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I-Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), ethi ihlele abantu iye kwenye yeeprofayili zobuntu ezi-16, ibikho ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-70. Kodwa kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo, kwenzeka into entle ngokungathandabuzekiyo. I-MBTI, kubo bonke ubuqaqawuli bayo obunobunkunkqele, ekugqibeleni yadibana nomphefumlo wayo: i-Intanethi.
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Mhlawumbi olona nyango lusebenzayo esinokulufumana kwi-MBTI kukusinceda ukuba sifike emazantsi embuzo osikhathaza kwinqanaba likazwelonke: Sazi njani ukuba siyeke ukuswayipha kwiTinder? Ngexesha lokukhetha okungapheliyo, sinengxaki enkulu yokuthemba amathumbu ethu kunangaphambili. Ke, nalu uphawu olucacileyo, olungenakuphikiswa lokuba ukukhangela kwakho umphefumlo womphefumlo ugqibelele, ngokusekwe kuhlobo lobuntu bakho be-Myers-Briggs.
I-ESFP: Uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ubathanda baziva ngathi yeyona adventure intle owakha waba kuyo.
I-ESFPs, abanomdla, abaphuma ngaphandle kwe-MBTI, bayathanda ukuba semathandweni. Kodwa bayayoyika ukungena kubudlelwane obuza kucofa amaphiko abo kwaye babagcine ekuhlolweni ngokukhululekileyo kwihlabathi kwaye befuna ukuzonwabisa okutsha.
Njenge-ESFP, uya kwazi ukuba ekugqibeleni uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ubathanda baziva ngathi bubuhle kwaye bungakholeleki. Awusayi kuphinda ukhathazeke malunga nokulinganiselwa kuphononongo lwakho kuba ukubanabo akusayi kuziva ngathi uhlala phantsi. Iya kuziva ngathi ithatha inxaxheba kwezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
ISFP: Uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ekugqibeleni ungumculi kunye nomsebenzi wobugcisa.
Ii-ISFPs, ezithandekayo, ezinobuchule bokuyila ze-MBTI, zaziwa ngokuba nakho ukujonga abanye abantu kwaye babone ubugcisa. Ezi ntlobo zijonga kwaye zibonise abo zibathandayo ngeyona fashoni intle onokucinga ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, kunqabile ukuba bajonge ngendlela efanayo ukubuyisa.
Njenge-ISFP, uya kuyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ekugqibeleni udibana nomntu ojonga indlela ojonga ngayo abantu obathandayo-oko kukuthi, ngokungathi ungoyena mntu ubalaseleyo emhlabeni. Ngethuba lokuqala, uya kuziva uncomeka njengoko udla ngokwenza abanye abantu bazive. Uya kuba nomntu oqondayo ukuba awuyena nje umculi; ungumsebenzi wobugcisa ngokwakho.
ESFJ: Uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa udibana nomntu ongadingi kugcina kodwa okuthandayo.
I-ESFJs, abakhulisi abaphantsi, abaphantsi komhlaba be-MBTI, banomdla wokuthandana nabantu abafuna into kubo. Ezi ntlobo ngabanonopheli bendalo kunye nabanikezeli, oko kuthetha ukuba nazo ziyenzeka kwiimagnethi zabantu abavuthayo.
Njenge-ESFJ, uya kuyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ufumanisa ukuba uwela umntu onamadada abo elandelelana-kodwa ofuna ukuba ujikeleze kunjalo. Kuphela kuxa uzibhaqa unomntu ongaxhomekekanga kwaphela kuwe apho uya kuthi ufunde uvuyo lokupha kunye nokwamkela uthando ngokukhululekileyo. Luhlobo lovuyo ongasokuze uphinde ufune ukuzincama.
ISFJ: Uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa uthando ekugqibeleni lukwenza uzive ukhuselekile.
I-ISFJs, abanakekeli abasebenzisekayo, abaphantsi komhlaba be-MBTI, bathambekele ekuweleni kubantu abangabathandiyo kwakhona ngamandla afanayo kunye nokuzinikela. Ezi ntlobo zingabathandi kunye nabanikezeli nge-and-through, kodwa bahlala beziva beziva bengakhuselekanga kubudlelwane apho amaqabane abo engabandakanyekanga okanye atyale imali.
Njenge-ISFJ, uyazi ukuba ufumene umphefumlo wakho xa udibana nomntu owenza uzive ukhuselekile ngokugqibeleleyo kubudlelwane bakho. Endaweni yokucinezela ukuba ikamva lakho liza kujongeka njani nobabini, uya kuba nakho ukuphumla kwaye uvumele izinto zenzeke kuba uqinisekile ukuba amaxabiso eqabane lakho ahambelana nelakho. Uya kwazi ukuba nobabini nikulungele kwaye nizimisele ukubeka phambili elinye nelinye inyathelo lendlela.
ENTP: Uyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ulwalamano ekugqibeleni luvula iingcango ezingakumbi kuwe kunokuba luvaliwe.
Ii-ENTPs, iingcinga ezivelisa i-MBTI, zihlala zibethwa ngenxa yokuzibophelela. Ngokwenyani, ayisiyiyo ukuba ezi ntlobo zoyika ukuzibophelela. Kungenxa yokuba babona izinto ezininzi banokufuna ukuzibophelela ezantsi emgceni, kwaye abafuni ukuvala naziphi na iingcango.
Njenge-ENTP, uya kwazi ukuba umfumene lowo xa ubudlelwane ekugqibeleni bukubonelela ngamathuba amatsha ngakumbi kunokuba kukukhawulela. Endaweni yokuziva unyanzelwe okanye ubanjelwe ngumphefumlo wakho, uya kuziva ukhuthazekile, ukhuthazekile kwaye uthengiswa ngabo. Ezo luhlobo lweemvakalelo oya kufuna ukuzibophelela kuzo.
INTP: Uyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ufumana umntu omthandayo kodwa ongakudingi.
Ii-INTPs, iingcinga ezinengqiqo, ezifuna ukwazi nge-MBTI, zaziwa ngokuba zihambelana kakhulu neengcinga zazo kodwa hayi ngokuzibandakanya neemvakalelo zazo-okanye iimvakalelo zabanye. Ezi ntlobo zihlala zitsala nzima ukuqonda ukuba yintoni efunekayo kubo kubudlelwane, njengoko ukwanelisa iimfuno zeemvakalelo zabanye kungazizeli ngokwendalo.
Njenge-INTP, uyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa udibana nomntu onwabele inkampani yakho kakhulu kodwa ozimeleyo njengawe kwaye ongalindelanga ukuba ahlangane nazo zonke iimfuno zabo. Umntu omele ukuhlala naye akazukuchitha ixesha lakhe edlala imidlalo yengqondo- baya kukuxelela ngaphambili xa befuna into. Elinye ixesha, bayakulunga ukuzikhathalela.
ENTJ: Uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa uqala ukubabhalela kwisicwangciso ngasinye sexesha elide.
I-ENTJs, isicwangciso-qhinga, abacwangcisi bexesha elide be-MBTI, baziwa ngokuthanda kwabo ukucinga ngeentloko zabo kuneentliziyo zabo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo ngokupheleleyo. Ngokwenyani, intloko ye-ENTJ isebenza ngokudibeneyo nentliziyo yabo. Xa bewela umntu, yonke into malunga nokuba nalo mntu ebomini babo iqala ukwenza intsingiselo.
Njenge-ENTJ, uya kwazi ukuba umfumene umphefumlo wakho xa ungasenakucinga isicwangciso esinye ngekamva esingazibandakanyi ecaleni kwakho. Ingqondo yakho iya kuqala ukubabhalela kuzo zonke izicwangciso zexesha elide ozenzayo, ukukuqinisekisa ukuba lolona khetho lusengqiqweni. Ngokwenyani, zizinto nje ozikhethileyo ofuna ukuqhubeka uzenza.
INTJ: Uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa uqala ukubuza ukuba uyayiphila na imigangatho yabo, kunokuba wenze enye indlela.
I-INTJs, ubuchule, ubuchule be-MBTI, baziwa ngemigangatho ephezulu. Ezi ntlobo zikhetha ngokumangalisayo xa kuziwa kubani abafuna njengeqabane. Bafuna ukufumana umntu oza kubomi babo ngononophelo olufanayo kunye nokuqonda ukuba i-INTJ isebenza kubo.
Njenge-INTJ, uyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ngequbuliso uyeka ukubuza ukuba ingaba lo mntu uphila ngokwemigangatho yakho kwaye uqale uzibuze ukuba uphila ngokugqibeleleyo na. Into yokugqibela i-INTJ ifuna ukuba ihlale imile kubudlelwane. Bafuna iqabane elibacelayo, libatyhale, kwaye libakhuthaze ukuba babe yinguqulelo engcono kubo. Nje ukuba bamfumane loo mntu, akukho ndlela bayamvumela ukuba ahambe.
ESTP: Uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ufuna ukuba nesibindi egameni labo.
Ii-ESTP, ii-daredevils ezikhawulezayo, ezithatha umngcipheko kwi-MBTI, ziyaziwa ngobuntu babo obunomdla kunye nesidingo sabo sokukhawulezisa kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi babo. Ezi ndidi zihlala zixhathisa ukuhlala phantsi ixesha elide kangangoko kunokwenzeka, zixhalabile ukuba ubomi babo buya kukhula buthuke xa bezibophelela emntwini omnye.
Njenge-ESTP, uyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ekugqibeleni udibana nomntu okhupha iqhawe elingaphakathi kuwe, okwenza ukuba ufuna ukuba nesibindi kangangezihlandlo ezili-10, ukhaliphe ngakumbi kwaye ukhuseleke ngakumbi kunokuba ubucinga , ukuze nje bonwabe. Umzila wakho wokukhusela uya kuvuya ngobukho balo mntu. Ngesiquphe, ngekhe kubekho nto ubungekhe uyenze ukubalungiselela. Kwaye ukubathanda kuya kuziva ngathi kukuzonwabisa okukhulu kwaye ngokwakho.
I-ISTP: Uyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa uthando luziva luyinto elula emhlabeni.
Ii-ISTPs, ezisebenzayo, iingqondo zengqondo ze-MBTI, zaziwa ngokucinga ngentloko, kunokuba iintliziyo zabo-oko kuthetha ukuba abalulwazi ngokupheleleyo ulwimi lothando. Ayisiyo ukuba ii-ISTPs azinamdla kwiimfuno zamaqabane abo; Kuphela kukuba bahlala bengakwazi ukubona ukuba zeziphi na ezo mfuno. Inokuba luxinzelelo kwi-ISTP.
Njenge-ISTP, uya kuyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa uthando luyeka ukuziva ngathi iphazili enkulu, engenakusombululeka. Uya kuba nomntu onxibelelana ngokucacileyo kwaye ongakushiyi ujinga. Uyakwazi ukuphumla kwaye ube kubudlelwane-endaweni yokuhamba rhoqo kwiigobolondo zamaqanda, ukhathazeka ngokukhubekisa iqabane lakho.
I-ESTJ: Uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ulungile ngokuyeka ulawulo.
I-ESTJs, ezilungelelanisiweyo, ezithatha iintlawulo ze-MBTI, zaziwa ngokuthambekela kwazo kulawulo. Ezi ntlobo zifuna ukuphatha yonke into ebomini babo, ukusuka kumakhondo omsebenzi ukuya kubudlelwane babo. Nangona kunjalo, xa bethandana, isidingo sabo solawulo sincipha.
Njenge-ESTJ, uya kwazi ukuba ufumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ungadingi ukujongana nolwalamano. Awuyi kuba nexhala malunga nokungathembi iqabane lakho, ukungaqondi iinjongo zabo, okanye ukuphosakela into yexesha elifutshane ngento enokubakho okungapheliyo. Ulwalamano lwakho ekugqibeleni luya kubonakala ngathi lungumngcipheko ophantsi, umvuzo omkhulu wotyalo-mali oceba ukugcina utyalomali kulo lonke ubomi bakho.
ISTJ: Uyakuyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa uzimisele ukuphuma kwilungu lothando.
Ii-ISTJs, abakhutheleyo, abagcina umthetho be-MBTI, baziwa ngokulandela ngokungqongqo ikhowudi yokuziphatha yangaphakathi ebakhokela kuyo yonke into abayenzayo. Ezi ntlobo zithambekele ekulinganiseni amaqabane anokubakho ngokuchasene nexabiso abazibambeleyo, kwaye bafumanisa ukuba uninzi lwamaqabane anokubakho asilela.
Njenge-ISTJ, uya kwazi ukuba udibene neqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ufumana umntu owenza ukuba ulahle incwadi yakho yemithetho ngefestile (nokuba uyayifumana emva koko). Uyakuqonda ukuba ingalixesha lokuchaza kwakhona eminye imigaqo kuba ekugqibeleni uza kuba nomntu okwenza ukuba ufune ukuba ngumntu ongcono. Kwaye la mava aya kukuphosa ngenxa yeluphu.
ENFP: Uyakuyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ulwalamano ekugqibeleni lukukhulula.
Ii-ENFPs, abaphandi abanomdla kunye nabanomdla kwi-MBTI, bayoyika ukuwela kubudlelwane obunokuthi banciphise ukuhlola kwabo. Ezi ntlobo zinomdla ongathethekiyo xa zithandana, kodwa azinamdla ekuyekiseni indlela yokuphila eziyifunayo. Bafuna ukufumana iqabane elihloniphayo ukuzimela kwabo kwaye elingabagcini.
Njenge-ENFP, uya kwazi ukuba ekugqibeleni uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa udibana nomntu owenza ukuba ilizwe libonakale likhulu, linamandla kwaye lishushu. Endaweni yokunciphisa ukhetho lwakho, umntu ohamba naye emphefumlweni uya kulivula ilizwe lakho avuleke kwaye akukhuthaze ukuba uleqe amaphupha ongazange ucinge ukuba anokwenzeka. Ekugqibeleni uyakuqonda ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuthandwa ngendlela ekwenza uzive ukhululekile, kwaye kukuziva ungafuni ukuyeka.
I-INFP: Uya kwazi ukuba udibene neqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ungadingi ukuhombisa ngento ngabo.
I-INFPs, abanomdla, abaphuphayo bokuyila i-MBTI, baziwa ngokuthambekela kwabo ekuyileni nasekuhlobiseni amaqabane abo, bahlala bebabambe kwimigangatho engenathemba. Ezi ntlobo zithetha kakuhle, kodwa zihlala ziphetha ngokwaphula iintliziyo zazo xa zifika zididekile.
Njenge-INFP, uya kwazi ukuba ekugqibeleni uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa uyeka ukuba wenze nantoni na ngabo. Kuba ubunyani babo sele yimibongo. Ngenxa yokuba uncumo lwabo olulula sele lububugcisa. Kuba indlela abasela ngayo ikofu kusasa sele ingumsebenzi wobugcisa odalwe nguThixo. Ibali enizakwabelana ngalo liya kuba bhetele kunayo nantoni na eninokuphupha ngayo.
ENFJ: Uyakuyazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa ekugqibeleni udibana nomntu onokukufundisa njengoko besenza ukuze bafunde kuwe.
I-ENFJs, abafudumeleyo, abakhulisi bengqondo be-MBTI, baziwa ngezakhono zabo zokucebisa ngendalo. Ezi ntlobo ziinkosi zokukhupha ezona zibalaseleyo kwabanye. Kodwa xa kufikwa kubudlelwane, bathambekele ekugxileni kakhulu kwiimfuno zamaqabane abo kangangokuba bazityeshele ezabo.
Njenge-ENFJ, uya kwazi ukuba ekugqibeleni uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa udibana nomntu onokukunika njengoko kufuneka ubanike. Endaweni yokuwela kolunye ulwalamano olunecala elinye, uyakufumana ubambiswano lokwenyani: apho iminqweno yakho, iimfuno zakho kunye nokukhula kwakho kubekwa phambili ngokubaluleka njengeqabane lakho. Uya kuba bobabini utitshala kunye nomfundi.
INFJ: Uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa uziva ubonwa kwaye uqondwa njengoko usenza abanye abantu bazive.
I-INFJs, iicomplex, abacebisi abahlalutyo be-MBTI, baziwa ngokuba notyekelo lokwenza imo ekhawulezayo, kodwa echanekileyo yeembono zabantu ababangqongileyo. Abahlobo kunye nabathandekayo be-INFJ bahlala bexela imvakalelo ngokungathi i-INFJ iyakwazi ukujonga umphefumlo wabo. Nangona kunjalo, i-INFJ kunqabile ukuba izive ngathi abanye bayakwazi ukukhangela kwezabo.
Njenge-INFJ, uya kwazi ukuba uyifumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo xa iitafile zijika kwaye umntu ekugqibeleni uyakuqonda ngayo yonke inzulu kunye ne-nuance oyibonayo kwabanye. Imvakalelo ayizukuhlala kamnandi, ukubeka kude kunye nobuhle. Ekugqibeleni uza kuvuleka ukuze uqondwe ngokupheleleyo kwaye uyathandwa kuyo yonke ifayibha ye-tapestry enzima eyenza ukuba ungubani.
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