Nalu uhlobo lobuhlobo Uhlobo lweMyan-Briggs nganye iyaphumelela

Ukungaqondi okuqhelekileyo esikwenzayo kwinqanaba elinye okanye kwelinye kumdlalo wokuthandana uthatha ukuba iimfuno zolwalamano lweqabane lethu zilungelelaniswe ngokugqibeleleyo nezethu. Ngokwenyani, wonke umntu ujonge into eyahlukileyo kolu lwalamano lubalulekileyo. Ubambiswano olwenza ukuba umntu omnye azive engenamali lunokwenza omnye umntu azive ekhululekile. Oko omnye umntu akubona njengokuqhwanyaza komnye umntu kunokujongwa njengokusemandleni omtshato.

Ulwalamano lwethu olukhethiweyo luhambelana kakhulu nokukhetha ubuntu bethu. Uhlobo ngalunye lomntu lukhangela into eyahlukileyo kancinane kubudlelwane obukhulu. Nalu kanye uhlobo lolwalamano olunokwenzeka ukuba uphumelele ngokusekwe kwi Uhlobo lobuntu bukaMyers-Briggs.

I-ENFP: Ubudlelwane obunomdla, obujolise ekukhuleni.

Ii-ENFPs bazithatha njengabafundi banaphakade bobomi, kwaye nangaphezulu kwayo nantoni na, banqwenela ukuzingqonga ngabantu abanomdla nabavulekileyo abafuna ukufunda nokukhula ecaleni kwabo. Ii-ENFPs ngabantu abanomdla ongapheliyo, kwaye akukho nto isebenza njenge-aphrodisiac enkulu kolu hlobo kunengqondo ebukhali. Xa olu hlobo lufumana iqabane elinomdla wokuphonononga, ukufumanisa nokufunda ngakumbi malunga nehlabathi elibajikelezileyo njengoko linjalo, i-ENFP ekugqibeleni iyazifumana ikulwalamano olubavumela ukuba baphumelele ngokwenyani.

I-INFJ: Ubudlelwane obuntsonkothileyo nobunobunzima ngokwasengqondweni.

INFJs ungathathi phantse yonke into ngexabiso lobuso, kwaye olu tyekelo lwanabela kubudlelwane babo. Aba bantu bahlala bengacacanga bayaphumelela kubambiswano apho iimbono zabo zihlala ziphikiswa kwaye umbono wabo wehlabathi uhlala uhlengahlengiswa. Kwi-INFJ, ubudlelwane obonelisayo bobunye obunika uzinzo olusebenzayo kodwa ukuhlola ngengqondo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Indawo yengqondo kulapho i-INFJ ikhanya ngokwendalo. Xa bedibanisa kunye neqabane elizisa eli cala kubo, bayaphumelela.

I-INFP: Ubudlelwane obunothando obunzulu kunye nolwalamano.

INFPs abafuni nje ukuziva bethanda ngamaqabane abo; bafuna ukubazi ezantsi kubuntu babo. Aba bantu banomdla onzulu babona uthando lokwenyani njengeyona ndlela yokusondelelana. Kubo, uthando lufunda ngengqondo yomntu wonke, intliziyo, ukomelela, ubuthathaka kunye noloyiko, nokwamkelana ngokupheleleyo. Kuluhlobo olunzulu lwe-INFP yothando, uthando lokuthandana kukudibana kwemiphefumlo kunye nemimoya, endaweni yokulungelelanisa indlela yokuphila. Kwaye xa befumana umntu abanokudibana naye ngale ndlela, bazifumana benobudlelwane obubavumela ukuba baphumelele ngokwenene.

ENFJ: Ubudlelwane obuququzelela ukukhula komntu kubo bobabini.

Ii-ENFJs zijolise ngokungapheliyo ekuziphuculeni, kwaye ababoni sizathu sokuba ukuziphucula kufanele kuphele bakungena kubudlelwane. Uhlobo lwe-ENFJ yombono lubhangqwe kakuhle neqabane elifuna ukuchitha ubomi babo likhula, litshintsha kwaye liziphucula kunye nomntu ongasoze ayeke ukuxhasa ukukhula kwabo. Xa i-ENFJ ifumana iqabane elinjalo, bayaphumelela kulwalamano.

I-ESFP: Ubudlelwane obonwabisayo kunye nokuphononongwa.

I-ESFPs ngabahambahambayo abangapheliyo behlabathi. Kude kube ngumhla wabo wokufa, bafuna ukuphonononga, ukulandela, kunye nokufunda izinto ezintsha malunga nehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Ezi ntlobo zinomoya okhululekileyo zibhangqwe kakuhle kunye neqabane elinengqondo evulekileyo elinqwenela ukulibamba ixesha elinalo emhlabeni. I-ESFP ayinanjongo zokumosha umzuzwana, kwaye bayaphumelela ngokwenyani kubudlelwane apho umnqweno weqabane labo wobomi uhambelana nowabo.

I-ISFP: Intsebenziswano emnandi, yobomi bonke.

Ii-ISFPs zinokubonakala ngathi ziyathandeka xa uzijonga kuqala, kodwa phantsi kwangaphandle kwazo kukho intliziyo enqwenela inkanuko, i-adventure kunye nothando. Aba bantu banomoya okhululekileyo babhangqwe ngcono kunye neqabane elinokubanika imvakalelo yokuzinza, kodwa ekwabelana ngokunxanelwa kwabo ukhenketho kunye nokuhlola. Kobu budlelwane bunokuthenjwa kodwa buyonwabisa, i-ISFP iziva yamkelwe kwaye iqondwa. Le mvakalelo ivumela i-ISFP ukuba ikhule ngokwenyani.

I-ESFJ: ubudlelwane obudala obuthandanayo.

I-ESFJs ikholelwa kwisikolo esidala, ukuthandana ngokwesiko, njengokulandela iifowuni kwaye 'kuba nje' iintyatyambo ezithunyelwe kwindawo yokusebenza. Bafuna inkundla yokwenyani kwaye bathandane ngamaqabane abo, kwaye olu hlobo bazifumana bonwabile xa befumana umntu owabelana ngentlonipho ngokwesiko, ukuzibophelela kunye nokulandela. Olu hlobo lokunikezela ngokungapheliyo luyachuma kubudlelwane obubanika ukuzinza kunye nentembelo abayinqwenelayo.

I-ISFJ: Ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo nobude.

Xa i-ISFJ iwa, bawa nzima. Awuyi kufumana iqabane elithembekileyo naphi na. Ezi ntlobo zovelwano zikholelwa kubambiswano oluhlala ixesha elide. Bathetha ukuzibophelela kwabo, kwaye bayaphumelela kubudlelwane apho banako ukudibanisa ubomi babo kunye nomnye umntu. I-ISFJ ayifuni nje iqabane eluthandweni-bafuna iqabane ebomini.

ENTP: Ubudlelwane obunamandla, obuhlala buvela.

Ingqondo ye-ENTP ayizange ihlale ihleli ixesha elide-kwaye ngenxa yoko, nobudlelwane babo abuhlali. Olu hlobo lokuphonononga ngokwasengqondweni aludingi kuhlala luzonwabisa ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa kufuneka luhlolisise iifilosofi ezintsha, iikhonsepthi, kunye neendlela zokuzilungisa kunye nokuphucula ubudlelwane. I-ENTP ifuna ukuba ubudlelwane babo bube sisilo esitshintsha rhoqo. Olu hlobo alugxili ekuziphuhliseni kwaye bayaphumelela kubudlelwane obuhlala bukhula, nabo.

INTP: Ulwalamano oluthembekileyo nolokuqonda.

I-INTPs zisetyenziselwa ukungaqondwa-kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle abanye. Olu hlobo lwesigulana kunye nolwazelelelo lulunge ngakumbi kumaqabane afuna ukuthatha ixesha lokuqonda i-INTP ngokunzulu kwaye abaxabise ukuqondwa ngokunzulu ngamaqabane abo. Akukho nto enolu hlobo ehlaziyeka ngaphezu kokuba neqabane elinyanisekileyo kubo, evakalisa iimfuno zabo ngokucacileyo, kwaye ivulelekile ekusebenzeni kubudlelwane ngendlela ethe ngqo. Ii-INTPs ziyaphumelela xa zizifumana kubambiswano olusekwe ekuvulekeni nasekuqondaneni.

I-ENTJ: Ubudlelwane kunye neenjongo zexesha elide ekwabelwana ngazo.

Kwi-ENTJ, ubudlelwane yintsebenziswano yokwenene. Bayaphumelela xa zombini umdla weqela ulungelelaniswe kwaye isiphumo sexesha elide sibonakala sinethemba. Olu hlobo alunamdla ekuchitheni ixesha labo kwibhanti yexeshana elifutshane okanye engenantsingiselo-banqwenela ukhuseleko lwexesha elide kunye namaqabane athatha ubudlelwane njengobalulekileyo njengoko esenza. Xa i-ENTJ ifumana enye yezi ntsebenziswano, bayinika konke. Banokumangalisa amaqabane abo ngokutyhila icala labo (elifihliweyo) lothando!

I-INTJ: Ulwalamano oluzinzileyo, nolwazelelelo.

I-INTJ inqwenela ukhuseleko kwindawo ebonakalayo kodwa ukuhlola okungapheliyo kummandla wengqondo. Xa olu hlobo lutyala imali komnye umntu, luyabophelela, kwaye lubhangqwe kakhulu neqabane elinokuzibophelela okufanayo kubo. Oku kuvumela i-INTJ ithuba lokuphumla kwintsebenziswano kwaye babelane ngabo bonke kunye neqabane labo. Olu hlobo lufaneleke kakuhle kumntu owabelana nenxano yabo yefilosofi, uncwadi kunye nokuqikelela kwethiyori. Ukuba nzulu, ukuqonda ngokwasengqondweni yeyona aphrodisiac inkulu yolu hlobo. Bayakhula kubudlelwane obuxhomekeke kunxibelelwano lwengqondo.

I-ESTP: Ubudlelwane obonwabisayo nobulula.

Ii-ESTPs ziyaziwa ngokuba luloyiko lokuzibophelela, kodwa enyanisweni, zichasene nobunzima obubandakanyekayo kubudlelwane obumi ndawonye, ​​obungaguqukiyo. I-ESTP iyachuma ngokwenene kubudlelwane apho omabini amaqela abelana ngokunxanelwa ukufumanisa kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ezi ntlobo zingazinzanga zifuna umntu okulungeleyo ukuphonononga ngokungafihlisiyo umhlaba ecaleni kwabo. Nje ukuba bafumane iqabane elibenza bazive bekhululekile, i-ESTP ngequbuliso iba noloyiko lokuzibophelela kuba ekugqibeleni balufumene uhlobo lobudlelwane abaphumelela kulo.

I-ISTP: Ubudlelwane obusebenzayo kodwa obuzimeleyo.

Kwi-ISTP esebenzayo, ubudlelwane abusekelwanga nje kuthando kodwa kuluncedo. Bafuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba bafumene iqabane elibalinganisa ngeendlela ezichanekileyo kwaye indlela yabo yokuphila iyahambelana neyabo. I-ISTP ifuna inkululeko enkulu ngaphakathi kobudlelwane, kwaye ilunge kakhulu kumlingane ongayiqondiyo kuphela le mpawu kodwa oyinqwenelayo. Xa i-ISTP ekugqibeleni izifumana iqabane elihloniphayo kwaye lixabise ubume babo obuzimeleyo, obuphantsi komhlaba, baya kuzifumana bephumelela kubambiswano.

I-ESTJ: Ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo kunye noqikelelo.

I-ESTJs ayinakuba ngabantu abathandanayo, kodwa kungenxa yokuba kubo ukuthandana kujongeka njengokuzibophelela okunzulu kumntu abanokuxhomekeka kuye. Olu hlobo luphantsi komhlaba luyachuma kulwalamano olusekwe kukuthembana nokuhloniphana. Akukho ubude i-ESTJ ayizukuya kumntu obakhathaleleyo. Xa beqinisekile ukuba banalo olo tyalomali njengembuyekezo, i-ESTJ ikhanya ngokwenyani kubudlelwane. Banokukruquka ukuba wabelana ngayo, kodwa banokukhupha icala labo lothando.

ISTJ: Ubambiswano oluhloniphekileyo nolwemveli.

Ii-ISTJs zibeka ugxininiso olunzima kumasiko nezithethe, oko kuthetha ukuba bafuna ukuthandana nendlela yakudala. Bakholelwa ekuboniseni abalingane babo imbeko ephezulu kuwo onke amabakala enkqubo yokuthandana, kwaye balindele imbeko efanayo. I-ISTJ iyachuma ngokwenene kubudlelwane obulandela imigaqo yesiko yokuthandana ngokuhloniphekileyo: Bakholelwa ekubuyeni ngexesha, ukubonisa kwangoko imihla, kunye nokulandela ukuzibophelela. Xa bezifumana bethandana neqabane elithatha izinto ngokufana ngokungathí sina, uhlobo lwe-ISTJ luzifumana ngesiquphe luzimisele ukuya ngaphezulu nangaphaya kulwalamano. Kulapho baphumelela khona ngokwenene.