(Ifoto: Getty) Kuphantse ngo-2 ekuseni Uve nje umntu ohambahamba ekhwaza umnxeba wokugqibela. Awufuni ukugoduka wedwa okanye ngaphandle kwenombolo yefowuni, ke uvula umtsalane kwaye udlale ngothando nge-bar-goer esecaleni kwakho kuba, hee, ibha iyavala kwaye yintoni omele uphulukane nayo?
Intsimbi yesibini kwiTinder ayifani kwaphela. Uswayipha kwakhona kwakhona, kwakhona, kwaye kwakhona kuba, hee, zi-2 kusasa, le yiTinder kwaye kufuneka uphulukane nantoni?
Kukho into malunga neli xesha lobusuku. Bavelisa umnqweno womnye umntu, isikhumbuzi esibuhlungu sokuba akukho mntu usecaleni kwakho kunye nemvakalelo yokuzilahlela oye wazibeka phaya kancinci ngaphezulu. Ngoba kutheni? Oku ngekwenzekile ebharini emva emini, kodwa ngu-2015-sihamba nomhla kwii -apps, kwaye ke ngenxa yoko sinxila kwaye sisela ngokunxila kwinkampani yasebusuku kwiiapps ngokunjalo.
Uqikelelo lwam kukuba abantu abangena ebusuku kakhulu bayacinywa kwimivalo okanye bayayithoba imigangatho yabo, uCliff Lerner, i-CEO kunye nomseki IBanga ukuthandana app, uxelele Umjongi .
UMixxxer, sisixhobo esimalunga ne-nudes kunye nokuxhuma okuthe kwenziwa njenge I-X-rated Tinder. |
Uhlalutyo lwamva nje lwedatha yabo lufumanise ukuba inqanaba abasebenzisi abathandana ngalo phakathi kweenzulu zobusuku kunye ne-4 am bafumanise ukuba abasebenzisi banako ukuthumela imiyalezo yezesondo ngeli xesha ngokunjalo-ngokukodwa, izinga lokuthumela imiyalezo yesondo ukwanda ngama-50 epesenti kumadoda nama-48 eepesenti kubafazi ezinzulwini zobusuku.
Kungenxa yokuba sikubonisa abantu abakufutshane kwaye ungene ngoku kutshanje, utshilo uMnu Lerner. Iphantse ilingane kwi-Intanethi kwifowuni yokugqibela kwindawo.
Uyazi ukuba ukuthathelwa ingqalelo kweapps kweendawo zabasebenzisi kunegalelo kutshintsho lwayo emva kweeyure kwaye kuthatha ezinye indawo ezisekwe kukuthandana kunye neeapps zokubona ukubona iindlela ezifanayo. I-Tinder ayiphendulanga kwisicelo sethu sedatha okanye uluvo, kodwa emva kokuva amabali angenakubalwa eTinder ebusuku kakhulu, asithandabuzi ukuba le app ifumana into efanayo. Ezinye iiapps ezisekwe kwindawo ezenzelwe ukukhangela kuphela (iTinder ayisiyiyo eyona nto inzima, uyikholelwe okanye ungakholelwa) njengeMixxxer, i-app ye-nude-friendly, i-hookup egxile ekujongeni njenge I-X-rated Tinder , mhlawumbi kusebusuku kakhulu.
IBakala yinkqubo yokuthandana esebenza njengeTinder. Umahluko kukusetyenziswa kwealgorithm evavanya abasebenzisi kwizinto ezinje ngomgangatho wemiyalezo yabo, ukusebenzisa kwabo amagama angalunganga kunye nokuba bangaphi abanye abasebenzisi abaphendula imiyalezo yabo. Abasebenzisi babelwe amabakala A + ngo-F athunyelwe kwiiprofayili zabo ukuze babonwe ngabanye ngaphambi kokuba baswayipe ekunene. Yaphuhliswa njengempendulo kwisikhalazo sokuqala sabasetyhini malunga neTinder-ukuqhushumba rhoqo kwemiyalezo engafunekiyo.
Emva kokuhlalutya idatha, Iqela leBakala laqaphela ukuba mingaphi imiyalezo yasebusuku enamagama abhalwe ukungalunganga kwaye awabuyiselwa. Baye baqonda ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwasebusuku kwenzakalisa amabakala abasebenzisi, ke basungula inqaku elitsha kwi-app ukunceda ukuthintela oku. Ngoku, xa abasebenzisi bethumela imiyalezo emva kwaphakathi kobusuku, iapp iyalumkisa, Imiyalezo yasebusuku inokuba yingozi kwibakala lakho. Ewe, abahamba kade baqhubeka nokuthumela imiyalezo yabo, kodwa esi silumkiso sifana nomhlobo wakho ngokuzikhethela ngokususa ibhiya yakho esithi, Mhlawumbi kufuneka siphume apha, njengoko ekubona uza kwenza impazamo yokugqibela . 
(Ifoto: I-Instagram / iTinderNightmares).
Esi sithintelo sinyani sinokungaqhelekanga kwiBanga, kodwa emva kobusuku ezinzulwini zobusuku kwindawo yokubonisa inezinye iindlela, kwaye utywala yingcambu yenani labo. Ukunkcinkca ngotywala yinto. Ukhe wayenza ngokwakho, wabona iziqhwala ziyenza emathekweni (okanye nakwiindawo zentselo) kwaye weva umhlobo wakho ehamba malunga nomyalezo awavuka kuwo eyona nto inqabileyo eyakha yakho . Ukuba akunjalo, kukho ii-subreddits ezininzi, iiakhawunti ze-Instagram, kunye ne-BuzzFeed listicles ezinikezelwe kwiscreen kunye namabali ezinxila zeTinder shenanigans.
Kukho izinto ezirhubuluzayo eziza ngamandla, imiyalezo oyithumeleyo ongayiqondiyo ngentsasa elandelayo kunye nemiyalezo oyifumanayo lowo wayethumele i-BFF ukuba akusele kodwa ungumntu wasemzini ukuba angabi sober. Kukwakhona ezo zicwangciso ubunxilile obenzayo ukuba nizolile ninyanzelekile, kodwa akukho mnqweno, wokukwenza. Le miqondiso iqhelekileyo yobusuku obunxilileyo ngaphandle ngoku ibonisa ubusuku obunxilileyo kwinkqubo yokuthandana.
Nokuba ngaba umgca wokuthabatha ombi uthethwe ngokuvakalayo okanye ufumene kwangoko emva kokuba uswayipha ekunene; Nokuba i-gibberish enxilileyo oyibonayo ngentsasa elandelayo ngumbhalo ovela kwinombolo ongayaziyo okanye umyalezo ovela kumdlalo; Kuyafana.
Mhlawumbi lixesha lokuba ubone oku kuswayipha kokugqibela.
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