U-Io Tillett Wright kunye no-Nev Schulman.MTV Ungayijika phi xa ukrokrela ukuba umhlobo okanye umntu omthandayo ugcina into ebalulekileyo kuwe, kwaye nokuba ungazama kangakanani awunakufumana mpendulo?
Ukusuka kubenzi be ICatfish: Umboniso weTV , uthotho ephanda online ukuthandana iimfihlakalo, kuza show entsha Umrhanelwa weMTV . Umntu usenokuhendeka ukuba acinge ngesi sihloko kwifomathi yesibizo, nanjengokuba komnye umntu ‘ekrokrela,’ kodwa olu luhlu lujolise kwisigqibo sesenzi segama, njengakuwe ‘okrokrela’ umntu wento ethile.
Ngoku ekubeni lo mahluko ungaphandle kwendlela, mhlawumbi uyazibuza, ‘Kwenzeka ntoni kanye kanye Umrhanelwa weMTV ? ’
Isiqendu ngasinye sibonisa uNev Schulman, okwangumbhexeshi we Intlanzi yekati , kunye nomlingani wakhe, uO Tillett Wright, njengoko besebenza noMfunisi wenyaniso, umntu ofuna ukufumanisa into engaziwayo ebagcina kubudlelwane obunyanisekileyo nomhlobo okanye umntu omthandayo. Ukujongana nayo yonke into ukusuka kubuni obufihlakeleyo, iziyobisi ezifihliweyo, ukuya kweminye imicimbi enokuba neziphumo ezibi, esi sibini sinethemba lokunceda ukuzisa inyani kumphezulu ukuze amaqela anomdla afikelele kwinqanaba elitsha lonxibelelwano kunye nokuqonda.
Indaleko ye Umrhanelwa yayinomdla, utsho uMvelisi oLawulayo wazo zombini Intlanzi yekati kwaye Umrhanelwa , UDavid Metzler. UNev ngumfana onomdla kakhulu kwaye uhlala ejonge ukubalisa amabali ahlukeneyo, uyachaza uMetzler. Sicinga ukuba kunganomdla ukufumana abantu abanenkxalabo ebanzi kunomntu obakhohlisayo kwi-intanethi [njengathi Intlanzi yekati ], saye saqiqa ngelithi, 'kuthekani ukuba umntu omaziyo ugcina imfihlo kuwe kwaye iyalonakalisa ulwalamano lwakho?'
UMetzler uthi kukho izinto ezininzi ezichazayo Umrhanelwa ukusuka Intlanzi yekati , kodwa eyona iphambili yile, Siya kubanzi kakhulu ngaphakathi Umrhanelwa . Nawuphi na umfihlo okanye umba owenzekayo kubomi bomntu unokuba yinxalenye yomboniso wethu kwaye siyakufumana indlela yokubalisa elo bali.
La mabali abandakanya izihloko ezinje ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwi-porn, ukubanengxaki yokutya, ukukhulelwa okuyimfihlo, kunye nemibuzo yesazisi. UMetzler uthi iqela elingemva Umrhanelwa ivakalelwa kukuba abantu abancinci namhlanje banemicimbi emininzi ekhohlisayo ebachaphazelayo yonke imihla kwaye sifuna ukufumana indlela enyanzelisayo yokuveza le micimbi ekuhleni kwaye senze abantu bazive bekhululekile ukuba bangobani kwaye kuqhubeka ntoni ebomini babo.
UMetzler ukholelwa ekubeni abathathi-nxaxheba bayakhuthazeka ukuba babelane ngohambo lwabo lobuqu Umrhanelwa ngenxa yezizathu ezimbalwa, kodwa ikakhulu ngenxa yomninimzi, esithi, ndicinga ukuba abantu batsalelekile kuNev Intlanzi yekati ubonakalisile inqanaba elinjalo lemfesane kunye nokunxibelelana nabantu kangangokuba baziva bekhululekile ukuza kumdlalo onaye. Unceda ngokwenene abantu ngendlela efanelekileyo ukuze kungabi nzima ukufumana abantu abafuna ukusebenza naye kwaye bamthembe ngokwenene.
I-Nev kunye ne-I yenza uphando oluninzi ukufikelela kwinyaniso, ecela ukubuzwa malunga nelungelo lokuba yimfihlo. Sizama ngenene ukujija ngokulula kwimicimbi yabucala yabantu. Sikuthatha ngokungathí sina oko, utshilo uMetzler. Siphinde sizame ukuba nembeko kuba siyaqonda ukuba kukho umgca olungileyo phakathi kokukhupha iimpahla ezimdaka zomntu nokuba nexhala laloo mntu. Siyazi ukuba nantsi imbopheleleko enkulu yokufika enyanisweni kodwa uyenze ngovelwano, nangendlela ecingayo.
Ngexesha lophando, iqela lifikelela kubahlobo, abantu ohlala nabo nabanye ukuba babuze imibuzo malunga nesihloko, indlela enokubonakala ngathi inyathela ngqo kule micimbi yabucala, kodwa uMetzler ucacisa ukuba konke kwenziwa ngononophelo ngenkqubo ethile. . Sithetha noMkhangeli weNyaniso kwaye sibabuza ingongoma engenanto, ‘Ngaba nicinga ukuba kungalunga ukuthetha nalo mntu?’ Ke sisebenzisa isiFuni seNyaniso njengesikhuseli, sibanike umlinganiso wokuba ngubani ekufuneka sifikelele kuye. Ke, ubukhulu becala sithetha nabantu ukuba isifundo sisondele kwaye indlela esenza ngayo kukuba siye kubo sithi, ‘lo mntu ukhathazekile ngalo mntu. Ngaba nawe unazo ezo mvakalelo? ’Asibuzi imibuzo ekhokelayo, asabelani ngento uMrhwebi weNyaniso anokuyikrokrela ukuba iqhubeka, sivumela umntu esithetha naye ukuba eze kwizigqibo zakhe kwaye ngesiqhelo loo mntu uthi ulungile kude ukuba banenkxalabo kwaye bavakalise ukuba zithini ezo zinto zixhalabisayo.
Zonke iziqendu zolu chungechunge ziphela ngokuDibana neNyaniso ngokudibana nomntu abachaphazelekayo. Xa ebuzwa ukuba akukho nanye kwezi ngxabano engahambi kakuhle, uMetzler ubambekile, akafuni kunika nantoni na, kodwa wathi, Xa ubukele umboniso, kude kube ngumzuzu xa kukho isisombululo uphando, nokuba luyintoni na, akunakuze uqikelele ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni ngabantu ababandakanyekayo. Obo buhle bento esiyenzayo. Ndikholelwe xa ndisithi kuhlala kusothusa ngandlela thile nokuba yintoni umphumo wokugqibela.
Ngaphandle nje kokonwatyiswa, uMetzler angathanda ukuba ababukeli bathathe izinto ezimbalwa kude nomboniso, esithi, Elona themba lethu likhulu kukuba le micimbi sithetha ngayo izakubangela iingxoxo phakathi kwabantu beembono ezahlukeneyo esicinga ukuba zisempilweni. Ndiyathetha, siyazi ukuba ngumboniso weTV, kodwa ukuba unokunceda abantu banxibelelane, yinto entle ngokwenene leyo.
Umrhanelwa weMTV umoya ngoLwesithathu nge-11 / 10c kwi-MTV.
