Kukho umntu ekufumaneni isiphelo semizamo yakho ekwi-intanethi.Unsplash / uAlex Knight Sonke siyathanda ukukholelwa ukuba singabantu abalungileyo, kwaye ngenxa yoko, asikwazi ukwenza ububi. Ukuthanda kwethu ukwenza okulungileyo okanye okubi akunanto yakwenza nophawu lwethu lokuzalwa; inento yokwenza neemeko esizifumana sikuzo. Sicinga ukuba singabantu abaya kumelana nokungabikho kokusesikweni kwaye uluvo lwethu ngokulungileyo nokubi luya koyisa iingqondo zehlokondiba. Imbali kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo kubonisa, nangona kunjalo, ukuba kunikwe iimeko ezifanelekileyo, kuphela ikota yabantu abanamandla okuma kwaye bathi andizukuthatha inxaxheba koku.
Ngaphandle kwamanani kuludumo Uvavanyo lweMilgram Ukubeka oku, i Uvavanyo lweNtolongo iStanford iqukunjelwe ngeziphumo ezifanayo zamanani. Kwinqanaba elingelolilingo, sinokubona inani leemeko ezingqina lo mthetho. Kwiincwadi ezimbini zikaMichael Lewis, Ibhola yemali kwaye Mfutshane , sibona amaqela amancinci abantu abayiqondayo imeko esilela kubo bonke abanye abantu. Bazama ukweyisela abanye kodwa bahlala behlekwa okanye bangahoywa sisininzi ngokungacingi ngokuhambelana nemeko ekhoyo. Naxa sele beqinisekisiwe ukuba balungile, ihlokondiba alithathi nto kwaye liyavuma ukuba babephosisile. Intiyo yehlokondiba kwiqela elincinane ikhula kuphela; bahlala bejongelwa phantsi nangakumbi kuba babonakalise ukuba wonke umntu uphosisile.
Leyo yimizekelo emibini yabantu abazimiseleyo ngokuchasene neenkozo ngezizathu ezifanelekileyo. Ukuba bambalwa kangaka kuyaphawuleka. Kuthekani xa kukho iziphumo ezibi zokuthetha ngokuchaseneyo nolawulo lwehlokondiba? Ukuba ubulijoni laseJamani kwiMfazwe yesibini (II) yeHlabathi ikhalazela ukubulawa kwamaJuda, ngewubulewe kwalapho. Ukuba ungumlobi wecandelo, kukho ithuba elihle uya kutshabalaliswa ngumsebenzi wakho. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba sixelele abantwana bethu ukuba bayimele into abakholelwa kuyo kodwa amathuba okuba nathi senze okufanayo inye kuphela kwisine, kwaye, ukuba bayabhikisha, kungenzeka ukuba yonke into abayisebenzeleyo izakutshatyalaliswa.
Ixesha elininzi, sihamba nehlokondiba kuba lingabonakali libi ngelo xesha. Ngenxa yokuba sizizilwanyana zasentlalweni, sihlala silandela imigaqo yentlalo. Kunzima ngendlela emangalisayo ukwenza izinto ezichasene nokwamkelekileyo ekuhlaleni. Ukuba ufuna ubungqina, yiya kulala embindini wevenkile kangangemizuzwana eli-10 ngosuku oluxakekileyo. Awuyi kuyenza, kwaye ucinga ukuba, Ayinangqondo, kutheni ndingayenza loo nto? Kungenxa yokuba i-cortex yakho yangaphambili iyakhaba, inxenye yengqondo yakho enyanzelisa ukuthotyelwa kwemilinganiselo yentlalo. Ukuthotyelwa kwemigaqo yentlalo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yengqondo yethu yendaleko, kuba emva phaya xa sasihlala kwizizwe, ukuhambelana nale migaqo kwakuthetha ukuba asigxothwanga entlango ngenxa yokwenza ngendlela engeyiyo.
Ngelishwa, ukuthobela kwethu izinto ezincinci kuqinisekisa ukuba xa kusenzeka izinto ezinkulu, ezimbi, siza kuba sisinyanzelo okanye siza kuthatha inxaxheba.
Amaqela e-SWAT ngumzekelo omhle. Imikhosi yabo yamva nje ngenxa yokufumana intsalela yezixhobo zomkhosi ibangele utshintsho olukhulu kumaqhinga abo kunye nenkuthazo. Njengoko ilizwi lihamba xa yonke into onayo isando, yonke into ibonakala njengesikhonkwane. Ke kunjalo ngamaqela e-SWAT ngoku enxibayo kwaye ekhutshelwa ngaphandle ngokungathi angumkhosi wamajoni. Lo mkhwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba awuzange uqale ngamapolisa agqogqa yonke indlu ekrokrelwayo yeziyobisi ngesiquphe. Iqala ngamandla angaphaya apha naphaya, okanye mhlawumbi ifaka inyani encinci apha okanye phaya yomyalelo wenkundla. Ufuna ukusebenzisa loo gear intsha kunye noqeqesho, endaweni yokuba wenze isiphoso kwicala lolumkiso kwaye wenze uphando olupheleleyo, ufumana ubungqina obubonakalayo obuqinisekisa ukukrokrela kwakho.
Apho yayiqhelekile inkqubo yokukhangela izindlu ezirhanelwa iziyobisi, okungagqibekanga ngoku kutshintshile kuhlaselo olupheleleyo. Omnye ude waphela nge ukuchitha usana iiveki kwi-coma Kwiyunithi yokutsha ngenxa yokuba iqela elaphulayo laphosa i-stun grenade kwisibhedlele sayo.
Ukucinga ngokwamaqela phakathi kwamapolisa kukhokelele ekubeni abantu abaninzi baphulukane ngokungeyomfuneko, kodwa ukuzimisela kwethu njengabantu ukwenza ububi kuyanda ngemiyalelo emininzi xa imeko inesiphithiphithi kwaye uxinzelelo lukhulu kakhulu kuthi. Kwincwadi ka-Lt Col Dave Grossman, Ukubulala Igqala lichaze uxinzelelo olwahlukileyo olwenze izehlo ezinje ngokubulawa kwabantu eMai Lai eVietnam:
Ubeka abo bantwana babanye ehlathini okwexeshana, uboyike ngokwenene, ubathintele ukulala, kwaye uvumele izehlo ezimbalwa zitshintshe uloyiko lwabo lokuzonda. Banike isergeant ebone uninzi lwamadoda akhe ebulewe yimigibe ye-booby kwaye ngokungathembani, kwaye ngubani oziva ukuba iVietnam isisidenge, emdaka kwaye babuthathaka, kuba abafani naye. Yongeza uxinzelelo lwehlokondiba, kwaye abo bantwana bahle abahamba nathi namhlanje bayakudlwengula njengeentshatsheli.
Ngaphandle kokuba sigqibe kwelokuba ingcinezelo yokulwa kuphela ebangela uhlobo oluthile lokuphalaza igazi ngokungaziphathiyo kunye nokuziphatha okulusizi emadodeni, sinomnye umzekelo obalaseleyo wendlela iimeko zangaphandle ezinokubangela inkohlakalo yabantu evela kuphononongo olwenziwe kwi-NYU. Abasetyhini beekholeji bacelwa ukuba balawule ukothuka kombane kuvavanyo lwezifundo ababeyalelwe ukuba bakhumbule izinto phantsi koxinzelelo. Xa ezo zifundo zazingaziwa, okt igama labo lasuswa kwimpahla yabo kwaye babene-hood ebekwe phezu kweentloko zabo, abafazi basekholejini babothusa kabini rhoqo kunangaphambili.
Makhe siqwalasele iimpembelelo zolu hlobo lobundlobongela kwabanye kwihlabathi elikwi-intanethi . Sele siyibonile impembelelo yehlokondiba kuTwitter, apho ubomi babantu bonakaliswe kuba abanye babone ukuba bathethile into engeyiyo. I-Twitter ihlala ingowona mzekelo wokugqibela wokungcolisa umntu-konke okubonayo yi-avatar, enokuthi okanye ingangabi ngumfanekiso womntu ngokwakhe, kunye nesiphatho sabo se-Twitter. Ihlala iqikelelwa ukuba ukunyathelwa kwi-Intanethi kunye nokuhlukumeza kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba kukho ukungaziwa kunye nokungabikho kweziphumo zomenzi wobubi. Nangona oku kuyinyani, kukho elinye icala kwingqekembe: Ukusilela kobuntu obonwa lihlabathi kwi-intanethi kwixhoba.
Xa uncokola nomntu kwaye awuvumelani naye, awuphenduli inyukliya ekuphenduleni, nokuba ingxabano yabo iyisidenge. Ngoba? Ngaphandle kokuba uyi-sociopath, abantu abakuthandi ukwenzakalisa abanye abantu, emzimbeni okanye emphefumlweni. Nangona kunjalo, kwi-intanethi ekujolise kuko kukhubazekile. Singathetha izinto ezoyikisayo kwaye asizukuyibona ifuthe layo kwixhoba lethu. Asikho emngciphekweni wokubethwa ngenxa yokucaphukisa umntu ongalunganga.
Sikhalaza ngabantu abaya besiba mandundu ngakumbi, ukuba umhlaba okwi-intanethi uhlukumeza kakhulu, kwaye abantu bathetha izinto ezoyikisayo, kodwa phantse kuqinisekisiwe ukuba abo benza isikhalazo ibingabo abenze oko. Owu, basenokungazithethi ezinye zezinto ezimbi, kodwa banetyala lokuthetha nabanye ngokungqwabalala nokungavumelani ngendlela engenantlonipho, nezinyelisayo. Nantso into: yiyo ngokwenene Kulula ukwenza ukreqo oluncinci kwaye ukholelwe ukuba awunguye umntu onetyala kuba abanye benza kakubi. Kodwa ithambeka elimtyibilizi. I-Psychology ibonisa ukuba inyathelo lokuqala-nangona lisenokuziva limsulwa ngelo xesha-lelona liyingozi.
Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kwabo bakumbutho weAntiFa ngoku, kuba bayazichaza njengabantu abalungileyo, kwaye wonke umntu ongavumelaniyo nocalucalulo, i-bigot okanye i-transphobe. Ngequbuliso, kuqala ukuba sengqiqweni ngakumbi ukwenza izinto ezingenangqondo. Kungenxa yoko le nto sineqela labantu ngoku bekhala ngokungxolayo ukuba uTrump ungumntu okhathalayo kwaye bakhusela inkululeko yokuthetha-ngelixa benogonyamelo kwaye betshabalalisa nabani na ongavumelaniyo nabo. UJordani Peterson uphawule kutsha nje kudliwanondlebe noJoe Rogan ukuba abantu abaye bamchasa xa ethetha kwiiyunivesithi banamehlo abukhali emehlweni abo kwaye abanako ukubona isizathu okanye nokumamela. Bachukunyiswe liqela labo kangangokuba yonke into abafuna ukuyenza kukukhwaza izilogeni. Abakwazi nokuzicingela.
Ezi zifundo zengqondo zibonise ukuba iipesenti ezingama-75 zabantu ekugqibeleni ziya kuhamba kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwizenzo ezimbi sisikhumbuzo esothusayo sokuba kulula kangakanani ukucengwa liqela. Ukuzijonga esipilini kwaye uthi, Kusenokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba bendingumJamani kwiWWII, ngendandibambelele kwaye ndithathe inxaxheba ngenkuthalo ekubulaweni kwabantu abangamaJuda abazizigidi ezithandathu ngamava asothusayo. Kukuqonda ukuba bambalwa abaya kuba namava kuba kulula kakhulu ukuziqinisekisa ukuba singabanye babahle.
Kwaye yiyo loo nto, nokuba ungubani na okanye yeyiphi intshukumo okanye iqela labantu olichonga nabo, kufuneka uzijonge esipilini kwaye ujongane nale nyani. Kuya kufuneka ujongane nenyani yokuba uya kwenza ububi ukuba abantu abakungqongileyo benza ububi. Lixesha lokuba sonke sizihlole kwaye sibuze, Ngaba nam ndibanjwe kuyo yonke into ukuze ndibone isizathu? Ngaba ndingazicingela okwangoku, okanye ndilahla yonke into engahambelani nembali yam?
Usenokungayithandi into oyifumanayo.
UPete Ross uphinde wakha ubuchwephesha bengqondo kunye nefilosofi yelizwe leshishini, imisebenzi kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla. Ungamlandela kwi-Twitter @prometheandrive.
