Umdlali weqonga wabantu abadala / umlawuli uJames Deen. (Ifoto: U-Ethan Miller / imifanekiso kaFetty) Izityholo ezothusayo zamva nje zokudlwengulwa ngokulandelelana komntu odumileyo kwezolonwabo zivela kumzi mveliso wefilimu wabantu abadala. UJames Deen, inkwenkwezi ye-porn enomfanekiso wenkwenkwe elandelayo icon yabasetyhini , utyholwa ngobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo — hayi kwinkundla yomthetho kodwa kumajelo eendaba — ngu Abafazi abasibhozo , Bonke abadlali abadala. Ngelixa u-Deen enayo wakhanyela nakuphi na ukungalunganga, umsebenzi wakhe ubonakala ngathi uphumelele: kwizitudiyo ze-porn wamwisa ngokukhawuleza kunokuba unokuthi ulingo nge-Twitter.
Umgaqo osemthethweni wokucinga ukuba umsulwa awusebenzi apha; Umgaqo-siseko awukhuseli kudumo-okanye izityholo ezonakalisa ikhondo lomsebenzi. Umthwalo wokungqina ulwaphulo-mthetho kwinkqubo yezolwaphulo-mthetho ngokufanelekileyo uphezulu kakhulu. Uluvo loluntu, kubandakanya nokusasazwa kwimithombo yeendaba, alunamigangatho imiselweyo; xa umntu etyholwa ngezenzo ezoyikekayo ezingenakungqinwa okanye ziphikiswe, ukulungelelanisa ukungalingani phakathi kwamacala omabini kunzima kakhulu. Kodwa kumaxa amaninzi, iintatheli zingenza umsebenzi ongcono kakhulu wokuqinisekisa iinyani kunaleyo bayenzayo ngoku — kwaye xa besilela ukufezekisa olo xanduva, ekugqibeleni akulunganga kubo bonke ababandakanyekayo.
Kweminye, inkxaso ekufutshane-jikelele yabasetyhini abathi uMnu Deen ubahlasele ibonisa ukwamkeleka, ukutshintsha kwexesha elide kwizimo zengqondo. Ukubhala kwi-Daily Beast, owayesakuba ngumlingisi wabantu abadala uAurora Snow amanqaku ukuba kwixesha langemva kukaCosby, abantu badla ngokukholelwa izityholo zodlwengulo-ngakumbi uninzi-kwaye inkundla yezimvo zoluntu inokuba sisisombululo xa abenzi bodumo besonwabela ukohlwaywa.
‘Ukuba unetyala kufuneka ahlawule. Kodwa ukuthumela ihlokondiba elikwi-intanethi ukuba libukele okusesikweni AKUPHAMBILI unobangela wogonyamelo [lwabathengisi ngesondo], ’ Ithunyelwe Umlingisi we-porn uMercedes Carrera.
Ukanti abanye, kubandakanya nabasetyhini abakwimveliso yeefilimu yabantu abadala, bayasoyikisa esi simo sengqondo. Ukuba unetyala kufuneka ahlawule. Kodwa ukuthumela iqela elikwi-intanethi ukuba libukele ubulungisa AKUQHUBI unobangela wobundlobongela [abathengisa ngesondo], Ithunyelwe Umlingisi we-porn uMercedes Carrera. UChristina Parreira, umsebenzi wezokwabelana ngesondo kunye nezoluntu kwi-Ph.D. umfundi, naye ungene ngaphakathi kwi-Twitter: Uluvo olungathandekiyo-ndingu #StandwithJamesDeen kuba akukho mntu kufuneka aphulukane nomthombo wakhe ophambili wokufumana isityholo. Ngaphezulu kwamagama.
Ukuwa kukaMnu Deen kwaqala Mbini iifayile ngowayeyintombi yakhe yangaphambili nowayesakuba yicarar, uSoyaa, owaqala waveza ubukrakra xa wabona isityholo sokumdlwengula senziwa isithandwa sobufazi saza ke sazicacisa ngakumbi: UJames Deen wandibamba wandibamba ngelixesha ndisithi hayi, yima, ndisebenzise ukhuseleko lwam. Ukuthululwa kwenkxaso kwakukhawuleza, kukhulu kwaye kufutshane-ngamxhelo mnye; a #UbumbanoWithStoya I-hashtag ngokukhawuleza yavela. Kwiintsuku ezimbini ezizayo, abanye abafazi ababini baya kumajelo eendaba kunye neeakhawunti zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo nguDein: owayeyinkwenkwezi ye-porn yangaphambili UTori Lux , owathi uDein wamhlasela ngogonyamelo kwifilimu eyayisetwa ngo-2011, kunye nomdlali weqonga wangoku Umlilo ka-Ashley , owathi umdlali weqonga waphantse wamdlwengula kwindawo yokuhlambela ngexesha lokudubula ifilimu. Kwaye, ngomsebenzi kaDein osele wonakele, izityholo zaqhubeka zisiza .
Ngelixa izityholo zobuxoki zokudlwengula zikhona akunjalo njengoko kunqabile ukunyamalala njengoko abantu ababhinqileyo besoloko besitsho, amathuba endoda engenatyala etyholwa Sibhozo Abasetyhini babonakala ngathi babethwa luluhlu lweemeteor. Nangona kunjalo kukho iimeko ezinzima kule meko ezishiya indawo yokuthandabuza okuqinisekileyo. Izityholo zekhephu zinokuba ziziphumo zamaxhoba afunyanwa ngumzekelo wabanye kunye nelahleko kaMnu. Deen (ukuthetha ngokuchasene naye akusekho mngcipheko kuluhlu lwabamnyama). Kodwa kunokubakho nefuthe le-bandwagon-ngakumbi xa usiza ngaphambili njengexhoba, kwaye uxhasa abanye abatyholwayo, uphathwa njengesenzo sobugorha esifanele ukuqhwatyelwa izandla kunye nokudunyiswa. Yongeza kule nto yokuba ezi zityholo azinakuze kuvavanywe kuphando olusemthethweni okanye kwityala: ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, akukho namnye kwabo batyhola uMnu. Deen abonakalise nayiphi na injongo yokufaka isikhalazo solwaphulo-mthetho okanye isimangalo saseburhulumenteni. (Ngokwahlukileyo, umgcini kamabonwakude waseCanada uJian Ghomeshi, oye wajongana nezityholo ezandayo zokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo nangokwasemzimbeni kubantu abangaphezulu kweshumi elityholwayo, ibi ityala kwezi meko zintandathu.)
Ewe kunjalo, isiphumo se-bandwagon emva kwesityholo esichazwe kakhulu asikokunikwa: akukho bachasi batsha bavela emva kwentombi kaWoody Allen uDylan Farrow ibango wamhlukumeza, okanye emva kokuba umphathi we-Intanethi enze ( kamva irhoxisiwe ) isityholo sokudlwengula imvumi uConor Oberst. Kodwa kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo njengonokwenzeka.
Ukuwunzima lo mbandela nangakumbi, Mnu. Deen kunye nabamangaleli bakhe bavela kwindawo apho imigca yemvume inokuphazanyiswa ngokungaqhelekanga: hayi imboni ye-porn kuphela, kodwa ubungcali be-BDSM (ubukhoboka kunye noqeqesho / ulawulo kunye nokuthumela / isadomasochism) kwaye Isondo esirhabaxa.
Umfazi waseLibertarian u-Elizabeth Nolan Brown ngokufanelekileyo uxoxa Amadoda nabasetyhini bangayonwabela le misebenzi ngaphandle kokuba ngabaxhaphazi okanye amaxhoba, kwaye uninzi lwabo lunokuyahlula ngokulula ikink evumayo ekuhlaselweni okanye ekuphathweni gadalala. Ukanti enye akufuneki yabelane ngezimvo ze-anti-porn, anti-BDSM abafazi ababalaseleyo ukuvuma ukuba xa ukuphatha gadalala kwanobundlobongela kuyinxalenye yeretertoire kabani yesini, kukho umngcipheko wezinto ezihambela kude kakhulu kwiqabane elinye-mhlawumbi ngaphandle kokuqonda komnye. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi xa elinye okanye omabini amaqela enxilile. Kukho umngcipheko ophakanyisiweyo, nawo, wokudibana okunje ukuphinda uhlengahlengiswe kwakhona njengokunyanzelwa. Ngelixa abanye babamangaleli bakaMnu Deen besithi wabanyanzela ngenkani ukuba benze izinto ababezenqabile, ezinye zezehlo ezazityholwa zazinokuba ziintlanganiso zokuqala ezazivume ngokungahambi kakuhle.
Kodwa kwa-le meko inye ikwabonelela ngamathuba awodwa okujonga inyani. Ngelixa ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kuphantse kwenzeke ngasese, Abadlali abathathu abatyhola uMnu. Deen-Tori Lux, Amber Rayne kunye no Kora Peters-bathi babethwa phambi kwamalungu abasebenzi. UNks Lux, othi uDeen wamhlasela emva kokufota umboniso, emkrwitsha kwaye embetha ebusweni kananjalo ikhankanywa ukuxelela izihlobo ezininzi ngesi sehlo. Unksz Peters, othi wamnyanzela ngokwasemzimbeni ukuba enze isenzo sesondo awayesenqabile ngelixa esenza umboniso bhanyabhanya, esithi uxoxe ngohlaselo kunye nearhente yakhe.
Ukuphatha ezo zityholo njengenyaniso yinyathelo elide kakhulu. Nditsho nakwinkundla yeendaba, 'kholwa ukuba abafazi' abunakuthatha indawo yobungqina.
Ukanti akukho nto ibonisa ukuba intatheli ezigubungela eli bali zizamile ukuthetha nawo nawaphi na amangqina ahambelanayo. Olunye uphando olukhankanyiweyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku lwenziwa nguKink, inkampani yolonwabo yabantu abadala eyaqesha uDeen, ukuqinisekisa elinye ibango lomdlali ukuba waya kwiiforum ze-Kink ezikwi-intanethi ekhalaza ngokuxhatshazwa ngumdlali weqonga kwaye iposti yakhe yacinywa.
Kwikholamu ye-Jewish Daily Forward, umbhali uEmily Shire Uxoxa ukuba ngelixa amaxhoba oxhatshazo ngokwesondo esoloko ejongene nokucalulwa kunye nokugxekwa ngokungenabulungisa, namhlanje sihlala simathidala kakhulu ukubuza imibuzo malunga neakhawunti yabasetyhini ngodlwengulo ngenxa yokoyika ukubizwa ngokuba ngabakhuseli bodlwengulo okanye ukutyholwa ngokwenza ukuba abasetyhini baphinde bakhathazeke.
UNks. Shire ukwaphawula ukuba ukuthandabuza ibango likaStoya bekuya kuba kukunyelisa-ukhetho olunomdla lolwimi olukhomba kwi-quasi-yenkolo enenzondelelo kwimfazwe yangoku ngokuchasene nodlwengulo. Andifuni uSoyaya okanye naliphi na ibhinqa ukuba 'lingqine' ukuba udlwengulwe ukuze ndimkholelwe, ubhale U-Amelia McDonnell-Parry, umhleli oyintloko wewebhusayithi yabasetyhini I-Frisky eye yalahla u-Deen njengomlobi weengcebiso ngesondo. Ndiyakholelwa kubafazi. Lo mgaqo ngumxube ongaqhelekanga wobumbano lwesini, inkolelo ephelelwe lixesha kubungcwele bobufazi nobungqina benkolo.
Kumashumi ambalwa eminyaka eyadlulayo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba izityholo zokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo ngokuchasene noDeen ngekhe zingakholwanga kangako njengokukhutshelwa ngaphandle, zivela kubadlali be-porn, ababini kubo yayingabahlobo bakhe bangaphambili. Namhlanje, nokuba ngummeli wamalungelo abantu kunye neblogi uMike Cernovich, ngubani uxela izityholo ngokuchasene no-Deen ubuqhinga, uxinzelelo lokuba iinkwenkwezi ezingamanyala kunye nabathengisi ngemizimba bangadlwengulwa kwaye umfazi angadlwengulwa liqabane lakhe. Utshintsho kwizimo zengqondo lumele inkqubela engathandabuzekiyo.
Kodwa ukuphatha ezo zityholo njengenyaniso yinyathelo elide kakhulu. Nditsho nakwinkundla yeendaba, kholelwa ukuba abasetyhini abuthathi ndawo yobungqina.
Amathuba wokuba netyala kukaMnu Deen angomelela; kodwa ezininzi , imibuzo ihleli. Ngaba ulirhamncwa, okanye indoda ukuthanda ukutyhala imida yabasetyhini ngeendlela ezinokucaphukisa kodwa hayi ulwaphulo-mthetho? Ngaba isohlwayo sakhe sinobulungisa? Ukuba unetyala, ngaba ishishini belihambile ekufihleni amatyala akhe? Ngaphandle kophando olufanelekileyo, ngekhe sazi. Eli libali elifuna iinyani, hayi ukholo.
