UKarley Sciortino kwigumbi lakhe laseManhattan.UKaitlyn Flannagan woMqwalaseli Ungaze ucoce kodwa uhlala u-coital, uKarley Sciortino, 32, uchaza islut njengomntu ongenayo imiqobo yokuziphatha phakathi kwakhe kunye nolonwabo oluyingqayizivele olumenza abe ngumntu opheleleyo. Ngokuphinda ubange igama elikhohlakeleyo kwaye ulivavanye ngophando lokuqala, unikezela ngokujonga ngokuthembekileyo kwizithethe zenkcubeko. Ukuba yi-slut ayisiyiyo ngokuba nenani eliphezulu lomzimba, utshilo kwincwadi yakhe entsha, I-Slutever: Ukuthunyelwa okuvela kuMfazi oZimeleyo ngokwesondo kwiLizwe eliPhoxayo . Imalunga nokusebenza ngokwesondo.
Ngokwenkcazo yakhe, i-slut inokuba ngumhlobo othembekileyo, okholwayo kuThixo kunye neqabane elithembekileyo ngaphakathi kwemida yolwalamano olunzulu. Kungakumbi ngathi ndiziva ndikhululekile xa undikhuthaza ukuba ndityhale imida yam kwaye ndiphonononge umzimba wam ngeendlela ezintsha, kunokuba ndilale nantoni na eza kum. Kwaye ukuba owasetyhini unemvelo yokuqhuba ngesondo ephezulu, njenge-Sciortino's, amandla akhe anokusekelwa kwi-biology, hayi ukukhathazeka komntwana okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
Ipapashwe phakathi kwentshukumo ye- #metoo, Slutever ngesibindi ityhila uphawu lobuqu lukaSciortino lobufazi.Ukuba sifuna ukukwazi ukuba nenkululeko efanayo ngokwesini enamadoda, asinakuba buthathaka, uSciortino uxelele uMqwalaseli kwincoko yakutshanje. I-peroxide blonde eneflip yeenwele, unokumqonda kwiNetflix's Elula , okanye ndibambe uthotho lwamaxwebhu amatsha kwiViceland, ekwabizwa ngokuba Slutever . Imbonakalo yokugqibela iyambona ekhangela iinkonzo ze-orgasm yabasetyhini. Ukuba indoda inokuthenga i-massage ephelayo evuyayo, iyaqiqa kwisiqendu sokuqala, umfazi kufuneka abe nakho - ngaphandle kokubonisa ukungakhathali.
Ewe ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kuyinyani kwaye akufuneki kunyamezelwe naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, utshilo. Kodwa uhlaselo lwahlukile kwingcinga yexhoba. Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kwabasetyhini kuvela kwingcinga ephelelwe lixesha neyonakalisayo yokuba amadoda afumana into kwaye abantu basetyhini banikezela ngento. Ukuba amadoda nabasetyhini baya kwisini ngokulinganayo benombono wokuba bobabini banento yokuyizuza kunokuba baphulukane nayo, ingcinga yokuba ixhoba labasetyhini elonwabileyo lokuthabatha alinakuba sengqiqweni.
Imihla engalunganga yinxalenye yokufunda, utshilo, eqaphela ukuba indlela yokuziphatha kakubi kukaHarvey Weinstein ayithelekisi nezookups ezimbi kwiTinder.
Kum, ubufazi malunga nenkululeko yokwenza izigqibo kunye nokuthatha uxanduva ngakumbi, ngokwesondo nangenye indlela, utshilo. Siphantse sakhaba ubufazi kwiibhedi zethu. Kukho imithwalo emininzi efana nale, ‘Akuyi kuphikiswa; uyakuhlala ukhutyekiswa ziintetho zabantu ezigwenxa. ’ 
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Nangona uSciortino engazange ayigqibe ikholeji-wayeka emva kwesemester kwisikolo saseLondon semidlalo yeqonga-uziphatha ngenzondelelo yomntu ogqithisileyo, okwenzeka ukuba anxibe i-PV.C. isikhumba.
Ekhuliswe ngamaKatolika kusapho lwase-Italiya naseMelika kumantla eNew York, wayengukapteni weqela le-varsity lebhola ekhatywayo kunye nomdlalo webhola yomnyazi, umhleli wencwadi ephezulu yonyaka, ekhokelela kumdlalo wesikolo esiphakamileyo ( Amadoda akhetha iiBlondes kunye nomtyunjwa we-prom queen. Utata wakhe wayefuna ukuba aye eWest Point Military Academy. Kodwa nangabazali bobabini abathanda inkolo — utata kwiiKnights zaseColumbus kunye nomama owayencokola ngokuvakalayo noYesu — uSciortino wazama amaqabane amaninzi eselula.
Njengamaqhawe akhe uMadonna kunye nabasetyhini abasebenza ngesondo uCamille Paglia, uSciortino wafumanisa ukuba akukho nto ivusa umdla kunemithetho engqongqo yokwaphula.
Ukwabelana ngesondo yayiyindlela emfutshane yokusondelelana kwaye ndizicingela, wayecinga. Ndifunde uvelwano kunye nemida yam malunga nento endenza ndizive ndonwabile, ndizithembile kwaye ndixhaswa.
Emva kwesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, wachopha kumzi-mveliso waseLondon ongasasebenziyo nabanye abantu abali-10. Njengokuyeka ikholeji ngaphandle komsebenzi, wayenexesha elininzi lokuqokelela amabali malunga nabantu ahlala nabo kwi-bohemian. Ngo-2007, wavula iblogi yakhe, Slutever , ekhokelele ekubhaleni imisebenzi nge Usekela nasemva koko Vogue Magazine .
Njengokuba egqithisile (ukonwaba kwabalandeli), uzigcinile ezinye izinto. Ubhala apha Slutever malunga ne-stint yakhe njengomntu osebenza ngesondo-ixesha lokuqala ukuba angene kula mava.
Isizathu esinye sokuba ndiyigcine iyimfihlo ixesha elide kungenxa yokuba, njengabantu abaninzi, ndinabazali, uyabhala. Ngokukodwa, abazali abangamaKatolika.
Edinga imali, uthathe iigrig okwethutyana njengegunya lokulawula kwaye kamva ushukela usana olufuna abaxhamli abazizityebi. Ngokusisiseko: ENew York amaxabiso okuqesha + ityala labafundi + inkululeko yabasetyhini = umsebenzi wesondo, yena uthi.
Ukucebisa kususwe uxinzelelo lwezezimali ukuze akwazikubaumbhali. Ngomvuzo ophezulu, wayenokukwazi ukufumana umbala ohloniphekileyo kunye ne-wardrobe eyamnceda ukuba afumane isikhundla Vogue . Ngelishwa, ixesha lakhe njengomntu osebenza ngesondo waziva engaxhaphazi kancinci kunentatheli esekwe kwiwebhu enikezela nge- $ 350 ngebali lekhava okanye akukho nto kwaphela ngozuko lokukhulisa abaphulaphuli. Ngokuqinisekileyo ibetha abalindi kwi-10 yeedola ngeyure.
Kwaye yanika udliwanondlebe ukufikelela kwabanye abathengisi ngemizimba, abadla ngokuziva bengaqondwa. Ngaphandle kwendlela yobuso bakho, Isilayidi Umyalezo oqinileyo ka-r umalunga nokuthatha nantoni na, malunga nomntu okanye isiqu sakhe.
Ndingumntu wonxweme kunye nokuziphatha okubi ngokwesini, waqhula malunga nokwahlula ixesha lakhe phakathi kweNew York neLos Angeles. Kodwa emva koko wayitshintsha ingqondo yakhe kwaye wacacisa ukuba ubhetyebhetye ngokwesondo ligama alithandayo. Ubukhulu becala ethe tye, ngoku usebudlelwaneni kunye nendoda epheleleyo, waqhula.
Nangona ayinguye wonke umntu oxabisa uburharha bakhe obukhululekileyo.
Ndinebhongo ngokuba neetrolls zeintanethi, uSciortino waziqhayisa. Ukuba uza kuba nayiphi na ifilosofi okanye ukreqo okanye umbono omtsha, kuya kubakho ukubuyela umva.
Oku kuzithemba kuvela kumthombo ongalindelekanga-abazali bakhe. Nangona bexhalabile ngaye, uyabazisa ngokumfaka kwimeko yokuzinza. Unina, ukhumbula, wamfundisa ukuba enkosi kwizithuko. I-Sciortino izinikezele Slutever Kumama wakhe, endimthanda kakhulu, kodwa ndingavumi ukuba afunde le ncwadi.
Kukuvuma ukuba ufumanisa ukuba le ncwadi yeyiphi kanye kanye. VNgokurhangqa iingalo zakhe ngeenxa zonke kubo bonke abantu abaziphethe kakubi, uSciortino ubakhumbuza: uyathandwa.
