(Ifoto: Luftphilia / Flickr) Ndabuyela kwiklasi yesikolo sam samabanga aphakamileyo i-AP yesiNgesi emva kweminyaka engama-20. Oku kusekelwe kwintetho endiyinike abantu abadala abaphumeleleyo.
Ndike ndacinga kule veki iphelileyo malunga nento endiza kwabelana ngayo nawe. Hayi kudala,… kwiminyaka eyi-20 eyadlulayo (eza kuhamba ngokuqhwanyaza kweliso), bendihleli ngqo apho uhleli khona, ndisenza into oyenzayo, kwiklasi yesiNgesi yeFauver AP, malunga nokuthweswa isidanga kwaye ngexesha kunye nendawo ebomini bam, kakhulu njengaleyo ukuyo, xa ngamazwi ka Elle Luna akukho kwaziwa kwaye yonke into inokwenzeka.
Ke ndacinga into endiza kwabelana ngayo nawe yingcebiso endinokuzinika yona ukuba ndinokubuya ndibuye ndiye kuthetha nohlobo lwam lweminyaka eli-18 ubudala. Okumangalisayo kukuba bendisazi yonke into endiza kukuxelela yona ngendingabikho apha ndikuxelele. Yiloo nto malunga nokuba ne-18 Ucinga ukuba uyazi yonke into. Ke ngoko akukho myalelo ubalulekileyo ndingathanda ukwabelana nawe ngento endiyifundileyo kolu hambo:
Amathuba okuba ubucinga kakhulu ngempendulo yalo mbuzo:
Ufuna ukwenza ntoni ngobomi bakho?
Kwaye luhlobo lombuzo olayishiwe kuba ngaphandle kokucinga, awuzazi ukuba ungubani. Uhlale kuphela iqhezu elincinci lobomi bakho. Unokuhendeka ukuba uphendule lo mbuzo ngendlela oceba ngayo ukuziphilisa. Kodwa kukho umahluko phakathi kwento oceba ukuyenza ngobomi bakho nendlela oceba ngayo ukuziphilisa.
Xa ungathinteli impendulo kulo mbuzo, uyazivulela isihogo sokukhwela. Nokuba sele uchithe iminyaka eli-18 yobomi bakho ukhangela iimpendulo ezichanekileyo ukuze ufumane amabanga amahle, uphumelele iimvavanyo ze-AP, ungene kwikholeji yamaphupha akho kwaye ube ziinkosi kwindalo iphela, andiqinisekanga apho naziphi na iimpendulo ezichanekileyo. Kwaye nokuba zikhona, ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba ukhangele ezinomdla.
- Yenza uluhlu lwe YONKE INTO uceba uku YENZA nawe ubomi.
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Njengokuba usiba mdala, utyeba, kwaye ucotha (endizaziyo izandi akunakulindeleka kuwe ngoku) ezinye zezo zinto zisenokungabi lula njengoko zibonakala ngoku. Sebenzisa ixesha lakho ngobulumko.
Umbhali uNeil Gaiman ubhekisa kuluhlu lwakhe njengentaba. Kwaye wathi ngokude aqhubeke nokuhamba esiya entabeni wayazi ukuba uzakulunga. Kwaye lelo licandelo lokuqala leengcebiso endikunika lona kunye ne-18 yam ubudala.
Musa ukuhamba usuka entabeni.
Mhlawumbi unezicwangciso….
Nokuba ngumsebenzi engqondweni. Ukuba unabazali baseIndiya ezinye iindlela zinokuthi zichazwe ngokungacacanga okanye ngokucacileyo kuwe:
Ngaba uyafuna ukuba ngugqirha, igqwetha okanye injineli? Kulungile ucwangcisa njani ukuziphilisa ngenye indlela?
Mhlawumbi ukhe wanayo le ncoko kwitafile yakho yasekhitshini nabazali bakho. Ndinqwenela ukuba umntu ebendixelele ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukhethe kwizinto eziphambi kwakho. Kukho iseti epheleleyo oya kuyifumana ukuba ukulungele nje ukubakhangela. Kodwa andikhange ndibakhangele. Isicwangciso sam sasiquka iBerkeley ekwindla, iA ngqo, kunye nomsebenzi othile wephrofayili endinokuthi ekugqibeleni ndiqhayise ngawo kwakhona. Esisa kumbuzo….
Yintoni isikolo?
- Ukuya kumnyhadala omkhulu wobomi bakho kwaye ube neentlobano zesini ezininzi ukuba ubungapholanga ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungakwenza oko kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo?
- Ukutshintsha umhlaba?
Ngokufanelekileyo bobabini. Kwaye ndiyayazi le nto kuba ndikwazile ukungazenzi. Bendinemaphu neplani. Ndacinga ngokuba yintloko yesiNgesi kwaye ndaya kwimisebenzi elungileyo kwikhampasi kwiiveki ezimbini emva kokuqala kwesikolo. Umqeshi e-Accenture wandixelela ukuba abaqeshanga ii-English majors. Ndiye ndalahla ke loo mbono. Kwaye lonke ukhetho endilwenzileyo ukusukela ngelo xesha ukuya phambili lwalusekwe kwinto endandicinga ukuba ingakhokelela emsebenzini.
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Kwaye ngenxa yokuba ndachitha enye yezona zipho zinkulu zakha zanikwa mna: Berkeley, kunye nehlabathi lokukhetha endinokulibona ukuba andijonganga ezi ziphambi kwam.
Ke, sukungxamela ukukhula kwaye ufumane umsebenzi wokwenyani.
Yamkela umdla wakho. Funda ngendlela yokwenza iifilimu, upheke ukutya okumnandi, yenza ubugcisa obuhle kunye nezinye izinto ezibonakala ngathi azinanjongo. Ngokuzonwabisa ngokufuna ukwazi unokubanakho ukufumana umnxeba obetha isihogo ngaphandle komsebenzi.
Mhlawumbi ikholeji ayiyonxalenye yesicwangciso sakho. Iindaba ezimnandi zikhona ezinye iindlela zokuzimasa iqela elikhulu ebomini bakho, ukuba neentlobano zesini ezininzi kunye nokutshintsha umhlaba. Kwaye banikwe ukunyuka kweendleko zokufunda, kusenokwenzeka ukuba basebenzise iindleko. Into entle ngokuba mncinci kukuba awunaxanduva lokwenyani. Ungathatha umngcipheko omkhulu, uhlobo abazali bakho, oontanga kunye noluntu abanokuthi ekuqaleni bagculelwe, kodwa ekugqibeleni kuya kukwenza ukhule ngeendlela ongazange uzicinge. Abanye babahlobo bam abonwabileyo baphumeleleyo ngabo babenza izitampu njengee-ski bums ngaphambi kokuba babe ngamalungu oluntu avelisayo.
Xa ingahambi ngokweSicwangciso….
Nokuba unayo yonke le hambo yonke imephu, ngekhe ihambe ngokwesicwangciso. Ngaphandle koko, ingaba loluphi uvuyo oluya kuba lolo? Ndithweswe isidanga kwi-2.
1) Eyokuqala yayingoDisemba 2001
I-2) Eyesibini yayivela kwisikolo esiphumeleleyo ngo-Epreli 2009
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Nge-31, ndandaphukile, ndineedigri ezimbini kunye no Qalisa kwakhona ebijonge ngakumbi njengephepha lephepha . Ke ndiye ndajonga izinto ezimbini eziye zangamandla okuqhuba ebomini bam: ukusefa nokubhala. Ekugqibeleni ndenze into endinqwenela ukuba ndiyifumene xa ndandilingana nawe.
Ndalahla imephu yam yekhampasi.
Imephu ilungile ukuba ufuna ukuya apho abantu babekade bekhona. Ikhampasi, nangona ingaqinisekanga kwaye ingenakulinganiswa, iya kubangela ukuba uvule iindlela ezintsha, kwaye kukukhokelele kwiindawo ezingalindelekanga nezimangalisayo. Ke kule minyaka isixhenxe idlulileyo, ndiyithembile ikhampasi yam. Khange kusoloko kumnandi. Bekungasoloko kulula. Kodwa bekusoloko kunomdla.
- Ndabhala yonke imihla… ndide ndibhale amagama ayi-1000 ngosuku
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Kwaye kusondele ukuphela konyaka ophelileyo, Ndiphantse ndayeka . Yiloo nto malunga nomsebenzi wobugcisa. Iya kuvavanya ukuzibophelela kwakho kuyo. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba ndandingaqinisekanga ukuba yintoni enye endiyenzayo ngam, ndathi kubazali bam bandinike kude kube sekupheleni konyaka, kwaye ukuba ayisebenzi, ndiza kuyeka kwaye ndiza kufumana umsebenzi wokwenyani. Kwiinyanga ezimbini kamva umhleli wafumanisa umsebenzi wam kwi-intanethi kwaye malunga nenyanga edlulileyo, ndafumana isibonelelo kunye nePenguin Portfolio yokubhala iincwadi ezimbini. Kwaye kwenzeka kanye emva kokuba bendikulungele ukuphosa itawuli.
Ngaba kukho izinto ezinzima? Ngokuqinisekileyo. Ndikhe ndabona abahlobo bam belahlekelwa ngabazali, abanye bephulukana nabatshatileyo kwaye abanye belahlekelwa ngabantwana. Ubomi yinto yokudibanisa umphefumlo kunye nezinto ezintle, akukho nanye onokuyilungiselela ngokwenene. Kodwa nayo izaliswe zizinto ezintle ezintle njengoko uCheryl Strayed angatsho.
Ke ndiyakushiya nale nto, endinethemba lokuba ngaphezulu kwayo nayiphi na into endiyithethileyo uyakuyithatha entliziyweni:
Ngamana amehlo akho angakhanya.
Ngamana iintliziyo zenu zingagcwaliswa.
Ngamana ukuthanda ukwazi kulawula iingqondo zakho.
Ngamana inzondelelo ingazenza izenzo zakho.
Ngamana ubona into engabonakaliyo kwihlabathi elikujikelezile.
Ngamana ungenza into engenakwenzeka.
Ngamana ungasusa uloyiko lwakho, ulindelo lwakho, amathandabuzo akho, kwaye uthumele emhlabeni isipho sakho semvelaphi engenamda ehlala ngaphakathi…
Ngamana ungaba njengomculi xa kufanelekile njengoko ndinayo kuyo yonke le ntetho.
Ubomi bakho mabuzaliswe ngumlingo weeyure ezivakala njengemizuzu, kunye nemizuzu evakalelwa njengemizuzwana.
Mayizaliswe ngamagama avakala ngathi ngumculo, imizobo ebonakala ngathi ziimuvi, kunye nabantu abachukumisa intliziyo yakho.
Mayizaliswe kukutshona kwelanga, ukuphuma kwelanga, amaza agqibeleleyo, ukwanga okude emvuleni, ikhekhe yetshokholethi ene-ayisi khrim, kunye namaxesha akhanyayo phambi kwamehlo akho njengemontage xa usifa.
Xa ufika ngo iindlela ezinqamlezileyo kufuneka kwaye kufuneka , khetha kufuneka. Xa kufuneka ukhethe phakathi kwemephu kunye nekhampasi, yamkela ikhampasi. Yenza umsebenzi, ulwe iMfazwe yobugcisa, kwaye Jika iPro.
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