(Ifoto: Greg Rakozy / Unsplash) 1. Ayikaze ilunge njengokuba ucinga ukuba iyakuba njalo
Enye yeentshaba zolonwabo kukuziqhelanisa, Utshilo uGqirha Thomas Gilovich , Uprofesa wengqondo kwiYunivesithi yaseCornell oye wafunda ubudlelwane phakathi kwemali kunye nolonwabo ngaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amabini.
Sithenga izinto ukuze sonwabe, kwaye siyaphumelela. Kodwa okwethutyana. Izinto ezintsha ziyonwabisa kuthi ekuqaleni, kodwa emva koko siziqhelanise nazo, Uqhubeka uGilovich.
Ngokwenyani, ukugcina ulindelo okanye umbono weziphumo ezinqwenelekayo ukwanelisa ngakumbi kunesiphumo ngokwaso. Nje ukuba sikufumane oko sikufunayo- nokuba bubutyebi, impilo, okanye ubudlelwane obugqwesileyo- siyazilungelelanisa kwaye uchulumanco luyaphela. Rhoqo, amava esiwafunayo aphela esiba nzima kwaye ade adanise.
Ndiyakuthanda ukubukela le nto kubantwana bethu. Baziva ngathi bafuna into ethile yokudlala okanye indalo iphela iya kuqhuma. Ilizwe labo liphela lijikeleza ukufumana le nto inye. Ukanti, sakuba sibathengele le nto yokudlala, akukhawulezi luphele uvuyo kwaye bafuna enye into.
Kude ube uyakuxabisa oko unayo ngoku, okuninzi ngekhe kubenze ngcono ubomi bakho.
Mbini. Akusoze Kubi Njengoko Ucinga Ukuba Kuyakuba
Kanye njengokuba sizikhohlisa ngokukholelwa ukuba into iya kusenza sonwabe ngakumbi kunokuba injalo, sikhohlisa nokuzikhohlisa ngento eza kubakho Nzima kunokuba izakwenza njalo.
Okukhona uhlehlisa okanye uphepha ukwenza into, iba buhlungu ngakumbi (entlokweni yakho). Nangona kunjalo, nje ukuba uthathe inyathelo, ukungakhululeki kuyinto encinci kakhulu kunokuba ubucinga. Nakwizinto ezinzima kakhulu, abantu bayaziqhelanisa.
Kutshanje bendihleli kwinqwelomoya nenenekazi elinabantwana abali-17. Ewe uyifunde ngokuchanekileyo. Emva kokuba nesibhozo sakhe, yena nomyeni wakhe baziva bephefumlelwe ukuba babakhulise abantakwabo abane abathi babamkela kamva. Kwiminyaka embalwa kamva, bathatha abanye abantwana bakowabo abahlanu ababamkeleyo.
Ewe, ukothuka kokuqala kwenkqubo kwayichaphazela yonke intsapho. Kodwa bayayiphatha. Kwaye uyakholelwa okanye hayi, ungaphatha nayo… ukuba kunyanzelekile.
Ingxaki yokoyika kunye noloyiko kukuba ibamba abantu ekuthatheni imiceli mngeni emikhulu. Into oza kuyifumana-nokuba umkhulu kangakanani okanye mncinci kangakanani umceli mngeni- kukuba uya kukwazi ukuziqhelanisa nayo.
Xa uyaziqhelanisa noxinzelelo olukhulu, uguquka.
3. Akukho Nandlela Yokufumana Ulonwabo
Akukho ndlela yokonwaba-ulonwabo luyindlela. - Thich Nhat Hanh
Uninzi lwabantu lukholelwa ukuba kufuneka:
· Ekuqaleni unayo into (umzekelo, imali, ixesha, okanye uthando)
· Phambi kokuba banako yenza into abafuna ukuyenza (umzekelo, ukuhamba-hamba kwihlabathi, ukubhala incwadi, ukuqala ishishini, okanye ukuthandana)
· Eza kuthi ekugqibeleni ziwavumele ukuba kuba into (umzekelo, ukonwaba, uxolo, umxholo, ukukhuthazeka, okanye uthando).
Ngokudabukisayo, oku kufuneka ube-yenza iparadigm kufuneka ibuyiselwe kulonwabo, impumelelo, okanye enye into oyinqwenelayo.
Kuqala wena kuba nantoni na ofuna ukuba yiyo (umzekelo, ukonwaba, imfesane, uxolo, ubulumko, okanye uthando)
· Emva koko uqale ukwenza izinto ezivela kule ndawo yokuba.
Phantse ngoko nangoko, le nto uyenzayo iza kuzisa izinto ofuna ukuzenza unayo.
Sitsala kubomi bethu yintoni singo.
Umzekelo, UScott Adams Umdali woluhlu lwee-comic oludumileyo uDilbert, uchaza impumelelo yakhe ekusebenziseni iziqinisekiso ezilungileyo. Amaxesha ali-15 mihla le, wabhala isivakalisi ephepheni, Mna Scott Adams, ndiza kuba ngumdwebi wekhathuni.
Inkqubo yokubhala la maxesha ali-15 ngosuku wangcwaba olu luvo nzulu kwingqondo yakhe-ebeka ingqondo ka-Adams ekuzingeleni ubuncwane ngento ayifunayo. Okukhona ebhala, kokukhona ebenokubona amathuba ngaphambi kokungabonakali kuye. Kungekudala emva koko, wayengumdwebi wekhathuni odumileyo. Kwakungenakwenzeka.
Ndisebenzisa umgaqo ofanayo kodwa ndibhala injongo yam ngexesha langoku. Umzekelo, kunokuba uthi, Ndiza kuba ngumdwebi wekhathuni, Ndiyabhala, Ndingumdwebi wekhathuni odibeneyo. Ukuyibhala kwixesha langoku kubalaselisa ukuba unguye ukuba ufuna ukuba ngubani, oya kuthi emva koko azise into oyenzayo kwaye ekugqibeleni ube ngubani.
Zine. Unele ngokwaneleyo
Kudliwanondlebe noMnyhadala wonyaka we-Genius Network ngo-2013, uTim Ferriss wabuzwa, ngazo zonke iindima zakho ezahlukeneyo, ngaba ukhe ube noxinzelelo? Ngaba ukhe uzive ngathi uthathe kakhulu?
UFerriss uphendule, Ewe ndiyaba noxinzelelo. Ukuba nabani na uthi abaxinezeleki uyaxoka. Kodwa inye into edambisa oko kuthatha ixesha ntsasa nganye ukubhengeza kwaye kugxile kwinto yokuba 'ndinokwaneleyo.' Ndinokwaneleyo. Akudingeki ukuba ndikhathazeke ngokuphendula kuyo yonke i-imeyile yonke imihla. Ukuba bayaphambana yingxaki yabo leyo.
UFerriss wabuzwa kamva ngexesha lodliwanondlebe olufanayo, Emva kokufunda Inkqubo ye- Iiyure ezi-4 zeVeki yokuSebenza , Ndafumana umbono wokuba uTim Ferriss akakhathali ngemali. Uthethile ngendlela ohamba ngayo emhlabeni ngaphandle kokuchitha nayiphi na imali. Thetha malunga nokulingana kunye nokukwazi ukuyeka ukukhathalela malunga nokwenza imali.
UFerriss uphendule wathi, Kulungile ukuba nezinto ezininzi ezintle. Ukuba likhoboka lobutyebi, njenge Iklabhu yokulwa, Izinto onazo ziphela zezakho, kwaye iba yinto yokumela izinto ezinjengempilo yexesha elide kunye nolonwabo-unxibelelwano- emva koko iba sisifo. Kodwa ukuba unokuba nezinto ezintle, kwaye ungoyiki ukuba zithathiwe, yinto entle leyo. Kuba imali sisixhobo esibaluleke ngokwenene.
Ukuba uyakuxabisa oko sele unakho, kunokuba ngaphezulu kuya kuba yinto elungileyo ebomini bakho. Ukuba uziva i imfuno Ukufumana okungaphezulu ukubuyekeza into elahlekileyo ebomini bakho, uya kuhlala ushiyeka ufuna-nokuba ungafumana kangakanani okanye uzuze ntoni.
5. Unayo yonke i-Advantage ukuze Uphumelele
Kulula ukuthetha ngendlela obunzima ngayo ubomi bethu. Kulula ukuthetha malunga nendlela ubomi obungalunganga ngayo. Kwaye sifumene isiphelo esifutshane senduku.
Kodwa ngaba olu hlobo lokuthetha lunceda mntu?
Xa sigweba imeko yethu njengembi kunaleyo yomnye umntu, ngokungazi nangokungachanekanga sithi, Uyifumene lula. Awufani nam. Impumelelo kufuneka ize lula kuwe kuba khange ujongane nezinto endidlule kuzo.
Le paradigm yaziwa ngokusemthethweni njenge Ingqondo yexhoba, kwaye ikhokelela kwiimvakalelo zokuziva unelungelo.
Ihlabathi alinatyala kuwe. Ubomi abufanelanga ukuba bulunge. Nangona kunjalo, ilizwe likunikile yonke into oyifunayo. Inyaniso kukuba, unayo yonke into Uncedo ehlabathini ukuze uphumelele. Kwaye ngokukukholelwa oku emathanjeni akho, uyakuva umthwalo omkhulu woxanduva kuwe nakwihlabathi.
Ubekwe ngokugqibeleleyo isikhundla ukuphumelela. Yonke into kwindalo iphela ikulethe kweli nqanaba ukuze ngoku ukhanye kwaye utshintshe umhlaba. Ihlabathi liyimbatyisi yakho. Imeko yakho yendalo iya kukhula kakuhle. Into ekufuneka uyenzile kukubonisa.
6. Yonke Imiba Yobomi Bakho Ichaphazela Yonke Imiba Yobomi Bakho
Abantu baphelele - xa utshintsha indawo yayo nayiphi na inkqubo ungatshintsha yonke ngaxeshanye. Wena ngekhe tshintsha indawo ngaphandle kokutshintsha yonke into ngokusisiseko.
Yonke ingqalutye yokucinga-nokuba ingabalulekanga kangakanani-idala iziphumo ezingapheliyo. Le ngcamango, iqulunqwe ifuthe lebhabhathane NguEdward Lorenz uvela kumzekelo wokuzekelisa wenkanyamba ephenjelelwa ziimpawu ezincinci- njengokubhabha kwamaphiko ebhabhathane elikude- kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo.Izinto ezincinci ziba zizinto ezinkulu.
Xa indawo enye yobomi bakho ingahambelani, yonke indawo yobomi bakho iyasokola. Awunakho ukwahlulahlula inkqubo yokusebenza. Nangona kulula ukutyhala iindawo ezithile - njengempilo yakho kunye nobudlelwane - kwicala, ungosulela bonke ubomi bakho ngokungazi.Ekugqibeleni kwaye uhlala uhlala, izinto ozibambezelayo okanye oziphephayo ziya kubangela ingozi yakho.
Kwelinye icala, xa uphucula indawo enye yobomi bakho, zonke ezinye iindawo zichaphazeleka ngokuqinisekileyo. Njengoko uJames Allen wabhala Njengoko umntu ecinga, Xa umntu ezenza nyulu iingcinga zakhe, akasakunqweneli kutya kungahlambulukanga.
Siziinkqubo ezipheleleyo.
Ubuntu xa bebonke buyindlela efanayo. Yonke into oyenzayo ifuthe kwihlabathi liphela, ingcono okanye imbi. Ke ndiyakumema ukuba ubuze:
Ngaba ndiyinxalenye yonyango? Okanye ngaba ndiyinxalenye yesi sifo? - Udlalo olubandayo
7. Ukhuphiswano Lutshaba
Zonke iinkampani ezingaphumelelanga ziyafana: zisilele ekubalekeni ukhuphiswano. - UPeter Thiel
Ukhuphiswano luxabisa kakhulu ukufikelela kwimveliso ephezulu kunye nokudala ubutyebi. Iba lidabi lokuba ngubani ongaphuma enze enye ngexabiso eliphantsi kwaye ngexabiso eliphantsi. Lugqatso olusezantsi kuwo onke amaqela abandakanyekayo.
Endaweni yokuzama ukukhuphisana nabanye abantu okanye amashishini, kungcono wenze into enoveli epheleleyo okanye ugxile kwi-niche echazwe ngokuqinileyo. Nje ukuba uzinze njengegunya kwinto ethile, unokuzibekela eyakho imiqathango - endaweni yokuphendula kukhuphiswano. Ke, ufuna ukujonga indawo apho wenza khona ixabiso.
Ukukhuphisana nabanye kukhokelela abantu ukuba bachithe yonke imihla yobomi babo besukela iinjongo ezingezizo ezabo ngokwenyani- kodwa into eyabonwa luluntu ibalulekile. Unokuchitha bonke ubomi bakho uzama ukuqhubeka, kodwa uya kuba nobomi obunzulu. Okanye, unokuchaza impumelelo yakho ngokusekwe kumaxabiso akho kwaye uzikhulule kwingxolo.
8. Awunakho Konke
Isigqibo ngasinye sineendleko zamathuba. Xa ukhetha into ibenye, kwangaxeshanye awukhethi ezinye ezininzi. Xa umntu esithi unakho konke, uyaxoka. Phantse ngokuqinisekileyo abayenzi le nto bayishumayelayo kwaye bazama ukukuthengisa ngento ethile.
Inyaniso kukuba, awunayo ndifuna konke. Kwaye nokuba uyenzile, inyani ayisebenzi nje kwaphela. Umzekelo, ndiye ndayiqonda into yokuba ndifuna ukuba usapho lwam lube liziko lobomi bam. Ukuchitha ixesha kunye nenkosikazi yam kunye nabantwana abathathu abakhulisa abantwana ngabona baphambili kum. Ngenxa yoko, andinakukwazi ukuchitha iiyure ezili-12 okanye ezili-15 ngosuku ndisebenza njengabanye abantu. Kwaye kulungile. Ndenze ukhetho lwam.
Kwaye yiloo nto. Sonke kufuneka sikhethe ezona zinto zibalulekileyo kuthi, kwaye siziphathe.Ukuba sizama ukuba yinto yonke, siyakuphela singabikho. Impixano yangaphakathi sisihogo.
Nangona umbono wemveli wokuyila kukuba awumiswanga kwaye awulandeli mithetho, ukuyila kuhlala kwenzeka ngokucinga ngaphakathi ibhokisi yemizekeliso , hayi ngaphandle kwayo. Abantu bayayiguqula imisipha yabo yokuyila xa benyanzelisa ukhetho lwabo kunokuba bandise. Yiyo loo nto, okucaciswe ngakumbi kunye nokuthintela iinjongo zobomi bakho ngcono, kuba ikuvumela ukuba ususe yonke into ngaphandle kwezo njongo.
9. Ungaze ulibale apho uvela khona
Kulula xa ufezekisa naliphi na inqanaba lempumelelo ukukholelwa ukuba luxanduva lwakho kuphela kuloo mpumelelo. Kulula ukulibala apho uvela khona.
Kulula ukulibala konke ukuzincama okwenziwe ngabanye abantu ukukufikelela apho ukhoyo.
Kulula ukuzibona ungaphezulu kwabanye abantu.
Tshisa zonke iibhulorho zakho kwaye awuzukufumana unxibelelwano lomntu oluseleyo. Kuloo mqolomba wangaphakathi wokuzahlula, uya kuphulukana nengqondo kunye nesazisi, ube ngumntu ongazange uzimisele ukuba nguye.
Ukuthobeka, umbulelo kunye nokuqonda iintsikelelo zakho kugcina impumelelo yakho kwindawo efanelekileyo. Awunakho ukwenza into onayo ngaphandle koncedo lwabanye abantu abaninzi. Unethamsanqa elikhulu lokuba ube nakho ukufaka isandla ngendlela onayo.
10. Ukuba Ufuna Imvume Yokwenza Into, Mhlawumbi Akufanele Uyenze
Utatazala wam utyalo mali oluyimpumelelo. Kuwo wonke umsebenzi wakhe, unamakhulu abantu abambuza ukuba bafanele ukungena kwizindlu nomhlaba. Uxelela elowo kubo into efanayo: ukuba abafanele bayenze. Ngapha koko, uzama ukuthetha uninzi lwazo ngaphandle kwayo. Kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi uyaphumelela.
Kutheni enokuyenza loo nto?
Abo bazakuphumelela baya kwenza njalo nokuba ndithini, utata-mkhwe wam wandixelela.
Ndiyazi abantu abaninzi abasukela nantoni na eyenzele abanye abantu. Abazange bathathe isigqibo sokwenyani bona ufuna ukwenza, kwaye ugqibe ukutsiba ukusuka kwelinye ukuya kwelinye - ukuzama ukubetha igolide ekhawulezileyo. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo bayayeka ukumba iigolide ezimbalwa emva kokurhoxa kuloo ndawo.
Akukho mntu uya kukunika imvume yokuphila amaphupha akho. Njengoko uRyan Holiday esitsho Umqobo yiNdlela , Yeka ukukhangela iingelosi, kwaye uqalise ukukhangela ii-angles. Endaweni yokuba nethemba lokuba into yangaphandle izakutshintsha iimeko zakho, ziphinde zizihlaziye ngokwengqondo kunye neemeko zakho.
Xa utshintsha indlela ozibona ngayo izinto, izinto ozibona ziguquka. -UWayne Dyer
Kwanele.
Unokwenza nantoni na ogqiba ukuyenza.
Thatha isigqibo kwaye ulibale ukuba wonke umntu uthini okanye ucinga ntoni ngaso.
Shumi elinanye. Ufumana imali eninzi njengawe Ufuna Ukuya
Uninzi lwabantu luthi lufuna ukuphumelela. Kodwa ukuba bebefuna nyhani, baya kuphumelela.
Bendihlala ndixelela abantu, ndinqwenela ukuba ndidlale ipiyano. Emva koko omnye umntu wathi, Hayi awunayo. Ukuba wenze njalo, ubuya kwenza ixesha lokuziqhelanisa. Oko ndiyekile ukuthetha lonto, kuba ebenyanisile.
Ubomi ngumba ophambili kunye nesigqibo. Kwaye xa isiza nemali- kuqoqosho lwentengiso yasimahla- unokwenza imali eninzi njengoko ukhetha. Umbuzo ngulo, ufuna ukwenza malini ngenene?
Endaweni yokuzivavanya kwimithombo yeendaba zosuku emva komhla, unyaka-emva konyaka, unokuchitha iyure okanye ezimbini suku ngalunye usakha into enexabiso- njengawe.
Encwadini, Cinga kwaye ukhule, INapoleon Hill imema abafundi ukuba babhale ephepheni isixa semali abafuna ukusenza, kwaye babeke umgca-xesha kuso. Esi senzo sinye siza kukucela umngeni ekucingeni nasekusebenzeni ngeendlela ezintsha zokwenza ikamva lokufuna kwakho.
Umzekelo, ngaphandle kokukhula elihlwempu kangangokuba ixesha elithile usapho lwakhe luhlala evenini yabo iVolkswagen engceni yesalamane, UJim Carrey wayekholelwa kwikamva lakhe. Qho ebusuku ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yoo-1980, uCarrey wayeqhuba phezu kwenduli enkulu ejonge ezantsi eLos Angeles kwaye abone abalawuli bexabisa umsebenzi wakhe. Ngelo xesha, wayeqhekekile kwaye esokola ukuhlekisa.
Ngobunye ubusuku ngo-1990, ngelixa ejonge ezantsi eLos Angeles kwaye ephupha ngekamva lakhe, uCarrey wazibhalela itsheki ye- $ 10 yezigidi kwaye wabeka umgca wokubhalwa kweenkonzo ezenziweyo. Uthethe umhla wokutsala uMbulelo ka-1995 kwaye wawugcina kwisipaji sakhe. Wazinika iminyaka emihlanu. Kwaye ngaphambi koMbulelo ka-1995, wahlawulwa i-10 yezigidi zeedola Sisimumu noDoti.
12. Umbono wakho wokuba ngubani ofuna ukuba yeyona nto yakho ixabisekileyo
Yenza owona mbono uphakamileyo, nobalaseleyo ebomini bakho, kuba uyile nto uyikholelwayo. -U-Oprah Winfrey
Nokuba uphi ngoku, unokuba nalo naliphi na ikamva olifunayo. Kodwa inye into eqinisekileyo, into oyityalayo kufuneka isivuno. Ke, nceda utyale ngenjongo. Ukudalwa kwengqondo kuhlala kwandulela indalo ebonakalayo. Uyilo oyilo entlokweni yakho iba bubomi obakhayo.
Sukuvumela uluntu lukuxelele indlela ekufuneka ijongeke ngayo indlu yakho. Ungumculi kunye nomdali. Ubomi bakho bunokuba ngokuchanekileyo ubufuna njani, nokuba buthathelwa ingqalelo njengendlu enkulu ngabanye. Ikhaya apho intliziyo yakho ikhona.
13. Ngubani onguwe oMisela into onokuba nayo
Kukho i umzekeliso yomzali osisityebi owayethandabuza ukunika umntwana wakhe osisilumko ilifa, esazi ukuba ngokungathandabuzekiyo liya kuchithwa. Umzali uthe emntwaneni:
Konke endinqwenela ukukunika- kungekuphela ubutyebi bam, kodwa nesikhundla sam nokuma kwam phakathi kwabantu. Oko ndi unayo Ndingakunika ngokulula, kodwa le ndiyenzayo ndim kuya kufuneka uzifumanele. Uyakulifanela ilifa lakho ngokufunda oko ndikufundileyo kwaye uphile ngendlela endiphila ngayo. Ndiza kukunika imithetho kunye nemigaqo endibufumene ngayo ubulumko bam nokukhula kwam. Landelani umzekelo wam, niqonde kakuhle njengam, kwaye niya kuba njengam, kwaye zonke izinto zam ziya kuba zezenu.
Ukuhamba ngeendlela akonelanga. Akukho luhlu lokutshekisha lwezinto ekufuneka uzenzile yenza ukuba uphumelele. Kuya kufuneka utshintshe ngokusisiseko ukuba ungubani ukuze uphile kwinqanaba eliphezulu. Kufuneka uyeke ukwenza ukuya ukuba - ukuze into oyenzayo ibonakalise ukuba ungubani, kwaye ungubani. Nje ukuba ulufumane olu tshintsho, impumelelo iya kuba yeyendalo.
Emva kokuba ube ngusozigidi, unganika yonke imali yakho kuba into ebalulekileyo ayizizigidi zeedola; okubalulekileyo ngumntu oye waba kwinkqubo yokuba ngusozigidi. -UJim Rohn
14. Ukufumana imali kukuziphatha kakuhle
Kungcono okanye kubi, abantu baphelele. Nokuba umzimba womntu usebenza ngcono xa amacala awo okomoya nawokwenyama elungelelanisiwe… Imizimba yabantu iqhuba kakuhle xa iingqondo zabo zikwinkqubo leyo… Ukunceda ingqondo yakho ikholelwe into oyenzayo ilungile, inesidima, kwaye iluncedo ngokwayo iyanceda ekuvuseleleni amandla kunye nokuqhubela phambili iinzame zakho. -Rabi uDaniel Lapin
Ndiyazi abantu abaninzi abakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukwenza imali kukuziphatha kakubi, kwaye abantu abanemali babi. Bayakholelwa kwabo bafuna inzuzo amandla abo babuthathaka kunabo ukuthenga iimveliso zabo.
Imali ayonto imbi, kodwa ayithathi cala. Ngumqondiso obonakalayo ixabiso.
Ukuba ndithengisa izihlangu ngeedola ezingama-20 kwaye umntu othile uthatha isigqibo sokuzithenga, bayaqonda ukuba izihlangu kufanelekile Kaninzi kuno $ 20, okanye abanakuthenga. Andibanyanzeli ukuba bathenge izihlangu zam. Kukhetho lwabo. Ke, ixabiso lotshintshiselwano luphumelele-ngokuphumelela kwaye lusekwe kumbono. Ixabiso liphantsi! Ukuba unike kwa loo mntu $ 20 izihlangu abasandula ukuzithenga, ngekhe bazithengise. Bababona bexabisekile Kaninzi ngaphezulu kweedola ezingama-20. Kodwa uza kuthini xa unikezela ngeedola ezingama-30? Basenokungazithengisi.
Akukho xabiso lichanekileyo leempahla kunye neenkonzo. Ixabiso elichanekileyo lixabiso elibonakalayo elivela kumthengi. Ukuba ixabiso liphezulu kakhulu, umthengi akanakutshintsha imali yakhe.
Sinethamsanqa elikhulu ukuhlala kuluntu olunenkqubo yemali. Isivumela ukuba siboleke, siboleke, kwaye sisebenzise. Ukukwazi kwethu ukulinganisa umsebenzi wethu kuya kuncitshiswa kakhulu kwinkqubo yokurhweba kunye neyorhwebo.
Ukufumana imali kukuziphatha okugqibeleleyo xa kusenziwa ngokunyaniseka nangengqibelelo. Ngapha koko, ukuba awuziva uziphethe kakuhle ngomsebenzi owenzayo, kuya kufuneka utshintshe umsebenzi wakho.
Xa ukholelwa kwixabiso olibonelela kakhulu kangangokuba wenza abantu a ukungasebenzi ngokungabaniki iinkonzo zakho, usendleleni yokudala ixabiso elikhulu. Umsebenzi wethu kufuneka ubonakalise kuthi. Kuhlala kunjalo yabo Ukhetho lokuba bayalibona na ixabiso kule nto siyinikelayo okanye hayi.
Shumi elinantlanu. Phantse yonke into yoBomi kukuphazamiseka
Awunakugqithisa ukungabalulekanga kwayo yonke into. -Greg McKeown
Phantse yonke into kukuphazamiseka kwizinto ezibaluleke ngokwenene. Ngokwenyani awukwazi ukubeka ixabiso lentengo kwizinto ezithile. Zingaphaya kwexabiso elithile kuwe. Ungancama yonke into, kwanobomi bakho, ngenxa yezo zinto.
Ubudlelwane bakho kunye neenqobo zakho azinalo ixabiso lentengo. Kwaye awusoze watshintsha into ngexabiso.
Ukugcina izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo kukuvumela ukuba ususe yonke into engabalulekanga ebomini bakho. Ikuvumela ukuba uphile ngokulula kwaye ujolise kwi-laser, kwaye uphephe iindlela zokugqibela ezingaholi ndawo.
16. Ujoliso lwanamhlanje IQ.
Siphila kwelona xesha liphazamisekileyo kwimbali yoluntu. I-intanethi likrele elintlangothi-mbini. Njengemali, i-intanethi ayithathi cala- kwaye inokusetyenziselwa okuhle okanye okubi ngokusekwe kulowo uyisebenzisayo.
Okulusizi kukuba uninzi lwethu alunatyala ngokwaneleyo kwi-intanethi. Sichitha iiyure yonke imihla sijonga nje ngaphandle kwesikrini. I-Millennials ithambekele ekuphazanyisweni kwi-intanethi, kodwa kule mihla, wonke umntu usengozini.
Ukuqwalaselwa kwethu kuye kwancipha phantse kwanto. Ukuzimisela kwethu kuye kwathamba. Siye savelisa imikhwa emibi kakhulu edla ngokufuna ungenelelo olugqithisileyo ukubuyela umva.
Kukho umzimba okhulayo ubungqina benzululwazi ukucebisa ukuba i-intanethi-kunye nokuphazamiseka kwayo rhoqo kunye nokuphazamiseka- kusiguqula sibe ziingcinga ezigqagqeneyo nezingenamsebenzi. Omnye wemiceli mngeni emikhulu kukuphazamiseka rhoqo kukuba kukhokelela ekucingeni okungekho nzulu kunokucinga nzulu, kwaye ukucinga okungekho nzulu kukhokelela kukuphila ngokungekho nzulu. Isithandi sobulumko esingumRoma uSeneca usenokuba wakubeka kakuhle kwiminyaka engama-2 000 eyadlulayo: Ukuba kuyo yonke indawo akukho ndawo.
Kwincwadi yakhe, Umsebenzi onzulu: Imithetho yeMpumelelo ejolise kwiLizwe eliPhazamisekileyo , ICal Newport yahlulahlula umsebenzi onzulu, kunye nomsebenzi ongekho nzulu. Umsebenzi onzulu usebenzisa izakhono zakho ukwenza into enexabiso. Kuthatha ukucinga, amandla, ixesha kunye noxinzelelo. Umsebenzi omncinci yonke into encinci yolawulo kunye nezinto zokusebenza: i-imeyile, iintlanganiso, iifowuni, iingxelo zeendleko, njl. Abantu abaninzi abahambeli kwiinjongo zabo kuba babeka phambili umsebenzi ongezantsi.
Ukukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi onzulu kuya kusiba yinto enqabileyo kwangaxeshanye kuya kusiba kubaluleka kuqoqosho lwethu. Ngenxa yoko, bambalwa abahlakulela obu buchule, emva koko babenze isiseko sobomi babo bokusebenza, baya kuphumelela. -Cal Newport
17. Ukuba iinjongo zakho zisengqiqweni, sukulindela ithamsanqa (okanye ezinye)
Kuya kufuneka ujonge ngaphaya koko unako. Kuya kufuneka uhlakulele ukungakhathalelwa okupheleleyo apho amandla akho aphelela khona. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awukwazi ukusebenzela eyona nkampani ilungileyo, yenze loo njongo yakho. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awukwazi ukuba kwiphepha elingaphandle lemagazini iTime, yenze ishishini lakho ukuba ubekhona. Yenza umbono wakho apho ufuna ukuba yinyani. Akukho nto engenokwenzeka. - Paul Arden
Uninzi lweenjongo zabantu zisengqiqweni ngokupheleleyo. Abafuni ukucinga okuninzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo abayifuni ukholo, ithamsanqa, umlingo, okanye imimangaliso.
Ngokomntu, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ibuhlungu indlela abantu abaninzi abathandabuzayo nabezenkolo ngayo. Ndonwaba kakhulu ngokuba nokholo kwizinto zokomoya. Inika umxholo wobomi kunye nentsingiselo yokukhula komntu. Ukuba nokholo kundivumela ukuba ndilandele le nto abanye banokuyibiza ngokuba ayinangqondo, njengokuhamba phezu kwamanzi nokudlula ekufeni. Ewe, kuThixo zonke izinto zinokwenzeka. Akukho nto yoyikayo.
18. Musa ukufuna indumiso. Funa ukugxekwa.
Njengenkcubeko, siye sabuthathaka kangangokuba kufuneka sidibanise ingxelo ethembekileyo nezincomo ezingama-20. Kwaye xa sifumana ingxelo, senza konke okusemandleni ethu ukuyiphikisa. Iingcali zengqondo zikubiza oku Ukukhetha isiqinisekiso - utyekelo lokukhangela, ukutolika, ukuthanda, kunye nokukhumbula ulwazi oluqinisekisa iinkolelo zethu, ngelixa sinika ingqalelo encinci kakhulu kwezinye izinto ezinokwenzeka.
Kulula ukufumana indumiso xa ubuza usapho kunye nabahlobo abaya kukuxelela kanye le nto ufuna ukuyiva. Endaweni yokufuna ukunconywa, umsebenzi wakho uya kuphucula ukuba ufuna ukugxekwa.
Inokuba ngcono njani le nto?
Uya kwazi ukuba umsebenzi wakho ufanelekile xa umntu ekhathalela ngokwaneleyo ukuba anike ukugxeka okungacelwanga. Ukuba kukho into ephawuleka, kuya kubakho abazondayo. NjengoRobin Sharma, umbhali we Umonki Othengise iFerrari yakhe, uthe, iintiyo ziqinisekisa ubukhulu. Xa uqala ukubonakala, abo bakuthiyileyo baya koyikiswa nguwe. Endaweni yokuba ngumfanekiso wento abayenzayo ungenza, Uba ngumfanekiso wento abangayenziyo.
19. Ihlabathi linika abaNiki kwaye lithatha kwabaThengi
Ukusuka kwimbono yokunqongophala, ukunceda abanye abantu kukukhathaza ngenxa yokuba ungasenayo inzuzo. Le mbono ibona umhlaba njengephayi enkulu. Sonke isiqwenga sepayi onayo yipayi andinayo. Ke ukuze uphumelele, kufuneka ndilahle.
Ukusuka kumbono wobuninzi, ayikho ipayi enye, kodwa linani elingenasiphelo leepayi. Ukuba ufuna ngaphezulu, wena yenza Kaninzi. Ke, ukunceda abanye kunceda wena kuba kwenza inkqubo ibengcono ngakumbi. Ikwakha ubudlelwane kunye nokuzithemba nokuzithemba.
Ndinomhlobo, uNate, owenza izinto ezintsha ngokwenene kwinkampani yokutyala izindlu nomhlaba ayisebenzelayo. Usebenzisa amacebo ekungekho mntu wumbi awasebenzisayo. Kwaye uye ukuyibulala. Undixelele ukuba ucinga ngokugcina iindlela zakhe ziyimfihlo. Kungenxa yokuba ukuba abanye abantu bebazi ngabo, baya kuzisebenzisa kwaye oko kuya kuthetha ukuba izikhokelo ezincinci kuye.
Kodwa emva koko wenza okwahlukileyo. Uxelele wonke umntu kwinkampani yakhe ngale nto ayenzayo. Uye wanika iitoni zezikhokelo zakhe kude! Oku akuzange kubonwe ngaphambili kwinkampani yakhe.
Kodwa uNate uyazi ukuba xa esi sicwangciso singasasebenzi, anokuza nesinye. Kwaye yile nto ubunkokeli kunye nezinto ezintsha ezimalunga nayo. Kwaye abantu baye bamthemba. Enyanisweni, baye bathembela kuye ekuphuhliseni izicwangciso ezilungileyo.
UNate wenza iipayi - yena nabanye abantu. Ewe, yeyona nto ithengiswa kakhulu kunye nengeniso ephezulu kwinkampani yakhe. Kungenxa yokuba unika kakhulu kwaye akaziphikisi izimvo zakhe, izixhobo, okanye ulwazi.
Amashumi amabini. Yenza Into Onqwenela Ukuba Sele Ikho
Oosomashishini abaninzi bayila iimveliso ukuze bazikrwembe. Ngokwenyani, yindlela yokusombulula iingxaki ezininzi. Uhlangabezana nobunzima kwaye wenze isisombululo.
Iimvumi kunye namagcisa baya emsebenzini wabo ngendlela efanayo. Benza umculo abafuna ukumamela kuwo, bazobe ipeyinti abafuna ukuyibona, kwaye babhale iincwadi abanqwenela ukuba zibhalwe. Yile ndlela ndiwujonga ngayo umsebenzi wam. Ndibhala amanqaku endifuna ukuwafunda.
Umsebenzi wakho kufuneka kuqala kwaye uzivelele ngokwakho. Ukuba awuyonwabeli imveliso yomsebenzi wakho, ungalindela ukuba abanye abantu benze ntoni?
amashumi amabini ananye. Sukujonga ithuba elilandelayo
Umthengi ogqibeleleyo, ithuba eligqibeleleyo, kunye neemeko ezigqibeleleyo ngekhe zenzeke. Endaweni yokunqwenela ukuba izinto zahluke, kutheni ungahlakuli okulungileyo phambi kwakho?
Endaweni yokulinda ithuba elilandelayo, elo lisezandleni zakho lithuba. Yatsho enye indlela, ingca iluhlaza ngakumbi apho uyinkcenkceshela khona.
Ndibona abantu abaninzi beshiya imitshato kuba bekholelwa ekubeni ubudlelwane obungcono buphaya. Kwiimeko ezininzi, aba bantu baqala ubudlelwane obutsha kwaye babaphelise ngendlela efanayo nolwalamano lwangaphambili olwaphela ngalo. Ingxaki ayizizo iimeko zakho. Ingxaki nguwe. Awuyifumani iqabane lakho lomphefumlo, udala iqabane lakho lomphefumlo ngokusebenza nzima.
Njengoko uJim Rohn watsho, Sukunqwenela ukuba kube lula ukuba ungangcono. Sukunqwenela ukuba iingxaki ezimbalwa zinqwenele ngakumbi izakhono. Musa ukunqwenela umngeni omncinci unqwenelele ubulumko obungakumbi
22. Musa ukulinda ukuqala
Ukuba awuzikroli ngenjongo suku ngalunye ukwenza inkqubela phambili kunye nokuphucula - ngaphandle kombuzo, ixesha lakho liya kulahleka kwisithuba sobomi bethu obugcweleyo. Ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, uya kuba mdala kwaye ubune - uzibuza ukuba lonke elo xesha liyephi.
Njengoko uHarold Hill esitsho - Ufumba ngokwaneleyo ngomso, kwaye uyakufumanisa ukuba awusenanto ngaphandle kwezolo elingenanto.
Ndilinde iminyaka embalwa kakhulu ukuba ndiqalise ukubhala. Ndandilinde ixesha elifanelekileyo xa ndiza kuba nexesha elaneleyo, imali, nayo nayiphi na enye into endicinga ukuba ndiyayifuna. Ndandilinde de ndifaneleke ngandlela ithile okanye ndinemvume yokwenza into endifuna ukuyenza.
Kodwa awusoze walungela kwangaphambili. Akukho nqanaba lokuphila ngamaphupha akho. Uyakufanelekela ngokubonisa kwaye usebenze. Ufumana imvume ngokuthatha isigqibo.
Ubomi bufutshane.
Musa ukulinda ingomso ngento onokuyenza namhlanje. Ikamva lakho liya kuba enkosi okanye likukhusele ngokulihlazo.
2. 3. Musa ukupapasha kwangethuba
Kwiminyaka engama-22, uTony Hsieh (ngoku ongu-CEO weZappos.com), waphumelela eHarvard. Xa uTony wayeneminyaka engama-23 ubudala, kwiinyanga ezintandathu emva kokuqala iLinkexchange, wathenjiswa ngesigidi esinye seedola kwinkampani. Oku kwakumangalisa kuTony kuba kungaphantsi konyaka ngaphambili, wayezimisele ukufumana umsebenzi e-Oracle esenza i-40K ngonyaka.
Emva kokucinga okuninzi kunye nokuxoxa neqabane lakhe, wasikhaba eso sipho ekholelwa ukuba angaqhubeka nokwakha iLinkexchange ibe yinto enkulu. Uthando lwakhe lokwenene luyakha kwaye ludala. Inkqubo yokwenyani iyahlawulwa, kodwa ayisebenzi ngemali. Ipro pro yenyani isebenzela uthando.
Kwiinyanga ezintlanu kamva, uHsieh wathenjiswa ngezigidi ezingama-20 zeedola kuJerry Yang, owayengumsunguli weYahoo!. Oku kwamvusa uTony. Ingcinga yakhe yokuqala yayi, Ndiyavuya ukuba ndingathengisanga kwiinyanga ezintlanu ezidlulileyo! Nangona kunjalo, wazibamba epholile kwaye wacela iintsuku ezimbalwa ukuba asiqwalasele isicelo sakhe. Uya kuzenza ezi zigqibo ngokwemiqathango yakhe.
Wacinga ngazo zonke izinto anokuzenza ukuba unayo yonke loo mali, esazi ukuba akasoze aphinde asebenze ngenye imini ebomini bakhe. Emva kokubonakalisa, wayenokwenza uluhlu oluncinci lwezinto awayezifuna:
I-condo
· Umabonwakude kunye neqonga lasekhaya elakhelweyo
· Ukubanakho ukuhamba ngeempelaveki ezinde ngeempelaveki nanini na xa efuna
Ikhompyuter entsha
Ukuqala enye inkampani kuba iyayithanda imbono yokwakha nokukhulisa into.
Yayiyiyo leyo.
Umnqweno wakhe kunye nenkuthazo yayingekho ekubeni nezinto. Uqukumbele ngelithi sele enakho ukuthenga umabonwakude, ikhompyuter entsha, kwaye angaya rhoqo ngeempelaveki ezinde ngeempelaveki xa efuna. Wayeneminyaka engama-23 kuphela ubudala, ngoko ke wagqiba ukuba i-condo ingalinda. Kutheni le nto angathengisa iLinkexchange ukuze akhe kwaye akhule enye inkampani?
Kunyaka emva kokuba uTony elile isithembiso esingama-20 ezigidi zeedola, iLinkexchange yaqhuma. Kwakukho abasebenzi abangaphezu kwe-100. Ishishini lalikhula. Nangona kunjalo, uHsieh wayengasakonwabeli ukuba lapho. Inkcubeko kunye nezopolitiko bezitshintshile ngokufihlakeleyo kwinkqubo yokukhula ngokukhawuleza. I-Linkexchange yayingasekho Hsieh kunye neqela labahlobo abasondeleyo besakha into abayithandayo. Bebeqeshe iqela labantu ngokungxama abangenabo umbono ofanayo kunye nezizathu ababenazo. Uninzi lwabasebenzi abatsha bebengakhathali ngeLinkexchange, okanye ngokwakha into abayithandayo. Endaweni yoko, bafuna nje ukuba zizityebi ngokukhawuleza- ngokuzithandela.
Ke uthathe isigqibo sokuthengisa inkampani ngokwemiqathango yakhe. UMicrosoft wathenga iLinkexchange ngo-1998 nge-265 yezigidi zeedola xa uHsieh wayeneminyaka engama-25 ubudala.
Umbono ofanayo uvele kwincoko endisandula ukuba nayo noJeff Goins, umbhali othengisa kakhulu Ubugcisa boMsebenzi. Ndacela ingcebiso yakhe malunga nokupapasha incwadi endifuna ukuyibhala wathi, Yima. Sukutsiba umpu koku. Ndiyenzile eyam impazamo. Ukuba ulinda unyaka okanye emibini, uya kufumana i-10x phambili enkulu, eya kutshintsha umkhondo wobomi bakho bonke.
Nantsi indlela esebenza ngayo. Ngababhalisi be-imeyile abangama-20K, umbhali unokufumana malunga ne- $ 20-40K yencwadi kwangaphambili. Kodwa nge-100-200K ababhalisi be-imeyile, umbhali unokufumana malunga ne- $ 150-500K yencwadi kwangaphambili. Lindela unyaka okanye emibini kwaye utshintshe umkhondo wobomi bakho (kunye nobomi).
Oku akukona ukuhlehlisa. Imalunga nesicwangciso. Ixesha- nokuba yimizuzwana embalwa- inokutshintsha ubomi bakho bonke.
24. Ukuba awukwazi ukusombulula ingxaki, kungenxa yokuba udlala ngemithetho
Akukho nto ingumqondiso othile wobudenge kunokwenza into enye ngaphezulu kwaye ulindele ukuba iziphumo zohluke. -Albert Einstein
Indibano kulapho sikhona. Ukuqhekeka kwengqungquthela yindlela esiya kuguquka ngayo, efuna ubungakanani bokungaphumeleli.
Ukuba awunayo i-grit yokusilela amaxesha angama-10,000, awusoze uqulunqe isibane sakho. Njengoko uSeth Godin esitsho , Ukuba ndiyasilela ngaphezu kwakho, ndiyaphumelela.
Ukungaphumeleli yinto ekufuneka ixatyisiwe kwaye inconywe. Ukungaphumeleli yingxelo. Ukusilela kuya phambili. Kuyazi kwaye kwenza umgudu kwinto ongazange wayenza ngaphambili. Kuyinto engakholelekiyo.
Umntu ongazenziyo iimpazamo akunakwenzeka ukuba enze nantoni na. —UPawulos Arden
25. Indlela oCwangcisa ngayo uMdlalo ubaluleke ngaphezu koMdlalo ngokwawo
Abantu banokuchitha ubomi babo bonke benyukela kwileli yempumelelo kuphela ukuyifumana, nje ukuba bafikelele encotsheni, yokuba ileli ixhomeke eludongeni olungelulo. -Thomas Merton
Baninzi kakhulu abantu abadlala umdlalo ongalunganga-umdlalo olahlekileyo kwasekuqaleni-kwaye kubuhlungu njengesihogo. Unjalo wena konakalisa ubomi bakho ndingazi nokwazi oko.
Okubaluleke ngakumbi kunokudlala umdlalo yindlela omiswe ngayo umdlalo. Uwumisa njani umdlalo igqiba udlala njani. Kwaye kungcono ukuphumelela kuqala, emva koko udlale.
Isebenza kanjani lento?
Qala ukusuka esiphelweni kwaye usebenze ngomva. Endaweni yokucinga ngento efanelekileyo, okanye into elindelweyo, okanye yintoni evakalayo- qala ngale nto uyifunayo. Okanye njengoko uCovey wayifaka Imikhwa eli-7, Qala ngesiphelo ngokucacileyo engqondweni. Nje ukuba kubethelelwe emnqamlezweni, emva koko yiya imihla ngemihla, ngeveki, ngenyanga, kunye nokuziphatha konyaka okuya kuthi kuququzelele oko.
UJim Carrey uzibhalele itshekhi yezigidi zeedola ezili-10. Emva koko wazimisela ukuyifumana. Uphumelele umdlalo Ekuqaleni, emva koko kudlalwe. Nawe unokwenjenjalo.
26. Sebenzisa indawo yakho
Nokuba zincinci kangakanani iimpumelelo zakho endleleni, sebenzisa isikhundla sakho!
Unediploma yamabanga aphakamileyo? Sebenzisa indawo yakho!
Uyamazi umntu owaziyo umfana omaziyo umfana? Sebenzisa indawo yakho!
Ufumana inqaku elibonakaliswe kwibhlog ethile engaziwayo? Sebenzisa indawo yakho!
Unayo i $ 100? Sebenzisa indawo yakho!
Ngelishwa, uninzi lwabantu alunakuyeka ukujonga kwelinye icala locingo. Bayasilela ekufumaneni amathuba aqaqambileyo akhoyo ngoku kubo. Obu bubugosa obubi.
Kukho abantu osele ubazi abanolwazi oludingayo.
Kukho abantu osele ubazi ukuba banemali ongayisebenzisa.
Kukho abantu osele ubazi abanokudibanisa nabantu ekufuneka ubazi.
Endaweni yokufuna okungakumbi, ungathini xa usebenzisa oko sele unayo? Kude wenze, okuninzi akunakunceda. Ngapha koko, iya kuqhubeka ikukhathaza de ufunde ukuzifumanela into. Kulula ukufuna ukuba abanye abantu bakwenzele. Kodwa impumelelo yokwenyani iza xa uthatha ubomi bakho. Akukho mntu ukhathalele impumelelo yakho kunawe.
Indawo okuyo ngoku ivuthiwe ngamathuba amaninzi. Yisebenzise. Nje ukuba ufumane enye intshi yesikhundla, yisebenzise konke kufanelekile. Musa unqwenela ngaphezulu. Ndinqwenela ukuba ubengcono. Kwaye kungekudala, uya kuzifumana kwizikhundla ezintle kwaye usebenzisana namaqhawe akho.
Impumelelo isekwe kukhetho.
Impumelelo isekwe ekubeni nokugcina inkuthazo ekufanele ukuyilwela. Isekelwe ekukholelweni oko abanye bangakubiza ngokuba yinto emnandi. Isekwe ekusebenziseni indawo yakho kunye nokugcina amandla enyathelo ngalinye olithathayo.
27. Umsebenzi wakho kufuneka ube yiNtsebenzo
Icandelo elipholileyo malunga nemibongo kukuba kwiimbongi ezininzi, Njani imibongo yabo eyenziwayo ibaluleke ngokufanayo- ukuba ayibalulekanga kangako - kunokuba Intoni kuthethwe ngenene.
Ngendlela efanayo, xa usiya kumsitho okanye usiva intetho, uhlala usibona isithethi, ungamva ukuba bathini. Sele uyazi ukuba bathini.
Nokuba ungakuphi uhlobo lomsebenzi okhoyo, uya kwamkelwa ngcono ukuba uwubona njengohlobo lobugcisa. Wenzela abaphulaphuli. Bayafuna wena kanye njengoko bafuna umsebenzi wakho-rhoqo ngaphezulu.
28. Ufumana isigqibo sokuba sisebenza njani
URyan Holiday, umbhali we Umqobo yiNdlela, ucacisa oko akubizayo umzuzu, ethe yafunyanwa ngabo bonke abanobuchule bokuyila. Umzuzu, kuxa amehlo akho evulelwe oomatshini kunye nasemva-kwezibuko lobugcisa bakho.
Kude ube nalo mzuzu, konke kubonakala ngathi ngumlingo kuwe. Awunalo nofifi lokuba abantu bayenza njani into abayenzayo. Emva kokuba unalo mzuzu, uyaqonda ukuba yonke into yenziwe ngumntu ngabom ukwenza into ethile amava.
Kutshanje ndibukele i-Lord of the Rings kwaye kwafika kum ukuba ezo bhanyabhanya ziya kwahluka ngokupheleleyo ukuba azikhokelwanga nguPeter Jackson. Yahluke ngokupheleleyo!
Yonke into edutyuliweyo, iseti nganye, ukukhanya, izinxibo, indlela abalinganiswa kunye neendawo ezijongeka ngayo, kunye nendlela ifilimu yonke evakalelwa ngayo kwaye iboniswa. Konke bekuya kujongeka kwaye kuziva kwahluke ngokupheleleyo ngokusekwe kumava kumlawuli owahlukileyo azama ukuyila.
Ke, akukho ndlela ichanekileyo okanye ingalunganga. Endaweni yoko, imalunga nokwenza izinto eyakho indlela. Kude kube ube namava alo mzuzu, uya kuqhubeka uzama indlela echanekileyo okanye eyona ilungileyo yokwenza izinto. Uya kuqhubeka nokukopa umsebenzi wabanye abantu.
Kodwa ukuba uyazingisa, uyakuphoxeka kwabo babekade bezizithixo zakho. Bangabantu abafana nam nawe. Baye nje bathatha isigqibo sokudala ngendlela yabo.
Umbono wokuxelisa uya kuba yinto elizothe, ukukhulule uyile njengoko ubona kufanelekile. Uya kuvela ngelizwi lakho kunye nomsebenzi wokuqala. Awuyi kuba nexhala malunga nendlela owamkelwa ngayo umsebenzi wakho kwaye ugxile ngakumbi ekwenzeni into okholelwa kuyo.
29. Imizuzu emihlanu liXesha eliNinzi
Xa unemizuzu emihlanu yexesha eliphantsi, ulisebenzisa njani elo xesha? Uninzi lwabantu luyisebenzisa njengesizathu sokuphumla okanye sokuqaqamba.
Ngokukruqula ikhefu lemizuzu emihlanu yonke imihla, sichitha imizuzu engama-25 yonke imihla. Yimizuzu engama-9,125 ngonyaka (25 X 365).Ngokudabukisayo, ukuqikelela kwam kukuba sichitha ixesha elingaphezulu kunelo.
Ndakhe ndaxelelwa ngutitshala wam wesiNgesi webanga le-9 ukuba ukuba ndifunda ngalo lonke ixesha ndifumana ikhefu- nokuba ikhefu belilomzuzu okanye emibini - ndiza kufumana ufundo oluninzi ngakumbi kunoko bekulindelwe. Wayenyanisile. Qho xa ndigqibezela umsebenzi wam kwangethuba, okanye ndibenomzuzwana ongekhoyo, bendithatha incwadi ndifunde.
Indlela esilichitha ngayo ixesha lethu lekhefu lemizuzu emihlanu yinto egqibeleleyo kwinto esiyiphumezayo ebomini bethu. Yonke into encinci iyongeza.
Kutheni le nto sinokuthethelela ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kangaka?
30. Idola enye yiMali eninzi
Kutshanje bendiseWal-Mart kunye nomamazala wam uthenga izinto ezimbalwa. Ngelixa sasisemgceni wokuphuma, ndakhomba into kuye ndicinga ukuba inomdla (ngokunyanisekileyo andinakukhumbula ukuba yintoni kwakhona).
Into enamathele kum kukuba wathi, Idola enye. Yimali eninzi leyo!
Kutheni le nto indothusile kukuba abakhwenyana bam abafutshane ngemali. Ngokwenyani, oku kwenzekile ngelixa sasikuhambo losapho (abantu abangama-30 +) kwiDisney yeLizwe- yonke into ihlawulwa ngabo.
Ukuqonda ixabiso ledola enye kuyafana nokuqonda ixabiso lexesha. Ukuchitha imali ngaphandle kwengcinga kunokubonakala ngathi yinto enkulu, kodwa kunjalo. Inkcitho engenamsebenzi edityaniswe ngaphezulu kwexesha elide inokuba zizigidi.
Kwaye inyani yile, uninzi lwezigidi zizizo yenziwe ngumntu , Iipesenti ezingama-80 zizityebi ezizukulwana zokuqala, kunye neepesenti ezingama-75 zizisebenzela. Ukungahlawulwa kwimiceli mngeni ngeyure ukuba uthathe uxanduva kwimizuzu yonke kunye nedola nganye. Ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwezigidi zabantu abanoqoqosho kakhulu-okanye ubuncinci kakhulu bayikhumbula-ngemali yabo.
31. Ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi akufuneki kube yinjongo
Ukuthatha umhlalaphantsi kukusweleka. -I-Pablo Casals
Eyona ndlela inamandla yokubetha umntu ebusweni kukujolisa inyawo ngasemva kobuso babo. Ngale ndlela, unamandla apheleleyo kunye namandla xa unxibelelana. Ukuba ujonge kuphela ubuso buqu, ngexesha ofikelela ngalo uya kube sele uqalile ukuthoba isantya. Ke, ipunch yakho ayizukuba namandla njengoko ubufuna ukuba njalo.
Umhlala-phantsi yindlela enye.
Uninzi lwabantu abaceba ukuthatha umhlala phantsi baqala ukunciphisa isantya kwi-40 kunye ne-50 yabo. Icandelo elibuhlungu kukuba, njengezinto ezisekwe kumandla, xa uqala ukucothisa, uqala ngenkqubo enzima yokubuyisela umva inkqubo yokubola.
Uphando lufumene ukuba umhlalaphantsi rhoqo:
Yonyusa ubunzima bokuhamba kunye nemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla
Yandisa amathuba okuba ugule
Kwaye kunciphisa impilo yengqondo
Kodwa umhlala phantsi sisiganeko senkulungwane yama-20. Kwaye okunene, iziseko ezixhasa lo mbono uphelelwe lixesha azenzi ngqondo kuluntu lwanamhlanje nolwexesha elizayo.
Umzekelo, ngenxa yenkqubela phambili kukhathalelo lwempilo, ama-65 awathathelwa ingqalelo njengabadala. Xa inkqubo yoKhuseleko loLuntu yayiyilwe, abacwangcisi bakhetha iminyaka engama-65 ngenxa yokuba umndilili wokuphila wawuneminyaka engama-63 ngelo xesha. Ke, le nkqubo yayilelwe kuphela abo babeswele ngokwenyani, hayi ukwenza inkcubeko yabantu exhaswa yimisebenzi yabanye.
Ngapha koko, umbono wokuba abantu abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-65 abanakho ukubonelela ngomsebenzi onentsingiselo awusavakali. Ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi kwaba yinto xa uninzi lomsebenzi wawungumsebenzi wezandla - kodwa umsebenzi wanamhlanje usekelwe kulwazi ngakumbi. Kwaye ukuba kukho into esilelayo kuluntu lwanamhlanje, ubulumko bayo, abathi abantu kwiminyaka yabo kamva bachitha ubomi babo bonke besulungekisa.
Ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi akufuneki kubeyinjongo.
Sikulungele ngokupheleleyo ukusebenza-kwindawo ethile-kude kube sekuphefumlweni kwethu okokugqibela.
Utatomkhulu wam oneminyaka engama-92 ubudala, uRex, wayengumqhubi wenqwelomoya kwiWWII. Kule minyaka mihlanu idlulileyo ubhale iincwadi ezintathu. Ulala ubusuku bonke ngentsimbi yesi-8. kwaye uvuka rhoqo kusasa ngo-4: 30 ekuseni. Uchitha iiyure zokuqala eziyi-2,5 zomhla wakhe ejonge inkuthazo kunye nokufundisa umxholo kumabonwakude. Emva koko utya isidlo sakusasa ngo-7 A.M. kwaye uchitha imini yakhe efunda, ebhala, edibanisa kwaye ekhonza abantu, kwaye esenza nokuba asebenze ngokomzimba ejikeleze indlu yonyana wakhe (utata wam). Ude ajikeleze elumelwaneni eguqula ukholo lwakhe kwaye ebuza abantu angabaziyo ukuba angabanceda njani.
Andizimiselanga kumisa okanye ndicothise. Ngokuchasene nenkolelo edumileyo, abantu bayafana newayini kwaye baphucuka ngokuguga.
32. Izolo Ibaluleke Ngakumbi Kunamhlanje
Elona xesha lilungileyo lokutyala umthi yayiyiminyaka engama-20 eyadlulayo. Ixesha lesibini elilungileyo ngoku. - Umzekeliso waseTshayina
Iimeko zethu zangoku zibonakalisa izigqibo zethu zangaphambili. Nangona sinamandla amakhulu okutshintsha umkhondo wobomi bethu apha nangoku, silapho sikhona ngenxa yexesha lethu elidlulileyo. Ngelixa kuyinto eyaziwayo ukuthi elidlulileyo alinamsebenzi, loo nto ayisiyonyani.
Namhlanje izolo izolo. Oko sikwenzayo namhlanje kuya kuphucula okanye ukunciphisa amaxesha ethu exesha elizayo. Kodwa abantu abaninzi babeka izinto kude kube ngomso. Sangena ngokungakhathali ematyaleni, sisebenzisa imithambo kunye nemfundo, kwaye sathethelela ubudlelwane obubi. Kodwa ngaxa lithile konke kuyabamba. Njengeenqwelo moya ekhwele ngaphandle, kokukhona silinda ukulungisa ixesha elide kwaye kunzima ukubuyela ekhosini.
Ixesha limangalisa ngokupheleleyo. Sifanele silindele amava esifuna ukuba nawo-ahlala emnandi ngakumbi kunamava ngokwawo. Sifumana amava esiwalangazelelayo. Kwaye emva koko siye sikhumbule kwaye sihambe nawo loo mava ngonaphakade. Ixesha elidlulileyo, elangoku kunye nekamva zibaluleke ngokukodwa kwaye ziyonwabisa.
33. Izinto akufuneki zithathe ixesha elide njengoko abanye abantu besithi bayazenza
Malunga neenyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo, ndaye ndazimisela malunga neenjongo zam zokuba ngumbhali oqeqeshiweyo. Ndabhala i-eBook kwaye ndandinexhala lokwazi indlela yokuyipapasha ngokwesiko.
Ndithathe isigqibo sokuba iiarhente zoncwadi ziya kuba ngowona mthombo wam weengcebiso. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, bayayazi imboni yokupapasha umva-nangaphandle-okanye ndicinga njalo. Emva kokuthetha nee-arhente ezi-5-10 ezahlukeneyo malunga neenkqubo zabo zokuqeqesha, kwacaca ukuba imibuzo yam iya kufuna ukuphendulwa kwenye indawo.
Incoko ethile iyanamathela.
Ukuze nokuba kuthathelwe ingqalelo ziiarhente kunye nabapapashi, ababhali kufuneka babe sele benolwazi oluninzi lokufunda (okt iqonga). Ndixelele omnye weearhente injongo yam yayikukuba nababhalisi bebhlog abayi-5 000 ukuphela kuka-2015. Uphendule wathi, Oko ngekhe kwenzeke apho ukhoyo ngoku Ezi zinto zithatha ixesha. Awuyi kuba nakho ukufumana umvakalisi iminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwengama-5. Yinyani leyo.
Yinyani kubani? Ndacinga xa ndibeka ifown.
Naphi na apho ufuna ukuya khona, kukho indlela ende neqhelekileyo; kwaye kukho iindlela ezimfutshane, ezingaphantsi kwesiqhelo. Indlela eqhelekileyo sisiphumo sokungahoyi. Yinto eyenzekayo xa uvumela abanye abantu bachaze ulwalathiso kunye nesantya ebomini.
Nangona kunjalo, wakube uyayazi into oyifunayo-kwaye ivusa umdla wakho-uya kuqaphela izisombululo ezilula nezilula kwimibuzo yakho. Yintoni enokuthatha iminyaka eli-10 ngendlela yesiko ithatha kuphela iinyanga ezimbalwa ngolwazi oluchanekileyo kunye nobudlelwane.
Xa umfundi ekulungele ukuvela kuya kuvela utitshala. -Mabel Collins
Xa ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizimisele ngokuba ngumbhali, iingcebiso ezivela kwiiarhente zoncwadi zazingenakundisebenzela. Ndandilungele ubulumko babantu ababelapho ndifuna ukuba khona. Umbono wam wawumkhulu kuneengcebiso endandizifumana.
Ngeli xesha linye nangaphandle kwendawo, ndiye ndafumana ikhosi ekhompyutheni malunga nokubhloga kweendwendwe. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ingene kwiindaba zam ngenxa yokukhangela kwam kwangaphambili. Ndihlawule i-197 yeedola, ndahamba ikhosi, kwaye kwiiveki ezimbini zazifumana amanqaku abhalwe kwiibhloko ezininzi zokuzinceda.
Kwisithuba seenyanga ezimbini zokuthatha ikhosi, ndibhale iposti yebhlog evuthuzayo. UTim Ferriss utshilo , Iposti enye yebhlog inokutshintsha ubomi bakho bonke. Lo mgaqo uyinyani kuyo yonke into oyenzayo. Intsebenzo enye, uphicotho-zincwadi olunye, udliwanondlebe omnye, ividiyo yomculo enye, incoko enye… Ke, kugxilwe kukomgangatho kunokuba kubungakanani.
Kwiinyanga ezimbini emva kokuxelelwa ukuba kuya kuthatha iminyaka emi-3-5 ukuba ndilandele, ndandilapho. Xa uyazi into oyifunayo, uyaqaphela amathuba abantu abaninzi abangawaziyo. Unesibindi esinqabileyo sokubamba lawo mathuba ngaphandle kokulibazisa.
3. 4. Umculo Omameleyo ukumisela impumelelo yakho ebomini
Ngaphandle komculo, ubomi buya kuba yimpazamo - UFriedrich Nietzsche
Olunye uphando lufumanise ukuba uhlobo lomculo olumameleyo luchaphazela indlela ocinga ngayo ubuso obungathathi hlangothi . Ukuba umamela umculo olusizi, kunokwenzeka ukuba utolike abantu belusizi. Ngokumamela umculo olungileyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubone ubuso obonwabileyo obuya kuba nefuthe kwindlela onxibelelana ngayo nabantu.
Ukumamela inqanaba lengxolo eliphakathi yenza ukuba ukusebenza kwengqondo yethu kube nzima ngakumbi, okusikhokelela ekusebenziseni iindlela ezizezinye zokusombulula iingxaki. Xa lo mculo ungqonge indawo, sinokungena nzulu kwimithombo yokuyila yoyilo.
Olunye uphando ufumanise ukuba umculo owuthandayo ubonakalisa uhlobo lomntu olulo. Umzekelo, bafumanise ukuba abalandeli bomculo weklasikhi bathanda ukuzithemba okuphezulu, bayile, bangenise kwaye bakhululeke; kwaye abalandeli beetshathi ze-chart bahlala benokuzithemba okuphezulu, basebenza nzima, bayaphuma kwaye banobulali, kodwa abayili kwaye abakhululekanga.
Inzululwazi iyayiqaqambisa into yokuba kwezinye iimeko, ukuthula kuyenzeka hayi igolide. Umzekelo, ukumamela umculo weklasikhi kuphucule ukubonwa kwe izigulane zestroke ngelixa ungamameli nto konke konke. Olunye uphando lufumanise ukuba abakhweli beebhayisikile abaphulaphule umculo bafuna iipesenti ezisixhenxe zeoksijini encinci kunaleyo bangaphulaphuliyo. Ewe umculo ungawatshintsha ngokoqobo amandla, imvakalelo kunye nenkuthazo yethu ngephanyazo. Isixhobo esinamandla kwaye sihle.
Unokusebenzisa umculo njengesiqalo sokusebenza ngokukuko. Umzekelo, uMichael Phelps wayenenkqubo awayeyenza ngokwenkolo ngaphambi komsitho ngamnye wokuqubha obandakanya umculo. Akayedwa. Iimbaleki ezininzi zisebenzisa umculo Phambi kweziganeko ezibangela ukuphumla koxinzelelo kunye nasezingqondweni.
Xa ubuzwa ngu Imagazini yexesha Malunga nokusebenzisa kwakhe umculo ngaphambi kogqatso, uPhelps uthe umgcina egxile kwaye wamnceda ukuba aphumeze yonke into, kwaye athathe inyathelo elinye ngexesha. Xa ebuzwa ngohlobo lomculo awumamelayo, uphendule wathi, ndimamela ihip hop kunye ne-rap. Into enomdla kukuba uphando lufumene ukuba umculo we tempo ephezulu njengehip hop unokudala ukuvusa okunamandla kunye nokulungela ukusebenza. Okunye ubungqina bufunyenwe Amandla okuphendula ngokweemvakalelo anokuhlala ixesha elide emva kokuba umculo uyekile. Ke, ngelixa uPhelps esedamini lokuqubha, usateketisiwe kwihip hop yakhe.
Okokugqibela, uphando lufumanise ukuba iintlobo zomculo esizimamelayo zichaphazela inqanaba lethu ubumoya . Inqaku lokugqibela libaluleke kakhulu kum. Imeko yokomoya inefuthe elikhulu kuyo yonke into endiyenzayo, ukusuka kwindlela endinxibelelana ngayo nosapho lwam, ukuya kwinto kunye nendlela endibhala ngayo, ukuya kuphuhla kunye nokulandela iinjongo zam. Ukuze ndazi ngokomoya, ndiyekile ukumamela umculo onetoni ezimbi kunye namazwi. Ndihlala ndimamela ezakudala, izinto ezintsha ezitshangatshangiswayo ezinje ngeEnya, kunye nezinto ezihamba ngombane / zombane njengoRyan Farish. Ndikwanazo izinto zenyathelo le-electro / dub ezifumana ubuchule bokuhamba. Ezi ngoma zilandelayo zezi ndimameleyo kuziphinda ngelixa ubhala.
· Iklabhu yeSoda yiGhostland Observatory
· Esi sigubungelo kaEllie Goulding nayo iyaphinda
· Dive nguTycho (i-albhamu epheleleyo) -Ngakumbi kwicala lokuma / le-electro (nantoni na iTycho ilungile)
· Yikhothe nguKaskade & Skrillex (Umxube we-ICE) -kukufutshane / ngombane
· Ukuba ngumfundi nguDeen Daze (uninzi lweTeen Daze ilungile) -Kwaye uthando lokwenene Indlu yasekuseni
· Indlela yala maxesha kaLuka Abbott
Ndiyathemba ukuba kukho into eyonwabisayo kwaye iphazamisa nje ngokwaneleyo ukuqhushumba amagwebu akho obuchule.
35. Qhagamshela nzulu
Ukuba wonwabele lo mxholo, Nceda ubhalise kwibhlog yam. Uya kufumana ikopi yasimahla ye-eBook yam, Ukusuka kwiZero ukuya kumawakawaka ababhalisi beBlog kwiintsuku ezingama-60, Ukuchaza izicwangciso zam zengqondo kunye nokubhala .
