I-Rock and roll guy entle uGraham Nash kutshanje ubhengeze ukuba wohlukene nomfazi wakhe oneminyaka engama-38. (Ifoto nguJay Janner-Pool / imifanekiso kaFetty) Ekujonganeni nobomi bobuqu bamagama ajongene nesibindi abesilisa abanzulu (njengoko ngamanye amaxesha kungenzeki hayi ukwenza), kukho intlebendwane yokuba thina, schadenfreude-ishly, sithanda ukuva-uEliot Spitzer, Anthony Weiner, et al. Kwaye kukho ukuhleba ukuba sibuhlungu okanye sothukile ukukuva: iindaba ezenza thina-savvy cynics, emveni kwakho konke-sihlazeke ngaphezulu kwe-naïveté yethu kwaye sididekile ngelixa sibukele ukuqina kwethu okuqinisekileyo Iveki ephelileyo ibiyile veki injalo kubantu abancinci, ngakumbi abasetyhini.
Emva nje koNyaka oMtsha, kwabhengezwa ukuba uGraham Nash, 73, owaziwa amashumi eminyaka njengeyona ndoda intle kwaye iqhelekileyo elityeni-indoda ecingayo, engaziphakamisiyo neyalinganisa ngaphezulu kwimitha yobulumko kunayo nayiphi na enye into owayehlala kuLaurel Canyon ngexesha lakhe lempumelelo-wayefake isicelo soqhawulo-mtshato kumfazi wakhe weminyaka engama-38, uSusan Sennett Nash, oneminyaka engama-63, anabantwana abathathu abasele bekhulile. Enye iwebhusayithi yavuma ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba iyibhengeze ngendlela engabalulekanga ngendlela enokwenzeka. Kwaye kwakucingelwa ngokuthembekileyo ukuba umfoti owayefota isiqingatha seminyaka yakhe wayengunobangela. Ngosuku olulandelayo, uDonald Fagen, ngoku oneminyaka engama-68, isiqingatha esineenkcukacha eziphezulu sikaSteely Dan — esona sifundo sabantu abafundileyo, abaxakekileyo nabaseNew York njengathi kwii-70s rock duos- wabanjwa emva kokuba etyholwa ngumfazi wakhe weminyaka engama-22. , ULibby Titus, oneminyaka engama-69 ubudala, ngokuchasene nesakhelo sefestile semabhile, esinamandla ngokwaneleyo ukuba afumane ukulimala. (UNks. Titus wabiza u-911 kwaye waphathwa ngokwenzakala okuncinci. 
UDonald Fagen waseSteely Dan wabhukishwa ngezityholo zokuhlasela umfazi uLibby Titus ekuqaleni kukaJanuwari. (Ifoto ngu-SGranitz / WireImage)
Ndidibene noGraham Nash. Nini, kwiminyaka eli-10 eyadlulayo, ndangena ekhayeni lakhe i-Encino ndisiya kudliwanondlebe naye ngencwadi yam Amantombazana afana nathi (ngethuba lodliwanondlebe wayethetha ngentlonipho kunye nokuzithoba ngothando nokwaliwa nguJoni Mitchell kumashumi eminyaka ngaphambili), into yokuqala awayithethayo, uloyiso, yayikukungalandelelani okumangalisayo, Unyana wam waboleka nje ibhatyi yam! Lowo ngumqondiso wokuba abantwana bakho bathanda wena! Ingaba ungenza kanjani hayi uyamthanda umntu onje? Xa ndathumela kuFacebook kwiveki ephelileyo indlela endandibuhlungu ngayo ngoqhawulo-mtshato - ndingakwazi ukuthi ndiphoxekile kwisimilo sakhe-ndaphindaphindwa ngamazwi avakalayo. Ngokubhekisele kuFagen, abantu bandipinile ngezinto ezinje, Wayebonakala ngathi uyangxama kodwa hayi ngogonyamelo, kwaye Uthatha umzukulwana wakhe kwisikolo somntwana wam kwaye Wayedla ngokuthandana naloo ncoko ilumkileyo; Ndiyalilibala igama lakhe… ndisomeleza ingqondo yokuba edada echibini lababhali laseNew York.
Kuzo zombini ezi meko, abantu abakubudala obuthe bachitha amashumi eminyaka bezincoma ngokufihlakeleyo- ngokuziva ukuba iqaqobana leenkwenkwezi zomculo zazifana nathiNje-bajongana nokungaxelwa ngamagama: Ezi ziganeko ziveze ukuba umgangatho ophakamileyo esiya kuwo ngokungazi babambe abadumileyo beklasi ethile babehlala beluhlobo lwasekhaya (okanye ubuncinci-uxolo lwasekhaya) umgaqo-nkqubo weinshurensi. Izinga lokuqhawula umtshato (amaMelika angaphezu kweminyaka engama-50 aphindwe kabini ngokuqhawula umtshato njengoko wayeneminyaka engama-20 eyadlulayo); Ukuthambeka kwamehlo kwamadoda amadala ashiya imitshato emide kakhulu kubafazi abancinci kakhulu; kwaye into eyoyikisayo (ngesiqhelo, enkosi uThixo, kuthintelwe) umlo ongalawulekiyo womtshato wokulwa esihogweni-zonke zazingenakwenzeka ukuba zibhangiswe thina ngenxa yokuba babonakalisile ukuba banokuthintelwa nkqu nangabasemzini kubo.
Imicimbi yeveki ephelileyo yomibini ibisandula ukwenzeka sele ubonile s. Owandulela ukubanjwa kukaFagen wenzeka ngo-Epreli ka-2014, xa la madoda ahloniphekileyo, ahloniphekileyo kwaye ethethela phantsi amadoda omculo we-august-uPaul Simon, owayeneminyaka engama-72 ngoko- wabanjwa (ngenqwelomoya, nangaphantsi) kunye nenkosikazi yakhe yeminyaka engama-22, U-Edie Brickell, owayeneminyaka engama-48 ubudala, ngenxa yokungaziphathi kakuhle, emva komlo othe wakhokelela ekutyhaleni ngokwasemzimbeni okwakhokelela kwifowuni ye-911 eyayixhonywe ngokukhawuleza. I-Canaan entsha, uConn., Amapolisa afumana isizathu sokubamba bobabini uSimon noBrickell, abanabantwana abathathu, kunye nomfanekiso wokuncipha, iglum, uSimon oneenwele ezimhlophe phantsi kwesihloko esikhulu solwaphulo-mthetho. yintoni engalunganga-ngalo mfanekiso? panache. Esi sibini sakhululwa ngaphandle kwebheyile, kwaye kwityala labo elilandelayo lenkundla kunye nelokugqibela kwiinyanga ezimbalwa kamva, bobabini banyanzelisa ukuba yingxabano engaqhelekanga kwaye konke kwakulungile-kwaye zonke izityholo zarhoxiswa. 
U-Edie Brickell ushiya inkundla yase-Connecticut emva kokubanjwa kwakhe, kunye nomyeni uPaul Simon, emva kwengxabano yasekhaya. (Ifoto ngu-David Surowiecki / imifanekiso ka-Getty)
Ngokubhekisele kumtshato owothusayo kaMnumzana Nash, omnye akufuneki ajonge kude kunomlingani wakhe wangaphambili uNeil Young. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uMnu. Young wayesoloko idiosyncratic kunye namabhongo ngaphezu Mr. Nash, kodwa akazange nje kuphela-watshata; yena kunye nenkosikazi yakhe uPegi babedibene ngokuqinileyo kwaye bencomekile ngokuchasene nentliziyo ebuhlungu kunye nobunzima, abaququzeleli bokunceda abantu kwimfundo yabantwana abakhubazekileyo njengonyana wabo omdala (basungula iSikolo seBridge, abaqhubeka nokuxhasa ngemali, ngo-1986) . Ukanti ngoJulayi 2014, uMnu.Young, owayeneminyaka engama-68 ngoko, wafaka uqhawulo mtshato noPegi, emva koko wayeneminyaka engama-61, emva kweminyaka engama-36 betshatile, kwaye kwangoko waqala-encumile esidlangalaleni-ukuthandana komlingisi uDaryl Hannah. (Ukudideka, ngenxa yabantu abancinci basezidolophini, yayiyiminyaka eliqela ngaphambili, ukwahlukana okumangalisayo kweyona sonic yoLutsha ebandayo kunexesha elipholileyo, xa uThurston Moore eshiye uKim Gordon, oneminyaka engama-58 ubudala, owayetshatele kuye. Iminyaka engama-27, kumfazi omncinci.UNks Gordon, ewe, wabhala incwadi edunyiswayo kunye nethengwa kakhulu Intombazana enebhendi Malunga nayo — nobomi bayo bonke — kunyaka ophelileyo.)
Inqanaba loqhawulo-mtshato lokuphakama; Ukuthambeka kwamehlo kwamadoda amadala ashiya imitshato emide kakhulu kubafazi abancinci kakhulu; kwaye into eyoyikisayo (ngesiqhelo, enkosi uThixo, kuthintelwe) umlo ongalawulekiyo womtshato ovela esihogweni-zonke zazingenakwenzeka ukuba zisithintele ngenxa yokuba zazibonakalisile ukuba zinokuthinteleka nangabasemzini. 
UMick Jagger kunye neparam yakhe yexesha elide, ongasekhoyo u-L'Wren Scott. (Ifoto nguMichael Loccisano / imifanekiso ka-Getty)
Kodwa akukho kwanto yathintela ukuzibulala ngokuxhoma intombi kaMick Jagger, u-L'Wren Scott, ngo-Matshi 2014, ngaphambi nje kokuba abe neminyaka engama-50. Ukucinga ngentlungu kunye nokuphelelwa lithemba ekufuneka kukhokelele kulowo ufezekileyo. Ndabamba itheko elincinci-ndangcangcazela ngabasetyhini baseManhattan abakwiminyaka ethile njengentsholongwane ehamba msinya. Kuyo yonke imithombo yeendaba zentlalo, aba bafazi batyhola uMnu.Jagger, owayeneminyaka engama-70 ubudala, owayesandula ukwahlukana no / ukukopela / ukwala ukutshata noScott (okanye bobathathu, kuxhomekeke kubani othethe naye), owayenetyala kuye nakwezemali. Kodwa kwakubonakala-ngaphandle kwam-kungenangqondo ukulindela ukuba le ndoda, kubo bonke abantu, ithembeke njengomcwangcisi zimali wase-suburban. Umnumzana Jagger wabonakala ehlatswe ngokuzibulala, esengozini kunye nobuthathaka. Oku kwakothusa ngokumangalisayo kwaye kwakubuhlungu kum. Ndifuna i enye UMick Jagger umva, ukubamba iflegi. Yiphi iflegi? Iflegi yokungoyiseki, i-blasé, i-savoir engenasiphelo nangaphambi kokujamelana neyona ntlungu ibangela ukuba ubenetyala, ndiyaqikelela. Ubomi bokwenene babunzima ngokwaneleyo. Ubufazi nangona ndandinjalo, ndandilangazelela umntu endingazange ndiqonde ukuba ndiza kuthembela kuye ngokwasengqondweni: Mick Jagger, Fairy Tale. Leya mifanekiso siyithumele ngoMuammar Gaddafi-enempandla, ngaphandle kwewigi yakhe enenwele ezimnyama-emva kokuba simbulele? Isidima-sommeleli otshabalalisayo ukuba loo mifanekiso inokuba ibanike abantu baseLibya ibifana naleyo bendiziva ndibukele otyumkileyo, nobugqwirha uMnu Jagger. (Ukufa kukaScott kwagqitywa ukuba yayiyimeko yokudandatheka okukhulu.)
Ndithethile noPepper Schwartz, uprofesa wesayensi yezentlalo kwiYunivesithi yaseWashington kunye nombhali weencwadi zomtshato nezesondo ( Umtshato woontanga, Uthando phakathi kwabalinganayo , et al), kwaye ngoku umtshato ubonakalisa ijaji, malunga ne-spike ngaphezulu kwe-50 (nangaphezulu kwama-50) uqhawulo-mtshato, uMnu Nash noMnu. Uye wathi, ayisiyiyo nje ukuba siphila ixesha elide kwaye siphila sempilweni ixesha elide, kodwa sikholelwa ekubeni sinokuba 'ngokwethu' ixesha elide. Kwaye 'ngokwethu' kumntwana osisinhanha unelungelo elinelungelo lokunandipha ixesha elililo lokwenyani laseMelika kunye nokuzimela okuye kwinguqulelo yesini, inguquko yesondo, uguquko lwesini, kutheni ungaphinde u-odole ukwaluphala ? Ingakumbi ukuba unodumo kunye nemali. 
Umnumzana Jagger, uJerry Hall, ubhengeze ukubandakanyeka kwakhe kule veki kwi-octogenarian media baron Rupert Murdoch. (Ifoto nguMax Mumby / Pool / Indigo / imifanekiso ka-Getty)
Olunye uluvo lwalunikwe ligqwetha eliphezulu loqhawulo-mtshato eManhattan uBernard Clair, ngoku omele uJason Hoppy (kuqhawulo mtshato noBethenny Frankel) kunye noMelissa Soros, kwaye umelwe ngumlawuli uStephen Soderbergh. Uthe ukuthembela kwamadoda kwiViagra-ngoku eyinxalenye yobomi obuqhelekileyo baseMelika-kuye kwadibana nomthetho womtshato okhululekileyo nowomthetho ukuze kuveliswe ukhuseleko ngaphandle komngcipheko kwabo bafuna ukuzula simahla kwiminyaka yabo yokutshona kwelanga. Yeyona ndawo ingummangaliso yokuhlangana kweemeko kwisithuba seminyaka elishumi edlulileyo okanye elishumi. Ngenxa yeViagra, uqaphele, kunye nokwanda okuxhaphakileyo, ukuhlonitshwa kunye nokulungiswa kakuhle kwezivumelwano zangaphambi komtshato, kunye neyunivesithi entsha yoqhawulo-mtshato (iNew York yayililizwe lokugqibela ukuyifumana, ngo-2010). Abafana ngoku banokuqhubela phambili iphupha lokuba kunye nomfazi omncinci kakhulu [ngaphandle kokukhathazeka malunga ne-counter-suit ngumfazi] kwaye ngaphandle kokunikezela ukuba loo mfazi unabo hayi ngenxa yenkangeleko yabo okanye umzimba kodwa ngenxa yemali yabo okanye amandla okanye isikhundla. Baye bathi ngaphakathi kwabo, ‘Kutheni ke isihogo singekho?’ Kwaye ukuba ucinga ukuba usisiyatha, uyamvusa ngendlela ngokwenene pre-nup. (Hmm, khawuzibuze ukuba ingaba le yayiyingcinga kaRupert Murdoch xa- njengoko kuchaziwe nje-yena, eneminyaka engama-84, wacela uJerry Hall ukuba amtshate. Kodwa kwakhona, yena, enguMick Jagger oza kuba neminyaka engama-60 ubudala kungekudala. ex, kusenokwenzeka ukuba wayenokulungisa amanqaku akhe xa wayemoyizela kunye nesinqandamathe sakhe, isityebi esisityebi kune-Mick media baron. Okanye enye into-ngubani owaziyo? -alunokuba luthando lokwenene.)
Kodwa kuthekani ngogonyamelo lwasekhaya olumangalisayo lokubanjwa kukaFagen, uSimon noBrickell? U-Dean Parker wase-Long Island, ugqirha wezengqondo kunye nochwephesha kwezoluleko ucebise malunga nezibini ezingama-500 (kubandakanya nabonwabisi kunye nezopolitiko) abanemicimbi yobundlobongela basekhaya ngaphezulu kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu yokuziqhelanisa nabucala, ithi imeko yazo phakathi kwabantu abadala kunqabile-kuphela malunga neepesenti ezingama-20 zabo bonke ubundlobongela basekhaya Iifowuni ezingama-911 zivela kubafazi abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-50-ngenxa yokuvuthwa ngokweemvakalelo kuzo zombini izini, ukulawula impembelelo, kunye namanqanaba asezantsi e-testosterone emadodeni. Kodwa xa abantu yenza umnxeba, boyika ngokwenene. Kwaye imeko 'yokutyhala' eyenzekileyo bobabini uFagen noSimon iqhelekile. Kumaxesha ashushu, umntu uyakhwaza okanye akhombe okanye avale indlela okanye ale ukwala kwigumbi. Emva koko ukutyhala kwenzeka, kuhlala kungenjongo yobundlobongela, kodwa ngakumbi kukudana. Ngokuqhelekileyo yindoda; owasetyhini uwa ngokungaqhelekanga [njengoko bekunjalo kuLibby Titus, osuka kwiingxelo zosasazo] kwaye ngoku owona monakalo wenziwe. ‘Ndizakubiza u-911!’ ‘Ndizakufowunela amapolisa!’ - yinto eqhelekile leyo kwaye kubonakala ngathi iyayonyusa imicimbi. Kodwa ndifuna ukugxininisa ukuba omabini amaqela ayoyika xa izinto zisonyuka kwaye besecicini lobundlobongela.
Ukunikwa konke oku, kufuneka siphakamise i-toast kwizibini ezitshatileyo ezitshatileyo ezitshatileyo eziphatha ngendlela esifuna ukuba ziziphathe ngayo, njengoKeith Richards noPatti Hansen. UBono kunye noAli Hewson. UTom Hanks kunye noRita Wilson. Iindaba malunga noqhawulo mtshato kubo zinokucaphukisa, ke: Yimunce kwaye uphathe iflegi eyonakeleyo, bafo.
Nangona banokuthi kamva banqabe ukuya kumajelo eendaba, barhoxe iiodolo zabo zokukhusela, baxolelanise ngokukhawuleza kwaye esidlangalaleni-kwaye bazisole ngokucofa kwabo amanani amathathu akhokelele kwizihloko ezihlazo (UDiane Lane kwathiwa uziva ngoluhlobo xa ebiza u-911 Kumyeni owayesakuba ngumyeni wakhe uJosh Brolin kwiminyaka ethile eyadlulayo, iindaba zaye zasasazeka, emva koko balinda ixesha elibuhlungu ngaphambi kokuba bahambe ikhaphethi ebomvu kunye) -ndiyathandabuza ukuba abantu abadumileyo bacinga malunga [nomonakalo we-PR onokuyenza] ixesha abenza ngalo umnxeba, utshilo uMnu. Endaweni yoko, baziva bedinga ungenelelo lwangaphandle ukuphelisa imeko eyingozi. 
Sonic yoLutsha uKim Gordon noThurston Moore bahlukana ngo-2011 emva kweminyaka engama-27 betshatile. (Ifoto ngu-Astrid Stawiarz / Getty Izithombe)
Ukunikwa konke oku, kufuneka siphakamise i-toast kwizibini ezitshatileyo ezitshatileyo ezitshatileyo eziphatha ngendlela esifuna ukuba ziziphathe ngayo, njengoKeith Richards noPatti Hansen. (Ngubani owayenokuyilindela kulomkhohlisi? Iminyaka engamashumi amathathu anesibini yomtshato, kubandakanya nokuzinza kwakhe ngexesha lokuhlaselwa ngumhlaza.) UBono no-Ali Hewson. UBruce Springsteen kunye noPatti Scialfa (thabatha enye encinci, ekhawulezileyo-ngaphezulu kokungathembeki kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, eyayinomhla wokugqibela webali le-Updike kuyo). UTom Hanks kunye noRita Wilson. UPierce Brosnan noKeeley Shaye Smith, yena ungumzimba onjalo hayi Inkwenkwezi ye-movie-eqingqiwe. Iindaba malunga noqhawulo mtshato kubo zinokucaphukisa, ke: Yimunce kwaye uphathe iflegi eyonakeleyo, bafo.
Kwaye ngelixa sithetha ngazo zombini inhlonipho kubantu abatshatileyo ixesha elide kwaye ukothuka kunye nosizi, kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba uDavid Bowie ubhengezwe nje ngokusweleka, okwamothusa abantu abaninzi ababengazi ukuba ulwa nomhlaza, kwahlangatyezwa, kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, hayi ngokuncoma italente yakhe , kodwa ngokudumisa, ngabafazi, ngomtshato wakhe oneminyaka engama-23 ukuba abonise u-Iman. Njengoko intatheli esekwe eBerkeley, u-Kate Coleman ebeka, ubomi bakhe basekhaya babonakala buyimodeli yothando olwenziweyo kunye nengqondo.
Ngelixa thina-ke, abasetyhini, nokuba kunjalo-sibajonga kakubi abantu abadumileyo abangamadoda abaphosa abafazi babo kubafazi abancinci, senza 'Uyahamba, ntombazana!' Xa inkwenkwezikazi ehlonitshwayo ishiya umtshato wayo uyindoda, ngakumbi olungileyo kwezopolitiko okanye ubuqabane obuqhelekileyo.
Kodwa nantsi into enomdla: nokuba (kuxhomekeke kwindlela oyithatha ngayo) imigangatho emibini okanye ubufazi buchume kwiindaba ezimbi. Ngelixa thina-ke, abasetyhini, nokuba kunjalo-sijonga kakubi abantu abadumileyo abangamadoda abaphosa abafazi babo kubafazi abancinci, siyahamba, ntombazana! xa inkwenkwezikazi ehlonitshwayo ishiya umtshato wayo endodeni, ngakumbi ulwalamano oluchanekileyo kwezopolitiko okanye ubuqabane. Akukho mntu wagxeka uSusan Sarandon-ezopolitiko zakhe zingenachaphaza, kwiindawo ezininzi, njengobambeleyo-ngokushiya uTim Robbins kwindoda esencinci. NoCynthia Nixon (othandeka ngokusisigxina njengaye Isini kunye neSixeko isimilo somyeni wakhe sokulahla umyeni wakhe ngegqwetha elikhangeleka libafazi kwezemfundo yoluntu (UNks. Nixon ufumene amanqaku ngokukhetha kwakhe umntu ongafanelekanga), atshatele kuye ngoku kwaye unomntwana. Xa uTilda Swinton evuma ngokungakhathali ukuba, nangona etshatile, yena, ngemvume yomyeni wakhe, polyamorous, upscale movie buffs aha ! ’Malunga nobunkunkqele obuphucukileyo bobuqu obubonakala buchaza umthombo oyimfihlo wokudlala kwakhe ngokugqibeleleyo. Xa u-Heidi Klum (Kulungile, hayi i-faite ye-elite, kodwa ethandelwa ukuba ngumrhwebi kwi-TV yakhe kunye nokuzenzela igama) washiya iTywina-yiyo loo nto, ngelishwa, ephakamisa umtshato ophumeleleyo wobuzwe obudumileyo- kwaye wathatha ilungu losapho , Nditsho neetabloids zanyusa amagqabi, kwaye ngoku ukuba uthandana kakhulu noVito Schnabel, akukho mntu ukhalazayo.
Ke kwabakho isityhilelo, kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo, nge ENew Yorker , ukuba Ecacileyo Umyili kunye nomboniso weqonga uJill Soloway-oyena mfazi ungoyena mntu ucocekileyo kwezemfundo okhe wabakhona eHollywood- wayehamba ngoxolo ehamba nomyeni wakhe omxhasayo (ngaphandle kweeholide zamaJuda, abaza kuhlala bezibhiyozela nabantwana babo, wayenza yacaca) Imbongi yesini lesini u-Eileen Myles. Ukuphakamisa okunzima kukaNks. Soloway kwimicimbi ye-transgender, ubungqingili, ubungqingili besini, umtshato wesini, i-neurosis yamaJuda, ii-bagels zikaNate 'n' Al-ngamanye amagama: ii-totems eziphambili ze-bicoastal-ezenziweyo njengesenzo sakhe hayi njengokuzingca kodwa Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yohambo lwakhe.
Watsho umbhali-mbali uStephanie Coontz, mhlawumbi oyena mphengululi uhlonitshwayo eMelika womtshato kunye neentsapho ( Umtshato: Imbali kwaye Indlela esingazange saba yiyo ), Impendulo yethu yokuxolela ngakumbi ekuziphatheni kwabasetyhini [kwezi meko] luhlobo lokuhlawula ngaphezulu kwenyani yokuba amadoda afumene ukupasa simahla kulolo hlobo lokuziphatha kule minyaka idlulileyo. Ngokubanzi, andicingi ukuba kufanelekile ukuba sidlulise isigwebo okanye sithathe icala ekwahlukaneni kwabanye abantu, kodwa kwinqanaba lokuba sibambe abantu kwimigangatho ephezulu yokunyaniseka okanye yokunyaniseka, andicingi ukuba kufuneka sibanqumle abafazi banamhlanje I-slack ekhethekileyo. Kodwa nazi ezona ndaba zinomdla, ezivela kuNks. Coontz: Abafazi bathanda ukuqala uninzi loqhawulo mtshato, e konke iminyaka, kwaye le nto [iqela elinomdla] sisizukulwana sokuqala sabasetyhini abakuma-50s nangaphezulu abanamava omsebenzi kunye namandla okufumana ngokuqinisekileyo kuyadlala apha.
Ke mhlawumbi inkwenkwezi elandelayo yeklasi yokushiya umtshato omde ngokwenene iya kuba ngumfazi. Kodwa masithembe nje ukuba akusayi kuphinda kubekhona kubanjwa kubundlobongela basekhaya, nangona izityholo are irhoxisiwe.
