Xa ubukele iinkqubo zokwenyani zokucula umabonwakude, amathemba atyekele ekubeni ngabaphuphi beenkwenkwezi, abaza kujonga kwikhamera kwaye bathi bendihleli ndiphupha ngokuba yimvumi. Abazange bathi bahlala bephupha ngokucula.
Ndicinga ukuba ngumahluko obaluleke kakhulu lowo. Ukuba ngenene banike ikatala malunga nokucula, bayakuba phaya yonke imihla nobusuku, becula imiphunga yabo ye-f * ck.
Ukujoyina amaqela, ukufumana iigigs, ukurekhoda umculo, ukufota iividiyo zeYouTube, ukusebenza iidonki zazo ukuya ngaphambili kubaphulaphuli.
Kodwa abayiyo. Bayazirhuqa kwi-TV yesizwe ngefoto yodumo kunye nethamsanqa esekwe kumdlalo weqonga obhaliweyo kunye nokuphathwa kwabaphulaphuli.
Balinde umntu oza kubenza babe ziimvumi. Ngendlela yokuphila, kunye nobuhle bokuqalisa. Abafuni ukwenza into. Bafuna ukuba ngumntu owenza into.
Ungayibona le ndlela yokuziphatha kwezinye iindawo ezininzi, nabanye abantu abaninzi.
Abafuni ukufumana inkampani. Bafuna ukuba ngabaseki. Abafuni ukwenza ubugcisa. Bafuna ukuba ngamagcisa. Abafuni kuchitha iiyure befaka iikhowudi kude kube buhlungu amehlo. Bafuna ukuba ngabaphuhlisi.
Ubomi bumalunga neShit oyenzayo yonke imihla.
Ukulandela amaphupha akho, ukuphila ubomi bakho kukuvuka ekuseni uye emsebenzini. Inokuba bubugcisa, inokuba ngumculo, isenokuba lishishini lakho. Umsebenzi unokuba liqonga, istudiyo, iofisi egudileyo okanye igumbi lakho lokulala, kodwa kuhlala kusebenza.
Ayinanto yakwenza nento ozibiza ngayo, okanye indlela yakho yokuphila. Konke malunga ne-shit ekufuneka usebenze kuyo, kwaye uyifezekise yonke imihla. Yile nto ibalulekileyo, kuba yindlela ofika ngayo kwenye indawo.
Ukuba ukhathazekile ngokusukela indlela ophila ngayo, ukuzama ukuthatha i-persona kunye nokufumana imigibe, ulahlekile ingongoma. Awusoze wenze nantoni na efanelekileyo, kuba ukwenza into ayikho nakwiradar yakho.
Isimanga sokugxila ngokupheleleyo ekubeni, endaweni yokwenza, kukuba ngaphandle kokwenza - awusoze ubeyinto.
Awusoze uve ngathi ufikelele esiphelweni.
Ndiqinisekile ukuba akukho mntu uthanda ukuba ngathi uye waba yinto. Okanye umntu. Akukho mntu ufikelela esiphelweni somgca kwaye athi baziva bengusomashishini ngoku, okanye umzobi ngoku. Ngenxa yokuba akuyiyo imvakalelo onokuyifumana.
Uya kuhlala ukhangela into enye enkulu eya kukufikisa apho, eyona mpu inkulu inokukuvumela ukuba uyeke ukonwaba.
Kodwa ayisoze yenzeke. Ukuba uqhubeka nokuleqa loo mvakalelo yokufaka uphawu kwibhokisi, kwaye ube ngumntu, ngekhe kuphele. Kuya kufuneka usukele ukwenza, kuba kulapho uzakufumana ukoneliseka kunye nokuzaliseka.
Akukho ndawo wakha wayenza. Akukho ndawo apho ukhuselekile ekhaya kwaye unokuma nje. Abo bakhuphisana nabo baculayo? Abayikholelwa loo nto. Bakholelwa ukuba bangonwaba, ukuba bayaluphumelela olu khuphiswano. Fumana le nto. Khupha le eyodwa. Akuyonyani.
Umsebenzi wakho uza Kuphumelela.
Xa usebenza nje ukuba ube ngumntu othile, kunokuba ugxile ekwenzeni umsebenzi ngenxa yawo, uya kusokola. Umgangatho uya kuba sezantsi kwaye inqanaba lomzamo owubekayo liza kusilela ngokubonakalayo.
Umsebenzi ngokwawo ubalulekile, ubaluleke kakhulu. Ayisiyonto nje ekufuneka ikhethiwe ukuze kulungiswe indlela ozibonisa ngayo, okanye indlela ofuna ukuziva ngayo. Akukho apho ukunika indlela yakho yokuphila isizathu. Umsebenzi yiyo yonke into ebalulekileyo.
Kuya kufuneka wenze ubugcisa obuhle. Bhala izivakalisi ezifanelekileyo. Yakha ikaka entle. Ukuba awuyenzi, ukuba konke okwenzayo kukuhlawula inkonzo yomlomo kwi-ego yakho, abantu baya kuqaphela. Umhlaba uyakuqaphela.
Akukho mntu uya kukuthatha ngokungathandekiyo ukuba awenzi Shit.
Xa uxelela wonke umntu ukuba uyinto ethile, ungumntu othile, balindele ukubona ubungqina. Akukho mntu wayenokundimamela njengombhali, ukuba andichithanga iiyure yonke imihla ndikhupha iiposti zebhlog, ndisebenza kwincwadi kwaye ndinxibelelana nabafundi bam.
Ngumsebenzi owenza ukuba abantu bahlale kwaye baqwalasele, hayi i-bio yakho okanye intshayelelo yakho. Ukuba ufuna nabani na akuthathele ingqalelo, eyona nto uyifunayo yintlonipho yabo. Kwaye awunakunikwa nje imbeko. Akukho mntu udwelisa ukukhupha.
Kuya kufuneka uyifumane. Uyifumana ngokwenza izinto ezibalulekileyo, kwaye usebenze kwiiprojekthi ezibalulekileyo kwaye ubeka umzamo yonke imihla. Yiyo kuphela indlela yokufumana.
Awuyi kuphucula, kwaye awuyi kufunda.
Ukuba sele unelisekile ukuzibiza ngokuba ungumsunguli, kwaye uzibiza ngokuba ungumculi, endaweni yokuseka, ukudala nokusebenza, uzivalela ekuphuculeni kunye nethuba lokufunda.
Xa ujonga umsebenzi endaweni yoko, kwaye uchitha ixesha lakho uzama ukuwenza oncomekayo onokubakho, kulapho ke unethuba lokwenza ukufumanisa. Ukufumana amava akho e-Eureka.
Umsebenzi endiwenzayo, oko kubhala. Neshishini. Nokuthengisa. Uyilo. Kwaye ndiyathetha. Kodwa mna? Ndikhetha ukucinga ngokwam njengomfundi, ngaphambi kwayo nantoni na eyenye. Ndilapha ukuze ndifunde. Sonke.
Kuya kufuneka uphume ubekhona.
Ukuba ufuna ukuyenza, uza kuchitha ixesha lakho uzama ukubetha injongo engenakwenzeka, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uxhomekeke kuthotho lwabagcini-masango ukuze ufike apho. Awuyi kufumana ulonwabo phantsi kwendlela, luthotho nje lokuphoxeka okunzima.
Ukuba ufuna ukwenza into, uya kufumana ukoneliseka okukhulu. Maninzi kakhulu amathuba okwenza into oyithandayo, xa ungakhathazeki malunga nokuba uzama ukuba ngubani, okanye indlela yokuphila ocinga ukuba unayo.
Ungaphuma uye phaya, kwaye wenze into ukuba yenzeke. Ndiyathanda ukuthetha kakhulu ngeqela elibizwa ngokuba yiFugazi, kunye nelinye elibizwa ngokuba yiBlack Flag. Babebaluleke kakhulu kum, njengoyilo kunye nosomashishini- kuba khange balinde ikhefu elikhulu. Babedla ngokubhukisha eyabo imiboniso, ukuhlawulela iirekhodi zabo, kunye nokusebenza iidonki zabo.
Kuwo wonke umsebenzi wabo, babejolise ekwenzeni, hayi ukubakhona.
Kwaye yeyona ndlela ingcono.
UJon Westenberg ngumbhali, ugxeka, kunye nomvangeli wedijithali yoyilo. Ukusukela ngo-2013, ebencedisa abantu ekwenzeni izinto kunye nokufumana abaphulaphuli. Unokunxibelelana naye kwi-Twitter @jonwestenberg .
