Akunakuphikwa ukuba ngamaxesha athile obomi bethu, sifuna ukuba sodwa.Unsplash / uKristopher Roller Abanye bethu bayasokola ukulinganisa umthwalo onzima ngentsebenziswano esempilweni. Abanye bakufumanisa kunzima ukugcina ubudlelwane xa behamba rhoqo okanye betshintsha indlela abaphila ngayo. Nokuba imeko iyintoni na, kukho amaxesha angenakuphikwa apho ukungatshati Eyona meko ilungileyo yethu sonke. Apha kulapho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ube wedwa, ngokusekwe kuhlobo lobuntu bakho be-Myers-Briggs.
I-ENFP: Ubomi bakho bube libali lothando endaweni yenoveli ye-adventure.
Ii-ENFPs zithande ukujonga ubomi bazo njengebali elinomdla abalibalisayo ngaphakathi kweengqondo zabo. Okona bagqibeleleyo, amabali abo anzulu kwaye abonisa ukuqonda malunga nokuzonwabisa abaye banako kunye nezifundo ezinentsingiselo abazifundileyo apha endleleni. Kodwa xa i-ENFP ifumanisa ukuba ubomi babo bube ngaphantsi malunga nokuhlola kunye nokufumanisa ngakumbi malunga nokulungisa umntu omnye, olo luphawu oluchanekileyo lokuba lixesha lokuba baphinde baqwalasele amandla abo. Ayikuko ukuba akunakubakho uthando kwibali le-ENFP-kukuba nje akufuneki ibeyilo lonke icebo. Kwaye umlinganiswa ophambili kwibali lobomi be-ENFP akufuneki abe ngomnye umntu.
I-ENTP: Kuya kufuneka ujolise kwiipesenti ezili-110 zamandla akho kwishishini lakho lakutshanje.
Ii-ENTPs zaziwa ngokuziqambela okungathethekiyo kwaye zikhuthele-kwaye inxenye yesizathu sokuba bazenzele kude kube ngoku ngeeprojekthi ezintsha kungenxa yokuba bazimisele ukuphosa iipesenti ezili-110 zabo kuyo yonke into abayenzayo. Nangona kunjalo, oku kuhlala kuthetha ukuba abantu kubomi be-ENTP bayatyhalwa kwisitshisi esingasemva ngexesha lamaxhala. I-ENTP kufuneka ingatshatanga xa ikwiqondo lobomi bayo apho ingakulungelanga kwaphela ukuyekisa nayiphi na inxenye yemizamo yabo yamvanje ukuze isebenze neqabane. Ngenxa yokuba umsebenzi ophazamisayo nongalalanisiyo akalilo iqabane konke konke.
ENFJ: Xa ingcinga yokuba wedwa ikwenza woyike.
I-ENFJs ithanda ukuthandana-nokuba lolo thando luyi-platonic, yothando okanye yomoya ngokwendalo. Ezi ntlobo ziyachuma kulwalamano olusempilweni, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ziyakhula zityala imali kulwalamano lwazo kangangokuba zilibale ukuzenzela ngaphandle kwazo. Ngaphezulu kwee-ENFJs ezimbalwa ziye zasetyenziselwa ukugcwalisa indima yesoka okanye intombi kangangokuba ingcinga yokulahleka kwesazisi ibenza boyike-nangaphezulu kokucinga kokuphulukana nomntu onabo. Xa ingcinga yokungatshati isenza i-ENFJ izive iphakuzela, oko kukuthi, ngokuhlekisayo, kanye xa banokufuna ukungatshati kakhulu. Ngenxa yokuba ubudlelwane obakhelwe kuloyiko abukho ubudlelwane obunempilo kwaphela.
I-ENTJ: Xa izicwangciso zakho zexesha elide zikhangeleka zingenacharacteristically hazy.
I-ENTJ ngumcwangcisi wexesha elide ngokusebenzisa-kodwa bafuna ukwenza izicwangciso ngokwemiqathango yabo, baze bafumane umntu onomdla wexesha elide ahambelane neyabo. I-ENTJ ihlala ifuna ukuba yodwa ngexesha lesigaba sobomi babo xa begqiba into abayifunayo ixesha elide. Ukuba abanamabhongo ngokulandelelana esiya kubudlelwane, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu kubo ukufumana umntu onobomi obuhambelana nolwabo. Kwaye i-ENTJ echitha ubomi babo bonke ibeka emngciphekweni amabhongo abo eqabane-kuba bafumanise into ababeyifuna kade-yirisithi ye-ENTJ engonwabanga nengqumbayo.
I-INFP: Xa iqabane lakho libonakala njengesisombululo esifanelekileyo kubomi bakho obungonelisiyo.
I-INFPs zithandana-kodwa ayisoloko ingumntu abathandanayo. Ngamanye amaxesha kuluvo. Ngamanye amaxesha lithuba. Ngamanye amaxesha i-adventure. Imisebenzi ye-INFP isebenza kakuhle xa bethandana nehlabathi elibajikelezileyo, kwaye bayakwazi ukuhambisa olo thando ngokusebenzisa indlela yabo yobugcisa. Nangona kunjalo, xa i-INFP ibona ihlabathi lingenambala kwaye limfiliba, banokujikela ekuthandeni iqabane eliza kuza libasindise kubomi babo. Oku, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, luphawu oluphambili lokuba i-INFP kufuneka ibe yodwa bade babuye bathandane nehlabathi kwakhona-kuba ukubeka onke amathemba abo okonwaba komnye umntu kuyindlela yobudlelwane obungenathemba.
INFJ: Xa ubomi bakho bungekho malunga wena ngexesha elide kakhulu.
I-INFJs zisebenzisa imvakalelo edumileyo ukusekela izigqibo zabo kwinto enokubangela ukuba abantu ababangqongileyo bonwabe. Nangona kunjalo, oku kuthetha ukuba i-INFJ ngamanye amaxesha iphela ithatha indawo yokubuyela emva ebomini babo. Endaweni yokuya koko bafuna kwaye bakhuthazwe, benza indlela yokuba abantu ababangqongileyo basukele yabo amaphupha. Kwaye nangona olu luphawu oluhle ngokumodareyitha, yinto ebangela ukungonwabi xa iba yimpendulo yabo. I-INFJ ifuna ukungatshati de ibe ingafunda ukulungelelanisa iimfuno zayo ecaleni komnye umntu-kungenjalo, ubomi babo buya kuba luthotho olungapheliyo lokungazalisekisi.
I-INTP: Xa ubudlelwane bukhangeleka ngathi kukukhathazeka kuwe.
Ii-INTPs zaziwa ngokuba neemvakalelo ezinzulu ngokumangalisayo-kunye nobunzima bokuziveza. Ngenxa yoko, ii-INTPs ezincinci zihlala zifuna amaqabane abonisa imvakalelo abaya kusebenza njenge 'ntlalontle okanye imvakalelo yokomoya.' Kwaye ngelixa kumnandi ukufunda kubuchule bomnye umntu, ii-INTPs zihlala kufuneka zikhumbule ukuba ukuba neqabane elinamandla ubuthathaka babo ayisosizathu sokusilela ukuhlakulela imeko yokuvuleleka kunye novelwano ngaphakathi kwabo. I-INTP ifuna ukuba ingatshatanga de ibe inokuma ngeenyawo zayo ezimbini ngokweemvakalelo-kwaye emva koko inokufumana iqabane elincomayo, kunokuba lizigqibe, zona.
INTJ: Xa ujolise ngakumbi ekufumaneni iqabane elifanelekileyo kunokuba ukwenzile ubudlelwane obulungileyo.
Ngelixa ii-INFPs zinikwa islack sokulungiselela amaqabane anokubakho, into encinci eyaziwayo malunga ne-INTJ encinci kukuba banomdla wokwenza okufanayo. Ii-INTJ zithambekele ekugxileni ekufumaneni iqabane eligqibeleleyo kangangokuba zilibale ukuba ubudlelwane bunendalo engafezekanga-kwaye ngumsebenzi onzima kunye nolungelelwaniso olubafumana apho. I-INTJ kufuneka ibe engatshatanga de ibe iyakwamkela ukuba akukho qabane liza kuba li-100% lilungele bona-kodwa ukuze bakwazi ukufumana umntu owenza ukusebenza kubudlelwane umsebenzi owanelisayo omangalisayo ngaphakathi kwawo.
I-ESFP: Xa uthando lukhangeleka luyimpendulo yokulahleka kwakho.
I-ESFPs zaziwa ngokuba ziphicotha ngokukrakra kwindalo; bangabokuqala ukuphuma bayokukhangela izinto eziza kwenzeka kwaye babe ngabokuqala ukuqonda amathuba amatsha. Nangona kunjalo, yonke i-ESFP ifikelela kwinqanaba ebomini bakhe xa bengaqinisekanga ukuba yintoni elandelayo eza kwenzeka-kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, bajonge impendulo 'kwinto elandelayo' komnye umntu, endaweni yokujika ikhampasi yabo yangaphakathi . I-ESFPs kufuneka zingatshatanga ngexesha lezigaba zobomi bazo apho ubudlelwane buya kuba yinto ye-crutch ngaphezu kotyalo mali. Nje ukuba bazi ukuba bafuna ntoni kubo, i-ESFP iya kuba nokuninzi kakhulu ekunikezeleni kubudlelwane-kunokuba ungene kubambiswano konke malunga nokuthatha.
I-ESTP: Xa ubudlelwane bujongeka njengendlela elula yokufumana iimfuno zakho.
Ii-ESTPs ziyaziwa ngokungoyiki, ukukhusela kunye nokuthandeka-zinomtsalane, enyanisweni, kangangokuba zihlala zibopha abanye ukuba zikhathalele iinkcukacha zemihla ngemihla zobomi babo ezingakhathaliyo ukuzikhathalela. Ii-ESTPs kufuneka zibe zodwa xa ubudlelwane bujongeka ngakumbi njengendlela yokukhupha ezi mfuno zingathandekiyo kunokuba zinike ithuba lokuthanda kunye nokudibana nomnye umntu. Ngaphandle koko, ubudlelwane buqala kwindima yomphathi-kunye-nomncedisi-nto leyo engafunekiyo kuye wonke umntu.
I-ESTJ: Xa ulindele ukuba iqabane lenze ulungelelwaniso ngekhe ulwenze.
Ii-ESTJs ziyayazi into eziyifunayo kwaye ziyayenza-yinto entle ukuba nayo. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokubafaka engxakini xa befumana amaqabane abathandanayo abanomdla ngakumbi kunabo. Endaweni yokumamela ngononophelo kwiimfuno zabo zabanye abalulekileyo, ii-ESTJs zinokutyekela ekuchazeni oko zikufunayo kwaye zithathe ukuba ezi zifunayo ziya kuchaza ubudlelwane. Nangona kunjalo, ezi ntlobo zizithembileyo kufuneka zizihlole ukungaqiniseki ukuba aziceli amaqabane azo ukuba enze ulungelelwaniso angenakuzenzela lona-kungenjalo, ubudlelwane buye bungabi nathemba kwaye i-ESTJ kungangcono ukuba uthathe ixesha lokuba wedwa bade bazive bekulungele ngakumbi ukulalanisa.
ESFJ: Xa ukhathazeke kakhulu malunga nokufumana ubudlelwane kunokuba ufuna umntu olungileyo.
I-ESFJ iyaluthanda uthando. Bangabanikeli bendalo kwaye bahlala bewela ngokulula kwindima yokuba liqabane. Nangona kunjalo, olu hlobo kufuneka luqinisekise ukuba abangeni nje kubudlelwane ngenxa yokungabikho bodwa. Ubudlelwane obusekwe kwimfuno okanye ukuphelelwa lithemba bubudlelwane obugwetyiweyo ukusuka ekuhambeni-ke i-ESFJ kufuneka iqinisekise ukuba ukuba bafuna ulwalamano lwabo luhlale lusempilweni, kufuneka bangene kulo benenjongo elungileyo-oko kukuthi Umntu abakunye naye, hayi ukunqanda ukuba wedwa.
ISFP: Xa unyawo olunye uphume emnyango.
I-ISFPs zihlala zicotha ukuthatha isigqibo xa kuziwa kwimicimbi yentliziyo. Nangona kunjalo, nje ukuba bathandane nomntu, bayawa nzima kwaye bawe nzulu. Xa i-ISFP izifumana ijija umnyango kubudlelwane, luphawu oluphambili lokuba abakho kubudlelwane obufanelekileyo konke konke. Ezi ntlobo zizimeleyo zihlala zibhetele zodwa kunokuba zibambekile kubudlelwane nomntu abangazukunika konke. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, olo hlobo lobudlelwane alulunganga nakweliphi na iqela.
ISFJ: Xa ungonwabanga ukudweba imida ecacileyo.
I-ISFJs ngabanakekeli bemvelo kunye nabanikezeli-kodwa banomdla kakhulu ekuzikhuliseni ngokwabo ukuze bakholise abantu ababathandayo. Ii-ISFJs kufuneka zibe zodwa ngaphandle kokuba zingafunda ukuzoba imida esempilweni phakathi kwabo nabantu ababathandayo. I-ISFJ engenako ukuthi 'hayi,' yi-ISFJ esemngciphekweni omkhulu wokuwela kubudlelwane obungenampilo. Kuze kube yilapho befunda ukulinganisela umnqweno wabo wokukholisa abanye kunye neemfuno zabo, i-ISFJ inokuthi ibe ngcono xa ingatshatanga.
I-ISTP: Xa inkululeko yakho iyeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Ii-ISTPs zifuna ukukhululeka ukuba ziphonononge umdla wazo nzulu-kwaye ziyakucaphukela ukonyhashwa kolawulo lwazo. Ngelixa kungekho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwemvelo ngale nto, inqanaba lokuzimela elinqwenelwa yi-ISTP kuhlala kwenza kube nzima ukugcina ubudlelwane obukhulu. Ii-ISTPs kufuneka zihlale zingatshatanga ngaphandle kokuba kwaye zilungele ukwenza ulungelelwaniso oluncinci ngenxa yobudlelwane obuphilileyo. Okanye bade bafumane umntu ozimeleyo njengabo!
ISTJ: Xa uxakeke kukufumana amadada akho ngokulandelelana.
Ii-ISTJs zizama ukuzinza kunye nempumelelo yexesha elide ebomini babo. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha oku kunokuthetha iminyaka yomsebenzi omandla wokuseta njengoko bengqina ngendawo yabo kumakhondo okanye kwindlela yokuphila abayithandayo. Njenge-ISTJ, ungangcono ube wedwa kule minyaka yokubeka ubomi bakho kunye. Ukuba awukakulungeli ukwenza igumbi elibalulekileyo lobuhlobo obunothando, ngekhe ukwazi ukwenza ukuzibophelela okusempilweni komnye umntu. Kwaye ukuba kukho nantoni na ayithandayo i-ISTJ, yenza izinto ngokufanelekileyo, okokuqala ngqa.
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