ngabo ndandibahlonela. Ndibonile into abayenzileyo ngabalinganiswa ababonakala bengenakuthenjwa, emva koko ungakholelwa ukuba uthandana nabo kangakanani. Uyabubona ubuntu babo naxa besenza ezi zinto zenyanyekayo, utshilo uStrickland.
Idrama yenethiwekhi etshisayo yazisa ababukeli kwiqela lolwaphulo-mthetho elingaphantsi komhlaba eliqhuba uthungelwano lwepsychic eLos Angeles. U-Linda wayengumdlali wase Las Vegas owayesele etshatile no Charlie Haverford (Jeffrey Donovan), umlumbi ongaphumelelanga owongamela iivenkile ezininzi zokuxela ithamsanqa. Kodwa ukuhlala ngokudibana kuye kwathatha umthwalo kwiHaverfords, ngakumbi kunyana wabo okwishumi elivisayo, uNick (uDylan Schmid). Ngoku bazifumana benomdla wokubaleka kulawulo losapho lwaseRomani. Ngelixa iindaba zamabali omboniso ngamanye amaxesha zifakwa kudaka oluncinci ngobundlobongela be-mafia kunye nezigcawu ezomeleleyo zesini, kukuhlola kwengqondo kwilizwe lobuqhetseba labasebenzi abasebenzisayo abenza uthotho lube ngumlindo onyanzelayo. 
KaDee Strickland.UKaitlyn Flannagan woMqwalaseli; Wadubula kwindawo eGreenwich Steakhouse, 62 eGreenwich Ave.
Ndenze isixa esikhulu sophando, utshilo uStrickland, ndindwendwela abaxeli-thamsanqa abakhokelayo ekuthatheni inxaxheba. Ngomntu, kulapho uqonda khona ukuba basebenza njani. Babephathisiwe. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, isebenza njengenkqubo yefektri. Ndiza kuqaphela iwotshi etafileni. Ukubabukela ngokungakhathali bejonga ixesha bekuhlekisa kum kuba ngequbuliso 'Ixesha lakho liphelile,' kwaye utshutshiselwa umthengi olandelayo.
Kodwa zikhona eziza kukunika lonke ixesha emhlabeni, utshilo uStrickland. Okukhona uhlala ixesha elide, kokukhona beya kufuneka baluke iwebhu zabo, kwaye kokukhona uya kuziva ukhethekileyo, oya kuthi emva koko uchithe imali eninzi.
Ngaphambi kwalo msebenzi, uStrickland wayebone abavumisi beenkwenkwezi ngamaxesha ngamaxesha, kwaye umhlobo wakhe wamnika ithuba lokundwendwela kwabathile abathi bathetha neengelosi. Ukuza kuvela emazantsi asezantsi, apho abaxeli benhlanhla benganikwa themba konke konke, wayiqonda indlela yokufuna ukwazi engenakuphikiswa.
Aba bantu banomdla obalaseleyo. Hack okanye hayi, ndiyakholelwa ukuba banokujonga umntu kwaye bafunde ngokukhawuleza nangokucacileyo, utshilo uStrickland. Banesipho kufundo olubandayo kwaye sime kuwo onke amajelo aphakathi. [Kunye] nabavumisi ngeenkwenkwezi, kukho isayensi encinci kuyo, kodwa kusekho into yokulinganisa umntu othile ngokusekwe kwinto ayinxibileyo, ukuba banayo ibhanti lomtshato, ubungakanani besipaji sakho, okanye ukuba uphethe ubhaka. Konke oku kuyabalisa. Kwaye isidingo sokukholelwa kwinto yinto enamandla kakhulu ukuba uyihlolisise.
IStrickland nayo yafunda Umdlalo wokuzithemba: I-Psychology yeCon kwaye kutheni siwela kuyo ngalo lonke ixesha , Incwadi kaMaria Konnikova enika iingxelo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo zabantu abenza imisebenzi yobuxoki.
Ndiyincoma kakhulu, utshilo. Ngomqolomba omele ukulungele ukuba ungaze uphinde uthenge nantoni kwi-intanethi, njengezinto kwimidiya yoluntu okanye wabelane ngombono wakho, kuba uyaqonda ukuba kukho abantu phaya abasindayo kwimikhwa kunye neemfuno zakho.
Njengoko Vala Amehlo bonisa, ukuxelelwa ithamsanqa lakho kunokuba ngamava amnandi, ukugcwalisa ingqondo yakho ngeengcinga ezintle. Kodwa ukwenzeka kunokubakho ngenxa yeembono ezoyikisayo, kushiya umntu enexhala elibi abangazange babe nalo ngaphambili. Yinto yokugqibela ukuba oosiyazi batya; aba bantu baba ngabona bathengi bazinikeleyo kubo.
Ixesha lesibini lingaphezulu kwesifundo somlinganiswa, utshilo uStrickland. Aba bantu bafika njani apha kwaye ngoba. Uzimisele kangakanani ukuya kukhusela usapho lwakho, usenza izinto ezimbi ngezizathu ezifanelekileyo. Yinto eyenzeka emva kwayo kunye nokulungiswa kwaloo msindo womlilo wexesha lokuqala.
Ngelixa ubukele olu luhlu, kunzima ungacingi ngendlela olu hlobo lwenkohliso kunye nokukhohlisa kwengqondo olugqithisa kude kushishino lwabaxeli-thamsanqa kunye nefuthe eligqithisileyo elinokukholisa, ubuntu obunomdla obunokubakho kubantu abafuna inkokheli. IMfazwe yesibini (II) yeHlabathi yeza kwangoko engqondweni, njengoko oku kulandelayo kunikezelwe kwi-White House yethu yangoku. Kwawona mntu waziyo unokuba lixhoba lemikhankaso yezopolitiko, intengiso ekujoliswe kuyo, iicawa ezinje ngenkolo kunye nezikimu zepiramidi. Sibona oko kusenzeka rhoqo kwiindaba, kodwa kunqabile ukuba sicinge ngokuchacha kwabo. 
UKaDee Strickland kunye nomlingisi uJeffrey Donovan kwi Vala Amehlo .UNicole Wilder / uHulu
Kwixesha lesibini, uLinda uneengxaki ezikhoyo. Ubuza impilo kaCharlie neyakhe. Ngaphandle kokukhetha, uLinda akanandlela yimbi ngaphandle kokutshala kwakhona emtshatweni wakhe, ithuba apho uStrickland wayevuya kukubona ukuba kwenzeka njengoko echaza ukusebenza kunye noDonovan ukuba afezekise ngendlela emangalisayo.
Ndikunye noJeffrey, sobabini sasingoyiki ukuba singonwabi nyani, kwaye ndicinga ukuba yimbali kwimitshato emide, utshilo uStrickland. Khange sixolise ngalonto kwaye bekumnandi kakhulu. Emva koko, siyahlala kwaye sithethe ngabantwana bethu. Kuhle ukuba nangona usebenza kwimiboniso emnyama, ukuba unokuhleka xa ungagqithanga. Oko kubaluleke kakhulu kum.
I-Strickland nayo yahleka xa isihloko sephepha lakhe le-IMDB lalikhutshiwe. Umntu othile kutshanje ungene kwiakhawunti yakhe kwaye wongeza ulwazi oluphosakeleyo lokuba wazala amawele amantombazana kulo Julayi uphelileyo.
Yiyo i-intanethi, indoda, uStrickland uthe, ononyana oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala, u-Atticus, kunye nomlingisi uJason Behr, umyeni wakhe phantse iminyaka eyi-12. Ngesizathu esithile, umntu okrelekrele ngokwenyani kwaye ohambele phambili kwezobuchwephesha kunam, waya kude wabiza la mawele (angekhoyo) amawele (uCaroline Matilda Behr no-Emmeline Victoria Behr). Ewe, umyeni wam kunye nam sasikuvuyela ukuva ngako!
Kodwa iStrickland ayigxininisi kukoyika iitroll ze-Intanethi. Uzinze ngokungathandabuzekiyo kulo mbandela wobomi bakhe kwaye ngokungafaniyo nabadlali abaninzi, ngokuthe ngqo uyavuma ukufunda iikhomenti.
Xa ixesha lesibini liyehla, ndakhangela ukondla kwam i-Twitter. Ndiyazi ukuba oko kudlala ngomlilo, kodwa kule mihla nakweli xesha langoku, umlilo unokuba nomvuzo ngamanye amaxesha, kwavuma iStrickland. Kwaye andizange ndikholelwe ukuba ngaphakathi kweeyure ezingama-24, bangaphi abantu abasele bebukele yonke le nto. Ndine-cliff-hanger-esque endiyiphelelayo apho ndenza khona ingxelo eqinileyo, kwaye yenza i-hashtag ngokukhawuleza! Abantu batsibe kanye kuloo mngxunya. Ukwazi abantu bahlala phantsi babukele, kwaye emva koko bafuna ukubuyela umva kwakhona-ukuba nolo hlobo lokutya kwabalinganiswa-kulungile. Ndiyayithanda.
Emily Iibhokhweyintatheli yenkcubeko kunye nomthandi weTV onomsebenzi wakhe unokubonwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, indawo yokucoca 29 kunye neTribune Media. Ubhala malunga nokuzonwabisa kuMqwalaseli. Mlandele kwi-Instagram nakwi-Twitter @missbicks.
