U-Elon Musk kunye noGrimes babonwa befika kwiZiko laseZulwini: Imfashini kunye neZiko lamaCosta e-Imagination Costume Institute eGala eMetropolitan Museum ngoMeyi 7, 2018 kwisiXeko saseNew York.Imifanekiso kaGilbert Carrasquillo / yeGC Ngempelaveki, i-CEO ye-billionaire yeTesla U-Elon Musk kunye neqabane lakhe, inkwenkwezi ye-pop uGrimes, babenoluntu phakathi kwi-Twitter. Iqale ngoGrimes ephendula i-Musk tweet ethe yatolikwa ngokubanzi njenge-transphobic kwaye yaphela ngemvumi isusa iimpendulo. Ngelishwa, uninzi kumajelo osasazo nakumajelo asekuhlaleni babone ungquzulwano njenge hilarious .
Ndiyicinga ukuba yinto ehlekisayo ukuba izityebi ezizityebi ezifana no-Elon Musk kunye no-JK Rowling basebenzise ngempumelelo iminyaka ye-PR ebiza kakhulu ukuzakhela iimbali kwaye bazokwazi ukutshabalalisa yonke loo mbono ngokungafuni ukuphuma, ndikrwitshiwe UJoseph Fink, we Wamkelekile ku Night Vale ipodcast.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho isibheno ekubukeni uMusk ezithoba. Kodwa amagqabantshintshi akhe kwi-Twitter kunye neempembelelo zabo ezalandelayo kubudlelwane bakhe yayingezizo i-schadenfreude nje. Babengu-transphobic, kwaye kwimeko kubonakala ngathi ziyilelwe ngokukodwa ukujolisa nokuhlazisa iqabane lakhe kwiforum enkulu yoluntu. Ukuhleka kumlo kaMusk kunye noGrimes uziva ngathi yicathartic. Kodwa akuhlekisi kangako ukucinga ukuba sibukele i-transphobic esidlangalaleni, ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantu abathandana nabantu besifazane kudlala ngexesha lokwenyani. 
U-Elon Musk wathumela ngokungxamisekileyo ii-Pronouns ukuba zifunxe kwi-Twitter, zishukumisela uGrimes ukuba aphendule.Twitter
I-tweet yokuqala kaMusk yayifutshane; Yatsho nje, Izimelabizo ziyanya. Oku kwakutolikwa ngokubanzi njenge-swipe e-backhanded kwi-trans yabantu, kwaye ngakumbi kubantu abangabhaliswanga abasebenzisa izimelabizo ezingekhoyo njengabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo iiGrimes ziyifunde njenge-transphobic. Impendulo yabo ifundekile, Ndiyakuthanda kodwa nceda ucime ifowuni yakho okanye undinike [c] yonke. Andikwazi ukuxhasa inzondo. Ndicela uyiyeke lento. Ndiyazi ukuba ayiyiyo intliziyo yakho le.
AmaGrimes asuse ngokukhawuleza i-tweet. Kodwa ayiloxesha lokuqala le mvumi ukuba ithethe esidlangalaleni malunga nemicimbi eguqukayo. Iigrimes ichonga ngokungathathi hlangothi ngokwesini kwaye bathi abanamkhethe kwizimelabizo kum kodwa ndinqwenela ukuba kungafuneki ndibekwe njengabasetyhini rhoqo.
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ngokuyinxenye ngenxa yamava abo kunye nesazisi sesini, uGrimes wayefuna ukuziqhelanisa ukuba ngumzali ngokwesini . Emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala kaGrimes noMusk ngoMeyi, bagqiba kwelokuba bangamniki umntwana isini de umntwana abe mdala ngokwaneleyo ukuba angazikhethela. Andifuni ukubafaka isini kwimeko apho ayisiyiyo indlela abaziva ngayo ebomini babo, utshilo uGrimes.
UMusk wayefanele ukuba uvumile kolu khetho lokuba ngumzali. Kodwa i-tweet yakhe ye-transphobic icebisa ukuba angaxhasa kancinci kunokuba ebonisile. Kuba iGrimes ayisiyonyani, i-tweet ayifundeki nje njengokuhlaselwa kwabantu abadlulayo, kwaye hayi nje ngohlaselo lwabazali bakaGrimes, kodwa njengohlaselo lobuqu bukaGrimes. UMusk wayengu-transphobic ngokubanzi. Kodwa waye, ngokukodwa, ehlekisa kwaye eqondisa intiyo kwenye yakhe ebalulekileyo, esidlangalaleni.
Oku akumangalisi ncam. Umfazi wokuqala kaMusk, uJustine, unayo kuchaziwe ubudlelwane babo njengomda wokuhlukumeza ixesha elide UMarie Claire iprofayile. Wayekhulele kwinkcubeko elawulwa ngamadoda eMzantsi Afrika, utshilo, ebeka kwimeko yamandla kulwalamano lwabo. Oku, kunye nokungalingani okukhulu kwezoqoqosho phakathi kwethu, kwakuthetha ukuba… amandla athile aqala ukubamba. Isigwebo sika-Elon sasisongamela esam, kwaye wayehlala ethetha ngeendlela andifumana ndingenazo.
Abasebenzi bakaTesla batshilo ukuba uMusk uhlala esenza ngathi ungumntu ongcungcuthekisayo, onzima. Wonke umntu waseTesla ukwintlobano yokuxhatshazwa no-Elon, owayesakuba ngumphathi Kanye uxelelwe Quartz .
Ngaphaya koko, abantu be-transgender kunye nabantu abangathathi ntweni banamava ayoyikisayo okuphathwa gadalala. Phantse isiqingatha kubo bonke abantu be-transgender baye bahlaselwa ngokwesondo ngaxa lithile ebomini babo; I-78% yengxelo yolutsha ethe yahlukunyezwa. Akukho lukhulu lophando malunga nokuxhatshazwa kwasekhaya kwabantu abadlulayo kunye nabangengabo. Kodwa isifundo eScotland ifunyenwe ukuba i-73% yabaphenduli nabangaphendulanga ibijolise ekuziphatheni kwe-transphobic kumaqabane abo.
Ukuba uMusk usebenzise i-misogynist slurs ukuhlasela iqabane lakhe, impendulo yoluntu inokuba nomsindo kwaye ingahlekisi kangako. Kodwa intshukumo yokuhanjiswa kwamalungelo yinto yamva nje, kwaye ngoku i-transphobia kwindawo kawonkewonke kwiindawo ezininzi zamkelekile ngakumbi kunokwabelana ngesondo.
Inxalenye yoko kugqithiswa kukucinga ukuba abantu abadlulayo kunye nabangengabo ababhinqileyo bahlekisa, kwaye nengcinezelo yabo ayinabungozi okanye ayibi kakhulu. Ukulwa izimelabizo kungabonakaliswa njengento engenamsebenzi okanye ehlekisayo; i-transgender kunye ne-nonbinary identity uqobo lwayo ihlala ibonakaliswa njengempembelelo. UMusk ngokwakhe ubonakala ehleka xa ethumela i-tweet ye-offhand njenge, Izibhengezo ziyanya. Uhlaselo lwabantu abadluliselweyo lwenziwe njengoburharha nje, hayi inzondo.
I-tweet kaGrimes ekuphenduleni uMusk yayingeyonto inde nokuba, kwaye thina ngekhe sazi ngokuchanekileyo ukuba bacinga ntoni. Banokuthi babonakalise ubumbano kunye nabanye abantu abangabhalisiyo kunye nabadlulayo. Kodwa xa ungenzi nto, kwaye iqabane lakho liphuma kwindlela yokubonisa esidlangalaleni inzondo kubantu abangabalulekanga, unokuba noloyiko olufanelekileyo malunga nokukhuseleka kwakho kunye nokhuseleko lomntwana wakho. Ngayiphi na indlela, iGrimes ngokucacileyo ayiboni ubuhlanga bukaMusk njengesiqhulo. Nathi asifanele.
Ukulungiswa: Inguqulelo yangaphambili yesi sithuba ibhekise kuGrimes njengomfazi kaElon Musk. Abatshatanga, kwaye iposti ihlaziyiwe.
