Beyonce Nangona evumile kwileyibhile yobufazi ngaphambili, uBeyonce-njengabasetyhini abaninzi abadumileyo-khange ahlale elangazelela ukunxiba eso sihloko. Elo gama linokuba libi kakhulu, uxelele IBritish Vogue kunyaka ophelile. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba ndingumfazi wale mihla. Ndiyakholelwa ukulingana. Kutheni le nto kufuneka ukhethe ukuba ungumfazi onjani? Kutheni le nto kufuneka uziphawule ngokwakho?
Nokuba yintoni azibiza ngayo, uBeyoncé uphinde wema ngokulingana ngokwesini kwisincoko sakhe esivele kwi Ingxelo ye-Shriver izolo.
Kufuneka siyeke ukuthenga kwiintsomi malunga nokulingana ngokwesini. Akuyonyani okwangoku. Namhlanje, abafazi benza isiqingatha sabasebenzi base-US, kodwa umfazi osebenzayo oqhelekileyo ufumana kuphela iipesenti ezingama-77 zento eyenziwa ngumntu ophakathi. Kodwa ngaphandle kokuba abantu ababhinqileyo nabesilisa bathi le ayamkelekanga, izinto azizukutshintsha. Amadoda kufuneka anyanzelise ukuba abafazi babo, iintombi zabo, oomama babo kunye noodadewabo bazuze ngaphezulu-ngokuhambelana neziqinisekiso zabo hayi isini sabo. Ukulingana kuya kufezekiswa xa amadoda nabafazi benikwa umvuzo olinganayo kunye nembeko elinganayo.
Nangona eli gama lingaveli naphi na kwesi siqwenga, ubufazi busachazwa njengethiyori yokulingana kwezopolitiko, ezoqoqosho, kunye noluntu kwezesini, ngenxa yoko asicingi ukuba ileyibheli igqithile. Ingena ngokuchanekileyo.
Nangona kulula ukubona ukuba abantu abadumileyo bangayibhala njani into enje kwaye babe madolw 'anzima ukubhala iilebheli, njengeenkwenkwezi ze-pop ezingaqinisekanga ngakumbi kunoBeyoncé lonke ixesha kwilinge lokuziqhelanisa neentsingiselo ezimbi ezinokuthi zonakalise ukuthengisa kwabo. (Jonga: UTaylor Swift, uKelly Clarkson, uLady Gaga.)
Ke kukho istereotype sika ukuqhuba komlo kunye nohlobo lwetshipsi egxalabeni , (yeyiphi indlela Ngqiyama kwi Umbhali kunye ne-CEO ye-Yahoo uMarissa Mayer ubona eli gama, kwaye kutheni eyala ileyibheli ngokwakhe), engancedi ntshukumo. Ke kukho ngaphezulu-kuchonga okufana UMiley Cyrus kunye no-Courtney Stodden , Ngubani, njengoko uMichelle Juergen ebeka, bangaqondi ubufazi njengokuxhaphaza ngokwesini okanye ukunamathela ngabom kumgangatho wobuhle bendabuko.
Kodwa ngaba ukungonwabi kukaBeyonce ngeli xesha lilayishiwe kumenza abe ngaphantsi kobufazi? Kwaye yintoni enye esimele ukumbiza ngayo? Mhlawumbi singathatha iphepha kuye ngo-2011 IHarper's Bazaar Impendulo yodliwanondlebe:
Andivakalelwa kukuba kunyanzelekile ukuyichaza. Yinto nje eluhlobo lwendalo kum, kwaye ndiziva ngathi… uyazi… inje, into endiyiphilelayo.
Ndidinga ukufumana igama elitsha elinomtsalane kubufazi, akunjalo? NjengoBhootylicious.
