(Ifoto: Alfred Bonjoc Ferolino / Flickr) Lo mbuzo wavela ekuqaleni Quora : Zeziphi iindlela ezilungileyo ezili-10 endimele ndizilandele yonke imihla ukuze ndibenobomi obuhle ?
Le mikhwa ili-10 indincedile ndatshintsha ubomi bam bube kukukhathazeka, ixhala, umsindo kunye nokungabi nakunceda, ndiye ekuxhobiseni, amabhongo, injongo kunye novuyo.
1. Vuka xa usithi uza kuvuka
Ngaphandle kwamaxesha athile endiza kulala kuwo kude kube ngu-11 kusasa ngoMgqibelo kuba ndindwendwele indlu yabazali bam kwaye ndilele ebhedini yam endala kwaye khange ndilale kule kude kube nini naphakade, kuyafuneka ukuba uvuke bavuke kwakusasa. Kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kukuvuka xa usithi uza kuvuka. Oko kuthetha ukuba useta ialam xa ibetha u-6: 30 kusasa, uphuma ebhedini ngo-6: 30 kusasa. Ngoba? Kungenxa yokuba esi sisithembiso sakho sokuqala kuwe ngalo mhla. Kubusuku obungaphambi kwalowo, wabeka ialam xa wawusenza isithembiso sokuba uza kuvuka ngelo xesha. Ukuqala kosuku lwakho ngesithembiso esaphukileyo kuyafana nokuvuka ebhedini unyawo olubi. Gcina isithembiso sakho. Vuka.
2. Yiba neNdlela yokuCoca yasekuseni (kwaye unxibe icandelo)
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa kakhulu ebomini ezinokuqala usuku lwakho kunye nentsingiselo yesiqhelo yakusasa eyakhekileyo ekubangela ukuba ufumane intloko kumdlalo. Ukuhlamba. Vasa amazinyo akho. Yenza iinwele zakho. Njl. Kodwa okona kubaluleke nangakumbi, khetha iimpahla ezikunyanzela ukuba unyukele kulo msitho. Kunzima ukuziva wonqena isuti. Ngoku, anditsho ukuba nxiba isuti, kodwa nditsho nokunxiba ijean enxibe izihlangu ezintle ezimdaka ngombala kunye neqhosha eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka phantsi kuzakwenza uzive ngathi ukulungele ukujongana nosuku. I-T-shirt kunye nokubila kuziva ngathi ndiza kuhlala ekhaya, ndizinkcinkce ngeNetflix, kwaye nditye iitapile zetapile ebhedini yam. Inkqubo yakho yasekuseni kufuneka ibe ngaphezulu kwezinto nje ekufuneka uzenzile ukuze ube ngumntu osebenzayo. Kuya kukwenza ukuba ulungele ngokwengqondo into ekufuneka uyenzile ngala mhla-nokuba yintoni na.
3. Umzuzu Wengqondo
Ukongeza koku kungasentla, camngca. Oku kuhle kwenziwe kusasa kodwa emva kokuhlamba (ngoko uvukile ngakumbi). Thatha imizuzu emi-5 okanye eli-10 kwaye uhlale uthe cwaka. Mamela apho ukhoyo. Oku kukunceda ukuba uqonde ukuba uqala usuku lwakho kwindawo elungileyo, okanye ukuba uvuke ukhathazekile, okanye ukuba kukho into ekuphazamisayo, okanye ukuba kukho into onomdla ngayo-kwaye ukusuka apho, uya kuqonda ngcono ngokwakho kunye nendlela onokuthi usondele ngayo kusuku ukuze usebenze kunye nawe njengoko unjalo ngoku. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu.
4. Ukutya okuQhelekileyo
Ndingumakhi womzimba ngoko le nto iyinyani ngakumbi kum, kodwa ndicinga ukuba kukho into enokuthethwa ngayo malunga nexesha lokutya rhoqo kunye nezidlo ezilungiselelwe kwaye zilungele ukuhamba. Oku kukunceda uqinisekise ukuba into ebaluleke njengokukhumbula ukutya ayityiwa okanye itshintshwe ngomsebenzi omninzi imini yonke. Ukuba ucwangcisa kwangaphambili, oku kuyanceda ukuba uhlale usempilweni. Ukutya sele kungumkhwa, ngenxa yoko unokuzilungiselela lo mkhuba ngokukhetha okunempilo, okuphekiweyo, kokukhona uya kuba nakho ukugcina impilo yakho nokuba uneshedyuli exakekileyo.
5. AmaXesha amaNcinci
Sonke sinemizuzu emi-5 apha, imizuzu eli-10 phaya. Nangona kunjalo ngetekhnoloji sele siqhele ukugcwalisa la maxesha amancinci ngamajelo asekuhlaleni kwiifowuni zethu, ukubukela iividiyo kwiYouTube, njl. Thatha zonke ezoapp zingenangqondo uzifake kwifowulda kwifowuni yakho ebizwa ngokuba yiNkcitho yoBomi bam. Kwiphepha elingaphambili, endaweni yezithuba ufake ii -apps ezinemveliso-kum: iDuolingo (ukufunda ulwimi lwasemzini), i-CNNmoney, iBooks, njl njl. Yenza loo maxesha mancinci abenomkhwa wokufunda, endaweni yokutya nje.
6. Ixesha lamahala lithetha ixesha lasimahla
Lo mkhwa wenzelwe abo basebenza kunye noosomashishini phaya njengam abalibeleyo ukuba ixesha lasimahla alithethi kusebenza ngokukhululekileyo kwiiprojekthi ezintsha. Ixesha lasimahla ngokoqobo lithetha ixesha lasimahla. Ixesha elichithwe kwinto. Thatha uhambo epakini. Yiya kudibana nomhlobo wakudala wekofu. Yiya kuhlala udlala amakhadi ngokuchasene noBuntu ngeqela labahlobo. Hamba uyokubiza uMakhulu wakho. Yiya ubukele imovie yonke ngaphandle kokuvuka phakathi kuba uziva ngathi awunamveliso. Eli xesha lasimahla njengesiqhelo esihleliweyo liya kunceda ukuseta kwakhona ingqondo yakho kwaye likuncede ubuyele emsebenzini kamva ngokuzimisela okuhlaziyiweyo.
7. Lawula Imali Yakho
Uxinzelelo oluninzi kunye noxinzelelo lubangelwa yimali. Nangona kunjalo, ayisiyiyo ubukho nje bemali kunye nezemali obangela uxinzelelo, kodwa endaweni yoko kukungaqondani kwendlela yokulawula. Thatha ixesha lokufunda iziseko malunga neerhafu, isitokhwe, utyalomali, ukonga, njl. Kwaye kanye ngeveki, iiveki ezimbini, okanye inyanga, hamba kwimali yakho ujonge ukuba imali yakho iyephi. Funda ukusebenza ngemali ukuze ukwazi ukuyiqonda kakuhle imali. Ngaphandle kokuba unezicwangciso zokufudukela embindini wentlango kwaye ujoyine impucuko ekude eneziqhamo, amandongomane, kunye nomdlalo wasendle, imali izakuba yinxalenye yobomi bakho ngonaphakade. Kwenze umkhwa ukufunda indlela yokuyisebenzisa ukuze ufumane inzuzo, endaweni yokoyiswa yiyo.
8. Dibana noMntu oMtsha
Ndinethamsanqa lokuba ndikufundile oku ngomsebenzi wam, kodwa ukudibana nabantu abatsha kundikhuthaza kakhulu kangangokuba kufanelekile ukuba ngumkhwa njengayo nantoni na eyenye. Ngaba umntu unayo iblogi oyifunda rhoqo? Bathumele i-imeyile. Ngaba ukhona umnini weshishini ongathanda ukufunda kuye? Bona ukuba bebeya kuba phezulu ukuya kukuhlangabeza ikofu. Okukhona abantu ufikelela kubo kwaye udibana nabo, kokukhona uya kubaluleka ngakumbi ngenxa yenethiwekhi yakho, kodwa kokukhona uya kuphefumlelwa ngakumbi ukuba uqhubeke nokuziphuhlisa. Kuya kunceda ukubeka izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo ngalo lonke ixesha uphantsi kwaye uziva ngathi awuyi ndawo. Uya kudibana nomntu omtsha kwaye uqaphele ukuba awuwedwa, kwaye uza ndawo, kuthatha ixesha nje.
9. Zonwabise kwaye Uphonononge
Inxalenye yobomi lulonwabo. Nokuba lubaluleke kangakanani uqeqesho, kuye kuthi qatha into xa uqeqesho lungasasebenzi kwaye uqale ube ngqongqo kakhulu ukufumana ukuhamba kwakho. Awuyomonki. Yiya ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kwaye uzonwabise kancinci, ngayo, uphonononge umntu okanye into entsha. Buza umntu. Yiya kwivenkile yekofu ngaphandle kwedolophu. Jonga ukuba umboniso omtsha wolondolozo lwembali okhe wabona iintengiso kuwo. Yitya ikhekhe eninzi kangangokuba ulale kwitafile yokutyela. Hlala ngaselunxwemeni iinyawo zakho zijinga pier, ukhwela emanzini. Le mizuzu mincinci kulula ukuyityeshela, ngakumbi ukuba ungumntu oqhutywa ziinjongo. Kodwa lelona xesha ulikhumbula kakhulu, kwaye lenza iimvakalelo ezingaphakathi kuwe ukuba zonwabe, uphile ngokunzulu, kwaye wenze into eyinyani, enexabiso ngokweemvakalelo ngobomi bakho.
10. Ijenali Phambi Kokulala
Esi ibisisiqhelo sam ukusukela ndisemncinci, kwaye ndiyakholelwa ukuba sesona sizathu sokuba ndikuthande ukubhala kangaka. Qho ebusuku phambi kokulala, ndithatha umzuzu ndibhale kwijenali yam. Ngamanye amaxesha ndibhala ngezinto endizifundileyo ngala mini. Ngamanye amaxesha ndibhala ngento endinqwenela ukuyenza ngengomso. Ngamanye amaxesha ndibhala imibongo, ngamanye amaxesha ndibhale iingoma, ngamanye amaxesha ndibhale phantsi zonke izinto ezindikhathazayo emva koko ndibhale ukuba ndingazitshintsha njani. Kodwa nokuba kunjani, ndibhala into. Kwaye ndibhala ngokusuka entliziyweni. Kuyandinceda ukukhumbula ukuba ubomi libali nje, singumlinganiswa ophambili, kwaye ukuba ndifuna ingomso lahluke ke kufuneka ndidlale indawo.
Ibhonasi 11. Ukulala
Oku kuya kuhamba ngaphandle kokuthetha, kodwa ukulala ngumkhwa obalulekileyo. Kulungile ukuba nobusuku beeyure ezi-4 rhoqo emva kwexesha-ngesiqhelo yintombazana okanye ukukhutshwa kweMMORPG ukusola. Kodwa ngokubanzi, ukufumana iiyure ezisixhenxe zokulala ubusuku bonke kuya kukunceda.
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