Kulungile, silungile ngoku. Izinto ezili-10 abantu baseMelika abazi malunga neMelika (Flickr) Khawufane ucinge ukuba unomntakwenu kwaye ulikhoboka lotywala. Unamaxesha akhe, kodwa wena gcina umgama wakho kuye. Awumkhathaleli kwindibano yosapho okanye iholide. Usamthanda. Kodwa awufuni ukuba kufutshane naye. Ngale ndlela ndibuchaza ngothando ubudlelwane bam bangoku kunye ne-United States. I-United States ngumntakwethu onxila. Kwaye nangona ndizakuhlala ndimthanda, andifuni ukuba kufutshane naye ngalo mzuzu.
Ndiyazi ukuba kunzima, kodwa ndiziva ngathi ilizwe lam alikho kwindawo elungileyo kwezi ntsuku. Ayisiyo ingxelo yezentlalo noqoqosho (nangona kunjalo iyancipha), kodwa ke yinkcubeko.
Ndiyaqonda ukuba kuya kuba nzima ukubhala izivakalisi ezinje ngentla ngaphandle kokuza njengesiqhushumbisi, ngoko ke mandizame ukuthomalalisa abafundi bam baseMelika ngesifaniso:
Uyazi xa uphuma endlwini yabazali bakho kwaye uhlala wedwa, uqala njani ukuchitha ixesha kunye neentsapho zabahlobo bakho kwaye uyaqonda ukuba eneneni, usapho lwakho lwaludumbile? Njengoko kuvela, izinto ocinga ukuba ziqhelekile ukuba bonke ubuntwana bakho zazintle kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba bakukhuphile kancinci. Uyazi, utata ucinga ukuba kuyahlekisa ukunxiba umnqwazi kaSanta Claus kwimpahla yakhe yangaphantsi rhoqo ngeKrisimesi okanye into yokuba wena nodadewenu nilale ebhedini enye nide nineminyaka engama-22, okanye ukuba umama wakho ebekhala rhoqo ngebhotile yewayini ngelixa umamele kuElton John.
Inqaku kukuba asifumani mbono kwaphela ngokusondeleyo kuthi de sichithe ixesha kude nalo. Kanye njengokuba ungakhange uziqonde ii-quirks ezingaqhelekanga kunye nezinto ezibalaseleyo kusapho lwakho de uhambe kwaye uchithe ixesha nabanye, kuyafana nakwilizwe nakwinkcubeko. Rhoqo awuyiboni into ephazamisekileyo malunga nelizwe lakho kunye nenkcubeko de uphume ngaphandle kwayo.
Kwaye nangona eli nqaku liza kuvela ngokungxolayo, ndifuna abafundi bam baseMelika bazi oku: ezinye zezinto esizenzayo, ezinye zezinto ebesoloko sizicinga ukuba ziqhelekile, ziluhlobo lokujijwa. Kwaye kulungile. Kuba kuyinyani kuyo yonke inkcubeko. Kulula nje ukuyibona kwabanye (umzekelo, amaFrentshi) ukuze singasoloko siyiqaphela kuthi.
Ke xa ufunda eli nqaku, yazi ukuba ndithetha yonke into ngothando olunzima, olo thando lungqongqo ndihlala phantsi ngalo ndifundise ilungu losapho elinxila. Ayithethi ukuba andikuthandi. Ayithethi ukuba akukho zinto zintle ngawe (BRO, YIMANGALISO !!!). Kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba ndingomnye ongcwele, kuba uthixo uyazi ukuba ndihle kakhulu (ndingumMerika, emva koko). Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzive. Kwaye njengomhlobo, ndiza kubaxelela kuwe.
Kwaye kubafundi bam bamanye amazwe, zilungiseleleni iintamo, kuba oku kuya kuba yinto enqumlayo.
Incinci Into Esihogo Ngaba Lo Mfo Uyayazi? Imvelaphi: Ndihleli kwiindawo ezahlukileyo zase-US, emazantsi anzulu nakumantla mpuma. Ndindwendwele uninzi lwamazwe aseMelika angama-50. Ndichithe iminyaka emithathu edlulileyo ndihlala phantse ngaphandle kwelaseMelika. Ndihleli kumazwe amaninzi eYurophu, eAsia naseMzantsi Merika. Ndindwendwele ngaphezulu kwamazwe angama-40 kuwo onke kwaye ndichithe ixesha elininzi nabantu abangabantu baseMelika kunabantu baseMelika ngeli xesha. Ndithetha iilwimi ezininzi. Andinguye ukhenketho. Andihlali kwiindawo ekuchithelwa kuzo iiholide kwaye kunqabile ukuba ndihlale kwiihostele. Ndirenta izindlu kwaye ndizama ukuzibandakanya kwilizwe ngalinye endilindwendwelayo kangangoko ndinako. Ke apho.
(Qaphela: Ndiyaziqonda ezi zinto zenziwa ngokubanzi kwaye ndiyaqonda ukuba kuhlala kukho izinto ezingafaniyo. Ndiyayifumana. Awunyanzelekanga ukuba uthumele ii-imeyile ezingama-55 undixelele ukuba wena nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni nizodwa. Ukuba uyayicaphukisa ibhlog yomnye umntu iposti, unokufuna ukuphinda ujonge izinto eziphambili ebomini bakho.)
Kulungile, silungile ngoku. Izinto ezili-10 abantu baseMelika abazazi malunga neMelika:
1. BAMBALWA ABANTU ABABONAKALISAYO NGATHI
Ngaphandle kokuba uthethe nearhente yokuthengisa izindlu nomhlaba okanye ihenyukazi, amathuba awayi kuba yimincili yokuba ungumMelika. Ayisiyo ibheji ethile yokufumana imbeko. Ewe sasinoSteve Jobs kunye noThomas Edison, kodwa ngaphandle kokuba wena uyinyani are USteve Jobs okanye uThomas Edison (ongenakulindeleka), ke uninzi lwabantu kwihlabathi liphela alunakukhathalela. Kukho okwahlukileyo kunjalo. Kwaye abo ngaphandle babizwa ngokuba ngabantu baseNgesi nase-Australia. Whoopdie-fucking-doo.
Njengabantu baseMelika, sikhuliswe ubomi bethu bonke sifundiswa ukuba zezona zibalaseleyo, senze yonke into kuqala kwaye nelizwe liphela lilandela ukhokelo lwethu. Ayisiyonyani kuphela le, kodwa abantu bayacaphuka xa uyizisa kwilizwe labo kunye nawe. Ke musa.
2. Bambalwa abantu abasithiyileyo
Ngaphandle kokuqalwa kwamehlo ngamanye amaxesha, kunye nokungakwazi ngokupheleleyo ukuqonda ukuba kutheni nabani na enokuvotela uGeorge W. Bush, abantu abasuka kwamanye amazwe abasicaphuki nathi. Ngapha koko-kwaye ndiyazi ukuba le yinto yokwenyani kuthi - uninzi lwabantu emhlabeni alucingi ngathi okanye lusikhathalele . Ndiyazi, loo nto iyavakala ingenangqondo, ngakumbi nge-CNN kunye neFox News ebonisa amadoda angama-20 angama-Arabhu anomsindo ngokuphindaphinda iminyaka elishumi ngqo. Kodwa ngaphandle kokuba sihlasela ilizwe lomntu okanye sisongele ngokuhlasela ilizwe lomntu (elinokwenzeka), ke kukho ithuba le-99.99% lokuba bangakhathali ngathi. Njengokuba kunqabile ukuba sicinge ngabantu baseBolivia okanye eMongolia, uninzi lwabantu alucingi ngathi kakhulu. Banemisebenzi, abantwana, intlawulo yendlu-uyazi, ezo zinto zibizwa ngokuba bubomi-ukuba nexhala. Uhlobo olufana nathi.
Abantu baseMelika bathambekele ekucingeni ukuba lonke ilizwe liyasithanda okanye lisithiyile (eneneni loluvavanyo oluhle lwe-litmus ukuxelela ukuba umntu uyalondoloza okanye ukhululekile). Inyani yile, uninzi lwabantu aluziva. Uninzi lwabantu alucingi kakhulu ngathi.
Khumbula la ntombazana ingafikanga kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, ukuba yonke into encinci eyenzekayo kuye yayithetha ukuba kukho umntu omthiyileyo okanye othe phithi yiyo; ngubani owayecinga ukuba wonke utitshala okhe wamnika ibakala elibi wayengenabulungisa kwaphela kwaye konke okuhle okwenzekileyo kuye kungenxa yendlela awayemangalisa ngayo? Ewe, siyile ntombazana yesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo engakhulanga.
3. ASAZI LUTHO NGOKUPHELELEYO KWEHLABATHI
Kuyo yonke intetho yethu malunga neenkokheli zehlabathi kunye nendlela wonke umntu asilandela ngayo, asibonakali ngathi sazi okuninzi malunga nokuba ngabalandeli bethu. Bahlala benemvelaphi eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kunathi. Nazi ezinye izipikili zengqondo kum: iVietnam yayingaphezulu ejongene nenkululeko (hayi kuthi), uHitler wayeyintloko yoyiswa yiSoviet Union (hayi thina), bukhona ubungqina bokuba amaMelika aseMelika atshatyalaliswa ikakhulu sisifo kunye nesifo NGAPHAMBI Abantu baseYurophu bafika hayi nje emva nje, kwaye iMvukelo yaseMelika yaphumelela kuba amaBritane atyale imali ngakumbi kubutyebi bawo ukulwa neFransi (hayi thina). Qaphela umxholo osebenzayo apha?
(Icebo: Ayisiyiyo yonke le nto kuthi. Ihlabathi linzima ngakumbi.)
Khange sisungule idemokhrasi. Asizange siyilwe idemokhrasi yanamhlanje. Kwakukho iinkqubo zepalamente eNgilane nakwezinye iindawo zaseYurophu ngaphezulu kwekhulu leminyaka ngaphambi kokuba senze urhulumente. Kutshanje uphononongo lolutsha lwaseMelika , I-63% ayifumananga i-Iraq kwimephu (ngaphandle kokuba besemfazweni kunye nayo), kwaye i-54% ibingazi ukuba iSudan lilizwe e-Afrika. Nangona kunjalo, ngandlela thile siqinisekile ukuba wonke umntu ujonge kuthi.
4. SIHLUPHEKILE UKUBONISA UMBULELO NONXIBELELWANO
Kukho intetho malunga nabantetho isisiNgesi. Sithi Yiya kukuzikhathaza, xa sithetha ukuba ndiyakuthanda, kwaye sithi ndiyakuthanda, xa sithetha ukuba uya kukhe uzenzele.
Ngaphandle kokunxila kwindawo yokuhlala unxilile kwaye uyakhwaza NDIYAKUTHANDA, INDODA!, Imiboniso evulekileyo yothando kwinkcubeko yaseMelika inqabile kwaye inqabile. IsiLatin kunye neenkcubeko ezithile zaseYurophu zisichaza njengabandayo nabangenalo uthando nesizathu esivakalayo. Kubomi bethu bezentlalo asitsho ukuba sithetha ntoni kwaye asithethi oko sikuthethayo.
Kwinkcubeko yethu, ukuxabisa nothando kuyabonakaliswa kunokuba kuthethwe ngokuthe ngqo. Abahlobo babini babizana ngamagama ukomeleza ubuhlobo babo; amadoda nabafazi bayangcungcuthekisa kwaye bahlekise ngomnye nomnye ukubonisa umdla. Iimvakalelo phantse azizange kwabelwane ngazo ngokukhululekileyo nangokukhululekileyo. Inkcubeko yabathengi ilululazisile ulwimi lwethu lombulelo. Into efana nayo, Kuhle kakhulu ukukubona ungenanto ngoku kuba kulindeleke kwaye kuvakala kuwo wonke umntu.
Xa ndithandana, xa ndifumana umfazi enomtsalane, ndiphantse ndihlale ndisiya kuye ndimxelele ukuba a) bendifuna ukudibana naye, kwaye b) mhle. EMelika, abantu basetyhini bahlala benovalo kwaye bedidekile xa ndisenza oku. Baza kwenza iziqhulo ukunciphisa imeko okanye ngamanye amaxesha bandibuze ukuba ndiyinxalenye yomdlalo weTV okanye into edlala iprank. Naxa benomdla kwaye beya kumhla kunye nam, bafumana ukudideka xa ndingenantlonelo ngomdla wam. Ngelixa, phantse kuyo yonke inkcubeko esondela kwabasetyhini ngale ndlela kuhlangatyezwa ngoncumo oluqinisekileyo kunye nokubulela.
5. UMGANGATHO WOBOMI KUMDA WAMANDLA WAMERIKA AYIBONAKALANGA
Ukuba unetalente kakhulu okanye ubukrelekrele, i-US yeyona ndawo iphambili emhlabeni onokuhlala kuyo. Inkqubo ixinaniswe kakhulu ukuvumela abantu abanetalente kunye nenzuzo ukuba banyukele phezulu ngokukhawuleza.
Ingxaki nge-US yile wonke umntu ucinga ukuba banetalente kwaye bayinzuzo. Njengoko uJohn Steinbeck edumileyo, ingxaki yabantu abahluphekayo baseMelika kukuba abakholelwa ukuba bahluphekile, kodwa endaweni yoko baneentloni okwethutyana. Yile nkcubeko yokuzikhohlisa evumela iMelika ukuba iqhubeke nokuvelisa kwaye ikhuphe ishishini elitsha ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na ehlabathini. Kodwa le nkohliso ekwabelwana ngayo ngelishwa igcina iqhubela phambili ukungalingani okukhulu kwezentlalo kunye nomgangatho wobomi kubemi abaqhelekileyo abaphantsi kunamanye amazwe aphuhlileyo. Lixabiso esilibhatalayo ukugcina ukukhula kwethu kunye nolawulo lwezoqoqosho.
Kum, ukuba sisityebi kunenkululeko yokwandisa amava obomi. Kula magama, ngaphandle kokuba umndilili waseMelika enobutyebi bezinto eziphathekayo kunabemi belinye ilizwe (iimoto ezingaphezulu, izindlu ezinkulu, iithelevishini ezintle), umgangatho wobomi wabo uphela uyasokola kuluvo lwam. Abantu baseMelika ngokomndilili sebenza iiyure ezininzi ngeholide encinci, chitha ixesha elininzi ukuhamba yonke imihla, kwaye kubotshelelwe kunye ngaphezulu kwe- $ 10,000 Wetyala. Lixesha elininzi elichithwe usebenza kunye nokuthenga uburharha kunye nexesha elincinci okanye ingeniso elahlwayo yobudlelwane, imisebenzi okanye amava amatsha.
6. UKUPHELA KWEHLABATHI AKUSIYO I-SUM-RIDDEN SHITHOLE xa ithelekiswa nathi
Ngo-2010, ndangena eteksini eBangkok ukuba indise kwi-cineplex entsha enemigangatho emithandathu. Yayifumaneka ngemetro, kodwa ndakhetha iteksi endaweni yoko. Kwisihlalo esiphambi kwam kwakukho uphawu olunephasiwedi ye-wifi. Yima, yintoni? Ndibuze kumqhubi ukuba unayo i-wifi eteksini yakhe. Wakhanyisa uncumo olukhulu. Indoda e-squat yase-Thai, kunye nesiNgesi sayo esi-pidgin, ichaze ukuba iyifakile ngokwayo. Emva koko wavula inkqubo entsha yesandi kunye nezibane ze disco. Iteksi yakhe kwangoko yaba yiklabhu yasebusuku emnandi enamavili… ngewifi yasimahla.
Ukuba kukho into endihlala ndiyenza kuhambo lwam kule minyaka mithathu idlulileyo, ibikukuba phantse yonke indawo endikhe ndayindwendwela (ngakumbi eAsia nase Mzantsi Melika) intle kakhulu kwaye ikhuselekile kunokuba bendilindele. ISingapore i-pristine. IHong Kong yenza iManhattan ibonakale njengehlomela ledolophu. Indawo endihlala kuyo eColombia intle kunaleyo bendihlala eBoston (kwaye zitshiphu).
Njengabantu baseMelika, sinolu qikelelo lokuba abantu kwihlabathi liphela bayasokola kwaye basemva kwethu. Akunjalo. I-Sweden kunye ne-South Korea zine-intanethi ezihamba phambili ngesantya esiphezulu. IJapan inezoololiwe eziphambili kunye neenkqubo zothutho. AmaNorwegi - kunye nabaseSweden, iiLuxembourgers, amaDatshi kunye neFinnns - yenza imali eninzi . Eyona inkulu kwaye ininzi inqwelo moya eqhubele phambili kwihlabathi liphuma eSingapore. Ezona zakhiwo zide emhlabeni ngoku ziseDubai naseShanghai (kwaye kungekudala izakuba njalo Sawudi Arabhiya ). Okwangoku, i-US ine elona zinga liphezulu lokuvalelwa emhlabeni.
Yintoni eyothusayo ngehlabathi yindlela uninzi lwayo olungothusi ngayo. Ndichithe iveki ndinabafana bendawo eKhambodiya. Uyazi ukuba yintoni eyona nto yayibaxhalabisa? Ukuhlawulela isikolo, ukuya emsebenzini ngexesha, kunye nezinto ezazithethwa ngabahlobo babo ngabo. EBrazil, abantu baneengxaki zamatyala, bayakucaphukela ukubambeka ezindleleni kwaye bakhalaza ngoomama babo abangcungcuthekisayo. Wonke amazwe acinga ukuba anabaqhubi abaphambili. Wonke amazwe acinga ukuba imozulu yawo ayinakulindeleka. Umhlaba uyaba, uyaphambuka… unokuqikelelwa.
7. SIPARANOID
Asikuko kuphela ukungazithembi ngokwasemphefumlweni njengenkcubeko, kodwa ndiye ndayiqonda indlela esiyi-paranoid ngayo malunga nokhuseleko lwethu lomzimba. Awunyanzelekanga ukuba ubukele iFox News okanye i-CNN ngaphezulu kwemizuzu eli-10 ukuva malunga nendlela amanzi okusela aza kusibulala ngayo, ummelwane wethu uzakudlwengula abantwana bethu, abanye abagrogrisi baseYemen bazakusibulala ngenxa yokuba singazange Ukuba simhlukumeze, abantu baseMexico bazakusibulala, okanye intsholongwane yentaka izakusibulala. Kukho isizathu esinaso phantse imipu emininzi njengabantu.
E-US, ukhuseleko lubetha yonke into, nokuba yinkululeko. Siphambene.
Ndikhe ndaya kumazwe ali-10 ngoku ukuba abahlobo kunye nosapho ekhaya bandixelele ngokucacileyo ukuba ndingahambi kuba umntu uza kundibulala, andixhwithe, andihlabe, andiphange, andidlwengule, andithengisele urhwebo ngesondo, ndinike i-HIV , okanye nantoni na eyenye. Akukho nto yenzekileyo. Andikaze ndibelwe kwaye ndihambe kwezinye zezona ndawo zintle zeAsia, Latin America naseMpuma Yurophu.
Ngapha koko, amava aye achasene. Kumazwe afana neRashiya, iColombia okanye iGuatemala, abantu babenyanisekile kwaye bevulekile nam, iyandoyikisa loo nto. Omnye umntu ongamaziyo ebharini angandimemela endlwini yakhe kwi-barbeque kunye nosapho, umntu ongahleliyo esitratweni angacela ukundibonisa indawo kwaye andinike umkhombandlela kwivenkile endizama ukuyifumana. Iimvakalelo zam zaseMelika bezihlala zilindile, Lo mntu uza kuzama ukundiphanga okanye andibulale, kodwa khange benze njalo. Babenobuhlobo nje.
8. SIJONGILE NGOKUPHELELEYO SIFUNA UKUQONDA
Ndiqaphele ukuba indlela esiqhakamshelana ngayo nabantu baseMelika ihlala yenzelwe ukwenza ingqwalaselo enkulu kunye ne hype. Kwakhona, ndicinga ukuba le yimveliso yenkcubeko yabathengi bethu: inkolelo yokuba into ayibalulekanga okanye ayibalulekanga ngaphandle kokuba ibonwa njengeyona ilungileyo (KAKUHLE KONKE !!!) okanye ngaphandle kokuba ifumana ingqalelo enkulu (jonga: yonke inyani Umboniso weTV owenziwe).
Yiyo loo nto abantu baseMelika benomkhwa owahlukileyo wokucinga ukuba yonke into iyamangalisa, kwaye nezona zinto zixhaphakileyo zizezona zinto zibalaseleyo! Kukuqhuba esingazi nto sabelana ngokubaluleka nokubaluleka, le nkolelo ingachazwanga, ukubethwa ngokwasentlalweni kuthi ukusukela ekuzalweni ukuba ukuba asiyiyo eyona nto intle, ke asinamsebenzi.
Sithathe ubume. Inkcubeko yethu yakhelwe ecaleni kwempumelelo, imveliso kunye nokubalasela. Ke ngoko ukuzithelekisa nokuzama ukwenza omnye komnye kungenise ubudlelwane bethu kunye. Ngubani onokuthi ahlasele iibhiya ezininzi kuqala? Ngubani onokufumana indawo kwindawo yokutyela ebalaseleyo? Ngubani owaziyo umgqugquzeli kwiklabhu? Ngubani owayethandana nentombazana kwiqela labadlali? Ukuhlalisana kuya kuchaswa kwaye kujike kube kukhuphiswano. Kwaye ukuba awuphumeleli, intsingiselo kukuba awubalulekanga kwaye akukho mntu uya kukuthanda.
9. ASIPHILANGA KAKHULU
Ngaphandle kokuba unomhlaza okanye into ebaluleke ngokulinganayo, inkqubo yokhathalelo lwempilo e-US iyabamba. Umbutho WezeMpilo Wehlabathi ibekwe kwi-US yama-37 kwihlabathi kukhathalelo lwempilo, ngaphandle kwento yokuba sichitha eyona mali ngomntu ngamnye ngomda omkhulu.
Izibhedlele zihle kakhulu eAsia (kunye noogqirha nabahlengikazi abafundiswe baseYurophu) kwaye zibiza ishumi elininzi. Into yesiqhelo njengokugonya ixabisa amakhulu eedola e-US kwaye ingaphantsi kwe- $ 10 eColombia. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba uhlekise ngezibhedlele zaseColombia, iColombia yindawo yama-28 kwihlabathi kuluhlu lwe-WHO, amabala alithoba aphezulu kunathi.
Isiqhelo Uvavanyo lwe-STD enokukuqhubela ngaphezulu kwe- $ 200 e-US isimahla kumazwe amaninzi kuye nakubani na, ummi okanye hayi. I-inshurensi yam yezempilo kunyaka ophelileyo? $ 65 ngenyanga. Ngoba? Kuba ndihlala ngaphandle kwe-US. Umfana waseMelika endadibana naye ehlala eBuenos Aires wafumana utyando emadolweni kwi-ACL yakhe eyayinokubiza i-R10 000 e-US… simahla.
Kodwa oku akungeni ngokwenene kwiingxaki zempilo yethu. Ukutya kwethu kuyasibulala. Andizukuphambana neenkcukacha, kodwa siyayitya imithambo enekhemikhali kuba inexabiso eliphantsi kwaye inencasa engcono (inzuzo, inzuzo). Ubungakanani beesahlulo zethu abukho ngqiqweni (inzuzo eninzi). Kwaye sesona sizwe simiselweyo emhlabeni kwaye iziyobisi zethu zixabisa izihlandlo ezihlanu ukuya kwezilishumi ngaphezulu kunaseKhanada (ohhhhhhh, inzuzo, wena nondindwa uthandana).
Ngemimiselo yokuba izinto ozilindile emhlabane , nangona sililizwe elityebileyo emhlabeni, siza kwindawo enqabileyo yama-35- eboshwe neCosta Rica kwaye kanye ngasemva kweSlovenia, nangaphambi kweChile, iDenmark neCuba. Yonwabela iMac Mac yakho.
10. SIPHUTHAZA UKUTHUTHUZELA SONWABE
I-United States lilizwe elakhelwe ekuphakameni kokukhula koqoqosho kunye nobuchule bobuqu. Amashishini amancinci kunye nokukhula rhoqo kuyabhiyozelwa kwaye kuxhaswe ngaphezu kwayo yonke enye into - ngaphezulu kokhathalelo lwempilo olufikelelekayo, ngaphezulu kwemfundo ehloniphekileyo, ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into. Abantu baseMelika bakholelwa ukuba luxanduva lwakho ukuzikhathalela nokuzenzela into, hayi eyaseburhulumenteni, hayi eyoluntu lwakho, nokuba yeyomhlobo wakho okanye eyosapho lwakho kwezinye iimeko.
Intuthuzelo ithengisa ngokulula kunolonwabo. Ukuthuthuzela kulula. Akufuneki mzamo kwaye akukho msebenzi. Ukonwaba kufuna umgudu. Ifuna ukwenza okuthile , ukujongana noloyiko, ukujongana neemeko ezinzima, kunye nokuncokola okungathandekiyo.
Intuthuzelo ilingana nokuthengisa. Sithengiselwe intuthuzelo kwizizukulwana, kwaye nakwizizukulwana sathenga izindlu ezinkulu, sahlukana ngakumbi nangakumbi saya kwiindawo ezisemaphandleni, kunye neeTV ezinkulu, iimovie ezingakumbi, kunye nokukhupha. Uluntu lwaseMelika luya ngokuthula kwaye alonelisekanga. Sityebe kwaye sinelungelo. Xa sikhenketha, sijonga iihotele ezinkulu eziza kusikhusela zize zisenzele ubushushu kunamava asemthethweni enkcubeko anokuthi acele umngeni kumbono wethu okanye asincede sikhule njengabantu ngabanye.
Uxinzelelo kwaye ixhala Ukuphazamiseka kuyanda ngaphakathi e-US. Ukungakwazi kwethu ukujongana nayo nayiphi na into engathandekiyo ejikeleze thina akukhange kudale kuphela ilungelo lesizwe, kodwa kusinqamle kwinto eqhuba ulonwabo: ubudlelwane, amava awodwa, ukuziva uziqinisekisile, ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Kulula ukubukela uhlanga lwe-NASCAR kumabonwakude kunye ne-tweet malunga nalo kunokuba uphume uye kuzama into entsha nomhlobo.
Ngelishwa, imveliso ephuma kwimpumelelo yethu yorhwebo kukuba siyakwazi ukuyiphepha imizabalazo yeemvakalelo yobomi kwaye endaweni yoko sizonwabise ngokulula, ngokuzonwabisa.
Kuyo yonke imbali, yonke impucuko ebalaseleyo ekugqibeleni yawa ngenxa yokuba yaphumelela TOO. Yintoni eyenze ukuba ibe namandla kwaye yahluke ikhula ingalingani kwaye itshise uluntu lwayo. Ndicinga ukuba oku kuyinyani kuluntu lwaseMelika. Asonelisekanga, sinelungelo kwaye asempilweni. Isizukulwana sam sisizukulwana sokuqala samaMelika esiya kuba mandundu kunabazali babo, kwezoqoqosho, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Kwaye oku akubangelwa kukunqongophala kwezixhobo, kukungabikho kwemfundo okanye kukuswela ubuchule. Kukunganyaniseki nokungakhathali. Urhwaphilizo oluvela kwimizi mveliso emikhulu elawula imigaqo-nkqubo karhulumente wethu, kunye nokwoneliseka kwabantu ekutyebeni kwabantu ukuba bahlale phantsi bayeke yenzeke.
Kukho izinto endizithandayo malunga nelizwe lam. Andiyizondi i-US kwaye ndisabuyela kuyo amatyeli ambalwa ngonyaka. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba esona siphoso sikhulu kwinkcubeko yaseMelika kukuzibamba okungaboniyo. Kwixesha elidlulileyo kwakubuhlungu kwamanye amazwe. Kodwa ngoku kuyaqala ukuzenzakalisa.
Ke le yintetho yam kumzalwana wam olinxila- eyam incasa yokuziphakamisa kunye nokuzibamba, nokuba unolwazi oluncinci - ngethemba lokuba uyakuziyeka iindlela zakhe zokuphambuka. Ndicinga ukuba izawela ezindlebeni ezingevayo, kodwa yeyona nto ndinokuyenza okwangoku. Ngoku ukuba ungandixolela, ndinemifanekiso yekati ehlekisayo ekufuneka ndiyijongile.
Phawula: Iimpendulo zam ekugxekweni okuqhelekileyo ziyafumaneka Apha .
Qaphela kabini: Ukuba umncinci kwaye uhlala eMelika kwaye ufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni kufanele usebenze kwelinye ilizwe, yiya Apha .
UMark Manson ngumbhali, ibhlog kunye nosomashishini obhalayo markmanson.net .
