Abaxhasi bakaHillary Clinton bacula phambi kwe-White House ngelixa belinde uhlaziyo ngo-2016 ngo-Novemba 9, 2016 eWashington, DC, eUnited States.Ifoto nguZach Gibson / Getty Izithombe UDonald Trump uye wanyulwa njengomongameli, abakhweli bamahashe abane beviwe bekhwele, kwaye bonke abaprofeti bentshabalalo bakhupha izibhengezo zabo.
Ewe, yile nto unokucinga ukuba iyenzeka ukuba uhlala kulo naluphi na uhlobo lwenkululeko. Ngokwemigangatho yase-Australia (apho ndihlala khona) ndingathathwa njengenkululeko, kwaye sibaluleke kakhulu ngasekhohlo e-U.S. Ngemini embi, ke ucinga ukuba ndingothuswa luloyiso lukaTrump. Andinalo naluphi na ulusu kumdlalo ngombulelo, ke ayikhathazi nakanjani na. Into endiyifumeneyo inomdla, nangona kunjalo, kukuqhubeka nokulila kunye nokungaqondani okuvela kubathandi benkululeko malunga nokuba kutheni kwaye kanjani uTrump akwazi ukuphumelela ubongameli kuHillary Clinton.
Andikho apha ukuza kuhlalutya i-win, okanye ukuphuma kokuvota, okanye nantoni na enjalo. Ndilapha ukuza kuthetha ngesenzeko esithile ekubonakala ukuba sibe negalelo elibonakalayo kolu nyulo nakunyulo kwihlabathi liphela. Obo bubungqina babo basuka kwicala lenkululeko kwezopolitiko ukuba bazenze amalungisa, bazithobe, kwaye bafundise rhoqo nabani na ongavumelani noluvo lwabo. Ndikhululekile, kwaye andinakuma ngokufunda okanye ukumamela ngokwam. Iinkululeko ngokukodwa zibonakala ngathi le ngxelo iqhubeka kwi-subconscious yabo ethi ndingumntu olungileyo onyamezelayo kuye wonke umntu-ohloniphayo noqhubela phambili kwiinkolelo zam. Ndivotela umgqatswa we-X ngenxa yoku. Ke ngoko, nabani na ovotela omnye umntu uchasene nam kwaye akalunganga.
Ungandixeleli ukuba yinto elula kakhulu. Ukujonga le ntetho ndiyifundileyo ukusukela kunyulo, uninzi lwabakhululekileyo bakholelwa ukuba uTrump uphumelele kuphela kuba uxhobise ubuhlanga, abantu abangalunganga, kunye noohlohlesakhe; ukuba abafazi abamhlophe bamvotele ukuba agcine ilungelo labo, engakhathaleli bambalwa. Akunakwenzeka kubo ukuba inani elikhulu (nokuba uninzi) lwabantu bavotela iTump ngenxa yezizathu ezingabandakanyi inzondo okanye ukunganyamezelani kwabanye. Oko, mhlawumbi, bamvotela ngaphandle kwezo zinto. Yikholwe okanye ungakholelwa, kukho iziqwenga ezibhalwe kakuhle phaya ezithi ziphande iMelika esembindini, kunye neenkcukacha zezizathu ezivakalayo zokuba abantu bavotele iTrump. Uninzi lwenkululeko mhlawumbi aluzange luzifunde ezi ziqwenga (okanye nangakumbi, zifunde kwaye zingahoywa), kwaye kulapho sifika kwinqanaba:Uninzi lweenkululeko lubambekile kwiqamza, kwaye loo bubble yenziwe ngokwabo.
Kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo okanye ndiyibonile amaxesha ngamaxesha: inqaku lithunyelwe kwindawo engathathi hlangothi okanye ekhululekile. Ugqabazi uveza ukungavisisani ngentlonipho, umgqabazi ufundisiwe kwaye athethwe ngomnye okanye nangakumbi abavakalisi abakhululekileyo. Amagqabantshintshi e-Liberal aqhubeka esenza ngazo zonke iindlela avakalise ukuba ziyimo embi: ukukhanyela amava omnye umntu, ukukhetha iinyani zabo ngelixa betyeshela abo bakhulisiweyo abaphikisanayo, kwaye baphosa ezabo izinto ezikhethekileyo njengokujonga ilungelo lakho.
Jonga ilungelo lakho lokuphelisa nayiphi na incoko. Yeyona nto inguhanahaniso enokuthethwa yinkululeko, kuba ixelela umntu ukuba akanalungelo lokujonga ngenxa yokuba bangoobani, ibala lolusu lwabo, isini sabo njalo njalo. Zonke izinto abazibangayo bayazichasa.
Ke kwenzeka ntoni xa uzama ukuba nengxoxo nomntu othile, kwaye ubeke uluvo lwakho kuyo yonke into, kodwa yonke into oyifumanayo iyathula, izityholo zokungaziphathi kakuhle, ubuhlanga, okanye okubi kakhulu?
Uyeke ukuzikhathaza ngeencoko ezinjalo.
Le yindlela abenza ngayo inkululeko. Bakhwaza phantsi nabani na ongavumelani ngokupheleleyo noluvo lwabo, kwaye wabagxotha kwizithuba zabo. Ngelishwa ngasekhohlo, bagxotha abantu abaninzi abebengathanda ngakumbi kunabo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba bengayiginyi yonke ibhotile yeKool-Aid, bagxothwa ngokufanelekileyo. Emva kokufundiswa kunye nokukhwaza ixesha elide, isixa esikhulu samaMelika sayeka ukuzihlupha ngokuthetha-de bafika kwibhokisi yokuvota ngoNovemba 8. Kwibhokisi yokuvota akukho mntu unokukufundisa, akukho mntu ukuxelela indlela yokuvota . Esihogweni, ungahlala apho yonke imihla yomntu kwaye akukho mntu unokukuxelela ukuba uphume. Ibhokisi yokuvota lithuba elifanelekileyo lokuba abantu babe nelizwi ngaphandle kweziphumo, kwaye kunyulo lukaTrump, bayithatha.
Iinkululeko azibonanga zisiza, kuba zazingafuni ukumamela nabani na ngaphandle kwabantu kwigumbi labo le-echo. Babexakeke kakhulu bethetha ngezinto abakholelwa ukuba zezona ngxaki zinkulu ehlabathini kangangokuba babengazi okanye bengakhathali nokuba yintoni enye iMelika ekholelwayo.
Ibhokisi yokuvota lithuba elifanelekileyo lokuba abantu babe nelizwi ngaphandle kweziphumo, kwaye kunyulo lukaTrump, bayithatha.
Lo ngumzekelo ogqibeleleyo wenqaku langoku lenkululeko: unyamezelo kunye nentlonipho yantlukwano yiyo yonke into-ngaphandle kokuba iyinto engathandwa ngabakhululekileyo. Emva koko ulutshaba. Lindela ukuthanjiswa ngayo nayiphi na ileyibheli abayibona ifanelekile, kwaye babhalwe njengabantu aboyikekayo. Kuye kwacaca kwakhona emva kokhetho ukuba amadoda amhlophe adiniwe ngokuba zii-pariahs-hayi eluntwini, kodwa kwingxoxo naye nabani na kwicala lenkululeko kwezopolitiko. Ukuba ungumntu omhlophe kwicala lenkululeko, kufuneka uxolise ngento yokuba ukhona, kwaye ululame uvume ukuba unelungelo kuwo wonke umntu, okanye awamkelekanga. Ngelishwa ngabakhululekileyo, abafana abamhlophe benza isahlulo esikhulu se-U.S. Ngokukhuphela ngaphandle izimvo zabo kwincoko yakho, kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba bangamadoda amhlophe, usike ngempumelelo impumlo yakho naphezu kobuso bakho.
Inkululeko, eli lithuba lokwenene lokufunda kuwe. Ukuba ufuna iidemokhrasi zibuyele emandleni kwiminyaka emine, kuya kufuneka wenze into: mamela ezinye iindlela zokujonga.Kuba nantsi into, baninzi abantu phaya abalungileyo, abanesidima, kwaye abanobuntu. Banokubamba umbono ongawuthandiyo, kodwa oku akubenzi babe lutshaba. Ndibe neencoko nabantu abanjalo abachasene nomtshato wesini, kodwa into yokugqibela endizakuyenza kukuqala ukubabiza ngokuba ngabantu abathandanayo besini esinye. Endaweni yoko, ndiza kuvavanya iingcinga zabo, kunye nembono yabo, kuba ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni becinga njalo. Ukuhlaselwa kwabo akusombululi nto.
Sineqela lezopolitiko apha e-Australia elibizwa ngokuba yiSizwe esinye. Banelungelo eligqithisileyo, nangona kunjalo ukuba uyadlula kubuhlanga kwaye uhlala ujonge amabali kwaye ujonge kwimigaqo-nkqubo yabo emininzi-abo bazama ukukhusela imisebenzi yesiqhelo kunye nokuchuma kwabantu abazizityebi, baphilile, isengqiqweni. Abo bangasekhohlo babamba iintliziyo zabo ngokucinga nje ngaba bantu bakhoyo, kodwa inyani kukuba uninzi lwabantu abakrelekrele, abanesidima babavotela. Ihlazo lokwenyani kukuba abantu ababathiye kakhulu abayeki ukubuza ukuba kutheni. Abakhathali ukuba bathethe nabantu abaxhasayo okanye baqwalasele izizathu zabo, endaweni yoko baya kuqala nje i-monologue ngendlela aboyikeka ngayo, kwaye akukho mntu ukrelekrele unokubavotela. Kwakhona, loo nto inyanzela abantu phantsi komhlaba. Abayi kuzixakekisa ngokuthetha ngayo, baya kuvota nje umgqatswa ogqithileyo, beshiya abo banenkululeko yokuzibongela bezibuza ukuba inokwenzeka njani le nto.
Ukuba ungathanda umzekelo ogqibeleleyo wesifundo esiqhelekileyo osifumana ekuphikisaneni nenkululeko, jonga le kliphu kwiphaneli yeendaba yase-Australia ebonisa ukuba yavela nje emva kokuba uTrump ephumelele i-ofisi.
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Jonga ukuba ipaneli yamadoda iyenza njani inqaku, kwaye endaweni yokujongana nomxholo wenqaku lakhe, ipaneli yamabhinqa ingena kwiranti malunga neesemantiki zendlela athe wayithetha ngayo. Uchaza ngokuchanekileyo ukuba abantu bayagula ngokufundiswa, kwaye endaweni yokujongana nayo, uxelelwe ukuba abukele ithoni yakhe. Umhlathi wam wabetha emhlabeni ngelo xesha. Iphaneli yabasetyhini ifumana ipasile yasimahla yokurhabaxa, kodwa xa ibizwa ngokufanelekileyo, ngokucacileyo ithoni iba ngumcimbi? Kwaye kulapho ke uhanahaniso lweenkululeko lubonisa ngeyona ndlela imbi kakhulu, xa abantu besenza ukugxeka kunye neengxoxo ezifanelekileyo, ngequbuliso iinjongo zitshintsha. Jonga ilungelo lakho, jonga ithoni yakho, kwaye uqhubeke njalo.
Ndiyazi ngokupheleleyo isigqebelo sokubhala isiqwenga sokuthethisa, ukufundisa ngelixa ndigxeka isenzo sokwenza kanye loo nto. Inkululeko, into oyivayo ngoku yimvakalelo oyinike abantu abaninzi kangangokuba bavotele iTrump eofisini. Akumnandanga ukuba sekupheleni, akunjalo? Eli lilifa lakho ngoku, kwaye nesizathu sokuba i-GOP ilawule onke amasebe amathathu karhulumente. Ukuba ufuna iidemokhrasi zibuyele emandleni kwisithuba seminyaka emibini, okanye kwisine, okanye nakwisibhozo, ungasitshintsha isicwangciso sakho ngoku.
Ukubhengezwa: UDonald Trump ngumkhwe kaJared Kushner, umpapashi we-Braganca Media.
UPeter Ross uyayila kwakhona i-psychology kunye nefilosofi yehlabathi leshishini, imisebenzi kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla. Ungamlandela kwi-Twitter @prometheandrive.
