Ukuphosa emva, i-90s emva kwexesha. (umzekeliso kaDrew Friedman) UMonica Lewinsky ubuyile kwiindaba emva kweminyaka elishumi. Ubuyile wazokusixelela, kwintloko ka INew York Post , ukuba ‘ubomi bakhe buyadika.’ Ngenxa yokungaziwa kwakhe akafumani msebenzi. Ngenxa yehlazo lakhe ufumanisa kunzima ukugcina ubudlelwane. Akukho nto ikwazisa ngokukhethekileyo kuyo nayiphi na le nto.
Kodwa ke wongeze ukuba uziva ukuba uHillary wenza kakubi kubafazi xa wayebonakala esola ukungakhathalelwa kwendoda yakhe ngokumqhubela eMonica. UNks Lewinsky uhlazekile ngokuba uHillary uzibeka ityala kunendoda yakhe, umenzi wobubi.
Masicace. Ekuphela kwento ekufuneka ibuyise uMonica Lewinsky eluntwini kukuguquka nokuxolisa esidlangalaleni kuHillary. Kukunganyaniseki kwaphela ukubuya ukuze nje ubangele intlungu yomfazi. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba abantu bayamthanda okanye bayamcaphukela uHillary Clinton njengobuntu. Inyani ihleli kukuba kumcimbi wendoda yakhe ulixhoba. Nabani na ocinga ngenye indlela unekhampasi yokuziphatha eyaphukileyo.
Ukuba uluntu lwethu luza kugcina naluphi na uluvo lwamaxabiso emva koko luya kubhengeza inyani. UMonica Lewinsky ungumqhekezi wasekhaya. Icocekile kwaye ilula. Wayemdala xa ethandana nendoda etshatileyo. Oku kwakukuziphatha okubi ngokunzulu kwaye unetyala kwinkosikazi yendoda. Into aqhubeka eyityala uHillary kukusuka nje ebusweni bakhe. Kuya kufuneka ayeke ukuhlikihla ubuso beqela eloniweyo kwintlungu yakhe.
Ngaba uHillary wayenoxanduva lokuthandana noBill?
Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo. Akukho nanye. Yayingekuko ukungahoywa ngokweemvakalelo ngumyeni wakhe okwamkhokelela ekubeni aqhathe. Wayesoloko enamandla okukhetha. Kwakungekho nto ayenzileyo eyamsusa kuye amandla okukhetha isimilo. Ukuba inkosikazi yakhe ibimkhathalele ngokweemvakalelo ngewayesiya kumcebisi ngomtshato, wathetha nenkosikazi yakhe malunga nayo, wafumana umhlobo oza kuthetha nabo bobabini malunga nayo, okanye, eyona meko imbi, wafuna ukwahlukana noqhawulo-mtshato. Zonke ezi zikhetho zokuziphatha. Banokuba buhlungu, banokulimaza usapho, kodwa banesimilo. Ndibhalile yonke incwadi yokungathembeki kubizwe Ukrexezo lwaseKosher . Ukubhala le ncwadi ndenze udliwanondlebe nezibini ezingenakubalwa apho iqabane lalingathembekanga. Ukufumanisa iqabane lakho likuxokisile kwaye kwayonakalisa ubuhlobo obusondeleyo bomtshato yenye yezona zinto zibuhlungu ebomini. Abo baziphethe kakubi ngokwaneleyo ukuba babe nobudlelwane nabantu abatshatileyo bafanelwe kukugwetywa okufanayo neqabane lokukhohlisa ngokwabo. Kwaye bobabini kufuneka baguquke. Zimbalwa izinto ebomini ezikhohlakeleyo, ezingenantliziyo, kunye nokuzingca kunokuthandana nendoda okanye umfazi otshatileyo. Umonakalo owenzayo kusapho awunakulinganiswa. Intlungu ebangela iqabane elixhoba ixakile. Xa uMoses edibana noThixo ngelixesha enza njalo ngokubona ukubonakaliswa kukaThixo kwityholo elivuthayo. UThixo umyalela uMoses ukuba asuse izihlangu zakhe, hleze anyathele kumhlaba ongcwele aze awonakalise. Umtshato ungcwele, umtshato ukhethekile. Ikwangulo mhlaba ungcwele. Abangaphandle abanakulinga ukuyinyathela. IClintons ngumdlalo olungileyo kwezopolitiko. Ukuba umntu othile ufuna ukubagxotha njengosomathuba kwezopolitiko, lilungelo labo elo. Ukuba ufuna ukuvotela abachasi babo, qhubeka. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlasela imigaqo-nkqubo kunye nezikhundla zabo, kulungile, yiyo loo nto idemokhrasi imalunga nayo. Kodwa ukuba umntu ufuna ukungena nzulu emtshatweni wakhe, awuhlalutye, awonzakalise, awusike, acinge ngawo, angenelele kuwo, ndiyaxolisa. Asiyondawo yabo leyo. Ayilunganga kwaye kukwaphula umthetho. Njengoluntu siyakholelwa emtshatweni okanye asikholelwa. Lixesha lokuba sikhethe. UShimuley Boteach ngumbhali wehlabathi othengisa kakhulu kwiincwadi ezingama-30 kwaye usandula ukupapasha Inkanuko yeKosher . Mlandele kwi-Twitter @RabbiShmuley.
