Nazi iindlela zam eziphambili zokunikela iintetho kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo kunye nokubona amakhulu abanye(Ifoto: Pexels) Abantu abaninzi bebendicela ukuba ndibhale malunga nesi sihloko ithutyana. Ndimtsha ngentetho yonke kwaye ndinika intetho into. Kodwa kule minyaka mibini idlulileyo bendime kumaqonga amaninzi kwihlabathi liphela ndinika iintetho ezingama-30 + kwizixeko ezingaphezu kwama-25. Ndibala kuphela iintetho ukusukela kwiminyaka yokugqibela ye-2-3, kuba kuphela kwento endiyinike isiNgesi, ulwimi lwam lwesibini.
Ngoku ayindenzi ingcali ekunikeni iintetho, kodwa kukho izinto ezimbalwa endizifundileyo ngeli xesha.
Eli nqaku lelabo bafuna ukwenza ezinye iintetho. Yenzelwe abo bafunda iingcebiso ezingenamsebenzi ezingenakubalwa malunga nendlela yokunikela intetho egqibeleleyo kuphela ukufumanisa ukuba ngoku banoloyiko ngakumbi kunangaphambili.
Ndisoloko ndibuzwa ukuba ndiyakuthanda na ukuthetha esidlangalaleni. Impendulo yam ihlala ithi: Ukuba uyayonwabela imvakalelo yokubetha ibhulukhwe yakho ngaphandle kweentsuku zemincili ngaphambi komsitho, ke EWE.
Zimbini kuphela iintlobo zezithethi emhlabeni. 1. I-luvo kunye ne-2. Liars. - UMark Twain
Abantu abaninzi kule planethi bayoyika ukuthetha phambi kwesihlwele kunokuba kunjalo ngokufa. Ewe, ubuncinci ngokophando apho abantu bacelwa ukuba badwelise izinto ezoyikeka kakhulu. Kwi-Nr. 1 sifumana ukuThetha esidlangalaleni kude ngaphambi koloyiko lweendawo eziphakamileyo, izigcawu, iingxaki zemali kunye nokufa.
Ndinoloyiko olukhulu lokuthetha esidlangalaleni. Andikuthandi nokuthetha kwigumbi lokuhlangana elinabantu abangaphezulu nje kwe-10 kulo. It makes me cringe, ndisiva isigwebo esithe cwaka kwaye isisu sam sihamba sonke gaga ngokungathi ndileqwa yinciniba. Kwaye akukho nto indikhulula ngaphandle kwenciniba, nceda ungaze usebenzise enye nxamnye nam. Sikumthi wokuthenjwa apha! Isithembiso esikhulu!
Ke xa ndandiqala ukucelwa ukuba ndinike iintetho phambi kwezihlwele ndaqala ukukhathazeka ndaza ndanyibilikisa lonke icebo lokuthetha esidlangalaleni endinokulifumana kwi-Intanethi. Ekugqibeleni, ndandisoyika nangakumbi. Uninzi lweyona ndlela yokunika intetho intetho kukucebisa ngokuba bayakuxelela ngazo zonke izinto ongafanelanga ukuba uzenze. Sukwenza oku ngezandla zakho, sukuma ngxi, sukukhangeleka ungaqhelekanga. Into encinci leyo ayinamsebenzi, kodwa umntu osele enovalo ngokwaneleyo uya kuthi phithi ngabo.
Ke makhe sithethe ngeendlela zam eziphambili zokunikela iintetho kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo kunye nokubona amakhulu abanye:
1. Phendula lo mbuzo ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwenza intetho yakho yokuqala:
Zimbini iintlobo zabantu. Abo bazolile ngakumbi xa kukho usapho kunye nabahlobo kubaphulaphuli, kwaye abo bazolile kwaye bekhululekile xa kungekho mntu bamaziyo kubaphulaphuli.
Ndingomnye wabo bakwiqela lesibini. Ikhulula ukuphuma kwam xa kukho umntu endimazi kakuhle kubaphulaphuli. Andazi ukuba kutheni, kodwa inqanaba lovalo liphezulu nge-10000%. Ndiyabulela abaphulaphuli abagcwele ngabantu abangabaziyo, ngokufanelekileyo kwesinye isixeko. Mhlawumbi kuba ndihlala ndizixelela ukuba xa ndizokubhanxana ndinje whatevaaa andihlali apha phofu lol bye
Kodwa nzulu. Xa unika iiseti zakho zokuqala zeentetho, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba ungoweliphi iqela. Ukuba uziva ukhululekile kunye nezihlobo kubaphulaphuli, zama ukubenza beze kwiintetho zakho zokuqala. Ukuba ufana nam, zama ubuncinci ukuba ungabikho kumama wakho kubaphulaphuli okokuqala. Ziqhelanise nabantu ongabaziyo.
2. Ukuzonwabisa kuvuthela ulwazi
Kukho ukungaqondani okukhulu xa kunikelwa iintetho. Uninzi lwabantu lucinga ukuba kufuneka balumke, babonise idatha eninzi, babelane ngolwazi kwaye babaphathe kubaphulaphuli. Sicinga ukuba sifuna into ekufanele siyibonise. Kodwa uyazi ntoni? Ukuba ndifuna ukufunda into entsha, ndifunde incwadi, kodwa ndiye kwintetho ukuze ndonwabe. (ngaphandle kokuba yi-TED)
Ukuba intetho yakho iyonwabisa, akukho namnye onika ikheshi malunga nento obuthethe ngayo. Unokuba kwinkomfa yonjiniyela ethandekayo apho abantu banokulindela khona izikhokelo zokuphendula (lol). Kodwa nalapho, ukuba uyakwazi ukonwabisa kwaye uhlekise abantu, akukho namnye oya kuthi aqaphele into oyenzileyo.
Ndisoloko ndixinezelekile malunga nokubonisa izinto ezininzi ezinzima kwiinkcazo zam. Ukubonisa indlela endinetalente ngayo, jonga iigridi zam, jonga olu luhlu lwamagama e-buzzwords, jonga kule nxalenye yekhowudi. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, akukho mntu ubakhathaleleyo. Ukuba ndifuna ukubona umsebenzi wakho, ndingena kwi-Intanethi kwaye ndijonge iphothifoliyo yakho. Kodwa kumsitho, ndifuna ukonwatyiswa, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuba uyayenza into yokuma kwehlaya.
Inqaku lam lelokuba: Awunyanzelekanga ukuba ubonakale ukrelekrele kakhulu, kufuneka wenze abantu babe nexesha elimnandi kwaye bahleke. Yonke enye into yibhonasi.
I-PS: Uninzi lweentetho ziyadika, ukwazi ukuba le nto incinci igcine iesile lam amaxesha amaninzi. Ndiyekile ngokupheleleyo kwisihloko kwiinkomfa ezininzi, kodwa ndixelelwe ukuba abaphulaphuli bahlala beyixabisa intetho yam kuba kwakungathi ndibanike ikhefu phakathi kwezinto ezinzulu. Yiba lelo khefu, ube nguloo mntu wenza ukuba abaphulaphuli bakhululeke, kuba bahlala iiyure kwaye konke abanokucinga ngako kukuya ngasese.
Kuhlala kukho iintetho ezintathu, nganye nganye oyinike yona. Lowo ubumqhelisela, lowo ubumnikile, kunye nalowo unqwenela ukumnika. - UDale Carnegie
3. Yigcine mfutshane
Yenza wonke umntu ubabalo kwaye ugcine intetho yakho imfutshane. Njengoko sonke sisazi, abantu kule mihla banendawo yokujonga unomatse. 1h iintetho zide kakhulu. I-40min iyayolula. I-30min ilungile. I-20min ilungile.
Ukuba uyakwazi ukunika intetho, yenze ibe mfutshane kwaye ikhawuleze. Ufuna abantu bathi Hayi, kuphelile kakade? Oko kwakumangalisa! Ndifuna okungakumbi! -Ukuba uyayifumana loo nto, uphumelele.
4. Qala ngesiqhulo
Le yimfihlo yam encinci. Xa ungena eqongeni, wonke umntu ujonge kuwe. Wonke umntu ucinga: YENZA! NDONWABISE! KHOBOKA!. Kwaye ndimi nje apho, ndimfanyekiswe kukukhanya kweqonga, ndikhangele kwindawo emnyama yabaphulaphuli.
Emva koko, ndiqala ngehlaya. Mhlawumbi into ethile ukususela ebuntwaneni bam. Mhlawumbi into enxulumene nomsitho, mhlawumbi into nje eneentloni ngam. Emva koko wonke umntu uhleka, emva koko ndihleka. Ngoku silapha! Abaphulaphuli bafudunyezwa, inqanaba lam loyiko lanyamalala nje ngama-80% kwaye ndikulungele ukuqalisa.
Eyona nto inzima ekunikeni intetho sisiqalo. Kukude kude ufumane impendulo kunye nengxelo evela kubaphulaphuli. Xa uxelela ihlaya ngqo kwasekuqaleni awuseti imood kuphela, kodwa ufumana ingxelo oyifunayo.
5. Iingcebiso zokuthetha kwangaphambili
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezenza ukuba ndinciphise uvalo ngaphambi kokuba ndinike intetho.
a.) Soloko uyazi apho igumbi lokuhlambela likho kwindawo yomnyhadala. Ukuba ufana nam, uyayidinga kwangoko.
b.) Malunga ne-10min ngaphambi kwentetho, ndihlala ndisiya kwindawo yabucala ndize ndibeke iqhawe eliphambili. Ewe ndiyayenza loo nto. Ngokusisiseko, uya nje kwindawo ethile, kwaye uzenze ngathi uphumelele ibhaso ngezandla zakho eziphakamileyo emoyeni. Le poso inceda iLOT. Ndidla ngokuxinana kanye phambi kwentetho, ke le pose indinceda ndikhulule.
c. Soloko ubuza imakrofoni yentloko, hayi eyona kufuneka uyibambe. Zininzi izinto onokuzenza xa ufuna ukukhathazeka ngokubamba imakrofoni yakho, ndikhetha ukungazikhathazi ngale nto konke konke.
d.) Fika kwangethuba kumsitho kwaye unxibelelane kancinci nabantu abaya kuthi baphele behleli kubaphulaphuli. Okwangoku xa unikela intetho yakho, abasengabo abantu ongabaziyo ngokupheleleyo kwaye banokusebenza njenge-anchor yakho yamehlo kubaphulaphuli wakuba useqongeni.
6. Yenza ixabiso kwaye ube luncedo
Ndibhalile ngale nto sele iiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo. Xa kufikwa ekunikezeleni intetho, kukho izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzenzile ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye zimbalwa izinto onokuthi uzenze gwenxa. Inye kuphela into oyifunayo ukubethelela: Yenza ixabiso ngokuba luncedo, okanye ngokunika abantu ixesha elihle. Fumana le nto inye oza kuyishiya nabantu nayo, nokuba yeyiphi na.
Ndikuvumela ukuba ungene kwimfihlo encinci: Ukuba umile eqongeni, ngokuqinisekileyo uthetha inyani. Uya kucatshulwa, ufotwe kwaye igama lakho ngalinye liya kuthathwa ngokungathi yeyona nto ikrelekrele owakha wayithetha. Ungatsho nantoni na oyifunayo, ukuba uyayenza ngokuzithemba kwaye abantu baya kuqhwaba izandla. Ukwazi oku kukunika izibonelelo ezininzi, kuba kunokukunceda kukonyusa ukuzithemba okudingayo. Kodwa inyani yokuba useqongeni, sele isitsho kakhulu.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ezinye zeengcebiso kunye namaqhinga anokukunceda unike intetho obusoloko ufuna ukuyenza. Oku kunokuba phambi kwabaphulaphuli beenkomfa, okanye mhlawumbi ukubonisa nje phambi komthengi.
Kwaye ukuba unomdla, ndingabhala elinye inqaku elizayo malunga nendlela yokulungiselela kunye nokuyila intetho elungileyo. Ukuba yinto onomdla kuyo, Ndithumele isipho kwi-Twitter. (kuba ndiyazi ukuba ufuna ukwabelana nesipho sakho osithandayo kunye nam)
I-PS: Ewe kunjalo, ukuba uyamazi umntu osweleyo oza kwenza intetho kwaye oyike kakhulu ngayo, dlulisela eli nqaku.
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